The Importance of Community & Connection For Seniors

Through its Thanksgiving To-Go Kits and year-round intergenerational programming, GIFT (Giving It Forward, Together) is changing the way Pittsburgh thinks about aging, social isolation, and the power of human connection.As the holiday season approaches, many families begin thinking about Thanksgiving traditions: gathering around the table, sharing a warm meal, exchanging stories, and spending time with the people they love. But for thousands of older adults, the holidays can look very different. For individuals who are homebound, living with physical or cognitive disabilities, immunocompromised, or experiencing social isolation, a holiday that traditionally celebrates togetherness can instead serve as a reminder of the connections they may be missing.This is where GIFT (Giving It Forward, Together) makes a meaningful difference.For 11 years, GIFT has been creating opportunities for connection, purpose, and belonging throughout the Pittsburgh community. Through its weekly intergenerational programming and annual holiday initiatives, GIFT has made a tremendous impact, serving close to 1,000 older adults and bringing together people of different ages and backgrounds through meaningful acts of service.At the heart of GIFT's mission is a simple but powerful belief: Everyone deserves to feel seen, valued, and connected, regardless of age or circumstance.Thanksgiving To-Go Kits: More Than a Meal, a Reminder That Someone CaresOne of GIFT's most meaningful initiatives each year is its Thanksgiving To-Go Kit program. Designed specifically for older adults who may otherwise have difficulty celebrating the holiday, these thoughtfully assembled kits provide more than just the necessities for a Thanksgiving meal. They deliver a message that someone in the community is thinking about them.Last year, GIFT distributed more than 800 Thanksgiving kits to older adults throughout the Pittsburgh area. Each kit included fresh, hot holiday food, handwritten cards, and small gifts carefully selected to bring comfort and joy. While the meal itself is important, the thought and intention behind each item are what make the experience especially meaningful.Every kit is curated by students in the Pittsburgh community and assembled by volunteers of all ages and stages of life. From students and families to older adults and community members, people come together with one shared purpose: ensuring that someone who might otherwise feel forgotten during the holidays knows they are remembered.The kits are designed to provide recipients with the essential components needed to celebrate Thanksgiving in the comfort of their own homes. For someone who cannot easily shop, prepare a meal, or participate in traditional holiday gatherings, receiving a complete holiday experience can be incredibly meaningful.But perhaps the most important part of the kit cannot be measured by what is inside the box. It is the feeling of opening the door and realizing that someone took the time to think of you. It is the handwritten card, the carefully chosen gift, and the knowledge that people who may never have met you wanted to make your holiday special.It is not simply a meal being delivered. It is a reminder that you matter.For individuals experiencing isolation, that message can make an extraordinary difference.The Power of Feeling Seen: Why Purpose and Connection Matter as We AgeSocial isolation and loneliness among older adults are increasingly recognized as important public health concerns. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), social isolation and loneliness are associated with increased risks of depression, anxiety, heart disease, stroke, cognitive decline, and premature death.Research from the National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine has similarly identified social isolation and loneliness as significant risk factors affecting the health and well-being of older adults.But addressing isolation requires more than simply putting people in a room together. Meaningful connection happens when individuals feel that they have something to contribute, that their presence matters, and that they are part of something larger than themselves.This is the philosophy behind GIFT.Per the US Census Bureau, Allegheny County (home to Pittsburgh) ranks as one of the oldest U.S. counties by median and senior age distributionfrequently cited as the sixth-oldest or among the top 10 oldest counties in the U.S. by population percentage, with roughly 19% to 27% of its population aged 65 and older. Through opportunities to participate, volunteer, share experiences, and build relationships, GIFT creates an environment where older adults are not viewed simply as recipients of services, but as valued contributors to their communities.There is an important distinction between being cared for and being given the opportunity to give back. Both matter, but purpose can be just as important as support.Research on intergenerational engagement reinforces this idea. A 2021 systematic review published in Ageing Research Reviews, examining 44 studies, identified potential benefits of intergenerational participation