Reflections of Happiness

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Jan 15, 2016

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- by Kelly Smith Papa, RN, MSN, Corporate Director of Learning for Masonicare
In almost twenty years of working in aging services, my favorite moments have always been learning what brings happiness to the seniors I am entrusted to care for.
If you google the definition of happiness, 25 million results emerge. Studies showed that the habits of happy people include living with purpose, having a positive outlook for the future and the resilience to bounce back from sad events.
In aging services, we are afforded a unique opportunity: to learn from our elders, some with frailty, cognitive deficits or disease, what brings them happiness after decades of life, and what are the things they find to be the most important for quality of life. Then we get the privilege of finding ways to bring happiness into their lives.
I was blessed with having close relationships with all four of my grandparents before they passed away. As I think about what made them happy, I am mindful that their enthusiasm for the things that brought them happiness taught me so much about life. Each of my grandparents shared the wisdom of their life legacy, their unique sparks, their faith in God, compassion for others and their connection to family. As a nurse and educator, it is my privilege to be a part of a team dedicated to learning more about the lives of the people we are entrusted to care for. It is a joy to find ways to bring more happiness into their days.
There are wonderful books that offer thoughtful ideas on happiness and aging. Dr. Bill Thomas book, A Life Worth Living, and Jolene Brackeys book, Creating Moments of Joy, offer insights for bringing happiness, quality of life and deep relationships with seniors, including those with dementia. The book Legacy by Linda Spence provides reflective questions to help us unlock the memories which make up a life.
When it comes to living a life with happiness, the answers are personal and limitless.

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