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That’s what my mom said repeatedly when I tried totalk to her about her need for more medical care and socialization. She openly admitted to being stubborn and uncooperative but the obvious decline in her mental and physical health made it impossible to avoid the conversation AGAIN!
She was diagnosed with dementia, depressed and isolated except for my almost silent dad and his caregiving. He was “exhausted” and long ago resigned to avoiding conversations/questions that resulted in a fruitless loop or caused her to erupt in anger I would say, “Mom, you know we’re headed for a crisis over your care”. She would reply once more, “I’m not leaving; I’ll die at home.” What she did not know is that only about 30% of Older Adults are able to die at home. (Study by New England Journal of Medicine) The majority of us will eventually need a team of medical/non-medical care-givers around the clock to keep us safe and living our best quality of life.
And then it happened! Dad tripped over a chair in the kitchen, fell and broke his hip. Off to the hospital for Dad and off to a pre-identified Community for mom. The crisis made all three of us children drop everything for weeks and deal simultaneously with Dad, Mom and their house. It was exhausting!!! FOR EVERYONE.
After moving to a Senior Community we began to see a change in mom. She no longer seemed depressed and acted much happier being around people. She wentout for ice-cream and lunch. With regular med- management, nutritious meals and socialization she noticeably improved It happens often. People refuse to move to a Community out of fear and stubbornness. The exhibited independence that served them well earlier in life now becomes a hindrance to their well-being.
Senior Placement Companies understand this and are equipped to help your family/loved one make a much needed transition to an Adult Community. Avoiding a long, exhausting crisis is far better than waiting for an emergency. Their service is free! Contact them soon!
Editor’s Note: This article was submitted by Britt and Walt Roberson, owners of Harmony Senior Referrals and may be reached at 303-667-2420 or by email at harmonyseniorreferrals@gmail.com
Costly Mistakes to Avoid When Remodeling Your Bathroom Whether you need a quick tub update or a complete bathroom remodel, there are some design mistakes that add time, money, and stress(!) to your renovation. Here are seven common bathroom remodeling errors you can avoid, keeping your home renovation project moving smoothly. Mistake #1: Starting Without a Plan When it comes to any home remodeling projectplanning is everything. But because bathrooms are often the smallest rooms in the home, preparation is particularly important to prevent costly bathroom design mistakes. Bathroom remodeling happens in stages. And if you dont plan ahead, you can encounter unnecessary delays. For example, if the materials arent available for the plumbing, the electrical projects will have to wait. Working without a timeline can disrupt the workflow and delay your bathroom remodel by days or even weeks. The Solution: Hire ReBath who provides start-to-finish bathroom remodeling services. From the in-home consultation and custom bathroom design to removal and installation, our team handles every aspect of your bathroom remodel. And because bathrooms are all we do. We have the skills and experience to manage your project efficiently. Mistake #2: Not Allowing Proper Clearance Proper measurements and a functional layout are essential to ensure your space flows properly. Your bathroom layout should allow for easy navigation and convenient access to storage, outlets, and light switches. Showers, tubs, and vanities that are too big for the space can impede foot traffic and overwhelm the room, or they may prevent you from opening and closing doors and drawers. And if you or a loved one uses a wheelchair or walker, youll need additional clearance to move and turn, so consider a shower or tub with wider doors to accommodate these mobility aids. The Solution: If youve never tackled an extensive home renovation project, leave the details to a professional bathroom design consultant. Because they have experience managing projects of all sizes and scales, they can recommend bathtubs, showers, and vanities that are ideally suited for the proportions of the room. ReBath offers a free, in-home design consultation where well measure your space and discuss what is right for your bathroom, and your budget. Mistake #3: Choosing Impractical Materials As one of the most-used rooms in the house, bathrooms undergo considerable wear and tear, including exposure to high moisture and frequent temperature changes. It is important to select durable, water-resistant materials that are made specifically for bathrooms. The bathroom is one room where you dont want to cut corners. Certain fixtures and surfaces may be cheaper upfront but can cost you more in the end if they become damaged or cause a leak. The Solution: Do your research on practical, bathroom-friendly materials. Look for surfaces that are attractive, non-porous, and easy to clean. ReBaths proprietary DuraBath acrylic and natural stone waterproof wall surrounds resist mold and mildewand are as easy on the eyes as they are to take care of. And our tub liners are manufactured to