Alone Together: Easing Isolation while Practicing Social Distancing

Strong relationships between grandparents and grandchildren are more than just heartwarming. They have been shown to contribute to better health, sharper minds, and deeper emotional connections across generations. At Right at Home, weve seen firsthand how relationships in grandfamilies (also called kinship families) improve the quality of life for both older adults and younger family members, says Patti Walter, owner/operator at Right at Home Northern Colorado As an in-home caregiving agency, we not only support day-to-day care but also champion the kind of intergenerational connections that lead to healthier, happier lives. Heres why nurturing the grandparent-grandchild bond mattersand how it helps at any age. The Health Benefits Go Both WaysFor grandparents:Spending meaningful time with grandchildren can reduce the risk of depression, cognitive decline, and even chronic illness. Studies show that older adults who engage regularly with younger generations report lower levels of loneliness and higher life satisfaction. Conversations and shared activities also help keep the mind active. Whether helping with homework, discussing current events, or sharing stories from the past, these interactions stimulate memory, language, and problem-solving skillsall critical for healthy aging. For grandchildren:The benefits arent one-sided, says Walter Grandchildren who have strong relationships with their grandparents often show greater emotional intelligence, resilience, and a stronger sense of identity. Grandparents offer a unique kind of supportless authoritative than a parent, but still deeply rooted in love and life experience. In families where grandparents help with caregivingeither regularly or as neededchildren can experience more stability, better behavior, and improved academic outcomes. And even as teens or adults, grandchildren often gain valuable perspective from a grandparents lived experience. Mind the (Communication) GapOf course, every generation speaks its own language. Misunderstandings between grandparents and grandchildren can happen, especially in todays fast-moving digital culture. But these gaps can be bridged with a bit of patience and intention. Walter suggests some tips for different generations to improve communication with each other:  Dont assume disinterest. Grandparents may not know current slang or how to use current technology, but that doesnt mean they dont care. Grandchildren may seem tied to their toys or screens, butas anyone who has raised children knowsthey are always listening. Ask open-ended questions. Encouraging storytelling and reflection can lead to richer conversations. Be mindful of hearing or cognitive limitations. For grandchildren, making simple adjustmentsspeaking clearly, avoiding noisy environmentscan make a big difference. Grandparents can make the most of mealtimes or times when grandchildren are least busy. Respect different life stages. A teen might be navigating identity or stress about the future; a grandparent may be dealing with health issues or loss. Understanding context helps both sides show compassion, says Walter.  Supporting Each Other Through CareIn-home caregiving often highlights how much grandparents and grandchildren lean on one another. Grandsboth generationshave been caring for each other more and more in recent years. Adult grandchildren may step into caregiving roles, providing companionship, managing medications, or helping coordinate care. On the flip side, grandparents often remain active caregivers in their own rightbabysitting, offering financial support, or simply being a trusted presence. These roles can be deeply rewarding, but also emotionally complex for both parties. Whether or not the grands relationships include caregiving, there are many ways to support them:  Schedule regular visits or calls. Routine contact reduces isolation and builds trust and familiarity. Share activities. Cook a favorite recipe together, take a walk, or explore family history. Use techcurrent and olderto stay connected. Teach each otherwhether its FaceTime or how to play an old record. Include caregiving support. Home care agencies can ease the load by providing daily assistance and helping maintain a safe, comfortable home environment.  Caregiving Equals ConnectionGrandparent-grandchild relationships can be an important part of healthy aging and emotional development for all involved. They remind us that caregiving is more than a service; its a connection. At Right at Home, were proud to support families in building and maintaining those connections, every step of the way. Need help supporting a grandparent or looking for ways to strengthen intergenerational bonds? Our care team is here to help with personalized, in-home services and expert guidance. About Right at Home of Northern Colorado The Northern Colorado office of Right at Home is a locally owned and operated franchise office of Right at Home, LLC, serving the communities of Larimer and Weld County. For more information, contact Right at Home of Northern Colorado at rightathome.net/northern-colorado , at 970-494-1111 or by email at pwalter@ncoloradorah.com.

