Coping with Stress and Anxiety

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Jul 01, 2021

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For many of us, finding our way through stress and anxiety can feel debilitating, disempowering and sometimes, impossible. Did you know there are coping skills to help you move through stress and anxiety meaningfully and increase your overall personal mental health and wellbeing? Start today!
Mindfulness Coping Skill
Create a daily routine to include a brief meditation set to relaxing music in which you focus on being intensely aware of what you're sensing and feeling in the moment, without interpretation or judgment. To practice being non-judgmental, try listening to a piece of music and only report the facts of what you hear (instruments, style, tempo) without emotional interpretation and successfully engage in the moment without judgement. Apply this mindset of non-judgmental observation of your thoughts, feelings and reactions while meditating during your daily practice.

Distress Tolerance Coping Skill
During times of high stress and anxiety, the quickest way to return to a mindful state of focus and calm is to try the 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Method:
5:AcknowledgeFIVEthings you see around you. It could be a pen, a spot on the ceiling, anything in your surroundings.
4:AcknowledgeFOURthings you can touch. It could be your hair, a pillow, or the ground under your feet.
3:AcknowledgeTHREEthings you hear. This could external sounds. Focus on things you can hear outside of your body.
2:AcknowledgeTWOthings you can smell. Maybe youre in your office and smell pencil, or in your bedroom and smell a pillow. If you need to take a brief walk to find a scent you could smell soap in your bathroom, or nature outside.
1:AcknowledgeONEthing you can taste. What does the inside of your mouth taste likegum, coffee, or the sandwich from lunch?
Emotional Regulation Coping Skill
Emotional regulationskills includetheability to identify,understandand accept emotional experiences; control impulsive behaviors when distressed; and flexibly manage emotions. Next time you are feeling a difficult emotion, use the acronym RAIN:R: Recognize the emotion
A: Allow the emotion to happen
I: Identify where the emotion is in your body
N: Nurture the emotion with kindness and self-compassion
Editors Note: This article was submitted by Ashley Lewis, MM, MT-BC. Ashley is a Music Therapist with Central Florida Community Arts and may be reached by email at ashley.lewis@cfcarts.com. Or call (407) 937-1800

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