Caring for Myself While Caring for My Aging Parents

Author

SYNERGY HomeCare of Daphne

For more information about the author, click to view their website: SYNERGY HomeCare of Daphne

Posted on

Jul 18, 2023

Book/Edition

Alabama - Gulf Coast

Are you one of the Sandwich Generation that is faced with the biggest juggling act of their lives? In addition to caring for their spouses, children, careers and own selves, they’ve taken on caring for their aging, often disabled, parents. Whether the parents are living with their adult children or their children are helping them in their own homes, the struggle is real. To give their best to their family, career and parents, they have to also give their best to themselves.

How to Care for Everyone

Caregiving is not a static process where you identify a concern, find a solution, solve the problem and be done. The reality is that you will face ebbs and flows and it’s important to be prepared for the long term by anticipating changes that come along with aging. 

The Big Juggling Act

Mary Ellen Gornick, a work-life innovator for Fortune1000 companies who has spent more than three decades in the eldercare industry, sums up the challenges of the Sandwich Generation: “Being a parent in today’s society is challenging in itself. Along with school and the pressure to succeed there, our kids are constantly on the go from one activity to the next. And we all recognize how hard it is to keep work at work and not bring it home. Now add in having to care for Mom or Dad and juggle the myriad of needs they have depending on where they are in the aging process. If the Sandwich Generation caregiver doesn’t take care of themselves, the stress will quickly increase and family, work and the relationship with Mom and Dad will suffer. We just can’t let that happen.”

Quality Time

Spending quality time with family is everything. From going on a vacation to running errands together, the time that you spend with your family is important and to be cherished. For family caregivers, making the time to connect with one another may not be attainable as you’d like and it’s common to feel a disconnect with your children or partner when much of your responsibilities are elsewhere. 

With this juggling of responsibilities, the time that you spend on yourself and your own health can dwindle. In a study done to measure the effects of family caregiving, only 15% of surveyed family caregivers reported that they had “very much” time for themselves, while 26% reported having “somewhat” time. Not being able to care for your mental health may impact your relationships with those you love and enjoy. The study also found that adults caring for their aging parents’ long-term were considerably less happy in their marriages when compared to those who had only recently become family caregivers.

Balance Through  Engagement

The good news is that it is possible to create a sense of balance between your duties as a family caregiver and a parent and/or spouse/partner. In order to connect the two areas of your life, involve your children in caregiving in some capacity. Not only does helping out with caregiving allow your children to bond on a deeper level with their grandparents, but it also permits them to gain a sense of responsibility and maturity.

Your Relationship  

Gornick shared that adult siblings, spouses and partners can also join the caregiving team. “Too many assume that Sandwich Generation caregiving implies just one person, but the concept of ‘family caregiving’ is important,” she said. “Sharing the care either physically, emotionally or financially can make a big difference in ensuring that one person does not burn out.

Alignment with Mom and Dad

“When the adult children and aging adults are aligned with the reality of the situation and in agreement about how to handle it, it is much easier to put resources in place,” Gornick said. “If not, that is where the stress and difficulty come into play. If the child wants to get help and the aging adult is in denial about the situation, conflict may arise, making it extremely challenging to move forward.”

Guilt, the Four-Letter Word

“We see two big barriers to not getting help,” she said. “There is guilt on the part of the Sandwich Generation caregiver who often wants to do more to assist and feels like if they don’t, they will have failed. And then Mom or Dad doesn’t want to let go of their independence or accept their vulnerability. They don’t want to be a burden. Both parties have key emotional issues that have to be addressed in order to move forward with accepting the help that is available.”

Your Career

As a family caregiver who is also balancing a job, it can be easy to become overwhelmed with the different responsibilities that are placed in your path. 

For a member of the Sandwich Generation, who is likely working full time and may even be at a high point in their career, the stress of caring for an aging loved one may begin to affect performance at work. “For many people, what we do for a living can be an integral part of our identity as well as our livelihood, so coming to terms with life changes that can impact our feelings of employment and financial security can be incredibly stressful and lead to high levels of anxiety,” said Gornick. She pointed out those who constantly feel under pressure at work, have a short fuse, can’t focus or notice their work is slipping should consider asking for help.

Taking Care of Yourself

Taking care of your mental and physical health is key to living a balanced life. With that said, it is easy for family caregivers to focus their time and energy on caring for others rather than themselves. However, making the time to indulge in your own needs does not equate to selfishness. 

When it comes to caregiving it is crucial to find the time for yourself and your own needs. It’s important to be aware of how caregiving can lead to imbalance in key areas of your life so you are better equipped to respond and regain balance.

Emotional Impact

Depression: While “being there” around the clock for your kids, aging loved ones and your job, you may find yourself experiencing new emotions. Within minutes you can go from feeling accomplished in your actions and efforts to feeling discouraged. As a family caregiver, you’re met with new challenges every day and you may feel as though you can’t keep up.

Anxiety and Stress: Anxiety is one of the most common psychological impacts for family caregivers. Many describe experiencing feelings of frustration, helplessness, anger or even guilt. Feelings of guilt are often prevalent as many family caregivers do not believe that their actions are adequate to take on the responsibility of caring for an aging loved one. 

Physical Health: You may be aware of the mental strain of caregiving, but it’s also important to take note of the physical impact such stress can cause.  Take the time to treat your health with care. Try to fit in some exercise where you can, make regular appointments with your doctor, and give yourself some respite care when your mind and body are feeling overworked.

What to Do:

  • Join a local support group for family caregivers
  • Ask for help
  • Organize your life
  • Know what resources are available
  • Take time for yourself

Take care of your health. It is easy to forget about our own health when we are so focused on someone else’s. Schedule regular check-ups and screenings with your doctor or dentist to make sure you are staying healthy. Your family needs you—all of them!