fit your tub perfectly, eliminating gaps and cracks. Plus, we dont use grout to seal our products, offering a seamless look that prevents leaks. Mistake #4: Forgetting About StorageIts fun to pick out tile, vanities, and fixturesbut dont forget about practical storage solutions. If you dont incorporate storage into your bathroom remodel design, youll end up with cluttered countertops and messy, overstuffed drawers. The Solution: Storage solutions dont have to be bulky or take up too much space. Opt for a vanity with plenty of drawer space to keep cosmetics, toiletries, or linens close but out of sight. We offer curated, custom designs by Jenny Marrs, our National ReBath Designer, that provide timeless, yet updated stylesincluding vanities with plenty of storage space. There are many budget-friendly, attractive shelving and storage products to store soaps, shampoos, and body washes in the shower or tub area. Or you can build a storage nook right in your shower. Mistake #5: Hiring Too Many Contractors There is such a thing as too many contractors for one home remodeling project. Farming out various aspects of your remodel to several different companies can complicate your timeline and add to your budget. Scheduling and communicating with multiple contractors can also be a time-consuming headache. The Solution: Consider hiring a company that offers top-to-bottom bathroom remodeling solutions. When you work with a company that provides design, removal, and installation, your project is more likely to stay on time and budget. At ReBath, we handle the entire process, from design to done. We assign one dedicated crew to your project, and if an issue arises that is beyond their scope, they notify the consumer immediately and assist them in resolving it quickly and efficiently. Mistake #6: Using a One-Day Bathroom Remodeling Service The promise of a quick, efficient bathroom makeover is appealing, and one-day bathroom remodeling services promote their fast turnaround, claiming to minimize hassle and disruption. However, rapid bathroom renovations also have hidden pitfalls and unanticipated risks. Their bathroom remodel costs are often lower than full bathroom remodels, partly because the changes are at surface level. They dont address underlying issues like unseen water damage or outdated plumbing, and often rely on prefabricated or off-the-shelf products, limiting your choice in materials, styles, and finishes. In addition, the quality of installation is generally substandard. All of this can potentially lead to problems or the need for repairs sooner than expected. The Solution: Sometimes, the most efficient, cost-effective remodel is a full bathroom remodel. At ReBath, we offer a streamlined bathroom remodeling process, high quality supplies and materials, and an experienced team that enables us to do most renovations in 2-5 days, not weeks. We start the process with a free, in-home design consultation, where an experienced designer will listen to your wish list, evaluate your space, and help bring the vision to life. They can also bring you ideas, help you sort through the different materials and fixtures, and ensure your new bathrooms function is as good as its form. Mistake #7: Overlooking Accessibility FeaturesA bathroom remodel is an investmentwell-designed, high-quality vanities, tubs, toilets, and showers are built to last for years to come. So, when you plan your bathroom refresh, consider how your needs may change in the future. ReBath offers a range of aging and accessibility bathroom features designed to help mature adults and those with limited mobility utilize the bathroom as safely and as independently as possible. The Solution: While many mobility and accessibility products can be installed as needed, you can also choose ReBath ADA-compliant walk-in bathtubs, low edge shower bases, and built-in seating for comfort and safety from day one. Slip-resistant flooring and grab bars in attractive styles and finishes add another layer of support and fall-protection for individuals of all ages. Mistake #8: DIY-ing a Job for the Professionals Tackling home DIY projects can be enjoyable and rewarding, but if you are new to remodeling, it may be best to leave your bathroom update to the professionals. Bathroom remodels require interior design experience and technical skillsnot to mention licensed plumbers and electricians. Sure you can save some money tackling the project on your own, but mistakes in the bathroom can be incredibly costly in the long run and require remediation. Hiring the right contractor can give you the bathroom of your dreamson time and on budget. The Solution: Hand over the tools to a professional bathroom design company like ReBath. We are committed to completing your project within days, not weeks. And we provide everything you need for the perfect bathroom, from design to installation. Before you know it, youll be soaking your cares away in your gorgeous new bathroom! You dont have to make these bathroom remodel mistakes. Let the experts at ReBath oversee handle every detail of your project. Call us or connect online to schedule a free design consultation today. Schedule Your Free Design Consultation Today! Experience the ease of transforming your bathroom with ReBath. Schedule your free, in-home design consultation today. Contact Re-Bath Mobile at 251-220-9284.
