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Communication can be challenging when talking to a loved one with dementia. How you communicate with your loved one is very important, the goal being to confuse them as little as possible. Here are a few things to keep in mind when talking to your loved one with dementia.Phrases to avoidMany phrases are used frequently in our day-to-day conversations that we may not think are harmful but can be challenging for those with dementia. For example, the phrase "Do you remember" can lead to embarrassment. Your senior doesn't want to tell you they have forgotten a memory, especially a meaningful one. Asking a senior with dementia if they remember something will bring more sadness to their insecurity about having dementia. Instead, use the phrase "I remember when" to avoid putting pressure on your senior by not asking them a question directly about memory.Another phrase to avoid, "As I already said" When talking to someone with dementia, you will often repeat yourself, but you don't want your senior to feel embarrassed, and you don't want them to know you have repeated yourself already. Other phrases like "I already told you" only reminds your senior of their struggle. Instead of saying those phrases, kindly repeat yourself.Be directYou don't want to be too vague, so it is important to be specific with your words. For example, avoid using general pronouns like he, she, or they or vague terms such as that and those. Instead, be specific and say, "Jack bought a car," and "the spoon is under the napkin on the counter." Dementia makes it difficult for seniors to follow conversations like they once did, so it is key to use short sentences, speak clearly, and give them your full attention.Don't offer too much helpSeniors want to feel independent. We understand that you want to help your loved one as much as possible. Find that even balance of helping your senior and knowing when it's too much help. We don't want our seniors to feel like they are no longer competent.At The Legacy: Memory Support, our care for seniors with dementia is unmatched. Schedule a tour to learn more about all the different memory care activities we provide for our amazing residents.

As the warmth of summer envelopes us and nature bursts into full bloom, we are reminded of the beauty and inevitability of change. Just as the seasons transition from the chill of spring to the heat of summer, so too does technology seem to experience constant changes. For many older adults, these changes can seem daunting. However, by embracing these shifts, much like we do with the changing seasons, we can not only adapt but also thrive in this technologically driven era. Nature offers us countless examples of rapid change. Consider the transformation of a caterpillar into a butterfly, a process that is both remarkable and essential for the butterfly's survival, the sudden bloom of flowers in spring leading to the lush greenery of summer, or the emergence of the recent cicada broods.  Did you know that once a cicada nymph emerges from the ground it begins to molt within 15-30 minutes and within only an hour the newly emerged nymph has transformed into a fully formed adult. Talk about rapid change! These natural processes illustrate that change, while sometimes challenging, sudden, and rapid, is necessary for growth and adaptation. In much the same way, technology undergoes constant evolution and rapid change, presenting new opportunities and challenges for users of all ages. From the introduction of personal computers to the widespread adoption of smartphones and tablets, the digital landscape has transformed dramatically and rapidly in a relatively short period. The world of technology is truly evolving at an unprecedented pace. While these advancements may initially appear overwhelming, they also offer tremendous potential for learning, growth, and connection. According to a report by the Pew Research Center, the percentage of adults aged 65 and older who own a smartphone has increased from 18% in 2013 to 61% in 2021. This statistic highlights a significant shift in the adoption of new technologies among older generations. Yet, for many, the rapid pace of technological advancement can feel overwhelming. Despite the initial discomfort, there are numerous benefits to embracing these changes. For instance, smartphones and tablets offer a plethora of applications designed to simplify daily tasks, enhance communication with loved ones, and provide access to a wealth of information and entertainment. Learning to use these devices can significantly improve ones quality of life, offering greater independence and connectivity. The key to adapting to technological changes is to start small and build a foundational knowledge. Just as you wouldnt attempt to run a marathon without first learning to walk, its important to take incremental steps when familiarizing yourself with new technology. Begin with the Basics: One of the first steps in adapting to technological change is recognizing the value of building a foundation of knowledge. Much like the roots of a tree provide stability and nourishment, a basic understanding of technology can serve as a solid footing for further learning and exploration. Start with the fundamentals, such as familiarizing yourself with your existing devices and their functions. Learn how to turn them on and off, charge them and navigate their home screens. Learn how to navigate the internet, send emails, and use basic applications. As you become more comfortable, you can gradually expand your skills and explore new possibilities. Seek Out Resources: Many local libraries and community centers offer classes specifically designed to teach older adults how to use technology. Additionally, there are numerous online tutorials and user-friendly guides available as well as local companies that specialize in supporting older adults with their use of technology. Much like natures adaptive strategies, embracing a positive mindset towards technological change is crucial. Accept that learning something new takes time and patience. Celebrate small victories along the way, and dont be afraid to ask for help. According to a study published in the Journal of Medical Internet Research, older adults who received support and training were more likely to adopt and continue using new technologies. The benefits of embracing technology are manifold. Telemedicine, for example, has revolutionized healthcare, making it easier for older adults to consult with doctors from the comfort of their homes. According to the American Telemedicine Association, telehealth visits increased by 154% during the first quarter of 2020 compared to the same period in 2019, largely driven by the COVID-19 pandemic. This shift not only reduces the need for travel but also provides timely medical advice and monitoring. Similarly, smart home devices can enhance safety and convenience. Voice-activated assistants like Amazons Alexa or Google Home can set reminders for medications, control home lighting, and even call for help in emergencies. Learning to use these devices can greatly enhance ones sense of security and independence. Despite the clear advantages, there is still a significant digital divide among older adults. The same Pew Research Center report indicates that 34% of adults aged 65 and older do not use the internet. Bridging this gap is essential for ensuring that all seniors can benefit from technological advancements. Community initiatives play a vital role in this endeavor. Programs that offer free or subsidized devices, coupled with training and support, can make a significant difference. Additionally, family members can help by encouraging and assisting their older relatives in learning and using new technologies. Just as we prepare for and adapt to the changing seasons, we must also embrace the rapid changes in technology. By starting small, maintaining a positive mindset, and seeking out resources and support, older adults can build a solid foundation upon which to thrive in this digital age. Nature teaches us that change is not only inevitable but also essential for growth. Similarly, by embracing technological change, we open ourselves up to a world of possibilities that can enhance our lives in meaningful ways. As the days grow longer and summer unfolds its warmth and vibrancy, let us welcome the changing tides of technology with the same spirit of adaptation and renewal. The possibilities are endless, and the adventure awaits!

