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Passions Grow, Passions Bloom: Cultivating Wellness at Willow Valley Communities Among the most popular passions at Willow Valley Communities is gardening. And, Residents here have a wide variety of ways to indulge. Three generous gardens are situated across our sprawling 210-acre campus for Residents to use in a multitude of configurations of their choosing. Willow Valley Communities hardworking Grounds Team tills each garden in the spring and plows them in the fall, making them ready for Residents to dig right in. Whether Residents are experienced pros or novices, gardening is a wonderful way for them to get outside, enjoy nature and each other, and learn new things. Some Residents have been gardening for decades, while others have only started gardening after moving to Willow Valley Communities. In keeping with our Life Lived Forward philosophy, some Willow Valley Communities Residents take their love of gardening to deeper levels. For example, several Residents from across the country have achieved the distinction of Master Gardener. Master Gardeners are certified in their home state, and the program can take six months to a year to complete and includes a minimum of 40 hours of classroom training, a score of 80 percent on the final exam, and 50 hours of volunteer service. In another example, Residents Annabelle Simpson and Susan Kelly worked with the Penn State Extension of the Pennsylvania State University to have one of their gardens certified as an official Pennsylvania Pollinator-Friendly Garden. The stunning garden is well-known for attracting huge numbers of bees, butterflies, insects, and birds, helping our ecosystem to thrive. Residents are also able to partner their gardening skills with their desire to volunteer and give back to the Lancaster community. With the areas rich, fertile soil, and the extra special care and attention the plants receive, Residents often have an abundance of vegetables and donate them regularly. Throughout the growing season, the Solanco Neighborhood Ministries food bank receives a variety of beans, lettuce, kale, peas, carrots, eggplant, cucumbers, peppers, tomatoes, spinach, and much more from Willow Valley Communities Resident gardens. Additionally, every fall, a harvest of hundreds of pounds of sweet potatoes and butternut squash goes to the Lancaster County Food Hub, a community resource for free, nutritious food and gently used clothing. Some Residents maintain gardening plots every year just for this purpose.Annabelle Simpson and Susan Kelly Gardening time is couple time for Residents Mike and Susan Ziegler. Sue is an avid gardener, and Mike loves being outdoors supporting her gardening passion at Willow Valley Communities. They both love being together in nature, and Sue is amazed by how magical gardening can be. Its just a miracle when the seeds come up, she says. Resident Pat Mortensen challenges herself every year by growing something completely different. Once she enjoyed a robust harvest of King Tut Purple Peas, a very rare garden pea said to have been taken out of the tomb of King Tut! Resident and Master Gardener Angela Booker-White is originally from Virginia but has lived all over the country. Her interest in gardening grew as she read and learned more about it. In her plot at Spring Run, Angela grows all sorts of fruits, vegetables, and flowers and always tries something new. She has the most success with seeds she purchases from the dollar store! Angela has also learned how gardening can help during challenging times. She is grateful to her garden, as well as to her fellow Willow Valley Communities gardeners, for helping her during the difficult time of her husbands unexpected passing. Gardeners, and she doesnt know exactly who, would come and help by doing extra work around her plot. Residents just came in and helped, Angela says. Weeding, cutting, trimming, harvesting whatever work needed to be done. Thats the way Residents are here at Willow Valley Communities: very supportive. Resident Keith Yoder, who coordinates the Spring Run Garden, is not at all surprised by the variety of gardeners at Willow Valley Communities or by the reasons they enjoy the activity so much. He agrees that gardening is definitely a hobby that enhances well-being. Though hes known this himself for years, he refers to an article put out by CNBC that states how gardening can add years to your life. And life to your years, Keith adds. Gardening gets you into nature. Its good exercise for your body and your mind plus, you get to eat what you grow!

