There are a lot of myths and misconceptions about nursing homes. For example, one myth is that living in a nursing home is like living in a hospital, and another is that once you move into a nursing home, you can never leave. However, the reality of modern nursing homes is quite different.
In this guide, we’ll clear up the confusion and help you understand when and why a nursing home might be the right care choice for your loved one. We will clarify why a nursing home is NOT Assisted Living. We’ll cover what nursing homes are, how nursing homes compare to other types of senior living, like an assisted living facility, and how to find the best nursing home near you.
Nursing homes are not assisted living communities. Also, they are not skilled nursing facilities (SNF), which is usually only for temporary residents. Nursing Homes provide the highest level of health care out of any senior living option. Standard services at nursing home facilities include:
What differentiates nursing homes from other forms of senior living is that they are the only type of senior care facility licensed to provide medical care services, such as skilled nursing and rehabilitative therapy.
Nursing homes are designed to provide comprehensive care in a private or semi-private room. Residents aren’t confined to their beds and can freely move around and interact with each other. There are also common areas where entire families can come visit and spend time with their loved ones.
They are always commercially zoned and may or may not be on the same campus as an independent living community thereby creating what is often categorized as a CCRC (continuing care retirement community).
Nursing homes offer a range of different options, depending on the level of care your loved one needs and for how long.
For example, for short-term stays you will want to look for a Skilled Nursing Facility (SNF). These are perfect for short-term rehabilitative services, such as physical, occupational, and speech therapy- when a skilled care service is identified following a hospital stay and is typically covered by their Medicare benefit. They are geared toward seniors who temporarily need additional support after being discharged from a hospital and who will discharge to home or a home-like environment after their skilled service benefit needs have been met, usually less than 21 days.
There are also nursing homes that offer long-term, palliative care for seniors with ongoing medical conditions that require constant care and supervision. For example, perhaps your loved one needs daily specialized treatment for kidney disease or a heart condition that can’t be provided at home. Remember, assisted living communities do not provide this kind of medical care or rehabilitation.
Finally, there are nursing homes that focus on providing hospice care to ensure the comfort of seniors with terminal illnesses who are approaching the end of life.
These days, many people who are initially searching online for nursing homes in their area are actually a better fit for an assisted living community. But what is the difference?
Assisted living communities are for seniors who don’t need regular medical care, but do require assistance with activities of daily living (ADLs). Residents live in private apartments with senior-friendly features like bathroom grab bars, barrier-free doorways (to accommodate wheelchairs / walkers), and alert buttons. They receive assistance with ADLs, enjoy three daily meals (plus snacks), and can participate in a wide array of different community activities – such as book clubs, exercise classes, game nights, field trips, etc.
Many assisted living communities also include on-site amenities like a library, beauty salon, gardens or walking paths, gym, etc. Residents may keep their own car, but many often prefer to make use of the community’s transportation service/public transit to shop or attend medical appointments.
Nursing homes offer many of the same services and amenities as assisted living communities, but are for seniors who have more comprehensive care needs or need daily medical care and 24/7 supervision by licensed medical professionals.
As previously mentioned,nursing homes are the only form of senior living that can provide 24/7 medical services. Like memory care communities for residents with Alzheimer’s or other dementia related illnesses, many nursing homes also include increased safety measures for residents with memory issues / dementia.
The level of medical care provided in an assisted living facility versus a nursing home is also reflected in the price. According to the 2021 Genworth Cost of Care Survey, the national monthly median cost for assisted living is $4,429. Meanwhile, the national monthly median cost for a private room at a skilled nursing facility is $9.086.
It used to be that the term “nursing home” was interchangeable with “senior living.” However, in modern parlance, the two terms mean different things.
Senior living is a catchall phrase for living communities designed for seniors (ages 55+). It includes independent living, assisted living, continuing care retirement communities (CCRCs), memory care facilities, and yes – nursing homes.
As a whole, modern senior living communities use social-based models that focus on providing for the emotional, social, and physical needs of residents. In the case of nursing homes, they also include medical services.
