Resources to Help with End-of-Life Care

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Jan 20, 2023

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No one wants to think about our death or the death of a loved one. The reality is that death is inevitable, so preparing for end-of-life decisions is essential. Over the past few years, especially with the COVID-19 pandemic, we've all been reminded about life’s fragility. 

When you're faced with addressing end-of-life care, knowing where to turn for the answers your family needs can be overwhelming. For guidance in getting started, continue reading.

Hospice Care 

Hospice care is medical treatment for patients close to the end of their lives. Their conditions are unlikely to improve. Hospice care focuses on patient comfort and family support.

If you choose to place a family member in hospice care, you'll have a team of medical professionals surrounding you during a difficult time. Examples of the care your loved one may receive include medications to reduce pain, periodic visits to the patient by a care team, and respite for family members and caretakers.

To learn more about the availability of hospice care and how to get connected to resources in your area, visit the Hospice Foundation of America online. 

End-of-Life Planning 

In addition to making your loved one as comfortable as possible, ensure their legal interests are protected, too. If you have a loved one with a terminal illness, it may be wise to have them complete estate planning documents if they haven't already done so. 

For guidance in drafting these important legal documents, consult with us.

Last Will and Testament

This document aims to set up how your affairs will be handled after your death. A loved one diagnosed with a terminal disease or who is elderly should have a valid last will and testament to help family who is left behind to avoid the stress of dividing their deceased loved one’s assets and property.

Living Will 

A living will, also known as an advance directive, is a document that directs your family about your health care before you lose the capacity to make your own decisions. 

The purpose of a living will is to include your choices regarding emergency care and life-saving medical treatment. Having a living will helps your family avoid the stress and guilt associated with making end-of-life decisions regarding medical care.

Grief Support Groups 

It's as essential to take care of yourself as it is to take care of your loved one as their life ends. You may feel alone during this time of grief. Build a support network around yourself to aid in navigating the grieving process. If you have family members to lean on, take advantage of that. 

It's possible to find support groups filled with people who understand your situation if you don’t have family or close friends. If you're looking for a place to start, visit findhelp.org. You can search for bereavement groups, counseling services, and workshops that fit your needs in your area. 

Whether you're looking for a group that understands the loss of a parent or spouse, a veterans’ group, or any other unique group of people, know you aren't alone.

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