Taking Care of Older Adults: Top 5 Caregiving Considerations to Make

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The National Alliance for Caregiving and the AARP estimate that more than 53 million Americans are family caregivers: People of all ages who provide care, support, and assistance for a loved one. This number is almost certainly a low estimate and is sure to increase as more Baby Boomers age and require help to achieve their health, wellness, and everyday living goals. 

Family caregivers do an incredible amount of work to ensure that aging loved ones are safe, secure, and healthy. But what does taking care of an aging loved one in your home really look like? If you’re new to the role of family caregiver, it’s important to understand the realities of caregiving and know when to consider senior living for the benefit of yourself and your loved one.

Daily Needs for Elder Care: Top 5 Things to Consider

While not all older adults will need all of these forms of assistance, it’s important to plan ahead for changing needs. Don’t forget to consider your own health and well-being in this equation, too—be honest and compassionate toward yourself as you determine whether you can be an effective caregiver or if you need to consider senior living options.

A family caregiver helps an aging relative use a walker

Transportation & Mobility

Older adults face mobility challenges for numerous reasons. As people age, their muscle strength can decrease by as much as 50%. Combined with the natural deterioration of neurons that help with motor functions, this loss of muscle can make it hard for older people to drive, walk, use stairs, and more.

Remaining as mobile as possible is critical for people’s overall health, well-being, and sense of confidence, which means caregivers may need to help elders:

  • Get in and out of beds, chairs, cars, etc.
  • Use walking aids or get around in a wheelchair
  • Safely go up or down stairs
  • Drive to doctor’s appointments & social engagements
  • Make home modifications for safety, such as widening doors, installing grab bars and handrails, removing trip hazards, decluttering, improving lighting, and maintaining flooring 

Meal Preparation & Meal Planning

Did you know that our nutrition needs change as we get older? A healthy diet is important at all stages of life, but for people over 55, getting the right balance of calories, nutrients, and vitamins can help prevent and manage chronic conditions, support muscle health and mobility, and much more.

Of course, older adults face unique barriers to getting the nutrients they need. Diminished taste and smell senses can make food seem less appealing, and conditions like dementia can make chewing and swallowing difficult. Caregivers are a crucial part of supporting nutritional needs and may need to:

  • Make weekly meal plans
  • Cook meals 
  • Go grocery shopping
  • Find creative ways to encourage eating and drinking enough water
  • Supervise meals to ensure safe and comfortable eating routines
  • Consult with a loved one’s physicians to understand their nutritional needs and avoid foods that have negative interactions with medications, health conditions, etc.

Housekeeping & Home Maintenance

Housekeeping is never easy, but it can be particularly challenging for older adults. If you’re a family caregiver, you may be called upon to help your loved one with anything from laundry to lawn care.

When considering your ability to provide care for a loved one, make sure to factor in household help, such as:

  • Laundry
  • Kitchen cleaning (washing dishes, cleaning countertops, taking out the trash)
  • Bathroom cleaning (cleaning tubs, showers, sinks, and toilets)
  • Vacuuming, sweeping, mopping, window cleaning, etc.
  • Gardening/landscaping 
  • General home maintenance (replacing air filters, appliance upkeep, etc.)

Personal Care: Bathing, Dressing, Continence Care, & More

Personal hygiene is one of the most emotionally charged caregiving tasks. Sometimes, older adults feel embarrassed or ashamed when a family member has to help them with things like bathing, dressing, grooming, and especially toileting. Without the right approach, these interactions can be particularly taxing to both parties. 

Maintaining a person’s dignity while helping them with personal care tasks should be a top priority. Personal care tasks may include helping a person:

  • Bathe
  • Shave
  • Dress and undress
  • Wash and brush their hair
  • Use and clean continence aids
  • Maintain a healthy skincare routine
  • Keep up with oral hygiene (brushing teeth, etc.)

A family caregiver brushes the hair of an aging relative
Health & Well-Being: Medication Management & More

If your loved one requires skilled nursing care, it’s always best to have a professionally trained caregiver administer it. Still, family caregivers may need to help their loved ones organize their medications and communicate with their doctor to ensure that everyone fully understands their care plan. 

