The Best Way to Shape Your Future is to Plan

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Apr 24, 2020

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Imagine the next stage of your life. What does your day look like? What does your health look like? Maybe youre living in your current home part-time and traveling the world. Perhaps you moved to a retirement community where you enjoy pickleball and happy hour like clockwork. Or maybe youve decided to move closer to family, so you can spend time with your grandchildren.
Whatever youre doing, youve taken steps to shape your future and live comfortably. You have a plan. When it comes to your health and finances, you want to be in control. Thats why its so important to plan now for retirement and any future care you may need. Planning for long-term care and appointing a decision-maker is one of the best gifts to yourself, and to your family.
Your family shouldnt have to guess what your intentions are if youre ever not able to communicate. Set the standard for the quality of life you desire as you age. Put your wishes on paper and appoint a professional to see them through.
Editors Note: This article was submitted by Good Shepherd Fund, a nonprofit organization dedicated to providing support services to enhance the quality of life of aging adults and people with disabilities. They may be reached at 720-726-3111.

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