How To Know Its Time for Senior LivingNov 21, 2022 | Life at Park PlaceWhether your loved ones are living independently or require more advanced support, a Life Plan Community offering Life Care will meet their every need. Life Plan Communities are a type of senior living option that combines an independent lifestyle, amenities and services with access to a full continuum of care on one campus.Read on to learn more about how to know its the right time for the move to a Life Plan Community like Park Place of Elmhurst.If Your Loved One Is Living IndependentlyYour loved one may live in their own home or apartment. They still want to continue living every day to the fullest, but theyre tired of cooking, cleaning, and taking care of the house, and theyre not as close to their friends as they once were.In this case, independent living might be the right choice for them.In independent living, seniors enjoy all the benefits of socialization, maintenance-free living, on-site culture, dining and amenities, and access to a full continuum of care should they ever need it. At Park Place of Elmhurst, community life offers residents opportunities to full enjoy our services and amenities, including:Interior and exterior maintenanceWasher and dryer in every residencePersonalization and moving coordinationWeekly housekeeping servicesAll utilities included, except phone24-hour securityScheduled transportationUnderground parkingWireless internet access throughout communityIf Your Loved One Needs Help with Activities of Daily LivingIf activities of daily living, also known as ADLs, present a problem for your loved one, assisted living could be the solution. Assisted living services provide daily support for things like medication management, personal care, bathing, dressing and toileting. Signs that your parent or loved one could benefit from assisted living also include:Trouble paying bills on timeDifficulty managing household tasksPoor eating habitsMobility problemsPark Place provides assisted living support for seniors at the Park Place Health and Wellness Center, with personalized care plans for each resident. Residents in assisted living can rely on services like licensed care seven days a week, nutritious meals, assistance with personal care and 24-hour emergency call systems. All of this and more are provided in the comfort of their own private apartment!If Your Loved One Lives with Memory LossMaybe your parent or loved one has been diagnosed with Alzheimers disease or has suffered an injury leaving their acuity compromised. In this case, memory support also called memory care is likely the right choice for them.Indications that your loved one might benefit from memory support include:A medical diagnosis of Alzheimers or other type of dementiaChanges in behavior or emotional stateA living environment unsuited to their unique requirementsDisorientation or confusionIncontinenceFamily caregiver is overwhelmed and exhaustedAlso part of the Park Place Health and Wellness Center, our memory support teams provide a safe and dignified setting promoting independence. With a wander management system, specialized Alzheimers and dementia training, and personalized care plans, you can rest assured your loved one is receiving just the care they need.The Right Choice for Life Care in Elmhurst, ILWhether your loved ones in independent living or requires assisted living, memory support, or something more specialized, Park Place of Elmhurst provides a safe and welcoming setting for their next chapter.

WOW (Widows or Widowers) was founded by Dolores Bonfield Cortis in May, 1975. Dolores was widowed at the young age of 38. She joined Parents Without Partners in the area where she resided. The group was made up of recently divorced people. Being a grieving widow with young children who also were dealing with their sorrow, is not the same as a divorced parent.Through Parents without Partners, she met other newly widowed men and women. They formed the first WOW group in the Western Suburbs. It is a place to go for understanding, companionship, and to participate in social activates with like individuals. The idea was and is that Step we need to take to get back to living a normal life without the one we loved. To give us the understanding that although we are now widowed, we can resume life with all others and feel accepted as a new person.After 43 years, we now have a membership of over 185 members. Our membership has gone up and down over the years for a variety of reasons death or members that have moved to retirement areas around the country. But we have remained consistent in our zeal to prosper, and we have 43 years to prove that!We publish a monthly News Letter that lists our social activities and support meetings. WOW continues to offer support, friendship, education and social activities to the widowed people in the western suburbs of Chicago. A monthly Social Gathering is held at the Knights of Columbus Hall, 537 South York Road, In Elmhurst, IL. At 7:00 pm on the third Thursday of each month. Feel free to join us at our monthly meeting. We welcome guests of all ages!For additional information, check out our website at (www.wow.cfsites.org) or contact Dave Spero, WOW President at (630-620-4060).