Aging is inevitable. Being unprepared is not. As a family caregiver in the Sandwich Generation, you should have several goals:

  • Be a great parent to your children
  • Be a great spouse or partner
  • Keep your career on track
  • Extend your parent's independence while allowing yourself the joy of being their son or daughter
  • And finally, you want to have a balanced life, one where you are happy.

If you identify as being in the Sandwich Generation, when reading this blog, you probably nodded your head in agreement a few times. The subtext is to not be afraid or reticent to ask for help, as a little bit of help today will help you tremendously down the road in this marathon.

If you can imagine removing one thing you’re responsible for each day to make your life less stressful, what would it be? What if someone else picked up the kids from school, got them snacks or took them to their extracurricular activities? Maybe even started preparing dinner? Or took your mom to her doctor’s appointment? Or the kids are off school for the day but you have to work?

When our daily routines fluctuate, especially when the unexpected happens, it can be stressful. Consider having a caregiver for a few hours each day to take care of “that one thing you’d like to remove” from your daily responsibilities. Having a caregiver you can count on each day to remove stress from your life—it’s like buying stock in yourself—you’re investing your health and future. 

As previously mentioned, “Caregiving is not a static process where you identify a concern, find a solution, solve the problem and be done. The reality is that you will face ebbs and flows and it’s important to be prepared for the long term by anticipating changes that come along with aging.”

Having a caregiver for a few hours a day is a safety net that will help you and your family ride the ebb and flow of living in the Sandwich Generation. Call SYNERGY HomeCare of Daphne for a no-obligation home assessment at (251) 621-1900.

Other Articles You May Like

These 4 Simple Actions May Deliver Big Payoffs for Men's Health

These 4 Simple Actions May Deliver Big Payoffs for Mens HealthIts been 12 months since the last Mens Health Month. Have you seen your doctor?June is a great time to make an appointment for a physical with your primary care provider, and its also an ideal month to educate yourself about some of the issues that impact mens health. For example, did you know that men tend to die five years earlier, on average, than women? Or that men face higher risks for health conditions such as lung cancer, heart disease and HIV? And theyre also at risk for sex-specific cancers, including prostate cancer and testicular cancer (learn about those facts and more via the Office of Disease Prevention and Health Promotion).There are many simple actions men can take to benefit their health, this month and every month. Here are four ways to get started.Tip 1If you dont have a primary care doctor, select one. Establishing a relationship with a doctor is important. That person can help you feel better when youre sick, and they can offer advice on how to feel and stay your healthiest. And yet, according to a survey by the Cleveland Clinic, many men arent taking actions to stay healthy. Nearly two in five Gen Z men dont have a primary care provider (PCP). And when it comes to annual physicals, just 32% of millennials and Gen Z men get them, compared to 61% of Gen X and Baby Boomers. A primary care doctor can test your cholesterol and blood pressure, keep you up-to-date on immunizations and advise you on which screenings you need. A PCP visit is like a one-stop shop for your health!Tip 2If youre worried about your mental health, talk to a professional. Its tough to ask for help, and the statistics show that men, in particular, struggle when it comes to addressing their mental health challenges. According to the Anxiety and Depression Association of America, nearly one in 10 men experience some sort of anxiety or depression, but fewer than half seek treatment. If you find that youre feeling unhappy or irritable, and youre avoiding or not getting pleasure from activities you usually enjoy, talk to your doctor or connect with a therapist and share the way youre feeling. They may be able to help.Tip 3Strengthen your support system. Research shows that social connections are important for your mental and physical health; in fact, people with strong social connections may actually live longer. Prioritize connecting with old friends and open your mind to ways to meet new ones. Itll be good for all involved!Tip 4Practice good health habits. There are everyday actions you can take that are known to be good for your health. Those include regular exercise (aim for 30 minutes of movement, five times a week); eating a healthy diet filled with lean proteins, whole grains and lots of fresh fruits and vegetables; finding outlets to manage your stress, such as yoga or deep breathing; getting enough sleep; quitting tobacco; and moderating how much alcohol you drink (the US guidelines recommend two drinks a day or less for men and one a day or less for women).Making healthy choices isnt hard, but you may need to adjust to some changes in your routine. Before long, those healthy choices may make you feel good enough that you wouldnt want to choose any other way.Contact Blue Cross Blue Shield of Alabama located in Mobile at 251-344-2115.

