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Rudyard Kipling’s “The Ballad of East and West” famously stated, “Oh, East is East and West is West, and never the twain shall meet.” East does meet West in old age, and specifically in Mindfulness. Mindfulness means non-judgmentally paying attention in the present moment.
In “The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying” by Sogyal Rinpoche, mindfulness meditation is described as “bringing the mind home”. This notion of bringing the mind home has profound implications for “finding your voice,” giving form and direction to one’s generativity, and discovering personal cogency and meaning in one’s life story. By bringing the mind home, the heart opens, and a reconnection to the spirit occurs.
Evidence of contemplating life and old age, and considering life stage development, is not exclusive to western academics. Consider this Chinese poem by Po Chu-i:
On Being Sixty:
Between thirty and forty, one is distracted by the Five Lusts.
Between seventy and eighty, one is prey to 100 diseases.
But from fifty to sixty-one is free from all ills; calm and still—the heart enjoys rest.
I have put behind me Love and Greed; I have done with Profit and Fame; I am still short of illness and decay and far from decrepit age.
Strength of limb I still possess to seek the rivers and hills; still my heart has spirit enough to listen to flutes and strings.
At leisure I open new wine and taste several cups; drunken, I recall old poems and sing a whole volume.
From the Upajjhatthana Sutta, a Buddhist text circa 500 BC:
I am sure to become old; I cannot avoid aging.
I am sure to become ill; I cannot avoid illness.
I am sure to die; I cannot avoid death.
I must be separated and parted from all that is dear and beloved to me.
I am the owner of my actions, heir of my actions, actions are the womb (from which I have sprung), actions are my relations, actions are my protection. Whatever actions I do, good or bad, of these I shall become their heir.
Carl Jung used the term “provisional Life” to describe an attitude toward life that is imaginary and in denial of one’s true situation. This approach is not a mature coping mechanism. Mindfulness restores one’s true situation and grounds us.
Editor's Note: This article was submitted by Robin Avery. Robin is the owner of The Retreat at Church Ranch and can be reached at 303-847-2233 and emailed at retreatceorobin@gmail.com.
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April showers bring May flowers and a dusting of pollen. While we welcome the arrival of warmer days and sunny skies, many Seniors Helping Seniors clients face symptoms from springtime allergies. As we age, weakened immune systems or pre-existing health conditions can make older adults more vulnerable to allergies. With the allergy season peaking in April, symptoms like congestion, itchiness, and sneezing often come in full swing. If youve been struck by spring fever this year, the Seniors Helping Seniors team wants to help. In this blog, well review seven senior-focused tips for navigating the allergy season. Keep reading to discover our best advice for enjoying the beauty of spring while minimizing the annoying symptoms of allergies.Springtime Allergy SeasonColorful flowers, lush leaves, and warm sunshine beckon seniors to venture outside and enjoy the natural spring beauty. 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Are you exploring all that retirement life has to offer? If so, you may be considering how best to support the lifestyle that youve been looking forward to. Choosing how to spend your time is likely at the top of the list and is a well-deserved gift.While working or raising children, having time to call your own may have seemed illusive. But retirees often celebrate having the opportunity to take up a left-behind hobby or to rediscover a passion they once had.More than a few, however, may be unsure which activities might result in feelings of zeal. You may be wondering if youd like to rediscover an old passion or begin looking for a new one.If youre defining your retirement path toward aging well, the following tips may help you successfully with your search.What is a passion?When you feel passionate about something, you experience a depth of feeling that goes beyond just enthusiasm. People often describe the sensation as losing a sense of time and place when they are engaged with their passion.A few examples may include: Painting, sculpting, or creative writing Learning a new musical instrument Helping care for abandoned animals Visiting every major league baseball stadium in the U.S. Providing companionship to the elderly who live alone Helping elementary students learn to read Volunteering at a homeless shelter You may also be the object of your passion. Some retirees commit to finding ways to live their lives to the fullest to aging well. They may dedicate a certain number of hours every week for getting in physical shape or exercising to better their mental health.Others may decide to embark on an encore career and are determined to put their efforts where their passions can be expressed. Giving politics a try and running for a local office may be the focus for some. Becoming a kindergarten teacher might be anothers dream in order to fulfill a long-held passion to work with little ones.Aging and rediscovering your passionsThe journey of life can take us down many paths and along the way we may find we had to leave behind personal interests so we could concentrate on the more pressing tasks at hand. Growing older often returns the opportunity to finally have time to spend as you like.If youre interested in rediscovering your passions or creating new ones, consider these suggestions: Browse through a college course catalog This can be a wonderful place to jumpstart your search if youre feeling a little lost. You dont need to sign up for a class, although that can also be a great idea. But look for any subjects that pique your interest and let your mind explore from there. Talk to your friends and family If youre having trouble zeroing in on what your interests are, ask those who know you best what they think. They will likely point out your frequent topics of conversations or areas that theyve seen you become excited about. What do you do or think about the most? Sometimes we dont even realize how we like to spend our time. Look back on activities you choose, what television shows you watch or books you read. See if there is a pattern you can capture. This could be your starting point to define a passion. Dont be afraid to experiment Keep an open mind and dont reject any initial ideas because you assume theyre not passion-worthy. Be willing to try different options and you might discover something about yourself that had remained unnoticed. Have the right attitude It can help to view this process as an adventure instead of feeling pressured to pick the right passion. There are no wrong answers. Keeping a positive attitude can help open yourself up to new possibilities. Dont give up. Keep searching.Source: Forbes contributor Rob PascaleHow an independent living community can helpRetirement living can offer some of the best opportunities to age well. Where you live can make all the difference as it provides a supportive environment for you to discover and live your passions.There are also features in an independent living community that can play an active role in your passions. Consider a few of the advantages youll find that contribute to creating an enriched life, such as: Remaining meaningfully engaged Making friends and sharing your life experiences Participating in educational, informative and fun activities Enjoying an active social life with others Belonging to a larger community Youll find all of these benefits and more at an independent living community. Along with the easy and maintenance-free lifestyle, youll have even more time to spend on what brings you the most joy.
The Retreat at Church Ranch is truly a lovely community, staffed and occupied by lovely people. Our mission is to provide care and service with excellence. Located in a very convenient area of the Denver Boulder Corridor, just off of Hwy. 36, we are a warm and welcoming community of fifty-five. Here you will enjoy activities rich with exercise, story telling, bingo, games, parties and art groups. We offer a variety of floor plans and flexible and inclusive pricing. Please call or drop in for a tour.