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Estate planning and elder law is a wonderfully rewarding and
fulfilling practice area. As an attorney, I am blessed to work with
families who are not in crisis and are merely planning for their
families. To the extent that we are dealing with people who are in
crisis, we are oftentimes able to assist with strategies that produce a
positive result for the family that they are so happy and so relieved, which
makes the relationship all the better. The hardest thing I have had to
watch during my career is that families are ripped apart for numerous
reasons.
We often joke that we've seen siblings fight over five
dollars or that family members will kill each other over Grandma's clock.
While most times, we are joking and saying it in jest, the truth is families
can often become divided over very basic and nominal things. Disputes can
often arise when an elderly adult individual is receiving care in their home
from another family member or when an individual dies and assets are being
distributed pursuant to the Last Will and Testament or another device.
The instinct for most people is to immediately call an
attorney and litigate or fight over an issue; however, I truly believe that
mediation can oftentimes not only save lots of money for the families involved
but also is a pathway for the family relationship to remain intact. The
job of a mediator is to lead all parties through a conversation to a mutual
agreement that they have entered on their own accord rather than a judge
issuing a final order or decree. Oftentimes with an order or decree,
nobody feels like they got what they want and are always resentful and never
happy with the result. We have referred numerous clients over the years to
different local mediators, and the results have been overwhelmingly positive.
We have had numerous clients who have come back to us and thanked
us for the referral to the local mediators because they were trained in
conflict resolution and were able to dissolve or diffuse the emotions to get to
the root of the problem. Litigation immediately puts people on opposite
sides and often has an end ugly because people are fighting over the principle
of the matter, or they are digging their heels in just because they can.
We highly recommend that you contact a local mediator if you
are in a family conflict, regardless of the root cause. If you do not
know of one, please feel free to contact our office and we can provide the names
of several in the area who are very good at their craft.
With the realization of the value of a mediator, we have now
also been able to eliminate the very few situations that would have ended very
badly for the family and allowed them to come to a mutual agreement. We
hope that this article provides another alternative to litigation and how
conflicts can be resolved.
If you have any further questions or would like to get
additional information, please reach out to our office at 717-220-3120 or check us out on the web at www.bellomoassociates.com.
Why Hire an Elder Law Attorney? Elder law attorneys specialize in estate planning, incapacity planning, and end-of-life care for seniors, helping them remain in their homes and protect against abuse. They are essential in planning for the future and addressing the needs of a vulnerable population. How Can an Elder Law Attorney Help? Long-Term Care Planning: As the number of Americans over 65 is projected to exceed 80 million by 2040, planning for long-term care is increasingly important. Elder law attorneys assist seniors in creating financial plans to cover essential needs like food, rent, and medical care. They also guide clients in applying for public benefits such as Medicaid and Medicare. Housing: Many seniors wish to age in place. Attorneys can represent clients in landlord-tenant disputes, helping them navigate issues like city ordinance violations. They also protect seniors against housing discrimination under the Fair Housing Act. Estate Planning Document Preparation: Elder law attorneys draft critical documents such as wills, health care directives, and powers of attorney, ensuring that seniors rights are protected regarding retirement benefits and medical decisions. A solid estate plan reduces family stress and potential inheritance disputes. Incapacity Planning: Attorneys can help document care wishes for seniors facing disabilities or conditions like dementia. With the rising number of Alzheimers cases, having a plan for incapacity is vital for protecting financial and physical well-being. Guardianship: In cases where an older adult cant make decisions due to conditions like dementia, attorneys assist family members in securing guardianship, which involves legal proceedings and court hearings. They can also advocate for the seniors autonomy by exploring alternatives to full guardianship. Combating Elder Abuse: Elder abuse is a significant public health issue, affecting one in six adults aged 60 and older. Elder law attorneys are well-versed in the rights of seniors and can provide legal recourse against abusers while implementing safeguards like advance directives to protect against financial exploitation. By addressing these diverse needs, elder law attorneys play a critical role in supporting the aging population and ensuring their rights and well-being are protected. Editors Note: This article is for informational purposes only and is not intended to be legal advice.This article was submitted by Ashley Day, Esq. Reach her at 251-277-3377.