Protecting Your Parents' Assets From Nursing Home Costs

Protecting Your Parents Assets From Nursing Home CostsNursing home care costs have been rising over time, with many older Americans who require long-term care unable to afford it.With proper planning, seniors may be able to rely on Medicaid to pay for this care and still retain some of their assets by exploring several different strategies.The aging U.S. population means that more people will likely need nursing home care in the coming decades. Meanwhile, the cost of nursing home care is increasing and expected to keep increasing.With the exorbitant cost of nursing home care, many families worry about depleting their loved ones life savings to pay for the care they need. Private health insurance does not cover nursing home care, and while long-term care insurance is available to cover nursing home costs, these plans are also expensive and may come up short for long-term stays.This leaves millions of Americans reliant on Medicaid to pay for nursing home care a far from perfect solution that usually involves spending down assets to qualify. With proactive Medicaid planning, though, it is possible for someone to qualify for Medicaid and still retain some of their assets. The sooner you start planning, the more options youll have for protecting your parents assets from nursing home costs. Odds of Needing Long-Term Care Are HighThe lifetime likelihood of needing nursing home care is relatively high. About 70 percent of people who turn 65 today will eventually need some type of long-term care, including nursing home care.About 1.3 million Americans aged 65 and older currently live in nursing homes, and about 40 percent of todays 65-year-olds will spend some time in a nursing home before the end of their lives.Women are more likely than men to need long-term care, and the older a person gets, the more likely they are to need it. At the same time, there has been a growing trend of younger adults (those under the age of 65) living in nursing homes, in part due to Medicaid eligibility expansion under the Affordable Care Act. Research shows that this group increased from 10.6 percent of total nursing home residents in 2000 to 16.2 percent in 2017.Medicaid expansion has led to more people of all ages qualifying for the joint federal and state health insurance program. Intended as the payer of last resort when it comes to long-term care, Medicaid has become the primary nursing home insurance for millions of Americans due to the absence of any other public program covering long-term care.In 2020, around 6 million Medicaid enrollees used the program to pay for long-term support and services. Around one in five enrollees received institutional care, such as care provided at a nursing facility.After age 65, more than a quarter of adults receive at least 90 days of nursing home care. Thirteen percent of them receive long-term Medicaid-financed nursing home care.Medicaid typically pays for 100 percent of nursing home costs and may be the only insurance option available for long-term stays. Long-term care insurance can be purchased, but most policies have limits on the maximum daily or monthly benefit amount and the total lifetime benefit, as well as terms and health requirements that may exclude coverage.A nursing home stay isnt necessarily permanent. About 15 percent to 20 percent of admissions are for short-term rehabilitation. Among current residents, the average stay is one year and four months. More than half of residents stay for at least 100 days, while 15 percent of older adults spend over two years in a nursing home.With nursing home costs running $250 to $300 per day in some states, costs can add up quickly. The average nursing home stay of little over a year, or about 485 days, could end up costing upwards of $150,000.Extrapolate these costs over multiple years, and they are unsustainable for many families. Medicaid Planning StrategiesWhether a nursing home stay lasts months, years, or is permanent, you may have crunched the numbers and determined that Medicaid is the only feasible payment option for a parents nursing home care.This is a good news, bad news scenario. The good news is that its possible for somebody who doesnt currently meet Medicaids income and asset limits to spend down their excess assets to meet limits. The bad news is that these limits are generally only $2,000, which requires significant planning, since the average net worth of Americans is more than $1 million, including nearly $1.8 million for those 65 to 74.Another upside is that not all a persons assets count against the limit. A home, for example, is typically exempt. Someone can also own one car without exceeding Medicaids asset limits.Many Medicaid spend down strategies take advantage of workarounds that allow nonexempt assets to be converted to exempt assets, thereby excluding them from Medicaid calculations. But these strategies often involve navigating a tricky five-year lookback period where past asset transfers are scrutinized to ensure applicants dont give away assets to qualify for Medicaid.Keeping these considerations in mind, there are financial planning strategies that can help to protect a parents assets from nursing home costs and a Medicaid spend down. Medicaid-Compliant Annuities (MCAs)MCAs, a type of single premium immediate annuity, allow countable assets (like cash or investments) to be converted into a stream of income that doesnt count toward the Medicaid asset limit. The payout structure must be based on life expectancy, and once purchased, the annuity cannot be cashed out or changed; funds in the annuity are no longer accessible as assets.Annuity income may affect your parents eligibility for other needs-based government programs, such as Supplemental Security Income (SSI). In addition, the state Medicaid agency must be the primary beneficiary in case of the annuitants death during the annuity period. Medicaid Asset Protection Trusts (MAPTs)Medicaid-compliant trusts, like MAPTs, hold assets for a set period, after which they transfer to beneficiaries (usually children or other family members).Assets in the MAPT are no longer considered part of your parents estate for Medicaid purposes. They are legally owned by the trust, not your parents, although they may be able to benefit from these assets, such as remaining in a home transferred to a MAPT.Creating a MAPT triggers a penalty period of Medicaid ineligibility under the lookback period thats based on the value of assets transferred. A MAPT is therefore most effective when implemented well in advance of potential Medicaid need, often in conjunction with a parents estate plan. Promissory NotesA promissory note is a legal agreement that allows your parents to lend money to someone (e.g., a family member) who agrees to repay the money with interest over time. This converts a lump-sum asset into a stream of income.Not all states recognize promissory notes for Medicaid planning. In states that do allow them, they may be subject to scrutiny by state Medicaid agencies. The note must clearly outline the repayment terms and the interest rate must be at or above the applicable federal rate (the minimum interest rate the IRS allows for private loans).Interest income from the loan may be taxed at a lower rate, and the terms can be customized to meet individual needs. For the Medicaid applicant, however, the effectiveness of a promissory note is largely dependent on the borrowers ability and willingness to repay the loan. Life EstatesA life estate lets your parents transfer ownership of their home to a child or other family member while retaining the right to live there for the rest of their lives. It removes the homes value from their countable assets for Medicaid purposes and may protect the family home from Medicaid estate recovery, a program that empowers states to recoup Medicaid expenses from the deceased beneficiarys estate.Medicaids lookback policy applies to life estates, so the transfer must be done well in advance of needing care. Your parents may also lose some control over the property, and there could be tax implications. Other Spend Down StrategiesA spend down strategy might additionally include a parent spending on needs or wants that can both enhance their quality of life and help them qualify for Medicaid.Paying off debts, making necessary home repairs, purchasing a new car, prepaying funeral expenses, or taking a family vacation are ways to spend down assets and derive an instant benefit.Gifting assets to loved ones outside of the lookback period can reduce countable assets and fit into a gifting while living strategy, but annual and lifetime gift tax exemptions apply.If only one spouse needs nursing home care, Medicaid allows the other spouse (the community spouse) to retain a certain amount of income and assets.Because state Medicaid laws and individual nursing home care needs vary, there is no one-size-fits-all strategy for protecting a parents assets from nursing home costs and a Medicaid spend down. To develop a personalized plan that avoids penalties or disqualification from Medicaid in your state and also maximizes asset protection, consult with Ashley Day.  Phone: 251-277-3377.

