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Volunteerism is not just about giving time. Volunteering in senior care is about igniting a spark a spark of connection, joy, and purpose that enriches lives on both sides of the giving equation. Learn how you can ditch the ordinary and become an extraordinary force for good in the lives of seniors. This guide discusses the benefits of volunteerism for seniors and ways caregivers can help them get involved in community service.Benefits of Volunteerism for SeniorsVolunteering can greatly boost a senior's self-esteem. It gives them a sense of purpose and accomplishment. When they see the positive impact they're making, it can lift their spirits and improve their mental health. Feeling needed and valued can be incredibly empowering.Social connections are vital for everyone, and seniors are no exception. Volunteering offers a chance to meet new people and build friendships. This helps reduce feelings of isolation and loneliness, which are common among seniors. A vibrant social life can lead to increased happiness and emotional well-being.Physical Health BenefitsStaying active and engaged through volunteer work can also benefit physical health. Movement is necessary for maintaining health, whether it's light physical activity or simply getting out of the house. Some studies even suggest that active seniors are likely to have better overall physical health.From walks around the park with fellow volunteers to light cleaning and tidying up around a community organization, there are a wealth of ways to keep seniors active while doing good for those around them. Still, seniors should always speak to their healthcare providers before starting a new fitness routine.How Caregivers Can Support Senior VolunteerismAs a caregiver, you can help seniors find the right volunteer opportunities. Match these opportunities with the senior's interests and skills. Consider what they enjoy and what they're good at. Equally important is considering their physical and cognitive abilities to ensure the volunteer work is suitable and fulfilling.One of the main barriers to volunteering is often transportation. Caregivers can arrange transportation to volunteer sites. This includes coordinating schedules and ensuring the seniors can get where they need to be. Providing logistical support, like helping with sign-ups and schedules, can make a big difference.Caregivers should offer positive reinforcement and celebrate the senior's contributions. Sometimes, seniors may have concerns or fears about starting something new. Addressing these concerns and providing the support they need can motivate them to take the first step.Get Custom Care and Support Services for Seniors TodayThe benefits of senior volunteerism are numerous, from boosting self-esteem to promoting social connections and improving physical health. Caregivers can help by identifying suitable opportunities, providing transportation, and offering encouragement. Let's strive to support our seniors in giving back to the community.If you need assistance in finding and supporting volunteer opportunities for seniors in Fort Collins, Englewood, Littleton, Windsor, and Longmont, contact us at Senior Helpers Fort Collins. We proudly provide compassionate senior care services that serve the whole person and enhance emotional and physical health.

Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's or dementia is a journey filled with emotional highs and lows. One of the most challenging moments for adult children serving as primary caregivers is when their parents are unable to recognize them. This can be a heartbreaking and distressing experience, and understanding how to respond and how to care for your own emotional health is crucial. Alzheimer's and DementiaAlzheimer's and dementia are complex neurological disorders primarily characterized by memory loss and cognitive decline. Recognizing their nature is fundamental to coping with the impact. These conditions mess up the brain's wiring, interfering not only with memory but also recognition, making familiar faces seem alien to your loved ones. While it is distressing, remember it is the disease, not your parent, causing this heartbreaking moment of non-recognition.Coping With the Moment of Non-recognition When a loved one fails to recognize you, it can be a shocking and emotional moment. It's important to handle it with grace and sensitivity. Stay calm; your reaction can influence your parent's response. Arguing or correcting them may only cause confusion or distress. Patiently reassure them with your presence, emitting love and care. Remind yourself not to take their non-recognition personally; it is the disease at the helm, not their choice.Focusing on Self-Care as a CaregiverAs you navigate these challenging times, taking care of your emotional health is paramount. The adage 'you can't pour from an empty cup' rings true in your role as a caregiver. Regular breaks from caregiving duties will allow you to recharge and can be beneficial for your stress levels. Engaging in hobbies or activities that you enjoy can provide a much-needed distraction and a source of joy. Don't hesitate to seek counseling or support groups; sharing your experiences with those who understand can lighten your emotional load.Navigating the Long-Term Emotional ImpactRepeated instances of non-recognition can indeed lead to continuous emotional distress. It's a stark reminder of the progressive nature of the disease and can challenge your emotional resilience.Focus on the Good TimeDuring these times, focus on the moments of connection and understanding that you still share with your parent. Gently remind yourself that your relationship extends beyond recognition; it's rooted in a lifetime of shared memories and experiences. MournIt's okay to mourn the loss of what once was, but don't let that eclipse the love that remains. If you find yourself struggling to cope, it's crucial to seek professional help. Therapists or counselors specialized in caregiver stress can provide tools to manage your emotions better.Forgive YourselfEmbrace self-forgiveness. You're doing the best you can, and you should cut yourself some slack. Know that it's okay to have moments of frustration or sadness. Resilience is not about never faltering; it is about getting back up every time you stumble.Loving Care for Seniors With Alzheimer's or DementiaThe journey of caregiving for a parent with Alzheimer's or dementia is challenging, and the emotional impact when they fail to recognize you can be overwhelming. Understanding the nature of their condition, managing your reaction, and emphasizing self-care are all crucial to navigating these difficult moments. If you live in Fort Collins, Loveland, Greeley, Wellington, or Longmont, Senior Helpers Greeley is here to support you. We offer various services to assist and provide resources to make this journey manageable. Contact us today by calling 970-373-3858.