The Willow Valley Communities Day Spa is a destination for wellness and renewal. Its a critical component of the comprehensive Mind, Body, Spirit approach to wellness of Willow Valley Communities. The Day Spa offers many ways to soothe, calm, invigorate, or rejuvenate. A full range of professional services, all performed by our attentive and inviting staff, allows Residents to create their own regimen for personal well-being and beauty. These services include manicures and pedicures, skin care, facials, revitalizing peels, waxing, tanning, microdermabrasion, and body treatments with a wide range of different massage modalities, wraps, and scrubs. The Relaxation Room, with its beautiful waterfall and Himalayan Salt Wall, is a main feature of The Day Spa. It provides a peaceful and well-appointed environment in which to relax and offers a perfect and welcome respite between services. Himalayan salt rich in negative ions and essential nutrients and minerals offers numerous health benefits for our bodies, such as stress reduction, energy increases, and mood boosts at a biochemical level. Day Spa Manager Diamando Wallace says, Self-care is essential. Although manicures and pedicures are a well-deserved treat, they offer so much more to Residents sense of well-being. You can see the boost in a clients self-confidence as they walk out feeling refreshed.  Massages are one of the most popular services requested by Residents, and The Day Spa offers a wide menu of options, including hot stone and aromatherapy. Emily Ransing, Willow Valley Communities Day Spa Massage Therapist, says, Massage is meant to enhance your well-being physically and mentally. I frequently remind my clients that this is their time to focus on themselves to feel healthier. I do all I can to send each client home feeling better than when they arrived. A Willow Valley Communities Resident was asked about her massage as she was leaving The Day Spa one afternoon. She said, After a massage with Emily, your body is so relaxed that you can focus on the things that you often overlook the air is sweeter, the birds are more melodious, the day is brighter. You are better equipped to face the next days, whatever they may bring. As she walked out of the Cultural Center to her car, she added with a smile, Its also a way to take the tension out of your body although theres not much tension at Willow Valley Communities!

Bringing an aging parent home from the hospital? Learn how in-home care can support a safer, less stressful recovery with personal care, meals, companionship, skilled nursing and caregiver support.Leaving the hospital is usually a welcome milestone. After daysor sometimes weeksof medical care, most older adults are eager to return to their own bed, familiar surroundings and normal routines.But for many Minnesota families, the transition from hospital to home is also when a new set of challenges begins.A senior may technically be well enough to leave the hospital but still be weaker than usual, unsteady on their feet or unable to manage everyday activities independently. New medications, follow-up appointments, dietary instructions and mobility limitations can make the first days and weeks at home especially challenging.Family members may suddenly find themselves asking an important question:How are we going to manage all of this at home?Planning for the right support before or immediately after discharge can make the transition less stressful for both the older adult and the people who care about them.Why the First Days at Home Can Be DifficultHospital stays can take a toll on older adults.Even someone who was relatively independent before hospitalization may return home with less strength and stamina. Activities that once seemed simpletaking a shower, preparing breakfast, getting dressed or walking from one room to anothermay suddenly require much more effort.At the same time, the senior may be dealing with new instructions from doctors and therapists.Families may need to coordinate:New or changed medicationsFollow-up medical appointmentsPhysical or occupational therapyDietary recommendationsWound care or other nursing needsMobility restrictionsPersonal careMeal preparationHousehold responsibilitiesIt can be a lot to manage at once.This is where planning for in-home support can become an important part of the recovery process.1. Assistance With Everyday ActivitiesOne of the first things families may notice after a hospitalization is that Mom or Dad needs help with activities they previously handled independently.Bathing, dressing, grooming, toileting, transferring and walking may all be more difficult during recovery.A Home Health Aide or other appropriate caregiver can provide assistance based on the individual's needs and care plan.This type of help isn't about taking over everything.The goal is to provide assistance where it is needed while encouraging the older adult to remain as independent as safely possible.2. Help With Meals and Household TasksRecovery requires energy, and good nutrition can be an important part of regaining strength.Unfortunately, cooking can also be one of the first things that becomes difficult after a hospital stay.Think about everything involved in preparing even a simple dinner: deciding what to make, checking ingredients, shopping, standing at the counter, cooking and cleaning afterward.For an older adult who is tired or physically limited, that can feel overwhelming.Homemaking services may help with meal preparation, shopping, light housekeeping and laundry.Keeping the home functioning normally can also reduce stress and allow the individual to focus more attention on recovery.3. Supporting Medication RoutinesHospitalization frequently results in changes to medications.A senior may return home with a new prescription, a different dosage or instructions to stop taking a medication they previously used.That can become confusing quickly, especially when several medications are involved.Families should carefully review discharge instructions and contact the appropriate physician, pharmacist or healthcare professional whenever they have questions.Depending on the services ordered and the individual's care plan, skilled nursing can also play an important role.4U Home Health Care's skilled nursing services include medication setup and other nursing care. A Home Health Aide may provide certain assistance and reminders within the appropriate scope of care, while medication setup itself is