How Hiring a Caregiver Can Truly Transform Daily Life

How Hiring a Caregiver Can Truly Transform Daily Life As our loved ones age, simple everyday actionslike getting dressed, preparing a meal, or remembering medicationscan turn into significant challenges. This is where hiring a caregiver becomes not just helpful but life-changing. In-home care organizations such as Seniors Helping Seniors Pittsburgh provide compassionate, personalized support, empowering seniors and alleviating burdens for family caregivers. Understanding Activities of Daily Living Activities of Daily Living (ADLs) refer to the essential tasks we all need to handle routinely: bathing, dressing, grooming, toileting, eating, and mobility. When any of these become difficult, safety, health, and independence are directly affected. Yet, with help from a caring caregiver, seniors dont just survivethey thrive. What Makes Seniors Helping Seniors Pittsburgh Special? Based in Northeastern Pittsburgh and Southwestern Pennsylvania, Seniors Helping Seniors is more than a serviceits a community. They employ senior caregivers who deeply understand aging because theyre experiencing it too seniorshelpingseniors.com+9locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+9locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+9seniorsbluebook.com+1seniorsbluebook.com+1. No strangers in suitsjust friends who relate. The local offices offer full-spectrum in-home care services, including: Personal care & daily living assistancehelp with bathing, dressing, grooming, toileting, eating/drinking, and safe mobility locations.seniorshelpingseniors.comseniorshelpingseniors.com+5locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+5seniorsbluebook.com+5 Meal preparation & grocery shoppingensuring nutritious, home-cooked meals without the hassle seniorsbluebook.com+1seniorsbluebook.com+1 Medication reminderskeeping daily routines on track members.pghnorthchamber.com+8locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+8seniorsbluebook.com+8 Transportation & errandsrides to appointments, social visits, errands, and even outings seniorshelpingseniors.com+8locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+8seniorsbluebook.com+8 Light housekeepingcovering laundry, dusting, dishes, vacuuming so the home stays safe and comfortable locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+2seniorsbluebook.com+2seniorsbluebook.com+2 Companionship & socializationfostering emotional well-being through shared hobbies and warm conversation locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+5locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+5seniorsbluebook.com+5 The Real-Life Difference Take Mary, who recently shared: My dependable and friendly Seniors Helping Seniors caregiver provides transportation to my scheduled appointments as well as taking care of household errands... I indulge in the most delicious and nutritious meals right in my own home! members.pghnorthchamber.com+8locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+8seniorshelpingseniors.com+8 Or John, recovering from knee replacement: A plan was quickly put in place for my care a few days a week. I am very fortunate for all the help from my Seniors Helping Seniors caregiver. seniorshelpingseniors.com+2locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+2locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+2 These stories show how hiring a caregiver is not just about crossing off tasksits about reclaiming life. Relief for Family Caregivers Family caregiversoften spouses or adult childrenfrequently find themselves juggling work, healthcare, and personal life, leading to burnout. Caregiver fatigue isnt just an emotional toll; it can impact physical and mental health. By involving in-home caregivers for ADLs, families gain room to breathe. Respite care, offered even overnight, is a built-in support system locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+1seniorsbluebook.com+1. Whether its a few hours of personal time or a full day off, this service replenishes energy and strengthens bonds with loved ones. Senior-to-Senior Care: A Unique Approach What's distinctive about Seniors Helping Seniors is its peer-to-peer model: mature caregivers helping mature adults. This isnt a clinical serviceits heartfelt companionship built on shared experiences . Caregivers understand the challengesmobility issues, memory changes, loss of a spousebecause theyve experienced them too. That shared empathy fosters deep trust, enhancing comfort and dignity while maintaining independence. How Hiring an InHome Caregiver Supports ADLs 1. Preserves independence Gentle support during daily routines ensures seniors stay in control, avoiding accidents and injury. 2. Prevents falls and enhances safety Caregivers spot hazards, steady movement, and reduce fall riskespecially during baths or transfers . 3. Boosts nutrition and health From balanced meal prep to medication reminders, caregivers ensure seniors maintain vital healthy routines. 4. Enriches emotional wellness Companionship combats loneliness, stimulates the mind, and builds meaningful friendships locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+8seniorsbluebook.com+8locations.seniorshelpingseniors.com+8. 5. Supports complex or specialized needs Caregivers are trained for dementia care, post-surgery recovery, and chronic conditions like COPD or heart issues . Words from Pittsburgh: Real Stories Sometimes the only thing you can do is give yourself... I enjoy my Seniors Helping Seniors clients stories... I hope that my presence is one of their presents for the week. These are more than care sessionstheyre shared moments. For families, this translates into peace of mind. Long-distance family caregivers can receive check-ins, updates, and reassurancewhile trusted caregivers fill the day-to-day role .

