It's Okay to Feel Shocked

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Abode Hospice of Colorado

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May 12, 2021

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Colorado - Western Slope

The death of a loved one is a hard reality to grasp. Often, it can feel like a bad dream that you just cant wake up from. Although you may know that your loved one is very sick or in the process of dying, the unavoidability of dying always feels sudden, unforeseen and unbelievable. Its shocking. It is important to recognize that shock is a natural part of the grieving process and can occur many times before the loss fully settles in. Although it doesnt feel normal, its your bodys way of handling painful experiences. Given time, the shock will weaken, but you must understand this process is hard, and it takes time to accept death. Most of all, keep in mind that although the grieving process is difficult and the loss is shocking, there will come a time when you will acknowledge and accept the loss. You will always remember the loved ones you have lost, but you do not need to always grieve their absence. If you find yourself struggling with the shock and overwhelming grief of losing a loved one, keep these phrases in mind:

Allow your grief
Be patient with yourself
Be willing to change things

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