Rhonda told me, desperately searching for a way to fight off the tears that were filling her endlessly deep, blue, ocean-like, eyes, “Today’s the one-year anniversary, but I know she’s much better now,” referring to the death of her mother.
Rhonda Pepper was her mother, Vera Ruth Goodrich’s caregiver. She was diagnosed with Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD). This is due to progressive nerve cell loss in the brain’s frontal lobes; it is the area behind the forehead or just behind the eyes.
Mrs. Goodrich, who went by Ruth to all who knew her, was a respected, long-time banker in Rocky Ford and La Junta. She had lived in her home with her son Richard after the passing of her husband, Rhonda’s father, but about six years ago, Rhonda started noticing some behavior changes in her mother. “She started getting up in the middle of the night and getting dressed. She would set the table for the entire family. She was doing things out of nature, financially,” Rhonda said.
This was the first of many cues in a succession, including, to Rhonda’s dismay, Ruth, who was still driving, got completely lost during a blizzard, ending all the way up in Limon. “This was in the early spring of 2009. I didn’t think we’d find her,” said Rhonda, whose husband Tracy, son Dylan and brother Richard made the drive, picking Ruth up from a diner.
She was already living with Rhonda and her husband at that point. “She moved in with us in January of 2009 but we didn’t get the diagnosis of Frontotemporal Dementia until May. Finally, everything we had been experiencing, it pulled it all together,” said Rhonda, with a look that can only be described as bittersweet. They finally had the answers to the why? but now what?
Caregivers are so often put in this role or a position of a role reversal.
Rhonda said in the beginning her mother could stay home alone. “Friends came in to take her to do things. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, they would take her to the Senior Center in La Junta and Swink.” Rhonda, who is a poised person, said she tried to maintain a level of organization as a caregiver, she kept things structured. “Mom would get up and get herself dressed in the morning and then I would leave her lists of little jobs to do while I was at work. She would take care of the dogs for example.” Rhonda said the fear of her wondering off was ever-looming.
In the fall of 2010 doctors confirmed that an auto accident that Ruth had been involved in during the summer excelled the progression of her FTD, compounding her dementia. Rhonda quit her job to stay at home with her mother full time. She said, with love and compassion, “That was my job.”
Prior to the accident Ruth was able to talk and walk, with assistance, but Rhonda said all of that faded. “Even though she didn’t speak, I could tell her disposition through her eyes. I could tell if she liked someone or a situation,” said Rhonda, her daughter, her caregiver.
As a full-time caregiver, Rhonda sought outside help a few hours a week, bringing in respite care. “This allowed me some down-time. I could go sit at the park and read a book; go to my own doctor appointments; attend group meetings for caregivers; it just allowed me to remove myself from the environment and recharge my batteries.”
Until or unless someone is in the position of being a caregiver, people don’t realize the effects, physically and emotionally, it has on them. The term respite literally translates to a time of rest.
Rhonda shared with me how blessed she felt to be able to quit her job and stay at home with her mother. “She made my life better,” she said. She also shared the realistic views behind closed doors and what it’s really like to care for an ailing adult. “It’s like taking care of an adult infant. Every two hours I would take her to the bathroom; I would shower her; I dressed her; I would change her wet and soiled pants; I would feed her.” Rhonda also said she was never fully rested, only sleeping lightly at night because she always had one ear on her mother.
As a dutiful and loving caregiver, Rhonda remained loyal to her mother’s lifelong regiments and to the things that made her life quality, making sure her hair was properly set, lips were adorned with lipstick each and every day and her favorite food was prepared and fed to her. Rhonda said, “I think it’s important, even for the CareProvider coming in to know the schedule, to know what she likes, what her favorite foods are.”
Ruth passed away on November 30, 2014. Rhonda said that while she was able to spend time with her mother during her final months, she really misses the conversation that they once shared, which is the sad part of dementia.