If you are going to be a family caregiver, you may be an integral part of helping your loved one navigate the healthcare landscape, from attending doctor’s visits with them to encouraging healthy behaviors at home like exercise. This extends to their mental health as well, making sure that they have everything they need to stay connected to a social network, participate in activities that bring them joy, and remain engaged with life’s meaningful moments.

Understanding the Realities of Caregiving

The choice of whether to take care of an aging loved one at home or consider senior living is difficult. If you are newly taking on the role of family caregiver, or if you’ve been handling this responsibility for a while and are feeling burned out, being realistic about your own abilities—and your loved one’s care needs—is critical.

Depending on the level of assistance they need, caring for an older person can be a full-time job. And if you’re stretched too thin—emotionally, physically, or financially—you won’t be able to provide the best possible care. While it may be hard to think about at first, in many cases, senior living communities are the best option for everyone involved.

Take some time to think about your situation as critically as you can. 

  • Does your loved one have needs that you are unqualified or struggle to fulfill? 
  • Are you confident that their environment is safe, supportive, and connected? 
  • Is your loved one not just surviving but thriving?
  • How much money do you spend taking care of your loved one at home? Include expenses like additional utility bills, extra groceries, medical needs, accessibility devices, transportation-related costs, home modifications, and more.
  • Is caregiving having a negative impact on your other responsibilities (work, child-rearing, etc.)?

Get Personalized Help Exploring Your Senior Living Options

If you have been providing unpaid care for a loved one or are preparing to take on this role, you may benefit from additional support. Senior living options can provide that support, and CarePatrol is here to help you find the perfect community. 

We are a network of local senior care experts offering hands-on, concierge-style assistance to help you find the perfect assisted living, independent living, or memory care community for your loved one’s needs and your family’s budget. Best of all, we offer our services at no cost to you! 