handled by a registered nurse.4. Paying Extra Attention to Fall RisksA senior who was steady before entering the hospital may be weaker afterward.Medication changes, reduced activity, pain, surgery or simply spending several days in a hospital bed can affect mobility.Before your loved one returns home, look at the environment with fresh eyes.Are there loose rugs?Is there clutter in walking areas?Is the pathway from the bedroom to the bathroom well lit?Can the senior safely get in and out of the shower?Can they rise from their favorite chair without struggling?Families may also want to discuss mobility concerns with the senior's physician, physical therapist or other healthcare professional.The goal is to identify potential problems before they lead to an injury.5. Making Sure Follow-Up Care Doesn't Get LostDischarge day can be overwhelming.Families may receive pages of instructions while simultaneously gathering belongings, arranging transportation, picking up prescriptions and trying to get their loved one comfortably settled at home.Important follow-up information can easily get buried.Before leaving the hospital, make sure someone understands:Which medications should be takenWhich previous medications have changed or stoppedWhen follow-up appointments are scheduledWho to call with questionsWhat symptoms should prompt a call to the doctorWhat activity restrictions are in placeWhether home health or other services have been orderedConsider keeping everything together in one folder or notebook so family members aren't searching for paperwork later.6. Providing Companionship During RecoveryRecovery isn't only physical.After the constant activity of a hospital, returning to an empty home can feel surprisingly isolating.This can be particularly difficult for someone who lives alone.Companion care provides social interaction along with practical support. A caregiver can spend time talking, sharing meals, participating in activities or simply being present.For family members who cannot be there throughout the day, knowing that someone is checking in can provide valuable reassurance.7. Giving Family Caregivers Some Breathing RoomWhen a parent comes home from the hospital, adult children often jump immediately into caregiving mode.Someone handles meals.Someone else manages appointments.Another family member picks up prescriptions.Before long, family caregivers may find themselves trying to balance caregiving with jobs, children and their own households.Professional home care can supplementnot replacethe support family members provide.Respite care can also give a primary caregiver scheduled time away while ensuring that their loved one continues receiving appropriate assistance. 4U describes its respite service as providing family caregivers with either one-time or regularly scheduled relief, including Companion Care, Homemaking and Home Health Aide services for an established period of time.Start Planning Before Discharge When PossibleFamilies don't necessarily have to wait until their loved one is already home to begin thinking about care.If you know Mom or Dad will need assistance, start the conversation with the hospital discharge planner, social worker or care coordinator.Ask:What will they realistically be able to do when they get home?That question is important.A senior may be medically ready for discharge while still needing assistance with the practical realities of daily life.Think beyond the ride home from the hospital.Consider what the first morning, first shower, first meal and first night at home will look like.Every Recovery Is DifferentThere is no single home-care plan that works for everyone.One person may need help with meals and household tasks for a short period.Another may need assistance with bathing, dressing and mobility.Someone with more complex medical needs may require skilled or private duty nursing services as ordered and appropriate.4U Home Health Care provides services for individuals of all ages and currently lists Personal Care Assistant/CFSS, Home Health Aide, Homemaker, Companion Care, Respite, Skilled Nursing and Private Duty Nursing among its services. The organization serves Minnesota through locations including Grand Rapids, Hermantown, International Falls, Savage and Mankato.Helping Minnesota Families Make the Transition HomeComing home from the hospital should feel like progressnot the beginning of a new crisis.A little planning and the right amount of support can help make those first days at home more manageable.For Minnesota families, 4U Home Health Care can help families understand available services and navigate the process of arranging care. The company also works with several payment sources, including the Veterans Administration, Minnesota county/DHS programs, private pay and select insurance plans, depending on the service and eligibility.Most importantly, families don't have to wait until they are completely overwhelmed to ask questions.Sometimes the best time to arrange help is before you desperately need it.Because a successful transition home isn't simply about leaving the hospital.It's about helping your loved one continue recovering in the place they most want to behome.Frequently Asked QuestionsWhen should we arrange home care after a hospital stay?If possible, begin discussing your loved one's needs before hospital discharge. This gives the family time to determine what assistance may be needed when the senior arrives home.Can home care help with bathing and dressing after hospitalization?Depending on the individual's care plan and services authorized, a Home Health Aide may assist with activities of daily living such as bathing, grooming, dressing, transferring and mobility.Can someone help with meals and housekeeping?Yes. Homemaking services may include meal preparation, shopping, light housekeeping and laundry.Can home care help with medications?The type of medication assistance depends on the caregiver's role and scope of service. 4U states that registered nurses can provide medication setup, while other caregivers may provide appropriate assistance or reminders according to their role and the care plan.Does 4U Home Health Care provide respite care for family caregivers?Yes. 4U offers respite care designed to give a primary caregiver or family member a one-time or regularly scheduled break while the individual continues receiving support.  Call us for more information at 952-693-0545 and visit our website at  www.4UHHC.com.