It Takes a Village

Author

Harmony Senior Referrals

For more information about the author, click to view their website: Harmony Senior Referrals

Posted on

May 17, 2023

Book/Edition

Colorado - Denver Metro

share-this
Share This

We’ve all heard this statement for years.  The first time I heard it the reference was raising children. As the father of 12 children, I had to pause and think about that for a minute. While I didn’t really like the idea of a “village” raising my children, upon reflection, I came to an obvious conclusion that it took not just my wife and I to raise our “tribe” but also grandparents, aunts and uncles, cousins, a church, teachers, friends, doctors, lawyers, siblings, etc.  That just might be considered a “village” alright!

Now that the children are “mostly” grown, I have been given the opportunity to experience the next phase of my life: caring for aging parents. Just as I didn’t realize how much help would be needed to raise my children, it previously never entered my mind that I would need so much help caring for my mother and father as they aged. 

Mom has dementia at age 92 and Dad, also 92, fell and broke his hip in their living room.  Off to the hospital for Dad.  My brother who lived in another state had to drive home to care for Mom (she couldn’t function alone).  My sister had to go to the hospital for Dad several times a week although she lived 2 hours away.  Then we had to find an assisted living arrangement for the both of them.  Doctors, nurses, caregivers, family, church, neighbors and my siblings all got involved in the process of caring for my parents.  IT TOOK A VILLAGE!!!

Fortunately, we knew about senior placement companies. Not the kind you find online that just sends out emails.  I’m talking about local companies; the kind that gives you “hands on” personal service to find the right fit for your loved one. They help you unravel the complex issues of health care, geography and finances to give your loved one the best quality of life possible in their “golden” years.  These companies are a free service!  Be sure you include them in your “village” caring for your loved one.

 

Editor’s Note: This article was submitted by Walt and Britt Roberson, owners of Harmony Senior Referrals. They may be reached at 303-667-2420 or by email at harmonyseniorreferrals@gmail.com

Other Articles You May Like

The Mouth is the Gateway to the Bodyand the Brain, too

Oral health is about much more than a clean smile. For older adults, brushing and flossing can become difficult due to arthritis, memory loss, or physical limitations. When dental care is missed, harmful bacteria build up. And they dont stay in the mouth.Research has found links between gum disease and a range of serious health issues: heart disease, pneumonia, diabetes complications, and more recently, dementia. In studies, bacteria associated with gum infections have even been found in the brains of people with Alzheimers disease, suggesting a role in inflammation and cognitive decline.The good (but not-so-new) news? Professional cleanings and oral screenings help reduce bacteria, spot issues early, and protect overall health. And theyre not just for those with medical conditionseven healthy individuals benefit from reaching the areas daily brushing and flossing miss.Dental care is healthcare. For aging adults, it plays a vital role in maintaining comfort, dignity, and quality of life.Mouth health is whole-body healthespecially as we age. Editors Note: This article was submitted by Jacob H. Nguyen, RDH. Jacob is a Direct Access Dental Hygienist and Founder of Dental Carvan. For more information he may be reached at 303-210-0999.

Making the Move Easier: 6 Tips for Seniors and Caregivers Navigating a Big Transition