Perhaps your loved one doesn’t want to have to stay in a skilled nursing facility after being discharged from the hospital. Or, other than needing daily medical care, they prefer to live independently in their own private residence. In such cases, they might be able to receive skilled nursing care right in their own home. Provided they have the financial means to do so, seniors and their families can hire licensed home health aides to help with various medical procedures, such as:
The national median cost of hiring a home health aide is currently $4,576 per month. Keep in mind that the types of home nursing care services that are available will vary depending on state laws, as well as the agency. Furthermore, custodial services – such as assistance with ADLs, cooking, cleaning, etc. – are separate from skilled nursing services and will cost extra.
With all the different types of senior care available, when is a nursing home a good option for your loved one? The first consideration is the level of care your loved one needs – specifically, do they only need assistance with activities of daily living, or do they require regular skilled nursing? If they don’t need skilled medical care, then you should look into senior living options like memory care or assisted living.
If your loved one does need medical care, the next question is for how long? For example, have they been discharged from the hospital after extensive surgery? In that case, temporary admittance to a nursing facility or short-term respite stay in an assisted living facility focused on rehabilitative care can help ensure their full recovery.
Meanwhile, if they can still live independently, but need regular assistance to manage a chronic condition, a home health aid can be a good fit. However, if your loved one can no longer manage independently and needs daily palliative care, then moving them into a residential nursing home might be the best option to ensure their comfort and well-being.
You can take our senior needs assessment quiz to help you determine which types of senior living might be the best choice for your loved one’s care and lifestyle needs.
Compare Nursing Homes
You want to move your aging loved ones into a nursing home where they will feel happy, safe, and comfortable. As such, here are some key questions you should consider when you evaluate different living facilities:
Quality of Care
When touring different nursing homes, make sure to explore the facility, stay for lunch, and observe daily activities. Is the building well-maintained? Are the rooms comfortably sized? Do residents seem to be healthy, calm, and engaged? Do they receive personalized attention when they interact with staff members?
See if you can connect with any of the current residents (and their families) to hear about their experiences. Also, make sure to visit the appropriate state regulatory agency (most likely the health department) to look up the community and review their survey or inspection reports for issues that could impact your loved one. Finally, do a search online for reviews.
The cost of nursing home care will vary dramatically across the United States, depending on your location. Here is how the average monthly cost breaks down state by state:
Source: 2021 Genworth Cost of Care Survey
The above numbers are just averages, and the actual price of specific nursing home facilities can vary widely — even within the same city.
When considering nursing home costs, a lot of seniors assume that Medicare will help them pay for care. However, this is not always the case, as Medicare coverage for skilled nursing depends on several factors, including the type of care and the duration of care.
For example, short-term skilled nursing care – such as following a stay in the hospital – is almost always covered by Medicare. Generally, the program will pay 100% of approved costs for the first 20 days and partially cover another 80 days of medically necessary skilled nursing care.
However, the rules are different for long-term residential nursing homes. While Medicare might help cover medical care, such as doctor services, prescription medications, and medical supplies that your loved one needs while living in a nursing home setting, custodial care services (i.e., assistance with ADLs) room & board, etc., are generally not included.
We recommend reading our nursing home cost guide [A/N: include a link when available] to learn more about the various factors that will influence the cost of nursing homes in your area, as well as different ways to finance nursing home care.