Local Services By This Author

SYNERGY HomeCare of Daphne

Non-Medical 1048 Stanton Road, Suite D, Daphne, Alabama, 36526

Welcome to SYNERGY HomeCare of Daphne Compassionate, Reliable, and Award-Winning Home CareCare That Moves You ForwardLife is always moving forward, and at SYNERGY HomeCare, we are committed to ensuring that you or your loved ones can move forward confidently, comfortably, and with the care needed to thrive. Whether its personal assistance, companionship, live-in care, or end-of-life comfort, we provide the extra support that makes all the difference. Our compassionate caregivers are here to enhance independence, dignity, and well-being.Call us today to explore the home care solutions that best fit your needs: 251-621-1900Why Choose SYNERGY HomeCare?Award-Winning Home CareSYNERGY HomeCare has been nationally recognized for outstanding client care, earning top rankings from Home Care Pulse, an independent satisfaction research firm. We are proud to set the standard in home care excellence.Flexible, Personalized CareOn Your TermsNo long-term contractsservices adapt to your changing needs.Available 24/7, from a few hours a day to full-time care.Caregivers matched based on personality, skills, and preferences.Immediate caregiver placement available based on your needs.Fully licensed, insured, and bonded caregivers for your peace of mind.Common Questions AnsweredCan I choose my caregiver and meet them in advance?Yes! We arrange meet-and-greet sessions so you feel comfortable with your caregiver. If you ever wish to change caregivers, we will accommodate your request until youre completely satisfied.Why should I choose SYNERGY HomeCare instead of hiring a private caregiver?Hiring privately makes you an employer, responsible for payroll taxes, insurance, and background checks. With SYNERGY HomeCare, we handle all of this for you, ensuring reliable coverage and peace of mindno missed shifts, no legal worries, just exceptional care.What services do you offer?We provide a comprehensive range of non-medical home care services, including:Personal Assistance (bathing, dressing, hygiene, mobility support)Companionship & Social EngagementAlzheimers & Dementia CareMeal Preparation & Feeding AssistanceMedication RemindersLight Housekeeping & LaundryErrands & Grocery ShoppingTransportation to AppointmentsExercise & Healthy Living SupportCare Coordination with Hospitals, Home Health, and Hospice24/7 Care & Family Respite SupportVeteransWe Honor Your Service with Exceptional Home CareAt SYNERGY HomeCare, we are honored to serve Veterans and their families. Many of our locations are VA-approved providers, making it easy to access home care benefits through the Veterans Affairs (VA) programs.How VA Benefits Can Help Cover Home CareIf you or your spouse need assistance with daily activities, memory care, or support for disability or illness, your VA benefits may help cover home care services. Eligible programs include:Homemaker and Home Health Aide Program Personal care services for eligible Veterans.Aid and Attendance Pension Additional financial assistance for Veterans, spouses, and surviving spouses.Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers (PCAFC) Support for family caregivers, including respite care and stipends.Veteran-Directed Care (VDC) A self-directed care program for Veterans to choose their caregivers and manage their care.Let us help you navigate your VA benefits and access the home care services you deserve.Reliable, Flexible CareWhen You Need ItWhether you need companionship, assistance with daily tasks, or full-time care, SYNERGY HomeCare is here for you. We provide full support for fuller lives so you can live with dignity, independence, and confidence. Call us today for a FREE in-home assessment: 251-621-1900SYNERGY HomeCare Compassionate Care That Moves You Forward.

SettingsRequest history1.1sRequest Duration3MBMemory Usage11.x
Laravel Version
11.45.1
PHP Version
8.2.24
Environment
production
Debug Mode
Enabled
URL
seniorsbluebook.com
Timezone
America/Denver
Locale
en
GET articles/{slug}
status
200 OK
full_url
https://seniorsbluebook.com/articles/caring-for-myself-while-caring-for-my-aging-parents
action_name
library-details
controller_action
App\Http\Controllers\Front\ArticleController@libraryDetails
Theme
Open Button Position
Hide Empty Tabs
Autoshow
Reset to defaults
    status
    200 OK
    full_url
    https://seniorsbluebook.com/articles/caring-for-myself-while-caring-for-my-aging-parents
    action_name
    library-details
    controller_action
    App\Http\Controllers\Front\ArticleController@libraryDetails
    uri
    GET articles/{slug}
    controller
    App\Http\Controllers\Front\ArticleController@libraryDetails
    namespace
    App\Http\Controllers
    file
    app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:126-258
    middleware
    web
    duration
    1.1s
    peak_memory
    4MB
    response
    text/html; charset=UTF-8
    request_format
    html
    request_query
    []
    
    request_request
    []
    