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(source: CDC)8 Warning Signs to Look for After an Elderly FallHere are eight of the biggest symptoms to look for after a fall, so you can decide if your loved one should seek medical attention immediately or if they can rest and feel better without medical intervention.1. Lacerations & BruisingLacerations, cuts, and bruises are some of the most common slips and fall accident injuries, especially in older adults. These injuries can also occur from walking into furniture or the corner of a countertop, preparing food, or in countless other ways.Most small lacerations and small bruises can be easily treated at home unless your elderly loved one has a bleeding disorder or other condition that could mean cuts and bruises require them to seek medical attention promptly.Size and Placement MatterAfter a slip-and-fall accident, the size and placement of the cuts or bruises matter. If your loved one has a large abdominal bruise and stomach pain, for example, that can be much more of a concern than smaller bruises on their arm.Additionally, lacerations in areas that are difficult to heal can be problematic, especially if the cut is deep or does not want to stop bleeding. It is better to err on the side of caution by reaching out to a medical professional or going to the emergency room, just to make sure your loved one is safe.2. Behavioral ChangesBehavioral changes after a fall are a definite cause for concern. These changes can be caused by traumatic brain injuries and other types of head injuries or even internal bleeding. Medical assistance is a good idea anytime an older adult exhibits a notable change in behavior, especially after a fall.It is also possible that serious internal bleeding, a stroke, or other problems are causing the changes and may have also caused the fall itself. Medical attention is the key to discovering the severity of the problem.3. Neck & Head InjuryHead injury symptoms to look for after a fall include headaches, dizziness, and difficulty moving the neck, with or without neck pain. Light may be too bright, as well, and the persons pupils could be uneven or not reacting properly.If you notice symptoms like this with a fall injury, it is important to rule out a severe head injury. You will want to seek medical treatment immediately and get a professional medical evaluation to rule out other medical issues.4. Swelling, Tingling, & Restricted MobilityWhen elderly loved one has a slip and fall accident, they can easily end up with broken bones, a head injury, spinal cord injuries, or other serious injury symptoms. If you see that a joint or other area is swollen, they have tingling in their extremities, or they are dealing with restricted mobility, they need medical care.Avoiding Care Can Lead to Chronic PainWithout medical treatment, there can be ongoing pain along with a broken bone or other injury that does not heal right. Even if the senior is not interested in seeking medical attention or does not want to bother anyone, it is important to have the affected limb or other area examined and treated.5. Irregular HeartbeatHaving an irregular heartbeat can be the cause of a fall, but it can also happen after a fall, as well. A medical evaluation will help determine the cause of the irregularity, so it can be treated and reduce future risks.Sometimes, an irregular heartbeat can cause dizziness or even a temporary loss of consciousness. In those instances, a fall could be quite common. If your elderly loved one has fall injuries that are not easily explained, or they start falling often, a medical professional can help discover what caused the initial accident and work to prevent future fall accidents.6. Tenderness & PainAcute injuries such as hip fractures, back injuries, neck injuries, wrist injuries, and soft tissue damage can cause pain and tenderness in the area. Many fall-related injuries create discomfort and can even lead to nerve damage or serious pain that lingers for a long time.Anytime an elderly person falls and has clear injury symptoms such as sharp pain or tenderness, it is wise to take them to the emergency room, urgent care, or their main healthcare professional.Depending on how they fell and whether they struck anything on their way down, they could even have internal injuries that need treatment right away.7. Vomiting & IncontinenceStomach pain (with or without vomiting), incontinence, or both can also be signs of internal injuries, a brain injury, or other concerns. If your older loved one is experiencing either one or both issues after a slip and fall, they could have head injuries or significant health problems.You need to seek medical attention promptly for these kinds of symptoms since they could indicate severe injuries. Internal bleeding, for example, could cause sharp pain and vomiting. Additionally, a stroke or related health problem could cause a fall and vomiting or incontinence issues.8. Vision ProblemsVision problems are another symptom to look for after a fall. They can be signs of a stroke or head injury and should be taken seriously. Diminished vision is common in elderly people, but a traumatic brain injury from a fall can quickly transform low vision into almost no vision.Additionally, you want to seek medical treatment for any serious injury that causes vision problems. There are multiple ways that vision could be affected, and traumatic brain injuries are not the only serious problems that affect the eyes. If your loved one cannot see properly after a fall, get them immediate medical attention.Causes of Falls in the ElderlyThere are many types of fall injuries in the elderly. Slip and fall accidents are more common and frequently cause more serious injuries in older people.While it is not possible to prevent every fall, knowing the most common causes can help you look for ways to make your elderly loved ones living environment safer.Anything can cause someone to fall, but the most common causes of falls in older adults include:Age-related loss of muscle massBalance problemsLoss of vision, hearing, and reflexesMedical conditionsSome kinds of medicationsPain or other issues with the feetCognitive impairmentRushing, such as when experiencing incontinenceSafety hazards like clutter or uneven surfacesAddressing any medical conditions that could lead to a slip and fall accident is an important way to reduce the chances of head injuries, broken bones, and other problems for your aging loved one.A fall injury can lead to chronic pain, fear of living alone, or even a brain injury, so it is vital to make changes that keep the risk of falling as low as possible.How to Prevent FallsAlong with knowing the symptoms to look for after a fall and the leading causes of falls in the elderly, it is important to learn how to prevent falls from occurring and causing severe pain and other serious injuries.Prevention can make a significant difference in your elderly loved ones quality of life. Here are a few ways to reduce their chances of taking a fall.Get Moving to Lower Fall RiskOne great way to prevent falls is to stay active. If your aging family member or loved one is very sedentary, encouraging them to get moving can help. They may not want to exercise, but there are all kinds of enjoyable activities that do not require running or going to the gym.While it is true that staying physically active can reduce falls accidents, anyone who has not exercised in a while or has health concerns should still have a medical evaluation before they get started. That can help determine what level of exercise is safe.Building muscle strength is crucial for maintaining overall health and mobility, especially for older adults, and can be effectively achieved through activities like walking, swimming, strength training, and balance exercises, as well as climbing stairs, using resistance bands, practicing yoga, and engaging in sports such as golf or bowling, provided there are no significant balance issues. (source: STEADI resources)Test Eyes and HearingVision and hearing loss can both lead to a higher chance of falling, and the broken bones, medical expenses, and other issues that come along with it. Even if your loved one does not notice symptoms, seeking medical attention to determine their current level of health can provide valuable information to work with.Another reason to seek medical attention for eyes, hearing, and cognitive abilities is that finding a small problem can sometimes lead to diagnosing a larger issue. 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Because a slip and fall accident can lead to so many different issues, and cause your loved one to seek medical attention, the goal is to keep them from falling.Having in-home services to watch over your aging family member can mean fewer slip-and-fall injuries and a lower chance of your loved one needing physical therapy or other treatments to get back to moving again. Treating their injuries carefully will help them heal faster, but the best choice is to avoid the injuries entirely.Even if they only suffered minor injuries from a fall, you do not want your loved one to keep falling in the future. Additional slip and fall accidents can mean more serious injuries, and not all broken bones heal well. 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Paranoia in Elderly Loved Ones Caregivers Offer Stability