Whether your aging parent is transitioning to assisted living, downsizing to a senior apartment, or moving in with family, planning ahead can ease the stress for everyone involved. Moving in later life comes with unique emotional and physical challenges, but you dont have to do it alone.As a senior living placement company in the Greater Pittsburgh area, weve helped many local families navigate this journey with confidence and compassion. Here are six practical tips to support you and your loved one every step of the way.1. Start Small and Share the LoadLets face it: a lifetime of memories can be hard to pack. Many older adults have spent decades in the same home, surrounded by treasured keepsakes and familiar routines. The thought of letting go can be overwhelming.Heres how to lighten the emotional load: Begin with low-sentiment spaces like guest rooms or bathrooms. That first win builds momentum. Sort together. Create keep, donate, and pass along piles. Encourage your loved one to gift meaningful items to children, grandchildren, or close friends. Make it meaningful. Donating to local Pittsburgh charities or giving heirlooms to family members can bring peace of mind. 2. Consider Senior Move Management ServicesHiring a professional can make a world of difference. While friends and family are often eager to help, a neutral third party especially one trained in working with older adults can ease tension and smooth the process.Look for services like: Senior move managers who specialize in downsizing and relocation for older adults. Companies affiliated with the National Association of Senior Move Managers (NASMM) for trustworthy help. Local resources in Pittsburgh that offer packing, organizing, estate sales, and post-move support. If youre juggling work, caregiving, and moving logistics, outsourcing some of these tasks can give you much-needed peace of mind.3. Make Travel Safe and ComfortableGetting from point A to point B isnt always easy for older adults. Whether youre moving your loved one across town or across state lines, transportation should fit their health and comfort needs.Travel tips for seniors: Add buffer time. Frequent breaks help with circulation and comfort. Plan around mobility needs. For flights, request wheelchair service and pre-boarding. For car trips, pack medications, snacks, and extra pillows. Look into senior transportation services. In Pittsburgh and beyond, some companies offer non-emergency medical transport, including services equipped with stretchers, wheelchairs, or even nursing staff. 4. Set Up Health Care Before the MoveA new ZIP code may mean a new doctor, pharmacy, and care team. Take care of these logistics early to ensure a smooth transition especially if your loved one has ongoing health needs.To-do list: Transfer prescriptions to a nearby pharmacy. Verify insurance coverage in the new area check which local specialists and clinics are in-network. Connect with a geriatric care manager. These experts often know the best local healthcare providers and in-home care agencies in Western PA. Having a plan in place ensures continuity of care from day one.5. Help the New Space Feel Like HomeEven if the new apartment or assisted living suite is smaller, it can still feel cozy, familiar, and full of life. Small touches make a big difference.Ideas to personalize the new home: Recreate familiar spaces by placing photos and dcor just as they were before (snap a few reference photos before packing). Unpack favorite blankets, books, or that special coffee mug first. Bring beloved furniture or artwork, and explore fun updates like a new recliner or colorful accent wall. Many senior living communities surrounding Pittsburgh encourage residents to decorate their rooms to reflect their style this helps ease the emotional transition.6. Emphasize the PositivesYour loved one may be leaving behind a house filled with memories, but theyre also stepping into a new chapter one filled with support, activities, and connection.Help them see the bright side: Less worry. No more home maintenance or mowing the lawn. More connection. Many assisted living communities offer events, exercise classes, and outings. Opportunities for joy. Explore local senior centers, volunteer programs, or art classes in their new neighborhood. Encourage them to explore and celebrate whats next.Ready to Take the Next Step?Moving a senior loved one can feel like a huge undertaking but you dont have to navigate it alone. As a trusted senior living advisor in Pittsburgh, weve helped thousands of families find the right care options, whether it's assisted living, independent living, memory care, or downsizing solutions. Let us guide you through the process from personalized placement help to local resource referrals. Contact us today at Serving Our Seniors to speak with a compassionate senior care advisor who truly understands the Pittsburgh area.

Navigating the Emotional Journey of Moving a Loved One into Senior Living

Making the decision to move a loved one into senior living is never easy. Its a choice that often comes with a swirl of emotionsgrief, guilt, uncertainty, and even relief. For many families, it marks the beginning of a new chapter that is both necessary and deeply emotional.At Assisted Living Locators, we understand the complexity of this transition. We're not just here to help you find the right placewere here to walk alongside you as you navigate the feelings, questions, and challenges that come with it.The Emotional Weight of the DecisionMoving a parent or loved one out of their homewhere memories were made and independence was cherishedcan feel like a loss. Even when its the right time, the reality of change can be overwhelming.Families often struggle with questions like: Are we doing the right thing? Will they feel abandoned? How do we even begin to choose the right place? These are not just logistical concerns. They're emotional ones. And theyre completely valid.You Are Not AloneEvery family has a unique story, and no two transitions look the same. Thats why a one-size-fits-all approach doesnt work. At Assisted Living Locators, we start by listeningreally listeningto your concerns, your hopes, and your loved ones needs.We help you: Understand the options available, from independent and assisted living to memory care and beyond. Navigate conversations with compassion, helping your loved one feel heard and included in the decision-making process. Find peace of mind in knowing that a knowledgeable, local expert is by your side. More Than a Placement ServiceWhat sets us apart is that were not just matching families to facilities. Were guiding people through one of lifes most sensitive and significant transitions. We offer not only practical guidance, but emotional supporthelping you make decisions with confidence, clarity, and care.Well tour communities with you, ask the hard questions, and advocate for what matters most to your family. And we do it all at no cost to you.A Step Toward Peace of MindIts okay to feel the weight of this moment. It's okay to need help. And it's okay to prioritize both your loved ones well-being and your own peace of mind.Let us be a trusted partner in this journeyso you dont have to walk it alone.Contact us today at pghassistedliving.com or (724) 972 -3202 to take the first step. Were here to help with heart, knowledge, and unwavering support. 

Local Services By This Author

Harmony Senior Referrals

Housing Placement & Resource Specialists PO Box 33431, Northglenn, Colorado, 80241

Harmony Senior Referrals was established by Walt and Britt Overlie Roberson. Our Senior Placement Referral Company offers FREE services to clients throughout the Denver Metro, North Denver and Front Range and Kansas City Metro areas. We help "at risk" seniors find the "right" senior living community, offering guidance and assurance every step of the way. We know the challenges because "we've been there" personally. We refer to Independent Living, Assisted Living, Memory Care, Adult Family Homes, and Skilled Nursing Communities along with in-home care. Call or email us and we will be happy to talk with you and answer any questions to help find the right choice for your family.