By Dustin M. Cole, MDGrand River Health Aging often gets a bad rap. Wrinkles, memory slips, and sore joints tend to dominate the conversation. But what if growing older brought with it a host of unexpected giftsones that outweigh the inconveniences of aging? The truth is, aging brings numerous psychological, emotional, social, and even physical benefits that are often overlooked.Happiness Grows with AgeStudy after study has shown that older adults report higher levels of happiness and life satisfaction compared to their younger counterparts. Between the ages of 65 and 85, happiness actually increases, with many seniors ranking among the happiest people in society. Why? Theyve mastered the art of realistic expectations, theyre more comfortable in their own skin, and theyve learned to let go of unnecessary pressure.Many elderly individuals describe the last decade of their lives as the happiest. They emphasize the joy of living in the momentsomething they wish they'd embraced earlier in life.A Positive Shift in PerspectiveWith age comes increased self-esteem, self-control, and altruism. Seniors are more likely to focus on the good, let go of negativity, and cherish meaningful connections. Neurological studies even show that older adults react more strongly to positive images and are less emotionally impacted by negative ones. Emotional stability improves over time, and worry tends to decline with each decade.Sharper Minds, Wiser ChoicesAlthough aging brings some changes in memory and processing speed, it also enhances cognitive abilities in other areas. Older adults often demonstrate stronger problem-solving skills, richer creativity, and greater insight thanks to decades of accumulated knowledge. Theyre better at identifying patterns and making connectionsskills particularly useful in complex, real-life situations.People in their 40s to 60s often outperform younger adults in vocabulary, reasoning, and spatial orientation. Their broader perspective allows for deeper empathy, better conflict resolution, and wiser decision-making.Strengthened RelationshipsOlder adults tend to focus more on what truly mattersfamily, friendships, and meaningful experiences. Deep, supportive relationships are not only emotionally fulfilling but are also key to physical health and longevity. The long-running Harvard Study of Adult Development found that quality relationships are one of the most powerful predictors of happiness and health in old ageeven more so than wealth or fame.The Power of Positive ThinkingAging well isnt just about what happens to your bodyits also about how you think about it. A positive outlook on aging is linked to longer life expectancy, better memory retention, and stronger daily functioning. On average, people with a positive perception of aging live 7.5 years longer than those with a negative outlook.Movement and Connection: Pillars of Healthy AgingStaying physically active is one of the most effective ways to maintain vitality. Regular aerobic activity boosts heart health, strengthens muscles and bones, and improves brain function. It also reduces the risk of depression, improves sleep, and helps prevent chronic diseases like diabetes, heart disease, and even certain cancers.Equally important is staying socially engaged. Maintaining close relationships and participating in community activities help prevent loneliness, reduce stress, and even lower the risk of dementia.Real-Life InspirationCentenarians like Jeanne Calmet (who biked at 100 and quit smoking at 120) and Fauja Singh (who ran marathons into his 100s) serve as vivid reminders that aging doesnt have to mean slowing down. Their secrets? A sense of humor, active lifestyle, and a positive attitude.In SummaryAging brings with it a remarkable opportunity to live more fully, love more deeply, and engage more meaningfully. If you want to age well, remember the formula is simple:Move your body.Feed your mind.Stay connected.Think positively.As Abraham Lincoln said, In the end, its not the years in your life that count. Its the life in your years.