    request_headers
    0 of 0
    array:18 [ "host" => array:1 [ 0 => "seniorsbluebook.com" ] "pragma" => array:1 [ 0 => "no-cache" ] "cache-control" => array:1 [ 0 => "no-cache" ] "sec-ch-ua" => array:1 [ 0 => ""Chromium";v="130", "HeadlessChrome";v="130", "Not?A_Brand";v="99"" ] "sec-ch-ua-mobile" => array:1 [ 0 => "?0" ] "sec-ch-ua-platform" => array:1 [ 0 => ""Windows"" ] "upgrade-insecure-requests" => array:1 [ 0 => "1" ] "user-agent" => array:1 [ 0 => "Mozilla/5.0 AppleWebKit/537.36 (KHTML, like Gecko; compatible; ClaudeBot/1.0; +claudebot@anthropic.com)" ] "accept" => array:1 [ 0 => "text/html,application/xhtml+xml,application/xml;q=0.9,image/avif,image/webp,image/apng,*/*;q=0.8,application/signed-exchange;v=b3;q=0.7" ] "sec-fetch-site" => array:1 [ 0 => "none" ] "sec-fetch-mode" => array:1 [ 0 => "navigate" ] "sec-fetch-user" => array:1 [ 0 => "?1" ] "sec-fetch-dest" => array:1 [ 0 => "document" ] "accept-encoding" => array:1 [ 0 => "gzip, deflate, br, zstd" ] "cookie" => array:1 [ 0 => "XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Im9FRU03TE5IQTBuZldYaGwrU1FYcmc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiK3FmcjBTdEM4dTdDbnVWclRvRWpsYXRiOE5aWG9vNjlHc2NuVHpqeHFhOElFRVdmZGhheGk5TmVQQ0t1SG94NHJqc0t4M1R2YmNFODU4N2lhZllUQlg0aUR3STdJNzM5cGJMbS9XVGhwUWM3V3JQUEF0Q2orQmFVa2FXbDRXdmQiLCJtYWMiOiJjOTczNDdkYWI5NzMzNGYxNmY2ODNjZWMwNmZkNWUxZDAyZDIxYTUxNDdmMGJiOWM4ZTJlZGRiOWM3MDcxOWI2IiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; seniors_blue_book_session=eyJpdiI6ImhGZEJOZmQybGt0OTJJNjNqYXNKVWc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiSTdCVndxYjFJNkU1WGZnc2lNT0FSSktpcTFibDM4S2RuamJQdU5yajJHRmt6VXpmZVNsUXBJV1lnZXNGZE5WemV3UWV3QmZDeEcwci8vbm8wOVQwdlJldTkrakdnNlc4eGR6QnpGTjJPNm45cW1mNk9ycDNiR1JxVHpOcHRmYlciLCJtYWMiOiJkNzNjMmFiN2FkOWE1YmE4YWY2ZDZmZjIwZGIxNWQzMGM3ZWViOTgyMTlhYjI2ZWRiZWE0N2MwYTk0MDBlZTU3IiwidGFnIjoiIn0%3D; DO-LB="Cg4xMC4xMDguMC4yOjQ0MxDawawW"; userdata=55a8cafb-a2b1-466d-b00a-3b4dceb87030XSRF-TOKEN=eyJpdiI6Im9FRU03TE5IQTBuZldYaGwrU1FYcmc9PSIsInZhbHVlIjoiK3FmcjBTdEM4dTdDbnVWclRvRWpsYXRiOE5aWG9vNjlHc2NuVHpqeHFhOElFRVdmZGhheGk5TmVQQ0t1SG94NHJqc0t4M" ] "x-forwarded-for" => array:1 [ 0 => "216.73.216.158" ] "x-forwarded-proto" => array:1 [ 0 => "https" ] "x-forwarded-port" => array:1 [ 0 => "443" ] ]
    request_cookies
    0 of 0
    array:4 [ "XSRF-TOKEN" => "IUGPxXYVs2YnJRxls8o7PbJHOS00MncrV4jKMlw3" "seniors_blue_book_session" => "41ln8ccP6MAdx2NU9NsMuj400kCuWoRETXheIP4i" "DO-LB" => null "userdata" => null ]
    response_headers
    0 of 0
    array:3 [ "content-type" => array:1 [ 0 => "text/html; charset=UTF-8" ] "cache-control" => array:1 [ 0 => "no-cache, private" ] "date" => array:1 [ 0 => "Sun, 06 Jul 2025 14:08:44 GMT" ] ]
    session_attributes
    0 of 0
    array:4 [ "_token" => "IUGPxXYVs2YnJRxls8o7PbJHOS00MncrV4jKMlw3" "PHPDEBUGBAR_STACK_DATA" => [] "_previous" => array:1 [ "url" => "https://seniorsbluebook.com/articles/what-is-a-personalized-memorial-guide-why-is-it-important-to-have-one" ] "_flash" => array:2 [ "old" => [] "new" => [] ] ]
    • Booting (36.31ms)time
    • Application (1.06s)time
    • Routing (416μs)
    • Preparing Response (64.53ms)
    • View: front.articles-detailsviews
    • View: layouts.front.frontviews
    • View: layouts.front.headerviews
    • View: layouts.front.footerviews
    • 1 x Application (96.68%)
      1.06s
      1 x Preparing Response (5.89%)
      64.53ms
      1 x Booting (3.31%)
      36.31ms
      1 x Routing (0.04%)
      416μs
      4 x View (0%)
      0μs
      4 templates were rendered
      • front.articles-detailsarticles-details.blade.php#?blade
      • layouts.front.frontfront.blade.php#?blade
      • layouts.front.headerheader.blade.php#?blade
      • layouts.front.footerfooter.blade.php#?blade
      24 statements were executed (4 duplicates)Show only duplicates996ms
      • SessionManager.php#108seniorsbb_db_devConnection Established
        Backtrace
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/SessionManager.php:108
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/SessionManager.php:95
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php:159
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php:57
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Pipeline/Pipeline.php:209
      • DatabaseSessionHandler.php#97seniorsbb_db_dev5.53msselect * from `sessions` where `id` = '41ln8ccP6MAdx2NU9NsMuj400kCuWoRETXheIP4i' limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 41ln8ccP6MAdx2NU9NsMuj400kCuWoRETXheIP4i
        Backtrace
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/DatabaseSessionHandler.php:97
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php:117
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php:105
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Store.php:89
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Session/Middleware/StartSession.php:147
      • ArticleController.php#130seniorsbb_db_dev85.3msselect `articles`.* from `articles` where `articles`.`slug` = 'caring-for-myself-while-caring-for-my-aging-parents' and `articles`.`active` = 'Yes' and `articles`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: caring-for-myself-while-caring-for-my-aging-parents
        • 1: Yes
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:130
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#130seniorsbb_db_dev1.78msselect * from `listingattachment` where `type` = 'article' and `primary` = 1 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` in (10056)
        Bindings
        • 0: article
        • 1: 1
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:130
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#132seniorsbb_db_dev1.12msselect * from `category` where `id` = '348' and `type` = 'article' limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 348
        • 1: article
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:132
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#170seniorsbb_db_dev14.47msselect * from `articlecategories` where `articleId` = 10056
        Bindings
        • 0: 10056
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:170
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#186seniorsbb_db_dev74.19msselect distinct `articles`.* from `articles` inner join `articlecategories` on `articlecategories`.`articleId` = `articles`.`id` where `articles`.`active` = 'Yes' and `articlecategories`.`childCategory` in (612, 446) and `articles`.`type` = 'article' and `articles`.`id` != 10056 and `articles`.`deleted_at` is null group by `articles`.`id` order by `articles`.`created_at` desc limit 3