An interview with Dick McCormick, former CEO of US West and founding contributor to Emmaus Catholic Hospice.My brother, Fr. Jim, died in 2013. He was a Catholic priest for 51 years. He was battling cancer and came to Denver to live with us. That way, family could surround him, and we could give him personal support. He had excellent care, and for a while, we thought maybe he was on the verge of beating it. But then he took a turn for the worse.LAY MINISTER PRAYING OVER A PRIESTWe had priests come by the house in the last month of his life and give him Last Rites, including Archbishop Aquila of Denver and Bishop Hannifen from Colorado Springs. So, he had plenty of people visit him and pray with him!In the last week or so, we called in hospice services. The irony is that when he did die, a lay minister from the hospice came. It was appropriate, but it was ironic, too: Here was a priest of 51 years who had given his life to the Churchand an unordained layperson was praying over him a few hours after he died.And I just thought, It would have been nice if he had been surrounded by a hospice team rooted in the Catholic faith, taking care of him and taking care of those final needs.We thanked the hospice people profusely, but it was a fairly impersonal experience.I believe that had we been with Emmaus Catholic Hospice, if it had existed then, there would have been a greater quality and a more personal quality of care.THE UPSIDE OF A MISCONCEPTIONA misconception I had when I first heard the word hospice in the mid-eighties, and for many years, was I thought it was more of a 24/7, hands-on service.We were left with the medications, and they instructed us how to administer them. But there wasnt necessarily going to be a staff of nurses there every moment. Maybe everybody knows that, but I didnt realize it.They told us that their objective was to make Jim pain-free. They showed us how to do that, and they didnt need to be there 24/7.It was nice not to have outsiders always there, just Jim and his family and close friends.A BEAUTIFUL DEATH IN ALL RESPECTSTo their credit, the hospice staff were able to predict within a day or so when Jim was going to pass away. They knew the vital signs, the blood pressure, the breathing changes, the colorall the indicators. They called it very well, and they had us well prepared for the time.Our daughter Meg sat with him all night that last night because we knew that was probably going to be it. He passed away in our living room, surrounded by family.It was a beautiful death in all respects and one that I felt was appropriate for the life that he lived and the contributions he made. More than 20 of his 51 years as a priest were spent doing missionary work in Tanzania, India, and the Philippines.Jim had a beautiful funeral back in our hometown in Iowa. He had recruited 25 African and Indian nuns to work in Catholic nursing homes in Iowa.  Also, through Jims efforts, three priests from India are now pastors in Northwest Iowa.  All of them were at his funeral. We had African singing; we had Indian singing; we had the church choir singing. I mean, he went out in style!SUPPORTING EMMAUS CATHOLIC HOSPICEMy wife, Mary Pat, and I support Emmaus Catholic Hospice because it aligns with the values and tenets of the Catholic church. Thats important to us.We are strong Right to Life people and very much against assisted suicide. I will not be associated with any organization that condones or conducts that.Mary Pat and I will probably need this service ourselves in the next ten years. So, were interested from that standpoint, too.Im hoping that Emmaus Catholic Hospice gets off the ground in a big waythat it becomes the source for anybody Catholic who needs hospice services.We must communicate to the Catholic community that this is now available and needs our support.as told to Katie Morroni, Communications Manager of Emmaus Catholic Hospice. Interview edited for length and clarity. To learn more and support the mission of Emmaus Catholic Hospice, please visit EmmausCatholicHospice.org