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Dementia: How to Prepare Your FamilyAs the average age of our population rises, so does the risk of dementia. For your family members, your planning manifests your love for them, providing peace of mind and the tools needed to ensure care is provided as planned.When a family member begins showing signs of dementia, taking proactive legal and financial steps can help ensure their well-being and protect their interests. Here are some initial moves to consider:Legal Moves Consult an Elder Law Attorney: Seek a professional specializing in elder law to guide the family through legal options. They can help assess the situation and recommend appropriate actions based on the individual's current mental capacity. Establish Power of Attorney (POA): If the family member is still mentally competent, arrange for a durable power of attorney for healthcare and finances. This designates someone to make decisions on their behalf when they can no longer do so. Timing is criticalonce capacity is lost, this option may no longer be viable. Update or Create a Will: Ensure the family members will reflects their current wishes. If they dont have one, encourage them to create one while they can still express their intentions clearly. Consider a Living Trust: A revocable living trust can help manage assets during their lifetime and avoid probate after their passing. This requires the individual to have sufficient mental capacity to set it up. Review Advance Healthcare Directives: Help them document their healthcare preferences, such as a living will or healthcare proxy, to outline their wishes for medical treatment if they become incapacitated. Financial Moves Assess Financial Situation: Gather information about their assets, debts, income sources (e.g., pensions, Social Security), and expenses. This provides a clear picture for planning. Simplify Finances: Consolidate accounts (e.g., bank accounts, investments) to make management easier. Set up automatic bill payments to prevent missed obligations. Monitor for Exploitation: Watch for signs of financial abuse, as dementia can make individuals vulnerable to scams. Consider adding a trusted family member to accounts for oversight (with permission if theyre still competent). Plan for Long-Term Care Costs: Research costs of in-home care, assisted living, or nursing homes, and explore funding options like long-term care insurance, Medicaid eligibility, or veterans benefits if applicable. Secure Important Documents: Locate and organize key documentsbank statements, insurance policies, property deeds, and tax recordsso theyre accessible when needed. Additional Tips Act Early: Dementia is progressive, and legal and financial options diminish as cognitive decline advances. Early action preserves autonomy and reduces future stress. Involve the Family Member: If theyre still capable, include them in discussions to respect their preferences and maintain dignity. Seek Professional Help: A financial advisor or geriatric care manager can complement legal efforts, especially for complex estates or care planning. At Ashley Day Law we will work with you to determine your priorities and what future needs must be met and put together the best course of action based on your income and assets to protect your quality of life and reduce unnecessary stress within the family. We believe these steps will provide a good start to protect your family members interests and ensure their care aligns with their wishes as their condition evolves. For any questions or to discuss your situation, feel free to reach out to Ashley Day Law at 251-277-3377.

MANDATORY DIGITAL AGING!  APRIL 14, 2025 SOCIAL SECURITY DEADLINE! by Kyla G. Kelim, Esq., Aging in Alabama So many changes going on in the government right now.  This one may have slid by you, but we all must immediately set up an online account for Social Security.  By April 14, 2025.   Is this for real or a scam?  Yes, it is real.  Unless you want to make a trip to your social security office for everything.  How is the best way to do this?You may be totally digital and able to skip this article entirely BUT what about your parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, children or clients? Are all of them as tech savvy?  If not, then it would be a great service to help them navigate this step.Many seniors are either unable to accomplish this or are deeply suspicious of the process.  Either way, seek professional assistance.  Thats right, ask your brightest grandchild!  No, ask your tax professional, lawyer, case manager, or another trusted professional to assist you.  You need to make sure not only that it is set up correctly and properly secured but also that someone else who is trusted has a way to access it.First, you must have or get an email address.  If you do not have one, many providers offer them for free.  Some of the most popular will be GMAIL or YAHOO.  Pick a name that you will remember and secure it with a strong password and some other security, such as 2 factor authentication.  Have someone you trust that can also keep your information in case you cannot access it. Second, you need to set up an account on LOGIN.GOV.m or ID.ME.Third, finish setting up your account on https://www.ssa.gov/myaccount/ .  You will be able to set up how you want Social Security to have you verify your identity and place additional security.Fourth, if you had an account on myssa.gov prior to September, 2021, you need to still open an account at login.gov or id.me.What happens if I miss the deadline?  You will lose access to your online account if you had one or you will have to go to your social security office for information or to apply for benefits.  This will become more and more difficult as you age and need others to assist you.  It will be hard on parents if their children that assist them live far away.  The worst case scenario? We have to go to court to get a Conservatorship open in order to be able to help ill parents or spouses. Best move is to have this bit of forced technology urge families to do more extensive planning for the digital future, and put appropriate safeguards in place so aging in place is less stressful.If you need more information contact Kyla Kelim at Aging in Alabama, an elder law firm offering consultation and advocacy for clients in Alabama and Florida.  Contact Aging in Alabama at 251-281-8120.