        Bindings
        • 0: Yes
        • 1: 612
        • 2: 446
        • 3: article
        • 4: 10056
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:186
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#196seniorsbb_db_dev238msselect `company`.`id` as `parentId`, `child`.`id` as `childId` from `company` left join `company` as `child` on `child`.`parentCompany` = `company`.`id` where `company`.`parentCompany` = '54255' and `company`.`deleted_at` is null
        Bindings
        • 0: 54255
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:196
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • ArticleController.php#210seniorsbb_db_dev535msselect * from `listings` where `active` = 'Yes' and `company` = '54255' and `listings`.`deleted_at` is null order by RAND() limit 3
        Bindings
        • 0: Yes
        • 1: 54255
        Backtrace
        • app/Http/Controllers/Front/ArticleController.php:210
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Controller.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/ControllerDispatcher.php:44
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:266
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Routing/Route.php:212
      • DatabaseQueue.php#188seniorsbb_db_dev15.08msinsert into `queue_jobs` (`queue`, `attempts`, `reserved_at`, `available_at`, `created_at`, `payload`) values ('default', 0, null, 1751810924, 1751810924, '{\"uuid\":\"52abf075-901a-42d9-af7c-6f96b4259c9f\",\"displayName\":\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\",\"job\":\"Illuminate\\\\Queue\\\\CallQueuedHandler@call\",\"maxTries\":null,\"maxExceptions\":null,\"failOnTimeout\":false,\"backoff\":null,\"timeout\":null,\"retryUntil\":null,\"data\":{\"commandName\":\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\",\"command\":\"O:21:\\\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\\\":5:{s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000track_data\\\";O:45:\\\"Illuminate\\\\Contracts\\\\Database\\\\ModelIdentifier\\\":5:{s:5:\\\"class\\\";s:18:\\\"App\\\\Models\\\\Article\\\";s:2:\\\"id\\\";a:3:{i:0;i:15255;i:1;i:15254;i:2;i:15253;}s:9:\\\"relations\\\";a:0:{}s:10:\\\"connection\\\";s:5:\\\"mysql\\\";s:15:\\\"collectionClass\\\";N;}s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000usercookie\\\";s:18:\\\"us734trb76et634tbr\\\";s:7:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000type\\\";s:7:\\\"article\\\";s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000event_type\\\";s:6:\\\"appear\\\";s:16:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000inputDataType\\\";s:4:\\\"data\\\";}\"}}')
        Bindings
        • 0: default
        • 1: 0
        • 2: 
        • 3: 1751810924
        • 4: 1751810924
        • 5: {"uuid":"52abf075-901a-42d9-af7c-6f96b4259c9f","displayName":"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary","job":"Illuminate\\Queue\\CallQueuedHandler@call","maxTries":null,"maxExceptions":null,"failOnTimeout":false,"backoff":null,"timeout":null,"retryUntil":null,"data":{"commandName":"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary","command":"O:21:\"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary\":5:{s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000track_data\";O:45:\"Illuminate\\Contracts\\Database\\ModelIdentifier\":5:{s:5:\"class\";s:18:\"App\\Models\\Article\";s:2:\"id\";a:3:{i:0;i:15255;i:1;i:15254;i:2;i:15253;}s:9:\"relations\";a:0:{}s:10:\"connection\";s:5:\"mysql\";s:15:\"collectionClass\";N;}s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000usercookie\";s:18:\"us734trb76et634tbr\";s:7:\"\u0000*\u0000type\";s:7:\"article\";s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000event_type\";s:6:\"appear\";s:16:\"\u0000*\u0000inputDataType\";s:4:\"data\";}"}}
        Backtrace
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:188
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:99
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/Queue.php:338
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:93
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Bus/Dispatcher.php:244
      • DatabaseQueue.php#188seniorsbb_db_dev2.9msinsert into `queue_jobs` (`queue`, `attempts`, `reserved_at`, `available_at`, `created_at`, `payload`) values ('default', 0, null, 1751810924, 1751810924, '{\"uuid\":\"01671eed-b3f5-465a-9483-dc717c142414\",\"displayName\":\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\",\"job\":\"Illuminate\\\\Queue\\\\CallQueuedHandler@call\",\"maxTries\":null,\"maxExceptions\":null,\"failOnTimeout\":false,\"backoff\":null,\"timeout\":null,\"retryUntil\":null,\"data\":{\"commandName\":\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\",\"command\":\"O:21:\\\"App\\\\Jobs\\\\TrackLibrary\\\":5:{s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000track_data\\\";O:45:\\\"Illuminate\\\\Contracts\\\\Database\\\\ModelIdentifier\\\":5:{s:5:\\\"class\\\";s:18:\\\"App\\\\Models\\\\Listing\\\";s:2:\\\"id\\\";a:1:{i:0;i:55019;}s:9:\\\"relations\\\";a:0:{}s:10:\\\"connection\\\";s:5:\\\"mysql\\\";s:15:\\\"collectionClass\\\";N;}s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000usercookie\\\";s:18:\\\"us734trb76et634tbr\\\";s:7:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000type\\\";s:7:\\\"article\\\";s:13:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000event_type\\\";s:6:\\\"appear\\\";s:16:\\\"\\u0000*\\u0000inputDataType\\\";s:4:\\\"data\\\";}\"}}')
        Bindings
        • 0: default
        • 1: 0
        • 2: 
        • 3: 1751810924
        • 4: 1751810924
        • 5: {"uuid":"01671eed-b3f5-465a-9483-dc717c142414","displayName":"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary","job":"Illuminate\\Queue\\CallQueuedHandler@call","maxTries":null,"maxExceptions":null,"failOnTimeout":false,"backoff":null,"timeout":null,"retryUntil":null,"data":{"commandName":"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary","command":"O:21:\"App\\Jobs\\TrackLibrary\":5:{s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000track_data\";O:45:\"Illuminate\\Contracts\\Database\\ModelIdentifier\":5:{s:5:\"class\";s:18:\"App\\Models\\Listing\";s:2:\"id\";a:1:{i:0;i:55019;}s:9:\"relations\";a:0:{}s:10:\"connection\";s:5:\"mysql\";s:15:\"collectionClass\";N;}s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000usercookie\";s:18:\"us734trb76et634tbr\";s:7:\"\u0000*\u0000type\";s:7:\"article\";s:13:\"\u0000*\u0000event_type\";s:6:\"appear\";s:16:\"\u0000*\u0000inputDataType\";s:4:\"data\";}"}}
