Moms spend their days and nights thinking about how to make
sure their children are happy, healthy, and safe. If youre a mom, you know. If
you arent a mom, you were born because of a mom. Its one of the two things we
all have in common. So, as Mothers Day approaches, lets talk about the
most meaningful gift you can give or receive on this hallmark holiday that
means a lot: every mom deserves the peace of mind and power to create financial
security for themselves and their children with thoughtful estate
planning. Now you may be thinking, Estate planning? Really? Isnt
that just for rich people? Or, How does drafting a Will give me peace
of mind and financial security? Glad you asked! Most people have a general
concept of what estate planning means, but in reality, dont fully understand
it. Believe it or not, estate planning is far more complex than just drafting a
Will, and its not just for rich people, though doing it will leave your family
much more rich than if you dont. Once you appreciate the power of estate
planning, youll know why it has the power to gift you peace of mind.So lets start by parsing out what estate planning really is
and why it matters for every mom you know, including yourself if you are a
mom. Why Estate Planning Matters for Moms (and Dads too)Imagine having a roadmap that clearly shows how your
financial assets, the guardianship of your children, and even your most
cherished possessions are handled should anything happen to you. Now imagine
that your roadmap is a legal document and the people receiving that roadmap are
required to abide by your wishes and are able to easily do so because your
wishes are so clear and youve left a guide for your family along with the
roadmap. Thats what estate planning is: a legally enforceable plan
for your future, and ideally a guide to help your loved ones navigate the plan.
And, contrary to what most people think, estate planning isnt just for the
wealthy or those who are nearing the end of life. Its for everyone, including
you! Thoughtful estate planning gives you the power to make decisions now that
will impact your and your family's future, giving you peace of mind to know you
arent leaving a mess for the people you love. You may be wondering, Really? How does estate planning give
me peace of mind? Relax - grab a mimosa or some tea, kick your feet up, and
lets talk about how it works. Estate planning allows you to specify who will care for your
children if you are unable to do so yourself. Its undoubtedly a tough subject,
but choosing a guardian you trust to raise your kids as you would brings
immense comfort, and may even guide you to build deeper relationships with the
people youd call upon to care for your children, if you cannot. Knowing that
your wishes are written down and legally protected can relieve a lot of stress,
and relax any of those stressful in the background thoughts about that one
person you would never want raising your kids. Without a plan, a judge would decide who takes care of your
children if you cannot, and they might not choose the person you would have
wanted. Or worst of all, they may even choose the one person youd never want
raising your kids because maybe they look great on paper. Think about it: a
judge knows nothing about you or your kids. They only know what they see in
court filings. Thats it. Theyd have to make decisions with no input from you.
Kinda scary, right?When done right, estate planning also lets you direct the
distribution of your property and finances. Specifically, it ensures your
assets are transferred to the people you choose without unnecessary delays,
legal hurdles, or family conflicts. This not only secures your childrens future but also
simplifies the administrative process at a time when your family should have
space and time to mourn and heal, not get tangled in legal complexities. And if
they do get tangled up in conflict, its highly likely that those relationships
will be forever destroyed. That also happens. Again, more often than you may
think. Heres the bottom line. When you get these things in order,
you can die in peace, and that means you live life more fully. Estate Planning Equals EmpowermentEstate planning puts the power in your hands. It's a
declaration of your values and your voice, legally secured to guide your family
when you can't be there. By setting out your wishes clearly, you prevent
disputes and ensure your legacy lives on exactly as you intend. After all, someone will
have to wrap up your affairs after you die, so it may as well be you, now,
while youre living. So step into your power, safeguard your children's future,
and cement your role as the heart and protector of your family. In the process of getting your estate planning handled, when
you work with an Estate Planning Law firm, youre going to learn a tremendous
amount about your finances, and your financial literacy is going to grow in a
way that will result in you feeling exponentially more financially secure and
clear. Financial Protection In Case of LossEstate planning is especially vital if the unthinkable
happens and your spouse or partner dies. Many mothers face not only devastating
emotional loss but also the potential for significant financial instability -
especially if you arent the primary breadwinner in your family. An effective
estate plan, however, includes setting up mechanisms such as life insurance,
trusts, and instructions for pension or retirement benefits, which can provide
you with financial support when its most needed. Theres absolutely no reason
you and your children need to compromise your lifestyle should something happen
to your partner. For example, an estate plan ensures that you have access to
joint assets and that any individual assets held by your spouse or partner are
transferred to you or your children without delay. This can be critical in
preventing financial hardship during an already challenging time, ensuring that
you have the resources needed to maintain your home, cover living expenses, and
continue to provide for your childrens needs.The Estate Planning Law Firm DifferenceBy now, it should be clear that creating an effective estate
plan that honors your wishes and secures your and your familys financial
future isnt as simple as creating a Will. Its more complicated than that and
can be overwhelming, particularly with the legal jargon and the multitude of
decisions that need to be made. These decisions are hard, too. When youre
living your life, probably the last thing you want to think about is your
death. Youd probably rather have a root canal. Fortunately, you don't have to navigate the process alone.
Estate Planning Law firms, like ours, are uniquely trained, and trusted
advisors who can guide you through the process, ensuring that your plan fits
your specific circumstances and family dynamics. Heres a bonus: An Estate Planning Lawyer can also advise
you on tax implications and the best ways to structure your finances to benefit
you and your heirs. Yay! (Unless you want to pay extra taxes and give your
money to the government instead of your kids, then knock yourself out).Finally, an Estate Planning Lawyer is committed to serving
you and your family for the long term by checking in to update your plan as
life changes, assets change and your kids grow. By working with an Estate
Planning Law firm, you create a plan that is thorough, thoughtful and
works when you and your family need it to. Contact Entrusted Legacy Law at 412-347-1731 or click here to schedule a complimentary 15-Minute call. This article is a service of Entrusted Legacy Law. We
dont just draft documents; we ensure you make informed and empowered decisions
about life and death, for yourself and the people you love. That's why we offer
a Life and Legacy Planning Session, during which you will get more financially
organized than youve ever been before, and make all the best choices for the
people you love. You can begin by calling our
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content only and is not intended to act as legal advice.