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Avoid Risks of Hiring a Private Caregiver With FirstLight

When looking for senior care, many people search for an individual home caregiver because they dont know what their options are. However, they are often unprepared for the risks of hiring a private caregiver and find some unexpected downsides, including caregiver availability and backup care for when a regular caregiver isnt accessible. Instead of directly hiring a caregiver on their own, many families looking for private caregivers find they prefer the flexibility and reliability of a home care agency. With high-quality caregivers and consistent service built to suit your loved ones needs, a home care agency can give you complete peace of mind. Get Caregivers Backed by a Team When you work with a home care agency, you dont just get an individual caregiver; you get an entire team. Your caregiver or caregivers are supported by a group of other caregivers and expert staff who provide additional resources and backup. If your regular caregiver is unavailable for any reason, the agency will send a substitute caregiver to cover for them. You can rest assured knowing that even if the caregiver calls in sick or changes jobs, your loved one will still receive the best care available. Get an Agency-Crafted Care Plan Home care agencies dont just handle the basics. Theyll also customize your loved ones care to meet to ensure their unique needs are met. Independent seniors living alone might need simple personal care services, while those with serious health issues may need more intensive assistance, and a home care agency knows exactly how to handle each level of care needed. Before care begins, a good home care agency will send an expert staff member to consult with you and your loved one about the level of care needed. Theyll listen with kindness and empathy, and work to understand your unique needs. By asking insightful questions based on their experience, theyre often able to identify needs that seniors werent even aware of. Once theyve taken stock of the needs, challenges and situation at hand, your agency will work with you to build a care plan. This plan will guide caregivers from day one, showing them the best ways to aid and comfort your loved one. From shifting schedules to evolving medical needs, your loved one might not always need the same kind of care. Thats why your agency will check with you periodically to see how the plan is working. You can also reach out to them and modify the plan at any time. Get Proven Caregivers Home care agencies like FirstLight Home Care hire caregivers carefully. They perform interviews, assessments and detailed background checks to ensure every caregiver is empathetic, trustworthy and able to perform all in-home caregiver job duties. Many agencies also give their caregivers professional training, so you can rest assured that your caregiver has the right skills to help your loved one. Many of them also have caregivers specifically trained to help with conditions like dementia and ALS. Performance Management Home care agencies know how important it is that your loved one receives top-quality care that specifically meets their needs, and hold themselves and their caregivers to high standards. You always know your loved one is in the hands of a well-trained, accountable caregiver who genuinely looks out for them. Get Peace of Mind with FirstLight Home Care Excellent home care, like the care given by FirstLight Home Care providers, doesnt just provide support for your loved one, it also gives you peace of mind. Avoid the stress, complications and risks of hiring a private caregiver with FirstLight on your side, youll always know that your loved one is in the ands of a capable team that puts their well-being first. If youre ready to get have an expert in-home caregiver team on your side, wed love to learn about their needs. Contact us and well connect you with a FirstLight team in your area!   

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