for older adults, including improvements in social functioning, anxiety, and physical activity. A 2023 meta-analysis also found positive associations between intergenerational programs and older adults' quality of life, generativity (the feeling of contributing to future generations), and depressive symptoms.Although researchers continue to study the long-term effects of these programs, the findings support something GIFT sees in its community every day: meaningful relationships and opportunities to contribute can enrich the lives of both generations.Bridging the Generational Gap: Creating a More Empathetic FutureWhile GIFT is committed to improving the lives of older adults, its mission extends well beyond one generation.For many young people, their primary exposure to older adults may be limited to their own grandparents or family members. Without opportunities to interact with people from different generations, young adults may have limited insight into the challenges, experiences, abilities, and contributions of the broader senior population.GIFT works to change that.Through weekly intergenerational programming, students and older adults come together to share experiences, collaborate on meaningful projects, and learn from one another. These interactions create opportunities for students to develop empathy, communication skills, and a deeper understanding of aging.At the same time, older adults have opportunities to share their wisdom, life experiences, perspectives, and talents. They are reminded that their voices matter and that they continue to have an important role in shaping the world around them.The result is a relationship that benefits everyone involved.When younger generations have the opportunity to build genuine relationships with older adults, they begin to see aging differently. Rather than viewing older adults through stereotypes or assumptions, they begin to recognize individuals with unique stories, abilities, interests, and aspirations.This is how communities become more compassionate. It starts with creating opportunities for people to know one another.Rethinking Aging: Moving Beyond Traditional Senior ProgrammingGIFT believes that aging should not mean becoming disconnected from the community or losing a sense of purpose. Instead, it should be an opportunity to continue growing, contributing, learning, and building relationships.As life expectancy increases, the conversation surrounding aging needs to evolve. It is no longer enough to focus solely on living longer. We must also consider how we can support people in aging better.Regardless of cultural, ethnic, racial, or socioeconomic differences, aging is something every person shares. It is one of the few experiences that connects us all.GIFT is working to make that shared experience more meaningful by creating opportunities for intergenerational wellness, community involvement, and purposeful engagement.And this commitment does not end with Thanksgiving.In addition to Thanksgiving To-Go Kits, GIFT provides annual Passover To-Go and Winter Holiday Kits. Each initiative is thoughtfully curated and designed by students in the Pittsburgh community, with volunteers helping bring the kits to life. Whether providing the necessities for a Passover Seder, a warm and festive winter package, or a complete Thanksgiving celebration, each kit is created with the same intention: helping older adults feel remembered, included, and cared for.Together, these programs demonstrate how simple acts of kindness, when organized around a shared purpose, can create meaningful community impact.A Pittsburgh Community Where Everyone BelongsAfter 11 years, GIFT continues to demonstrate that addressing social isolation requires a community-wide commitment. It takes students willing to learn, volunteers willing to give their time, and community members willing to recognize that older adults deserve opportunities for connection just as much as anyone else.The Thanksgiving To-Go Kits are a beautiful example of what can happen when generations come together with a common purpose. A student thoughtfully selects the contents, volunteers assemble each package, and an older adult receives something that communicates far more than the value of the items inside.They receive a reminder that they are part of a community.As GIFT looks ahead, its vision remains focused on bridging generations, challenging the way society views aging, and creating a future where people of every age feel valued and connected.Because ultimately, the goal is not simply to add more years to life, but to add more life, meaning, and connection to those years.Do you know an older adult who would benefit from a Thanksgiving To-Go Kit or one of GIFT's annual holiday kits? Whether someone is homebound, isolated, living with a disability, or simply could use a little extra kindness this holiday season, GIFT wants to help make sure they are not forgotten.To learn more about GIFT, explore its programs, or inquire about holiday kit recipients and volunteer opportunities, visit www.giftpgh.org.Together, we can make sure that no one feels forgotten and that every generation has an opportunity to give, receive, and grow. 

