The Proposition for the Second Half of Our Lives

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Aug 25, 2016

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Today YOU are YOU. That is truer then true. There is no one alive, who is YOUER then YOU.
Dr. Seuss, the wisest person ever, gave us permission to take care of us. It is vital to ensure YOU are ok and your life is going in the direction YOU want it to be going in.

According to Erik Ericson, a developmental psychologist known for his theory on psychosocial development of human beings, his 7th stage of development encompasses; Generativity versus Stagnation. This translates into; did you live a life of giving back? As you move from the world of work, where you were a producer, are you moving into a successful second half of your life?

How will you know if you are successful? Ask your self these questions: Did I help the next generation prepare for their future? Am I making a difference in someone elses life? Am I a mentor to others? Am I teaching others to age well?

Setting priorities for your second half of life is paramount. Are you living by YOUR beliefs and values? Can you list activities that matter to YOU? Are you following YOUR passion(s)? This is the time to pursue YOUR dreams.

Development and growth takes place throughout our entire life. Those who are in their late 90s and early 100s will tell you they are still learning new things every day. They honor and celebrate what each day brings to them. We could benefit greatly from following their passion and zest for continued living.

In order to ensure success in the second half of life; you need to feel content and satisfied with what YOU have, what YOU have achieved, what YOUR future looks like, and how YOU are learning and growing.

Regrets are the most frequently mentioned emotion after love. Dont let regrets paralyze you. Use them to live a life that is meaningful to YOU. Have the courage to express YOUR feelings. Allow YOURSELF to be happier. Always stay in touch with old friends.

As Dr. Seuss says, Dont cry because it is over. Smile because it happened.

Editors Note: This article was submitted by Yvonne Myers and is the Health Systems Director at Columbine Health Systems. She can be reached at 970-482-0198 or yvonne.myers@columbinehealth.com

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