Preparing For Change

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Jan 18, 2015

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Connecticut - Southern Connecticut

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As our loved ones age, our concern with their ability to manage the tasks of daily life safely at home increases. Most seniors prefer to stay in their own home and maintain their independence for as long as possible. However, the idea of accepting help at home can be met with great resistance. One approach that can be very effective is to suggest that having a home care agency come in for a few hours a day, will give the rest of the family peace of mind knowing that their loved one is safe. Seniors are often willing to make a change that they feel will benefit others before they would consider their own personal benefit. It is usually a good idea to include a senior in making a selection on what agency to use as well. Including them in the process is empowering. In addition, presenting the idea that home care is a well- deserved luxury rather than a decision that is being forced can make a huge difference in the outcome.

The good news is that there are many home care agencies to choose from that help make this all possible. When choosing home care, it is important to look for an agency that will focus on specific needs. Initially, a thorough client assessment should be made by the agency; including notes on specialized care with possible conditions such as dementia, Alzheimer's, stroke and post-surgical care to name a few. Careful thought should be given to arranging a caregiver with the right personality and skill set. Finding a good match will help to ensure success. Last but not least, ask about background checks on caregivers and make sure caregivers are bonded and insured.
Often, after a few scheduled visits with a caregiver, the elderly family member will begin to look forward to the regular social interaction. They will find relief in no longer struggling with tasks such as bathing, dressing, incontinence issues and grooming. They will enjoy the new opportunities that come with a companion who can accompany them on walks, help them prepare their favorite meals and assist them in getting to medical appointments and to do errands. The family will have the opportunity to experience joy in their time together rather than dealing with stresses they were previously faced with.
Editors note: This article was written by Robin Savoie Zack and Michael Savoie, owners of Executive Care located at 3476 Main Street in Stratford. Executive Care offers affordable hourly and live-in rates. They can be reached at (203)690-1963.

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