A large part of retirement involves much more leisure time than the years before. Quiet afternoons at home can easily slip into prolonged periods of inactivity, leaving an older adult with little social interaction. This steady isolation can take a heavy toll on daily well-being, impacting both mood and long-term physical health. Loneliness and isolation arent just tough for seniors; they can also leave devoted family caretakers feeling anxious or stretched thin as they try to provide frequent companionship.Fortunately, community living offers a warm and supportive environment that replaces quiet solitude with genuine connection. When a family comes together with their loved one to choose community living, theyre also choosing impactful social engagement, essential health benefits, and peace of mind.A New Chapter Defined By Joy and ConnectionLiving in a senior community with peers creates natural opportunities to build deep, lasting friendships. Suddenly, an adult finds themselves surrounded by a plethora of new neighbors in close proximity, and the entire structure of daily life is framed around fostering a sense of community. The isolation that can sometimes creep in when living alone is replaced by a vibrant social environment. No one has to sit alone for a meal, because senior living provides shared dining experiences where residents can enjoy delicious food while engaging in lively conversation. Beyond meal times, a rich calendar of structured group activities and resident-led clubs brings people together over common interests. Whether its a passion for crafts, a love for classic films during movie nights, a commitment to health and wellness classes, or a competitive game of cards, there are countless ways to connect.Throughout the campus of a community, comfortable and inviting common areas are always bustling with activity. Its easy to find a friendly face available to chat, share a story, or simply enjoy a quiet moment together. At every turn, from the garden pathways to the cozy lounges, theres never a missed moment to make a meaningful connection. All these factors help residents feel a true sense of belonging, as if they are part of a close-knit, caring neighborhood.Nurture Emotional Well-BeingCommunity living isnt just about activities on a calendar, although that is certainly a perk! A supportive, active environment significantly reduces anxiety and brings a renewed sense of purpose to everyday life. A study showed that strong social support can enhance resilience to stress and protect from the psychological effects of trauma, and even help adults live a longer, healthier life. Theres real comfort in being surrounded by compassionate team members and friendly neighbors who genuinely care. Celebrating holidays, birthdays, and life milestones in a community fosters a deep sense of family.A senior living community also provides home maintenance services as an amenity, offering its own stress-reducing benefits. When less time is spent coordinating lawn care or electricity fixes, theres a lot more time freed up to spend on activities that spark joy. This also relieves pressure on adult children or caregivers who would have had to organize these services on behalf of their relative.The Effects of Senior IsolationAs people age, they often find themselves spending more time alone. According to the National Institute on Aging, older adults who are socially isolated or lonely have a higher risk of experiencing conditions such as high blood pressure, anxiety, depression, and cognitive decline. Community living wont just make older adults feel betterthere are real psychological and physical benefits to seeking the right senior living community.  A network of family, friends, and neighbors contributes greatly to happiness and overall contentment. With a proven link between daily social interactions and maintaining strong cognitive health, families will be glad to know that senior living communities go the extra mile. Depending on the community, there are programs designed to bring people together based on shared interests, hobbies, or even health conditions for wellness support. Blending engagement and interpersonal bonds is how communities maximize joy while fulfilling the emotional and physical needs of every resident. Take The First Step TogetherThe right community can work wonders for an adult feeling the effects of senior isolation or loneliness. A caring community environment actively transforms life into a bright, fun chapter filled with strong bonds and emotional security. In many ways, the cognitive and physical health of an older adult depends on moving into a senior living community. The transition feels much easier when families approach this period with positivity and view it as a collaborative journey. This is a time when tours come in handy, especially because they allow adults and their families to observe the atmosphere and find the perfect fit. At Heritage Senior Living, our mission is to create a culture of support and compassion, while still encouraging independence for all residents. We understand this time is one of transformation, and we invite all families and potential residents to visit and see for themselves how beautiful life can be in one of our communities. The decision to transition into a community isnt one families make lightly, and we use the trust given to us as fuel to create an environment where residents truly become family. If youre ready for you or your family member to take the next step, we invite you to find the right Heritage community today, so we can schedule a tour!Key Takeaways: Living in a senior community with peers creates natural, effortless opportunities to build deep, lasting friendships.  A supportive, active environment significantly reduces anxiety and brings a renewed sense of purpose to everyday life.  Older adults who are socially isolated or lonely have a higher risk of experiencing conditions such as high blood pressure, anxiety, depression, and cognitive decline, but senior living communities significantly lower these risks.

