Socialization is the Best Medicine

Sometimes my organizing clients are less-than-thrilled when they realize that they are going to need to invest some money to get organized. Often, they have the double-whammy of realizing that 1) theyve already spent a lot of money on things they dont want or need and 2) they need to spend more money on services like professional organizing and junk hauling to get their place organized. I feel their pain. When I got organized myself about 10 years ago, it hurt when I thought about how much money I had spent on clothes that were headed to Goodwill. I called 1-800-GOT-JUNK to clear out my garage, and I couldnt believe that my bill was over $1,000. Who knew trash hauling was so expensive? You know the saying no pain, no gain? When it comes to organizing, I believe a little bit of pain is actually a good thing, because it motivates us to create lasting changes. My own painful experience with decluttering has helped me stay organized for years, and inspired me to become a professional organizer. Although there are some upfront costs to organizing, getting organized can be a money-saver over the long term. So if you are thinking about getting organized, its actually a long-term investment that is going to save you money over time. Heres how:  Eliminate expensive storage unitsThere has been a boom in self-storage units in recent years. Storage units can be helpful resources if you have a short gap between moving out of your old place and into your new one. But if you are using a storage unit to store extra stuff for more than a few months, the cost can really add up (this article estimates that it costs an average of $2,000 a year to keep your stuff in a small storage unit). Ive helped clients clear out their storage units, which immediately starts saving them hundreds of dollars a month.     Stop buying things you already have Have you ever run out and bought a roll of masking tape, then later found six more rolls stuffed in a drawer somewhere? Weve all been there. Americans collectively spend an estimated $2.7 billion a year replacing lost items. Organizing makes it easier to find and use what you already have, so you dont have to waste your time or money buying duplicates of things you already have.Cut down on fees and convenience costsSomething that surprised me about getting organized was how much time it saved me. Once I could easily find the things I needed to get out the door in the morning or whip up a quick dinner, I was less rushed. And having a little more slack in my schedule meant that I could take public transit instead of an Uber, or make dinner at home instead of ordering takeout, which ended up saving me money. If you struggle with paying late fees because you cant find your bills or remember when they need to be paid, getting organized can help you eliminate those  unnecessary fees.Change your shopping habits for goodAfter going through my own painful decluttering experience, I realized that the way I was shopping led me to over-buying, which was not only cluttering my house, but wasting money. (I wrote a whole blog post about how I started shopping differently after getting organized, if you want to learn more about how organizing can change your shopping habits.) Since then, Im much more critical about what I decide to buy because I dont want to have to do a massive decluttering again. Resell unused itemsWhile decluttering, a lot of my clients come across unwanted items they can resell. While its not exactly a way to make money (because items sold secondhand usually sell for much less than their original price), reselling can help you recoup some of your original expenditure. I even had one client who offset most of her organizing costs by having me sell things she didnt want anymore. If youre not sure where to start when it comes to reselling, I can help you. If organizing feels daunting or too expensive, remember that clutter has a cost, too. In the long run, decluttering and creating systems that work for you will save you time, money, and your mental health. If youre ready to get organized, book a free consultation with me. 

You've spent years making your house feel like home, celebrating milestones, making each room your own, and turning neighbors into friends. As you look ahead to the next chapter of your life, it's natural to wonder if this is still the place you want to spend it.Whether you're leaning toward staying in your house as you get older or moving to a 55+ community, the goal is the same: a home that fits the life you want, with more time for the people and things you love. So, here's what to consider before you decide.What It Can Take To Stay PutWanting to stay in a house you love and are familiar with makes sense. But most houses need at least some updates to make aging in place easier.In fact, the Joint Center for Housing Studies of Harvard University (JCHS) finds that fewer than 4% of homes have the basics, like single-floor living, no-step entries, and wide hallways and doorways (see graph below):That means for most homeowners, staying put means doing a remodel.The National Association of Home Builders (NAHB) reports more than half of remodelers (56%) take on this kind of work. Some of the most common projects are installing grab bars, curb-less showers (walk-in showers with no ledge to step over), and wider doorways.Now, thats not to say you cant go this route. You most certainly can. But if this is how youre leaning just know you'd be living with contractor noise and dust until the work gets done. Some people dont want to live in a construction zone. Not to mention, having to manage the contractors and schedules, etc.Your Equity Could Pay for Your Next MoveIf that sounds like something youd rather avoid, heres the good news. The money for your next home may already be sitting in your current one. It's called equity, which is the difference between what your house is worth and what you still owe on it. After years of mortgage payments and rising home values, it adds up. Jess Catorc, Co-Founder of Carry, explains:"The way home equity builds and is used changes a lot depending on your stage of life. . . . For older homeowners, decades of mortgage payments and home-value growth can turn equity into a financial cushion."When you sell, that cushion can go toward a home that's ready for this stage of life. No demo required. You just get the keys and its all there, ready for you. That means less time on projects and more time for living. And one option you may consider if youre entertaining a move is a 55+ plus community.Why 55+ Communities Are Worth a Look From the homes to the shared spaces to the activity calendar, these communities are planned around this stage of life. And that means everything you need is already rolled into one place. Rocket Mortgage lists some of the biggest perks (see visual below):Instead of spending time and money to make your house easier to live in, you'd move into a community that's designed with that in mind from the jump. That frees you up for the good stuff, like a morning walk with a neighbor, a game night down the street, or finally trying the hobby you've been putting off.Bottom LineStaying and moving can both be good choices. What matters most is finding the place where you'll feel comfortable and at home for years to come.If you'd like help weighing the two, let's connect. We can look at what your house could sell for and what 55+ communities in our area have to offer, so you can decide what feels right for you.