        Backtrace
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:188
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:99
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/Queue.php:338
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Queue/DatabaseQueue.php:93
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Bus/Dispatcher.php:244
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#51seniorsbb_db_dev1.35msselect * from `company` where `company`.`id` = '54255' and `company`.`id` is not null and `company`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 54255
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:51
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#54seniorsbb_db_dev1.36msselect * from `company` where `company`.`id` = '54255' and `company`.`id` is not null and `company`.`deleted_at` is null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 54255
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:54
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#66seniorsbb_db_dev1.9msselect `books`.*, `bookeditionmapping`.`recordId` as `pivot_recordId`, `bookeditionmapping`.`bookId` as `pivot_bookId` from `books` inner join `bookeditionmapping` on `books`.`id` = `bookeditionmapping`.`bookId` where `bookeditionmapping`.`recordId` = 10056 and `bookeditionmapping`.`type` = 'article'
        Bindings
        • 0: 10056
        • 1: article
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:66
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#70seniorsbb_db_dev1.74msselect `books`.*, `bookeditionmapping`.`recordId` as `pivot_recordId`, `bookeditionmapping`.`bookId` as `pivot_bookId` from `books` inner join `bookeditionmapping` on `books`.`id` = `bookeditionmapping`.`bookId` where `bookeditionmapping`.`recordId` = 10056 and `bookeditionmapping`.`type` = 'article'
        Bindings
        • 0: 10056
        • 1: article
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:70
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#85seniorsbb_db_dev1.54msselect * from `listingcontacts` where `listingcontacts`.`listingId` = 10056 and `listingcontacts`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'article' and `primary` = 1 limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 10056
        • 1: article
        • 2: 1
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:85
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#85seniorsbb_db_dev1.48msselect * from `contacts` where `contacts`.`id` = 21193 and `contacts`.`id` is not null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 21193
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:85
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#237seniorsbb_db_dev1.61msselect * from `listingattachment` where `listingattachment`.`listingId` = 55019 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'listing' and `primary` = 1 limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 55019
        • 1: listing
        • 2: 1
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:237
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#253seniorsbb_db_dev1.36msselect * from `categorymapping` where `categorymapping`.`slug` = 'NMHC' and `categorymapping`.`slug` is not null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: NMHC
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:253
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#256seniorsbb_db_dev1.48msselect * from `category` where `category`.`id` = 'NMHC' and `category`.`id` is not null limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: NMHC
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:256
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#299seniorsbb_db_dev1.77msselect * from `listingattachment` where `listingattachment`.`listingId` = 15255 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'article' and `primary` = 1 limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 15255
        • 1: article
        • 2: 1
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:299
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#299seniorsbb_db_dev1.73msselect * from `listingattachment` where `listingattachment`.`listingId` = 15254 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'article' and `primary` = 1 limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 15254
        • 1: article
        • 2: 1
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:299
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#299seniorsbb_db_dev2msselect * from `listingattachment` where `listingattachment`.`listingId` = 15253 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'article' and `primary` = 1 limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 15253
        • 1: article
        • 2: 1
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:299
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php#301seniorsbb_db_dev1.3msselect * from `listingattachment` where `listingattachment`.`listingId` = 15253 and `listingattachment`.`listingId` is not null and `type` = 'article' limit 1
        Bindings
        • 0: 15253
        • 1: article
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/3968f797b22a9c6b17ff202289cdb425.php:301
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      • 6162bf581736fa7f4e9b70a52a1034b4.php#2seniorsbb_db_dev1.4msselect * from `articles` where `articles`.`deleted_at` is null order by `id` desc limit 3
        Backtrace
        • var/www/html/sbb/shared/storage/framework/views/6162bf581736fa7f4e9b70a52a1034b4.php:2
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/Filesystem/Filesystem.php:124
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/PhpEngine.php:58
        • vendor/livewire/livewire/src/Mechanisms/ExtendBlade/ExtendedCompilerEngine.php:22
        • vendor/laravel/framework/src/Illuminate/View/Engines/CompilerEngine.php:75
      App\Models\Article
      7Article.php#?
      App\Models\ListingAttachments
      4ListingAttachments.php#?
      App\Models\ArticleCategory
      2ArticleCategory.php#?
      App\Models\Company
      2Company.php#?
      App\Models\Books
      2Books.php#?
      App\Models\Category
      1Category.php#?
      App\Models\Listing
      1Listing.php#?
      App\Models\ListingContacts
      1ListingContacts.php#?
      App\Models\Contact
      1Contact.php#?
      App\Models\CategoryMapping
      1CategoryMapping.php#?
          ClearShow all
          Date ↕MethodURLData
          #12025-07-06 08:08:44GET/articles/caring-for-myself-while-caring-for-my-aging-parents42422