Gina (Paradiso) Cathcart is the director of CareCorner, Ltd., Colorado Respite Care. She is a healthcare educator, passionate about service to others and quality of life. She can be reached at 719-691-5206
Seniors Helping Seniors In-Home Care Recognizes Alzheimers and Brain Awareness MonthSeniors Helping Seniors Southwestern PA in-home care underscores the importance of compassionate support for those living with Alzheimers and the families who care for them. PITTSBURGH, PA June marks Alzheimers and Brain Awareness Month, a time to shine a light on the more than 7 million Americans currently living with Alzheimers or other forms of dementia a number projected to nearly double by 2050. In honor of this important month, Seniors Helping Seniors Southwestern PA in-home care is raising awareness about the role compassionate in-home care can play in improving the quality of life for those affected by the disease. According to the 2024 Alzheimers Disease Facts and Figures report, nearly 12 million Americans provide unpaid care for people with Alzheimers and other dementias. These caregivers often experience high levels of emotional, physical and financial stress. Seniors Helping Seniors in-home care offers relief through peer-based, non-medical services designed to help seniors remain safely and comfortably in their homes while easing the responsibilities placed on caregivers. Our mission is to provide support, dignity and companionship to seniors including those facing memory challenges, said C.J. Girod, President of Seniors Helping Seniors Southwestern PA. By matching seniors who need care with active, compassionate older adults, we create a connection that enhances quality of life for both the caregiver and the care recipient. Seniors Helping Seniors in-home care provides flexible support with tasks such as meal preparation, transportation, medication reminders, light housekeeping and, perhaps most importantly, companionship a service that can be especially meaningful for those navigating memory loss. With new treatments for Alzheimers emerging and awareness on the rise, we believe its vital to offer families the support they need to navigate this journey, said Namrata Yocom-Jan, president of Seniors Helping Seniors in-home care. We are proud to be part of the care solution, providing personalized, respectful services that promote dignity and connection. ABOUT SENIORS HELPING SENIORS: Seniors Helping Seniors franchise system was founded by husband-and-wife duo Kiran and Philip Yocom. Kiran, who grew up in India, later worked to advance humanitarian efforts alongside Mother Teresa. After moving to the U.S. in 1995 and marrying her husband Philip, the Yocoms felt called to provide loving care to seniors and to cultivate an exchange of gifts at every generational level. Together, the Yocoms founded Seniors Helping Seniors in-home services in 1998, opening the brand up to franchising in 2006. With a mission to be the most respected and rewarding home care provider in the U.S., Seniors Helping Seniors locations stand apart from competitors as the only company that prioritizes hiring active seniors to provide care services to their less-active counterparts. Seniors Helping Seniors service aligns caregivers and care recipients based on the abilities and needs of both by offering a wide range of care services. Seniors Helping Seniors network has grown to 400 territories nationwide and over 200 franchise partners in 37 states. For more information on Seniors Helping Seniors in-home care, visit https://seniorshelpingseniors.com/.
Managing Parkinsons Symptoms at HomeThis article is part of The Parkinsons Care Compass, an educational series from At Your Home Caregiving of Texas. Managing Parkinsons symptoms at home takes preparation, compassion, and the right support and we are honored to guide families every step of the way.Managing Parkinsons disease at home requires a careful balance of patience, knowledge, and proactive strategies. Parkinsons affects not only mobility but also speech, mood, memory, and overall daily living activities. As symptoms progress, the home environment and caregiving approach must evolve to meet new challenges and ensure that the individuals dignity, comfort, and independence are preserved.At Your Home Caregiving of Texas specializes in providing customized home caregiving solutions that empower families to manage Parkinsons symptoms effectively while preserving the quality of life for their loved ones.The Importance of a Symptom Management PlanParkinsons symptoms are highly individual no two people experience the disease in exactly the same way. Creating a personalized symptom management plan is essential to addressing the patients physical, cognitive, and emotional needs.A well-rounded plan typically addresses: Mobility and fall prevention Medication management Cognitive and emotional changes Speech and swallowing difficulties Nutrition and hydration Daily routines and activities for mental and physical engagement At Your Home Caregiving of Texas helps families design care plans that respond to their loved ones unique symptoms, preferences, and