Through its Thanksgiving To-Go Kits and year-round intergenerational programming, GIFT (Giving It Forward, Together) is changing the way Pittsburgh thinks about aging, social isolation, and the power of human connection.As the holiday season approaches, many families begin thinking about Thanksgiving traditions: gathering around the table, sharing a warm meal, exchanging stories, and spending time with the people they love. But for thousands of older adults, the holidays can look very different. For individuals who are homebound, living with physical or cognitive disabilities, immunocompromised, or experiencing social isolation, a holiday that traditionally celebrates togetherness can instead serve as a reminder of the connections they may be missing.This is where GIFT (Giving It Forward, Together) makes a meaningful difference.For 11 years, GIFT has been creating opportunities for connection, purpose, and belonging throughout the Pittsburgh community. Through its weekly intergenerational programming and annual holiday initiatives, GIFT has made a tremendous impact, serving close to 1,000 older adults and bringing together people of different ages and backgrounds through meaningful acts of service.At the heart of GIFT's mission is a simple but powerful belief: Everyone deserves to feel seen, valued, and connected, regardless of age or circumstance.Thanksgiving To-Go Kits: More Than a Meal, a Reminder That Someone CaresOne of GIFT's most meaningful initiatives each year is its Thanksgiving To-Go Kit program. Designed specifically for older adults who may otherwise have difficulty celebrating the holiday, these thoughtfully assembled kits provide more than just the necessities for a Thanksgiving meal. They deliver a message that someone in the community is thinking about them.Last year, GIFT distributed more than 800 Thanksgiving kits to older adults throughout the Pittsburgh area. Each kit included fresh, hot holiday food, handwritten cards, and small gifts carefully selected to bring comfort and joy. While the meal itself is important, the thought and intention behind each item are what make the experience especially meaningful.Every kit is curated by students in the Pittsburgh community and assembled by volunteers of all ages and stages of life. From students and families to older adults and community members, people come together with one shared purpose: ensuring that someone who might otherwise feel forgotten during the holidays knows they are remembered.The kits are designed to provide recipients with the essential components needed to celebrate Thanksgiving in the comfort of their own homes. For someone who cannot easily shop, prepare a meal, or participate in traditional holiday gatherings, receiving a complete holiday experience can be incredibly meaningful.But perhaps the most important part of the kit cannot be measured by what is inside the box. It is the feeling of opening the door and realizing that someone took the time to think of you. It is the handwritten card, the carefully chosen gift, and the knowledge that people who may never have met you wanted to make your holiday special.It is not simply a meal being delivered. It is a reminder that you matter.For individuals experiencing isolation, that message can make an extraordinary difference.The Power of Feeling Seen: Why Purpose and Connection Matter as We AgeSocial isolation and loneliness among older adults are increasingly recognized as important public health concerns. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), social isolation and loneliness are associated with increased risks of depression, anxiety, heart disease, stroke, cognitive decline, and premature death.Research from the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine has similarly identified social isolation and loneliness as significant risk factors affecting the health and well-being of older adults.But addressing isolation requires more than simply putting people in a room together. Meaningful connection happens when individuals feel that they have something to contribute, that their presence matters, and that they are part of something larger than themselves.This is the philosophy behind GIFT.Per the US Census Bureau, Allegheny County (home to Pittsburgh) ranks as one of the oldest U.S. counties by median and senior age distributionfrequently cited as the sixth-oldest or among the top 10 oldest counties in the U.S. by population percentage, with roughly 19% to 27% of its population aged 65 and older. Through opportunities to participate, volunteer, share experiences, and build relationships, GIFT creates an environment where older adults are not viewed simply as recipients of services, but as valued contributors to their communities.There is an important distinction between being cared for and being given the opportunity to give back. Both matter, but purpose can be just as important as support.Research on intergenerational engagement reinforces this idea. A 2021 systematic review published in Ageing Research Reviews, examining 44 studies, identified potential benefits of intergenerational participation for older adults, including