Who Understands the Emotional Side of Senior Moves?Moving with Heart: The Emotional Journey of Senior TransitionsMoving is never just about packing boxes and relocating belongings. For seniors, transitioning to a new homewhether its downsizing, moving to assisted living, or relocating closer to familycan bring an emotional whirlwind. The memories tied to their home, the fear of change, and the uncertainty of whats ahead can feel overwhelming. At A Call to Order Professional Organizer, we understand that senior moves are about more than logisticstheyre about honoring a lifetime of memories while creating a comfortable and safe new beginning.Understanding the Emotional Weight of Senior MovesEvery home tells a story. A favorite chair where grandchildren once sat, a collection of souvenirs from years of travel, the kitchen where family meals were lovingly preparedall hold sentimental value. When seniors prepare for a move, they arent just leaving behind a house; theyre stepping away from a lifetime of cherished moments. This emotional attachment can make decisions about what to keep and what to let go incredibly difficult.Some of the most common emotional challenges seniors face during a move include:Fear of Losing Independence Moving into a smaller home or assisted living can make seniors feel like they are losing control over their lives.Attachment to Possessions Every item has a story, and parting with belongings can feel like letting go of precious memories.Anxiety About the Unknown Change can be unsettling, and seniors may worry about adapting to a new environment.Grief and Nostalgia Moving may bring up feelings of loss, especially if the home has been in the family for decades.Overwhelm and Fatigue The sheer process of sorting, packing, and coordinating a move can feel exhausting and unmanageable.Having professionals who understand the emotional side of senior moves can make all the difference. At A Call to Order, we help navigate these feelings with compassion, patience, and expertise, ensuring that each senior feels supported every step of the way.How to Make the Senior Move Process EasierWhile moving is emotional, there are ways to make the process smoother and less stressful for seniors and their families.1. Start with Gentle ConversationsChange can feel intimidating. Begin by having open and reassuring conversations about the move. Focus on the positivesless home maintenance, a safer living environment, and new opportunities for socializing and engaging in activities. Its essential to listen to their concerns and validate their feelings throughout the process.2. Sort with SensitivityDecluttering and downsizing can be one of the most difficult aspects of a senior move. Instead of rushing, take time to go through items with care and patience. Use these strategies:The Three-Pile Method: Keep, Donate, or Pass Down. This helps seniors feel a sense of control over their belongings.Memory Preservation: Encourage taking photos of sentimental items before parting with them or passing them down to family members.Create a Special Keepsake Box: Allow seniors to keep a small collection of their most treasured mementos to bring to their new home.3. Enlist Professional HelpHaving a compassionate and experienced senior move manager can make a world of difference. A Call to Order Professional Organizer specializes in helping seniors and their families through every step of the moving process. From organizing and packing to setting up a new home that feels familiar and welcoming, we provide expert guidance and emotional support.4. Recreate a Sense of HomeThe transition to a new space doesnt have to feel like a loss. Help seniors feel at home by:Arranging furniture in a familiar wayBringing personal touches like favorite decor, blankets, or family photosEncouraging visits from loved ones to create warmth and connection in the new environmentCompassionate Support Makes All the DifferenceAt A Call to Order, we believe that moving should be about embracing new beginnings without losing sight of the past. We are here to support seniors and their families, ensuring that every move is handled with care, dignity, and understanding.If your family is facing a senior move, let us help ease the transition. Visit www.acalltoorderco.com or call 719-231-5425 to learn more about our compassionate senior move services.Because a move isnt just about changing homesits about honoring a lifetime while making space for new memories.