goals.Mobility Challenges and Fall PreventionMobility issues are among the most recognizable symptoms of Parkinsons disease. Slowed movements (bradykinesia), stiffness, and balance problems increase the risk of falls and injuries.Strategies for Safer Mobility: Home Modifications: Remove trip hazards (like loose rugs), install grab bars in bathrooms, and ensure adequate lighting throughout the home. Use of Assistive Devices: Canes, walkers, and specially designed furniture can aid in safe movement. Clear Walking Paths: Maintain wide, unobstructed paths through frequently used areas like bedrooms, bathrooms, and kitchens. Encouraging Movement Techniques: Techniques like "freezing" drills and cueing strategies (using rhythmic music or counting steps) can help when patients feel stuck or rigid. At Your Home Caregiving of Texas caregivers are trained in fall prevention and can assist clients safely with standing, walking, and transferring from beds or chairs.Medication Management at HomeStrict adherence to medication schedules is critical in Parkinsons care. Medications like levodopa/carbidopa must be taken precisely to control motor symptoms and prevent sudden worsening.Medication Management Tips: Use pill organizers clearly labelled with times of day. Set alarms or use medication reminder apps. Keep a written medication schedule visible for caregivers and family members. Monitor for side effects like dizziness, hallucinations, or sudden involuntary movements (dyskinesias). Our professional caregivers ensure that medication regimens are followed accurately, reducing the risk of complications and hospitalizations.Addressing Cognitive and Emotional ChangesCognitive changes such as memory loss, slowed thinking, and difficulty concentrating are common in Parkinsons, especially as the disease progresses. Emotional changes, including depression and anxiety, may also develop.Support Strategies: Cognitive Engagement: Activities like puzzles, reading, and conversation help keep the mind active. Routine and Structure: A consistent daily routine minimizes confusion and frustration. Patience and Understanding: Allow extra time for decision-making and avoid rushing tasks. Mental Health Support: Professional counselling and medication management can help address depression and anxiety. At Your Home Caregiving of Texas, we prioritize emotional support alongside physical care, creating a nurturing environment for both the patient and their family.Managing Speech and Swallowing DifficultiesSpeech difficulties (dysarthria) and swallowing problems (dysphagia) are common but manageable aspects of Parkinsons.Tips for Speech Challenges: Encourage slow, deliberate speech. Use voice exercises, sometimes under the guidance of a speech therapist. Practice reading aloud or singing to strengthen vocal muscles. Tips for Swallowing Challenges: Consult a speech-language pathologist for swallowing assessments. Offer smaller, more frequent meals. Use thickened liquids if needed to prevent choking. Monitor for signs of aspiration, such as coughing during meals. Our caregivers are trained to notice changes in speech and swallowing and can assist with appropriate interventions to maintain safety and nutrition.Nutrition, Hydration, and ExerciseProper nutrition and hydration are vital for maintaining strength, energy, and medication effectiveness. Constipation, a common non-motor symptom of Parkinsons, can often be alleviated through diet.Key Nutrition Strategies: Focus on fiber-rich foods (vegetables, fruits, whole grains). Maintain hydration offer water throughout the day. Time protein intake carefully, as large amounts of protein can interfere with medication absorption (consult with a physician or dietitian). Incorporate antioxidant-rich foods to support brain health. The Role of ExerciseExercise is one of the most powerful non-medication tools for managing Parkinsons symptoms. Regular movement improves: Balance and gait Flexibility and strength Mood and cognitive function Simple exercises like walking, gentle stretching, yoga, and chair exercises can make a significant difference. Specialized programs like Parkinsons-specific boxing or dance classes can also offer tremendous benefits.At Your Home Caregiving of Texas, our caregivers incorporate gentle movement and stretching routines into the daily care plan, promoting physical vitality and emotional well-being.Creating an Emotionally Supportive Home EnvironmentBeyond managing symptoms, creating a positive and emotionally supportive home environment is essential.Key Elements: Respect and Dignity: Involve the patient in decision-making whenever possible. Companionship: Regular conversation, laughter, and shared activities prevent isolation. Patience and Flexibility: Parkinsons symptoms can vary from day to day caregivers must adapt with grace and understanding. Empowerment: Focus on what the patient can do, not what they cant. Celebrating small victories boosts confidence. Families often find it overwhelming to balance these emotional needs with the physical demands of caregiving. Thats where trusted professional caregivers make a tremendous