Decluttering isnt just something you do when preparing to sell your home or downsize. The truth iswe all have clutter! But before you dive in, ask yourself: Does your home feel more like a storage unit than a sanctuary? Are you constantly searching for misplaced items? Do you feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of stuff around you? If you answered yes to any of these questions, now is the perfect time to begin your decluttering journey. It might feel daunting at first, but the benefits of a clutter-free home are realand they can significantly enhance your daily life. Here are 10 powerful reasons to declutter your home right now: 1. Reduce Stress and Anxiety Clutter can be visually overwhelming and create a sense of chaos that contributes to stress and anxiety. A tidy, organized space fosters a more peaceful environment, helping you to relax and unwind. Studies have even linked clutter to higher cortisol (stress hormone) levels in women. 2. Improve Mental Clarity and Focus A cluttered space often leads to a cluttered mind. By removing unnecessary items, you create visual and mental claritymaking it easier to focus and think clearly. 3. Save Time and Money How much time do you spend looking for keys, documents, or that one missing sock? Decluttering ensures everything has its place. Plus, rediscovering lost items might save you from making duplicate purchases. 4. Enhance Productivity A clean, organized environmentwhether its your home office or kitchencan boost productivity. With fewer distractions, youll find it easier to stay on task and get things done. 5. Make Cleaning Easier Less clutter = less to clean! Its that simple. Fewer items mean less dusting, less rearranging, and faster, easier cleaning routines. 6. Create More Space Decluttering opens up your home and makes it feel more spacious. You might be surprised at how much larger and more functional your rooms feel without all the excess. 7. Improve Health and Safety Clutter can harbor dust, allergens, and even mold. It can also become a tripping hazard. A clutter-free home is not only cleaner but safer and healthier, too. 8. Boost Your Mood and Well-being Your surroundings have a direct impact on your mood. A clean, well-organized space promotes feelings of happiness, calm, and control over your environment. 9. Make Your Home More Welcoming Whether youre hosting guests or simply enjoying your own space, a decluttered home is more inviting. It reflects pride in your living environment and creates a warm, welcoming atmosphere. 10. Gain a Sense of Accomplishment Theres something incredibly satisfying about seeing the results of your decluttering efforts. That sense of accomplishment can motivate you to maintain a tidy, organized space moving forward. Getting Started: One Step at a Time Decluttering doesnt have to be overwhelming. Start smallchoose a drawer, a single shelf, or one corner of a room. As you begin to see progress, youll feel more inspired to continue. Be patient with yourself, take breaks, and celebrate each step forward! Decluttering your home is a gift to yourselfan investment in your peace of mind, health, and happiness. So why wait? Start today and experience the transformation of a clutter-free home. Need Help? If youd like support along the way, were here for you! Call us at 941-275-2914 or visit https://linktr.ee/NaplesParadiseLiving to learn more about how we can help.