How emotions can complicate estate administration

Author

Vincent, Romeo & Rodriguez, LLC

Posted on

May 18, 2021

Book/Edition

Colorado - Denver Metro

Share This
How emotions can complicate estate administration
by Vincent, Romeo & Rodriguez, LLC|May 10, 2021|Probate and Estate Litigation



It is impossible to take all emotions out of the process of settling a persons affairs after they pass away.
However, people should know how their emotional responses can affect the process and its not always for the best.
Emotions and decision making
As one article from Psychology Today notes, a persons logical reasoning can suffer when emotions run high. They can make knee-jerk decisions that fail to consider long-term consequences and the extent to which their choices affect others.
In the context of estate administration, it is certainly possible for emotions to motivate unwise or unproductive decisions. For instance:

Grief and sadness can make it more likely for people to accept a less-than-fair resolution
Anger or resentment could lead a person to make decisions that punish others rather than benefit themselves
Anxiety can be debilitating during a stressful event, preventing a person from making timely, rational decisions
Loneliness can make it difficult for a person to reach out for help

With this in mind, it can be best not to act rashly, whether you are the person administering an estate or a beneficiary affected by the administration process.
Getting help with your decisions. Rather than taking on the entire burden of decision-making during a painful time, you can seek assistance from others.
Consulting outside professionals like an attorney can guide your decisions by helping you understand legal ramifications and options. Financial and legal professionals can maintain objective perspectives and assist parties in making reasonable, logical choices. Further, parties might discuss their emotional responses with loved ones, counselors, therapists, religious or spiritual advisors. With this type of help, people can acknowledge and address their feelings, making it easier to balance logic with emotions. Again, it is impossible to remove all emotion from decision-making after a loved one passes away. But recognizing how emotions affect logic and knowing where to go for help can empower a person to make rational, sound decisions. Having said that, it remains critically important for adults to craft solid estate plans. These documents provide valuable guidance for those who must make decisions during a painful time.

Other Articles You May Like

What are Elder Law and Special Needs Planning?

What Are Elder Law and Special Needs Planning?Elder law and special needs planning involve preparing for expected and unexpected life circumstances, including the possibility of becoming incapacitated as well as protecting and providing for future needs of loved ones with disabilities.At its core, Elder Law focuses on the unique needs of older persons and practice areas that address issues of concern for aging adults, adults with disabilities/incapacity, their families and caregivers.  Unlike traditional estate planning, Elder Law begins by assisting you with issues associated with a long and healthy life, rather than simply planning for death.  It mixes legal and practical issues such as being able to continue residing in your home if you had a chronic condition, having someone help in managing your finances, and not becoming a victim of financial abuse in the process.  Elder law endeavors to help you solve the problem of not knowing what you dont know.Special Needs Law focuses on solving legal problems for individuals with special needs and their caregivers.  Although there is no uniform definition of special needs, the phrase describes individuals with a wide variety of physical or mental conditions who require assistance with personal care needs, activities of daily living, paying bills, managing finances, etc., who may be vulnerable to and need protection from exploitation or abuse, and who may need access to public benefits or any number of other types of assistance. If you currently provide care for a child or loved one with special needs (such as mental or physical disabilities), you must have contemplated what may happen to him or her when you are no longer able to serve as the caregiver.  Frequently, parents and grandparents are concerned about how their children and grandchildren will be cared for after the parents or grandparents deaths and want to plan in advance to protect their special needs loved one.  Elder Law and Special Needs Planning encompass many different fields of law, including, for example:         Disability planning, durable powers of attorney, living trusts, advance directives, other tools to      delegate management and decision-making to another in case of incompetency or incapacity         Estate planning, including the management of finances and assets during life and disposition on     death using trusts, wills, and other instruments         Special/Supplemental Needs Trusts         Conservatorships and guardianships         Long-term care planning and placements          Trust and probate/estate administration         Elder abuse and financial exploitation         Medicaid planning         Retirement and Social Security planningWhen each day seems to present a new challenge, thinking about the future can be overwhelming.  A plan can help break things down into achievable pieces. No matter what age or stage, it is getting started that counts.This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be legal advice.This article was submitted by Ashley Day, Esq., A Day Law, LLC.  Reach her at 251-277-3377.  