This article explores the nuances of high-functioning anxiety, a condition in which individuals carry the internal weight of worry, overthinking, and tension while still showing up, performing well, and appearing composed. It examines the common signs, root causes, and treatment optionsfrom grounding techniques to therapy and medicationwhile emphasizing that those affected often go unrecognized for years because nothing appears wrong on the surface. Ultimately, it underscores that managing anxiety isn't the same as thriving, and that professional support can help individuals move beyond simply holding it all together.Its been a day. Youve answered every important email. Showed up prepared and on time to the weekly meetingheck, you were a few minutes early. Remembered your co-workers birthday. Professionally handled that last-minute curveball. And then still made it home to make dinner. Somehow.By every measure, it looks like youve got it handled. Youre doing greator at least fine.Yet, at the end of the day, no matter how good it all looks to the outside world, it feels like you can never quite shut down completely. You long for peace. For quiet. Yet theres something that continues to buzz in the background.While many people think anxiety always appears as either a panic attack or frantic energy, for a lot of folks, it doesnt look like that at all. Sometimes, it looks like someone whos drivenwho pushes hard to get everything done. Or at least almost everything, even if a few items linger on the to-do list. For others, its waking up at 3 a.m. and mentally replaying a conversation from earlier that day or was that three days ago? Seven years ago? Leaving you wondering why this (of all things) is keeping you up?!From the outside, everything looks fineeven when it absolutely isnt. And thats the paradox of high-functioning anxiety. If the above sounds somewhat familiar, its time to talk. What Is High-Functioning Anxiety?First off, high-functioning anxiety isnt an official diagnosis. Its not listed in the DSM-5. That, however, doesnt make it any less of a real experience for a growing number of people. It describes anyone who carries all the internal weight of anxiety (e.g., the worry, overthinking, physical tension, and dreadfun!), while still somehow managing to show up, perform (often very well), and appear composed. People have described it less as hitting a wall and more like an endless treadmill that never fully powers down and, in fact, tends to ramp up. No matter how exhausted you get from all of that running. You see, high-functioning anxiety can masquerade as ambition or thoroughness. Coworkers, family members, and friends may just see you as the responsible one. And because its under the surface, it can go unrecognized. Sometimes for years.If you dont have a name for whats happening, its easy to assume that theres nothing to address. After all, youre still functioning. Youre still getting stuff done. You still look like more than competent.In truth, though, untreated anxietyeven if its well hidden from the worlddoesnt stay in the background forever. Eventually, it can wear on your sleep, relationships, and physical health. Plus, it often doesnt visit alone, either. Anxiety frequently co-occurs with depression, ADHD, OCD, substance use disorder, trauma-related disorders, and other mental health conditions. And when that happens, the picture can feel even more distorted.How Do I Tell If I Have High-Functioning Anxiety?The tricky thing is that the signs of high-functioning anxiety dont look like symptoms. Many people see them as personality traits or just the way they are. Theyre reliable. Thorough. Good at their job. Thats not anxiety. Thats just being a responsible citizen or perhaps even an overachiever. The difference between someone whos driven and someone whos driven by fear and anxiety, though, isnt about what shows up on the surface. Its about whats going on underneath. There are seven signs that may indicate your experience is more than everyday stress. Theyre not meant to diagnose you. However, they may help you see signs youve been too busy to notice. If you find that several of them hit just a little too close to home, you may want to take our two-minute free anxiety self-assessment quiz to gain clarity. Your brain runs worst-case scenarios on autopilotYoure not a pessimist; youre a planner. And thats helpful and often honest framing. But if you mentally rehearse every possible way something could go wrongeven when the odds are solidly in your favoryour (over)planning could be getting in the way of a life well lived. Before every routine doctors appointment, every work presentationeven just going over notes with the bossor a simple text that hasnt yet gotten a response shouldnt immediately spin into three catastrophes deep. Psychologists describe this as a checklist running in your mind that keeps you in a state of vigilance. And for folks with high-functioning anxiety, it can feel impossible to turn off. It just switches to the next possible catastrophe.Youre exhausted, but slowing down feels impossible.Even if you got the requisite 7 to 8 hours of sleep, you still wake up tense and tired. Why? Because your mind never completely relaxes. Vacation? Sounds great. But its not restorative if you spend the entire time mentally worried about whats happening at home. As much as you may want to have a few moments of calm, when you do stop, it doesnt feel restful. It just feels like youre falling further behind.As one person whos spent decades dealing with high-functioning anxiety described, It feels like anxiety is in the drivers seat on a relentless drive you cant get off. Her only way to deal with it was to keep moving. And that worked. Until it didnt. You replay conversations long after theyre over.Your meeting may have ended hours ago, but youre still turning over every word that was said. Did that comment land wrong? Should I have said something different? Were they frowning when I got up to leave? Before you even know how well the meeting went, your brain filed it under