improvements in social functioning, anxiety, and physical activity. A 2023 meta-analysis also found positive associations between intergenerational programs and older adults' quality of life, generativity (the feeling of contributing to future generations), and depressive symptoms.Although researchers continue to study the long-term effects of these programs, the findings support something GIFT sees in its community every day: meaningful relationships and opportunities to contribute can enrich the lives of both generations.Bridging the Generational Gap: Creating a More Empathetic FutureWhile GIFT is committed to improving the lives of older adults, its mission extends well beyond one generation.For many young people, their primary exposure to older adults may be limited to their own grandparents or family members. Without opportunities to interact with people from different generations, young adults may have limited insight into the challenges, experiences, abilities, and contributions of the broader senior population.GIFT works to change that.Through weekly intergenerational programming, students and older adults come together to share experiences, collaborate on meaningful projects, and learn from one another. These interactions create opportunities for students to develop empathy, communication skills, and a deeper understanding of aging.At the same time, older adults have opportunities to share their wisdom, life experiences, perspectives, and talents. They are reminded that their voices matter and that they continue to have an important role in shaping the world around them.The result is a relationship that benefits everyone involved.When younger generations have the opportunity to build genuine relationships with older adults, they begin to see aging differently. Rather than viewing older adults through stereotypes or assumptions, they begin to recognize individuals with unique stories, abilities, interests, and aspirations.This is how communities become more compassionate. It starts with creating opportunities for people to know one another.Rethinking Aging: Moving Beyond Traditional Senior ProgrammingGIFT believes that aging should not mean becoming disconnected from the community or losing a sense of purpose. Instead, it should be an opportunity to continue growing, contributing, learning, and building relationships.As life expectancy increases, the conversation surrounding aging needs to evolve. It is no longer enough to focus solely on living longer. We must also consider how we can support people in aging better.Regardless of cultural, ethnic, racial, or socioeconomic differences, aging is something every person shares. It is one of the few experiences that connects us all.GIFT is working to make that shared experience more meaningful by creating opportunities for intergenerational wellness, community involvement, and purposeful engagement.And this commitment does not end with Thanksgiving.In addition to Thanksgiving To-Go Kits, GIFT provides annual Passover To-Go and Winter Holiday Kits. Each initiative is thoughtfully curated and designed by students in the Pittsburgh community, with volunteers helping bring the kits to life. Whether providing the necessities for a Passover Seder, a warm and festive winter package, or a complete Thanksgiving celebration, each kit is created with the same intention: helping older adults feel remembered, included, and cared for.Together, these programs demonstrate how simple acts of kindness, when organized around a shared purpose, can create meaningful community impact.A Pittsburgh Community Where Everyone BelongsAfter 11 years, GIFT continues to demonstrate that addressing social isolation requires a community-wide commitment. It takes students willing to learn, volunteers willing to give their time, and community members willing to recognize that older adults deserve opportunities for connection just as much as anyone else.The Thanksgiving To-Go Kits are a beautiful example of what can happen when generations come together with a common purpose. A student thoughtfully selects the contents, volunteers assemble each package, and an older adult receives something that communicates far more than the value of the items inside.They receive a reminder that they are part of a community.As GIFT looks ahead, its vision remains focused on bridging generations, challenging the way society views aging, and creating a future where people of every age feel valued and connected.Because ultimately, the goal is not simply to add more years to life, but to add more life, meaning, and connection to those years.Do you know an older adult who would benefit from a Thanksgiving To-Go Kit or one of GIFT's annual holiday kits? Whether someone is homebound, isolated, living with a disability, or simply could use a little extra kindness this holiday season, GIFT wants to help make sure they are not forgotten.To learn more about GIFT, explore its programs, or inquire about holiday kit recipients and volunteer opportunities, visit www.giftpgh.org.Together, we can make sure that no one feels forgotten and that every generation has an opportunity to give, receive, and grow.