The Role of Music and Arts in Senior Therapy: Healing through Creativity

In the realm of senior therapy, the integration of music and arts stands out as a transformative approach to holistic well-being. Recent studies highlight the profound cognitive benefits that music can offer to seniors, from stimulating memory recall to enhancing overall cognitive function. Whether through familiar melodies that evoke cherished memories or the joy of learning a new instrument, music becomes a powerful tool for self-expression and connection, particularly for seniors facing cognitive decline. Simultaneously, engaging in visual and performing arts provides an avenue for creative expression, offering a sense of accomplishment and purpose. The emotional impact of these creative endeavors is equally significant, alleviating feelings of loneliness and fostering a sense of community through shared experiences in choir singing or art classes.In essence, the incorporation of music and arts into senior therapy transcends mere entertainment, becoming a vital aspect of promoting the overall well-being of older individuals. By tapping into the creative spirit, seniors can find avenues for cognitive stimulation, emotional connection, and a renewed sense of purpose. As society recognizes the importance of a comprehensive approach to senior care, the role of music and arts in therapeutic practices emerges as a valuable and enriching endeavor for the aging population, contributing to a fulfilling and vibrant later life.

Navigating Long Term Senior Care Costs: What if My Parents Run Out of Money?

As we journey through life, many people find themselves facing one of the most pressing concerns: ensuring that they provide care and support to their loved ones, particularly their aging parents, as they transition into their senior years. Long-term senior care frequently raises questions and concerns, with one of the most common worries being, What if my parents run out of money?The cost of senior care services can indeed be a significant burden on families. Many are apprehensive about the affordability of these services and the potential financial strain they might impose. This is where a comprehensive continuum of care approach, like the one offered by Grace Pointe of Greeley, can make all the difference.Tailored Care for Your Unique NeedsOur team of experienced care professionals adopts a personalized approach to assess the specific care needs of each resident. We commit to ensuring that you dont pay for services that you or your loved one dont need. This ensures that you wont bear unnecessary costs, and your loved ones will receive the appropriate level of care to enhance their quality of life.If the affordability of long-term senior care concerns you, Grace Pointes approach is here to help. We dedicate ourselves to providing the right care at the right cost, supporting both your financial peace of mind and your loved ones well-being.To learn more about our long-term senior care services and our continuum of care approach, visit our Grace Pointe of Greeleys Long-Term Senior Care Services page.Frequently Asked Questions About Long-Term Senior CareAt Grace Pointe, we understand the financial concerns that come with long-term senior care, and were here to put your mind at ease. Our continuum of care services is designed to ensure affordability while providing your loved ones with the precise level of care they need. We understand that every individual is unique, and their care requirements can vary greatly which is why we have compiled this list of FAQs about long term senior care services below.What is long-term senior care, and when is it needed?Long-term senior care is a comprehensive service designed to provide assistance and support for seniors who may require help with daily activities due to age-related challenges or medical conditions. It becomes necessary when individuals find it increasingly difficult to maintain their independence and well-being.How do I know which type of long-term senior care is suitable for my loved one?Our experienced care professionals at Grace Pointe will assess your loved ones individual needs and recommend the most appropriate level of care. We believe in personalized care plans to ensure your loved one receives the best possible care.What is the cost of long-term senior care at Grace Pointe, and how can I afford it?The cost of long-term senior care varies depending on the level of care and services required. Grace Pointe offers a continuum of care approach, ensuring you only pay for the care your loved one needs. We will work with you to explore financing options, including community resources for  Medicaid and Veterans benefits, to make care more affordable.Can I visit my loved one in long-term senior care at Grace Pointe of Greeley?Yes, we encourage family visits and understand the importance of staying connected. We also encourage you to enjoy activities and events to see the life of Grace Pointe experienced by your family members.  There are some guidelines for visiting after hours to ensure the safety and comfort of the Grace Pointe residents, which can be discussed with our staff.How can I learn more about Grace Pointes long-term senior care options?You can explore more details about our long-term senior care services on our Long-Term Care Services page. Feel free to contact our team for specific information and to request a tour.How can Grace Pointe of Greeley help ensure that I dont pay for services my loved one doesnt need in the long term?At Grace Pointe, we understand the importance of affordability in long-term senior care. We offer a continuum of care approach, which means we tailor care plans to your loved ones specific needs. By doing so, we ensure that you only pay for the necessary services, maximizing affordability while maintaining high-quality care. Can I modify my loved ones care plan if their needs change over time?Yes, we understand that care needs can change. At Grace Pointe, we regularly review care plans and adjust them to accommodate changing requirements to ensure your loved one receives the best care.For answers to common questions about long-term senior care and all our services, visit our FAQ page.Dont let financial concerns hold you back from providing the best care for your aging parents. Grace Pointe of Greeley is here to support you every step of the way. Reach out to our care team with any other questions you may have about your familys care.