When I ask our younger clients if they would like to complete a Health Care Directive, they often say no, stating that they are too young to need such a thing. My response is always, What does age have to do with end-of-life decisions? I can think of at least fifty examples of a young person ending up in the end stage of life and a family member having to make difficult decisions on their behalf. Please, do not get lulled into complacency by thinking that age is protection. I was in my doctors office recently when I noticed a large collage talking about the importance of having a Living Will or Health care Directive. It emphasized the importance of having such a document, regardless of how old you are, reinforcing to me what our office always stresses to our clients and the community. A Health care Directive is a document in which each of us tells our loved ones how we want the end of our life to be handled. When we are in a permanent vegetative state, a permanent state of unconsciousness, or in the end-stage of a medical condition, all with no reasonable likelihood of any significant recovery, it provides answers such as Do you or do you not want to be resuscitated, to you want tube feeding, and appoints an agent that can serve to make decisions for you once you are unable to do so yourself. One of the quotes on the doctors display said, End-of-life decisions should not be made at the end of life. Another said, For human beings, life is meaningful because it is a story, and in stories, endings matter. Another said, I have an Advanced Directive, not because I have a serious illness, but because I have a family. Most of us know what medical decisions we want at the end of our lives, but have we communicated that to our family and loved ones? When we meet with clients to help them create estate planning documents, we always point out to them that they have the option in their Health Care Directive of deciding what, if any, extraordinary measures they want to be taken at the end of their lives. Once they select those options, we then come to perhaps the most difficult question of all: Should these instructions be binding on their families and providers, or do they want their loved ones to be able to override their decisions? Many opt for binding instructions so their loved ones do not have to make any of those difficult decisions in the heat of a devastating crisis. Either way, they have expressed their desire to guide their loved ones. Age is not a factor in creating a Health Care Directive; tragedy can strike unexpectedly at any age. The expense is low, but the peace of mind comes from knowing that when our time comes, we have already made those decisions for ourselves and our loved ones. So, start the conversation with your family. Communicate your wishes to them and urge them to communicate theirs to you. Then, go to a qualified estate attorney and put those wishes on paper so that when your time comes, all involved, including your medical providers, know how you want the end of your life to be managed. We offer FREE Workshops each week. You can also call our office at (717) 208-2899.
Durable Power of Attorney Documents: Why They Are IMPORTANT Adults make decisions every day in life. You make financial choices regarding banking, paying bills and managing assets. You decide with whom to socialize and also where to live. You make health care decisions such as consenting to or refusing treatment, obtaining medical records and choose a course of treatment when ill. But what happens if you are too sick or disabled to manage these decisions? Before it is too late, have you prepared for someone to act on your behalf in the event of a crisis or if you are unable to manage decisions on your own? Adding a person to your bank accounts is not the answer because, among other reasons, it is dangerous and places your accounts at risk. Thankfully, there is a key legal tool for substitute decision making called a Durable Power of Attorney. A Durable Power of Attorney means one person (the principal) gives legal authority to another (the agent or attorney-in-fact) to act on behalf of the principal. Durable means the agent can act when the principal loses capacity. A General Durable Power of Attorney permits your agent to manage any part or all of your financial affairs and property. A Health Care Durable Power of Attorney enables your agent to make any or all health care decisions if you become incapacitated. A Living Will allows you to spell out your desired medical treatment regarding life-saving procedures, artificial nutrition and artificial hydration if you become unable to speak for yourself and have a terminal illness, or are in a persistent vegetative state. Choosing the right person as an agent is a very important decision and should be given careful consideration. It should be someone who is trustworthy, honest, knows how to handle money and accepts the responsibility as an agent. This agent owes a duty to the principal called a fiduciary duty, which means the agent has to act in the principals best interest, in good faith and with care, and keep good records. Abuse by an agent or a breach of fiduciary duty can be punishable civilly and criminally. A principal has the control to revoke a Power of Attorney at any time. If you become incapacitated and have not executed Power of Attorney documents, court proceedings called Guardianship and Conservatorship may be needed for someone to obtain decision making authority, which is both time consuming and costly. However, this may be avoided by planning in advance the execution of Durable Power of Attorney documents, which give you greater control and freedom of choice in an affordable manner. This article was written by Donna A. Schuyler, Attorney, who practices in the areas of estate planning, elder law, guardianship and probate. Donna Schuyler Law, PLLC; elderlawboise.com; Phone 208-344-1947
We Educate so what happened to the Bellomo Family doesn't happen to yours!Our firms mission is to ensure that you and your family never needlessly, painfully suffer. Every team member has a personal story that has brought us here to advocate for you and your family. We want to replace your burden with peace of mind. We have the answers, but more important, we have your back.Bellomo & Associates, LLC advises Individuals and families, business owners, senior citizens, and their families about the estate planning and elder law challenges facing them today. For seniors and their families facing the issues of aging, or for those of any age who wish to protect their familys financial future, we counsel clients and provide solutions on Asset Protection; Specials Needs Trusts; Wills; Trust Design; Medicaid; Estate Planning; Nursing Home Matters; and Estate Administration. For our clients who own businesses, our team assists them with succession planning for their business in conjunction with their estate planning. We have office locations in York, PA, and Lancaster, PA.We offer FREE workshops! Our workshops are fun and entertaining ways to learn! We provide you with the information to decide what is right for you. If after attending, you decide we arent the right fit no problem! Youll never feel any pressure from our team.