unresolved and started replaying it from every angleoften with some unhelpful narration. Make no mistake, this rumination isnt about being insecure or uncertain. Its anxiety doing what it does: scanning for threatsreal and imaginedand refusing to let something go, even after reviewing it. Whats most frustrating is that no amount of analyzing can quiet that voice.Unwanted thoughts show up once the lights shut off.For many people with high-functioning anxiety, days are manageable. You do what you doaccomplish tasks, fill your roles, look the part, and continue to maintain forward momentum. Then the night comes, and all your carefully maintained structure is stripped away. Under the cover of darkness, the mental noise grows loud. The to-do list for tomorrow, the project you forgot to follow up on, the thing you said, the nagging worry youve kept at arms length all day it all shows up right on schedule once the lights are off. Maybe you find it difficult, if not impossible, to wind down until well past midnight. Perhaps you find it easy to fall asleep, only to wake up at 3 or 4 in the morning, already alert and thinking. It chips away at your much-needed sleep when your nervous system needs that time to recover.You say yes when you really need to say no.You want to help. You truly do. But youre already feeling overwhelmed or close to burned out. The thought of saying no, though. Inconceivable. Saying no means youll disappoint someone. Or be seen as difficult. You cant let them down. That causes a deep level of discomfort thats difficult to describe. Its just not worth the boundary. So, you say yes. You take on more, manage more, deliver more. This pattern is especially common in women, who were often conditioned to show up for others regardless of their own capacity. It can look like generosity or like being a team player. In fact, its anxiety making the decisionsoften before youre even aware of the ask.Your body has been trying to tell you something.This may come as a bit of a surprise, but those tight shoulders that never fully release, a jaw that clenches without you even noticing, headaches that show up every single Sunday evening, a stomach thats always slightly off before any important decision or event arent random inconveniences. Theyre your nervous system communicating what your brain has learned to push past.Unfortunately, many people with high-functioning anxiety have learned to override these signals. Often very well. Theres typically a good, logical reason: bad posture, leaning over a computer for too many hours, not enough water, too much coffee, etc., etc. But when the physical patterns are consistent and tied to stress, theyre messages that should be listened and responded to. Everyone thinks youre fine. This is perhaps the most isolating sign of all. Youve gotten so great at holding it all together that even the people closest to you dont realize youre suffering. Your coworkers see competence. Family sees reliability. And because no one is raising any flags, its easier to convince yourself that you shouldnt raise one either.  You may have become so good at masking it that even your doctor wont pick up on it. This isnt because the anxiety doesnt exist; its because theres nothing on the surface to indicate a problem. Thats why high-functioning anxiety can be carried silently for years. And its also why its so important to name it when you finally do recognize it. Again, if more than a couple of these signs sound uncomfortably familiar, its worth pausing here. The GAD-7 is a clinically validated tool used by mental health professionals to screen for anxiety. You can take it right here, right now, in just a few minutes, to see how your symptoms score.What Is the Worst Habit for Anxiety? If we had to pick the worst habit that feeds anxiety more than any other, its avoidance. Often, it makes perfect sense in the moment. If a situation makes you anxiousperhaps its a hard conversation, a crowded event, or an email youve been putting offnot doing it brings relief. At least right now. Your nervous system settles, the discomfort passes, and youre all good. Except you arent. That problem still lingers. Every time you avoid something anxiety has flagged as threatening, your brain files it away as confirmation that staying away from that dangerous thing kept you safe. The fear behind it, though, doesnt go away. In fact, over time, it grows bigger. And your comfortable little world shrinks. If youre high functioning, you may not even see this avoidance as, well, avoidance. It feels like a simple way to manage the issue. Overworking, for example, can help you avoid the discomfort of sitting with your thoughts. Over-preparing can help you avoid being caught off guard. Staying busy allows you to avoid those feelings that show up when everything quiets down. Yet avoidance in a productivity mask is still avoidance. And it often comes along with a partner: rumination. That is, replaying and re-analyzing may strike you as problem solving. But it rarely resolves anything. It just keeps the anxiety busy while leading to exhaustion. Breaking the cycle usually requires you to do the opposite of what you want to do. It requires you to move toward discomfort rather than away from it. Which is why therapy can be so helpful, as it provides practical tools to honestly address the situation.Grounding in the Moment: The 3-3-3 RuleOne of the most popular and helpful tools for actually handling spikes in anxiety is the 3-3-3 rule. When you feel your heart rate ramping up, your thoughts start racing, and your attention narrow, this simple grounding technique is designed to interrupt that response and pull your attention back to the present moment. Whats the 3-3-3 rule? Its simple: 1) Name 3 things you can see2) Identify 3 sounds you can hear3) Move 3 parts of your body. Thats it. It works because anxiety lives in anticipationin the imagined future or the replayed past. Grounding yourself in the present with exercises like this helps redirect your brain toward sensory input, which is much harder to catastrophize. It may not resolve whats behind the anxiety, but it can provide enough of a pause so you can respond rather than react. Slowing down long enough to use the technique is the hardest partespecially when your default mode has always been forward motion.  