Selling a home that has been lived in for many years can be a difficult process whether a loved one has passed or is just moving into a nursing home. Many memories have been made that hold a multitude of emotions and it is hard to let it all go. Here are a few steps to help ease the stress of preparing your loved ones home for sale.Be PatientIf time isnt of the essence put a 60-90 day freeze on all decision making. During that time leave everything in the home as-is except for expiring food, medicines, and anything else that could leave a bad odor. This hold-over time period will give friends and family time to grieve, time to process the options, and time to remember the home exactly how it was while your loved one still lived there.Get Expert HelpA lawyer should be one of your first calls as they can help get the necessary paperwork in order such as a power of attorney and will. They can also help you navigate through probate. Seeking legal advice about selling a home is always advised as it can greatly affect the title of the home.Next, a realtor will be able to talk about all of your options when it comes to selling. Since a realtor doesnt have any emotional attachment to the house, they will be able to be matter of fact and tell you the current market value of the home. A realtor will also let you know which items should be updated to get the most money out of the house.DeclutterIt can be difficult to let things go, but a house must be de-personalized in order to sell for top dollar. If the process is too difficult or daunting to do on your own, you might consider hiring an estate sale company to host an estate sale. If this is the route you go, it is best to step away from the process and let the professionals do their job.If you prefer to go through items yourself, consider hiring an appraiser or specialist to look at antiques to find out their true value. Less valuable items can be donated so you know they are going to a good home. Non-profit businesses that are usually seeking donations include Goodwill, Salvation Army, and Habitat for Humanity Restores.Update/RepairsA lived-in home will have signs of wear & tear. At a minimum fix cracked tiles, patch holes in walls, give the home a coat of fresh neutral paint, replace burned out lightbulbs, and remove curtains to let the most light in. You might also consider installing new carpet and flooring.To get the most money out of the home, consider doing a kitchen and bathroom remodel as those spaces tend to be the biggest selling points of a house. If you dont have time for a major renovation you can update simple items such as replacing light fixtures, faucets, and hinges. In the bathrooms add a few stacked washcloths tied with a ribbon, add lightly scented candles, and buy matching bathmats & towels in a light green, blue or white tone.Your realtor might also suggest hiring a professional stager, who will bring in contemporary furniture to enhance the homes attractiveness to potential buyers.Clean, Clean, CleanOne of the last steps inside the home is to give it a good cleaning. If you dont mind putting in the elbow grease, then begin with washing the windows, vacuuming, dusting, wiping down all surfaces, and polishing appliances. You can also consider hiring a cleaning company, who can come in and make the home sparkle in just a few hours.Curb AppealLastly, spruce up the landscaping and front entrance of the home which might have become neglected. Trim shrubs, add flowers, mow the lawn, give the front door a fresh coat of paint, and paint faded trim. In addition, certain buyers loan types such as FHA & VA will require rotted deck boards be replaced, that peeling paint is fixed, and any broken windows be repaired.If you are ready to take the next step in selling, call lMike Lies with Gold Compass Real Estate at 303-325-5690.
Harmony Senior Referrals was established by Walt and Britt Overlie Roberson. Our Senior Placement Referral Company offers FREE services to clients throughout the Denver Metro, North Denver and Front Range and Kansas City Metro areas. We help "at risk" seniors find the "right" senior living community, offering guidance and assurance every step of the way. We know the challenges because "we've been there" personally. We refer to Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, Adult Family Homes, and Skilled Nursing Communities along with in-home care. Call or email us and we will be happy to talk with you and answer any questions to help find the right choice for your family.