Talking to Mom and Dad About Assisted Living Can Be Difficult

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Jan 31, 2025

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Approaching this sensitive topic with your senior parents requires compassion and understanding. Here are some suggestions on how you could communicate with them:  

1. Express Your Concern: Start by expressing your love and concern for their well-being. Let them know that you want what’s best for them and that you are worried about their safety and health. 

 2. Share Observations: Talk about specific instances where you’ve noticed challenges they may face at home, such as difficulty managing household tasks, taking medications on time, or getting around safely.

3. Discuss the Benefits: Highlight the benefits of moving into an assisted-living facility, such as access to on-site care, social activities, and a supportive community that can enhance their quality of life. 

 4. Involve Them in the Decision: Involve your parents in the decision-making process by discussing their preferences and concerns. This can help them feel empowered and in control of the decision.  

5. Offer Support: Reassure your parents that you will support them throughout the transition and visit them regularly to ensure they are comfortable and happy in their new living arrangement. Remember to approach the conversation with empathy and patience, allowing your parents to share their thoughts and feelings about the idea of moving into an assisted living facility.  


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