Stopping to take stock, even for a moment or two, can feel unnatural. Thats why its recommended that you take time to practice the technique when youre feeling calmer. What Is the Root Cause of High-Functioning Anxiety? Theres rarely a single cause. High-functioning anxiety can develop from a combination of factors, often building on each other over time. For many, it may root back to childhoodoften to messages absorbed about worth and achievement. For example, if praise was almost always tied to performance, or when love felt conditional on getting things right (or perfect), or when the environment was unpredictable enough that staying on high alert felt necessary. Over time, the nervous system learned to operate in a state of low-grade readiness. Unfortunately, that type of wiring doesnt just disappear as you grow up and become an adult. Instead, it can show up as the need to over-prepare and overdeliver yet never quite feel like youre enough. Neurobiology also plays a role. Some folks are simply born with a more reactive nervous system. One thats more sensitive to threatsreal or perceived. A system thats quicker to activate the stress response. In many cases, this can be highly useful. Its how our ancestors survived. Yet it can also be exhausting to always be on alert.Cultural and environmental pressures, of course, layer on top in a world that rewards busyness and overachievement while treating rest and recovery only worth it when earned. In this society, high-functioning anxiety can feel like a reasonable response to unreasonable demands. Thats one of the main reasons it can be so challenging to recognize. What Vitamin Deficiency Causes Anxiety? More and more often, were finding that the foods we eat and the nutrients we consume can affect our mental health. Thats not to say that nutrition can fix anxiety or other mental health conditions alone. However, certain deficiencies have been found to worsen symptoms in ways that arent always obvious right away. Vitamin D is one of the most commonly flagged for a number of conditions. Indeed, low levels of vitamin D have been linked to not only increased anxiety but to depression and ADHD as well. Worse, deficiency is widespreadespecially as more of us spend most of our days indoors. Another key nutrient is B12. Deficiencies of which can affect mood and neurological function, potentially even producing symptoms that resemble anxiety, such as a racing heart, fatigue, and difficulty concentrating. A mineral (rather than a vitamin), magnesium is another one to know as it plays a direct role on nervous system regulation. Many adults dont get enough through their diets alone. Insufficient magnesium has been linked with irritability, restlessness, and difficulty sleeping, which can make symptoms of anxiety worse.The research surrounding omega-3 fatty acids (also a nutrient but not a vitamin) is less conclusive. However, some experts suggest it may help reduce inflammation and support mood regulation. While nutrition does have an impact on mental health, its always worth having your levels checked and consulting with your healthcare team before reaching for supplements. That way, you know what your body really does need, and you can find the best ways to obtain those nutrients (potentially by making small changes to your diet). What Medication Is Used for High-Functioning Anxiety?Medication can be helpful, but its not the right fit for everyone. Understanding your options and what will work best in your situation starts with a conversation. Often, the first line of medical treatment recommended are SSRIs (selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors. Medications like sertraline, escitalopram, and fluoxetine may help gradually regulate serotonin levels. They can take some time to reach full effecttypically two weeks or morebut theyre widely used and well-studied. SNRIs, such as venlafaxineand duloxetine, have similar effects but also affect norepinephrine, which can be helpful for those dealing with anxiety combined with depression. Another medication often used for generalized anxiety is buspirone. Its both non-sedating and doesnt carry the dependency concerns often associated with past options. It works well for ongoing day-to-day anxiety. For more acute or situational episodes (think public speaking, performance anxiety, or high-stakes events), beta-blockers are sometimes prescribed to help reduce physical symptoms, such as a racing heart or shaking, without causing sedation. Interestingly, though, theres not much evidence that theyre all that effective. Medication is often paired with therapy. For good reason! Combining therapy, such as cognitive behavioral therapy(CBT), with medication tends to produce better outcomes than with either one alone. The right path depends on your specific symptoms, history, and everything else youve got going in life. Thats why a proper evaluation is so important before beginning treatment. You Dont Have to Go It AloneHigh-functioning anxiety has a way of convincing many people that theyre managing just fine. You havent fallen apart, so what is there to address? You may even think that because other people have it so much worse, your experience doesnt really count. Managing anxiety, though, isnt the same as thriving. Just because youre good at carrying something heavy doesnt mean you should have to carry it indefinitely. At DMHBH, we work with people navigating anxiety in all forms, including anxiety that doesnt look like anxiety. So, if any parts of this article made you stop and wonder, its worth paying attention. A good first step is understanding where you stand by taking our free GAD-7 Anxiety Self-Assessment Quiz. This is the same tool used by mental health professionals to screen for anxiety. The results can help guide your next conversation.