How Does One Find Purpose and JOY as They Age?

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Friends For Life

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May 17, 2023

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Colorado - Denver Metro

Studies show aging brings Contentment.  BUT, experiencing cognitive or physical decline isn’t a bed of roses! Those same studies conclude that a sense of purpose prevents loneliness and can also help maintain physical well-being. 

Your care team’s Primary Goal should be bridging caregiving with total wellness for their client – i.e., mind, body and soul.   It starts with a written care plan for the aging individual – the plan should begin with a Personalized Mission Statement that identifies small to big goals that bring JOY.  Goals that bring JOY can be simple - completing a walk around the house, doing a small craft or, something aspirational such as a weekly drive in the mountains or visiting the Denver art museum.  Seek JOY with your care team.

Editor’s Note: This article was submitted Jared Kelso, CRTT, CPA.
Jared Kelso is CEO & Owner of Friends for Life and may be reached at 303-321-2822 or email at jared@friendsforlifeinc.com

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