difference.How At Your Home Caregiving of Texas Supports In-Home Parkinsons CareOur specialized Parkinsons care services are designed to ease the burden on families while maximizing the comfort and independence of the individual living with the disease.Our Parkinsons Home Care Includes: Assistance with personal care, mobility, and safety Medication management and reminders Nutrition support and meal preparation Exercise encouragement and participation Cognitive stimulation activities Emotional support and companionship Home safety evaluations and fall prevention Coordination with therapists, physicians, and family members Every care plan is customized, compassionate, and flexible evolving as the patients needs change over time.Final ThoughtsManaging Parkinsons symptoms at home is both an art and a science. It requires deep understanding, careful planning, and a loving, patient approach. With the right tools, support systems, and caregiving partnerships, families can help their loved ones live meaningful, dignified lives at home for as long as possible.At Your Home Caregiving of Texas is honored to be a trusted partner in this journey. Our expertise in Parkinsons care, our compassionate caregivers, and our commitment to excellence ensure that families receive the support they need, every step of the way.If you are caring for a loved one with Parkinsons disease, reach out to us today. Together, we can build a personalized care plan that brings peace of mind, safety, and hope into your home. At Your Home Caregiving of Texas is committed to helping families manage Parkinsons symptoms at home with expertise, compassion, and customized support. To learn more about creating a safe, empowering home environment for your loved one, explore the Parkinsons Care Compass series or contact us today. Together, we can make every day safer, stronger, and filled with possibility.Contact us at 469-830-8414
Southern Colorado is home to a diverse senior population, spread across both urban centers and rural communities. Access to specialized healthcare can vary, making navigation of services even more critical. A Geriatric Care Manager brings local expertise and a network of resources that can be especially valuable in this region.Whether youre in Pueblo, Trinidad, La Junta, or other Southern Colorado communities, a GCM can bridge the gap between family caregivers and the complex world of senior care. When to Hire a Geriatric Care ManagerHere are a few scenarios where hiring a Geriatric Care Manager may be especially helpful:Your loved one is showing signs of memory loss, and youre unsure of the next steps.You live out of town and want someone local to oversee care and advocate for your family member.Youre overwhelmed with managing appointments, medications, and home care.Your family is struggling to agree on care decisions.You need support transitioning your loved one into a senior living community or skilled nursing facility.If any of this sound familiar, it may be time to consult with a GCM. How to Find a Geriatric Care Manager in Southern ColoradoFinding the right Geriatric Care Manager involves looking for professionals with experience, credentials, and a compassionate approach. Look for individuals affiliated with professional organizations like the Aging Life Care Association (ALCA), and always ask about their familiarity with resources in Southern Colorado.To explore local options and support services, start with these helpful resources:View Senior Resources in Southern Colorado Find Geriatric Care Management Services in Southern Colorado Final ThoughtsAging is a journey, and no one should navigate it alone. Whether you're managing complex health issues or planning ahead for the future, a Geriatric Care Manager can provide the guidance and relief your family needs.In Southern Colorado, where access to senior care may vary by location, working with a professional who understands the local landscape can make all the difference. For more local resources and trusted senior service providers, visit our Southern Colorado directory today.
We provide in-home care and companionship to individuals who may be struggling from the complications of an illness, surgery, or injury, may be aging and/or declining in health, or a disabled adult.We are peoplecaringfor people.Woman owned and operated in South Colorado.CareProviders are in your area: Prowers, Kiowa, Baca, Bent, Otero, and Pueblo County.
We provide in-home care and companionship to individuals who may be struggling from the complications of an illness, surgery, or injury, may be aging and/or declining in health, or a disabled adult.We are peoplecaringfor people.Woman owned and operated in South Colorado.CareProviders are in your area: Prowers, Kiowa, Baca, Bent, Otero, and Pueblo County.
We provide in-home care and companionship to individuals who may be struggling from the complications of an illness, surgery, or injury, may be aging and/or declining in health, or a disabled adult.We are peoplecaringfor people.Woman owned and operated in South Colorado.CareProviders are in your area: Prowers, Kiowa, Baca, Bent, Otero, and Pueblo County.