The SS United States: A Legendary Ocean Liners Final Chapter in Mobile, AlabamaFor decades, the SS United States was the pinnacle of American innovation, a sleek, steel-clad symbol of speed and luxury that ruled the high seas. Now, after years of uncertainty, this legendary ocean liner has found a temporary home in Mobile, Alabama, where it will undergo preparations for its final transformationbecoming the worlds largest artificial reef.As of March 28, 2025, the ship sits docked at the Port of Mobile, a ghost of its former grandeur but still commanding awe. Its arrival has sparked excitement, nostalgia, and even a bit of controversy as preservationists scramble for a last-minute rescue. But love it or mourn it, the SS United States is embarking on its final journey, and Mobile is playing a crucial role in its farewell.The Glory Days: Speed, Luxury, and Hollywood FameLaunched in 1952, the SS United States also known as the Big U was an engineering marvel. Built in Newport News, Virginia, it was designed to be both a luxury ocean liner and a secret military asset, capable of transforming into a troop transport if needed with the ability to carry 14,000 troops 10,000 miles without refueling. On its maiden voyage, it shattered records, crossing the Atlantic in just three days, 10 hours, and 40 minutesa feat no other passenger ship has beaten to this day.For nearly two decades, it was the way to travel between the United States and Europe. Celebrities, dignitaries, and socialites graced its decks, reveling in its opulent design and unparalleled speed. Hollywood took notice, too. The ship made memorable appearances in films like Disneys 1962 classic Bon Voyage!, where it served as the glamorous setting for a family adventure, and 1955s Gentlemen Marry Brunettes, where its sleek profile played a starring role. Even in 2013, the thriller Dead Man Down used the SS United States for atmospheric shots while it was docked in Philadelphia.But the golden age of ocean liners was not meant to last. By 1969, the rise of jet travel rendered transatlantic crossings obsolete, and the SS United States was retiredmarking the beginning of a long, uncertain future.From Neglect to New PurposeFor decades, the once-proud liner sat idle in Philadelphia, rusting away as preservation efforts struggled to secure funding. Dreams of transforming it into a hotel, museum, or entertainment venue never materialized. Then, in 2024, a decision was made: Okaloosa County, Florida, would purchase the vessel and repurpose it as an artificial reefa $10 million project that would give the ship a new purpose beneath the waves of the Gulf of America.Thus began the ships 401st and final voyage. On February 19, 2025, it was towed 1,800 nautical miles from Philadelphia to Mobile, arriving ahead of schedule on March 3. Spectators lined the waterfront, watching as the once-glorious ocean liner, now a shell of its former self, was guided into port.A Temporary Stay in MobileNow docked at Modern American Recycling Services (MARS), the SS United States is undergoing extensive preparation before its submersion. Over the next six to twelve months, crews will strip the ship of non-metal materials, wiring, and hazardous components, ensuring it is environmentally safe. Holes will be carefully cut into the hull so that when it is finally submerged, it settles uprightproviding a thriving habitat for grouper, snapper, and tuna.While many celebrate this transformation as a fitting second life, preservationists arent giving up without a fight. Organizations like the SS United States Conservancy continue to push for an alternative, hoping to turn the ship into a floating museum akin to the USS Alabama in Mobile Bay. A Tourist Boom in MobileRegardless of its fate, the SS United States has already left an impact on Mobiles tourism scene. Locals and visitors alike are flocking to catch a glimpse of this historic ship before it disappears beneath the ocean. Harbor cruises aboard the Perdido Queen and tours through Blakeley State Park have sold out quickly with maritime enthusiasts eager to snap photos and reflect on the ships remarkable past and those looking to explore Mobiles deep connections to the sea.The Final GoodbyeDespite the nostalgia, the clock is ticking. Soon, the SS United States will make its last journey, not to another port, but to the ocean floor off the coast of Florida. Once there, it will begin its final rolenot as a fading relic, but as a vibrant, living reef, fostering marine life for generations to come. For now, as it looms over the Port of Mobile, it remains a towering testament to American ingenuity, ambition, and the fleeting nature of technological supremacy. Whether you see it as a tragic loss or a poetic new beginning, one thing is certain: the legacy of the SS United States will live onabove the waves, beneath the ocean, and in the hearts of those who remember its glory.