It was a momentous occasion in Bradenton on May 1, 2025, as we welcomed a very special guest Ellie Hollander, President & CEO of Meals on Wheels America. Her visit was more than ceremonial; it was a heartfelt celebration of community, service, and the vital work being done across Florida to nourish and support our seniors.Ellie flew in from the Washington, D.C. area as the keynote speaker for the Meals on Wheels Florida annual conference, proudly hosted this year by Meals on Wheels PLUS of Manatee. Ellies schedule was packed, but that did not stop her from doing an interview with MySuncoast ABC-7 telling viewers how critical the meal program is to our homebound seniors. Next, Ellie hit the road and delivered meals to some of our senior clients and talked with our volunteers. Ellie also stopped by our Friendship Dining Center program, and participated in a music game the clients love.The Members of the Florida Chapter of Meals on Wheels America named Maribeth Phillips, our President & CEO, as their Board President earlier this year. Maribeth invited Ellie to attend and kickoff the conference. Ellie shared valuable insights with the members in attendance, and her words reenergized the room!The conference included meal providers from across the state, with over 20 different organizations attending. Attendees also heard from Bob Blancato, Executive Director of NANASP, also from Washington, D.C.; Bradenton Police Detective, Jim Curulla on senior scams; Sandra Tapfumaneyi, Chief of Emergency Management Sarasota; Louise Gallagher on Senior Mental Health; and Jennifer Huber from FPL. Chef2Home provided a delicious breakfast and lunch.We are proud to be part of the national network of Meals on Wheels America and grateful to be a part of the state-wide chapter, Meals on Wheels Florida, both working every day to ensure no senior goes hungry.
As summer approaches, many children in our community are looking forward to sunshine, fun, and time with friends. But for far too many, summer brings something else-hunger.When school cafeterias close for the summer, thousands of local children lose access to the nutritious meals they depend on. Families already struggling to make ends meet are faced with even more pressure. The emotional toll is real. No parent should have to worry if they can feed their child, and no child should go to bed with an empty stomach.At The Food Bank of Manatee, we are stepping up to meet the need. We partner with over 100 local food pantries across Manatee County to reach the families who need us mostbut we cant do it alone.This summer, our goal is to provide: 22,500 meals each week across the 9-week summer break. Thats more than 200,000 meals for children and familiesand every dollar makes a difference.Just $15 provides 10 meals; $30 provides 20 meals; a gift of $150 will provide 100 meals!We know that many in our community want to make a difference. With your support, we can ensure no child goes hungry during the summer months.Please consider making a gift today and sharing this message with others who want to help too. A link to our page is below. A $25,000 Matching Gift to feed children this summer has been offered by an anonymous fund at Manatee Community Foundation. Gifts will be matched $1 for $1 up to $25,000.The Food Bank of Manatee is the only food bank based in our county. We anticipate continued need as families look for nutritional support. Your help matters now more than ever! Please give today!Together, we can bring relief, peace of mind, and full bellies to those who need it most.
On Monday, April 7, 2025, we had the joy and honor of hosting our annual Volunteer Luncheon, a heartfelt celebration dedicated to the incredible individuals who make our mission possible each and every day. Held in a spirit of gratitude and community, the event brought together volunteers with over 100 hours of service for a beautiful luncheon provided by Metz Chef 2 Home. The highlight of the event was the presentation of awards to several outstanding volunteers who have gone above and beyond in their service. From delivering meals with a smile to lending a helping hand wherever needed, these volunteers embody the true spirit of giving.The 2025 award recipients included:Champions Circle: Ten Years of ServiceDan WilhelmChampions Circle: 300+ Hours of ServiceTerri HillChampions Circle: 300+ Hours of ServicePat McDonaldOutstanding Food Bank Volunteer: Terri HillOutstanding Volunteer Ambassador: Veronica Brandon-MillerOutstanding Youth Volunteer: Jonathan MaassenMost Generous Group Ambassador: Lakewood Ranch Elks LodgeOutstanding Volunteer Group: First WatchOutstanding Administrative Volunteer: Barbara BrownOutstanding Friendship Dining Center Volunteer: Pam O ConnorOutstanding Car Loader: Charlie GunnOutstanding Warehouse Volunteer: Lana PaulRookies of the Year: Jeff and Christy MohlerOutstanding Daybreak Adult Day Center Volunteer: Larry BreidenbachOutstanding Telephone Reassurance Volunteer: Reina HuertaVolunteer of the Year: Terri HillTo every volunteer who gives their time and heartthank you. Our Volunteers are the reason we are able to serve our neighbors in need with care, dignity, and hope. We look forward to another year of making a difference together.