Yikes! Assisted Living!?!

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Apr 03, 2021

Yikes! Assisted Living?!?
The realization that we need to move our parents or ourselves into assisted living can be overwhelming. Dont make the mistake of thinking you can handle all of this on your own.
#1 Have a plan. Its much easier to make a decision when you see the beginning signs of the need for care than to wait for an emergency situation to occur. Start open discussions with loved ones whenever it is possible.
#2 Evaluate. Moving from 2500 sq. ft. to assisted living will mean things will need to be sorted, donated, stored, trashed or saved for the new space.
#3 Find the right place. Use a checklist to make sure all your questions are answered regarding medication management, special dietary needs, transportation and activities.
#4 Plan your move. Most moves take several days to accomplish. Make sure that an overnight bag is packed with all of the essentials needed for that last night in the home or a possible respite stay.
#5 Try to make moving day special. Family photos, music, snacks, flowers -- most of all, be patient with your loved ones and yourself.
Editors' Note:
This article was submitted by Senior Moving Company. They may be reached at 972-488-1700.
Find a complete checklist for moving and packing at sbbdallas.com/

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