You have two hands, one to help yourself, and one to help others,” wise words from silver screen star Audrey Hepburn. How often in your day-to-day responsibilities are you able to put both hands on the wheel and navigate your life? How often do you ask for help when it comes to all of the commitments that you carry?
I received a phone call from “Patricia” wanting information and direction regarding her mother, “Twila.” Twila had been living with Patricia and her family for the last three years. A series of strokes made it impossible for Twila to live alone. Patricia's voice cracked as she explained it was her cultural duty to care for her mother, “giving-up and asking for help” were not culturally acceptable. She was tired, overwhelmed and doing her best to navigate her job responsibilities, family, and caregiving for her mother. “I feel like I'm failing everyone, I feel so guilty even asking for help!” Love and concern was at the heart of Patricia’s call, she just needed to know she could ask for help and not be overwhelmed with “Caregiver Guilt”.
It’s O.K. to ask for help to pull through the heavy responsibilities of hands-on caregiving, or even caregiving from a distance. For many family members, a recent visit home, or a health scare has opened their eyes that mom or dad is no longer able to manage all of the complexities of living at home on their own. I encouraged Patricia to find opportunities to take time for herself, meet her own physical and mental health needs, and to put a few of her responsibilities in the hands of other capable professionals by hiring a Home Care Company to provide assistance and companionship for her mother.
Patricia learned that “Asking for Help” was not a sign of weakness but rather a solid step in managing a very full life.
It’s O.K. to ask for help…it doesn’t make you weak, it reveals strength, even when you don’t feel strong.
Editor’sNote: This article was submitted by Jamie Schmidt, Senior Business Development Manager & Advisor for Talem Home Care & Placement Services
She may be reached at 720-789-8529 or at J.schmidt@Talemhc.com
Making the decision to move a loved one into senior living is never easy. Its a choice that often comes with a swirl of emotionsgrief, guilt, uncertainty, and even relief. For many families, it marks the beginning of a new chapter that is both necessary and deeply emotional.At Assisted Living Locators, we understand the complexity of this transition. We're not just here to help you find the right placewere here to walk alongside you as you navigate the feelings, questions, and challenges that come with it.The Emotional Weight of the DecisionMoving a parent or loved one out of their homewhere memories were made and independence was cherishedcan feel like a loss. Even when its the right time, the reality of change can be overwhelming.Families often struggle with questions like: Are we doing the right thing? Will they feel abandoned? How do we even begin to choose the right place? These are not just logistical concerns. They're emotional ones. And theyre completely valid.You Are Not AloneEvery family has a unique story, and no two transitions look the same. Thats why a one-size-fits-all approach doesnt work. At Assisted Living Locators, we start by listeningreally listeningto your concerns, your hopes, and your loved ones needs.We help you: Understand the options available, from independent and assisted living to memory care and beyond. Navigate conversations with compassion, helping your loved one feel heard and included in the decision-making process. Find peace of mind in knowing that a knowledgeable, local expert is by your side. More Than a Placement ServiceWhat sets us apart is that were not just matching families to facilities. Were guiding people through one of lifes most sensitive and significant transitions. We offer not only practical guidance, but emotional supporthelping you make decisions with confidence, clarity, and care.Well tour communities with you, ask the hard questions, and advocate for what matters most to your family. And we do it all at no cost to you.A Step Toward Peace of MindIts okay to feel the weight of this moment. It's okay to need help. And it's okay to prioritize both your loved ones well-being and your own peace of mind.Let us be a trusted partner in this journeyso you dont have to walk it alone.Contact us today at pghassistedliving.com or (724) 972 -3202 to take the first step. Were here to help with heart, knowledge, and unwavering support.
Making the decision between aging-in-place or moving to a senior living community is one of the most important choices youll make. This guide provides an overview of both options to help you determine the best choice for your future.
You may have heard about senior placement agencies, but if you are not sure how they work or what they do, you arent the only one. Most families are not sure how to help elderly loved ones when they need to find an assisted living community or how to choose nursing homes that will provide loving care and have reasonable occupancy rates.Heres what you need to know about making an informed decision about communities in your local area so your elderly loved one can have the best possible living situation. Keep things like cost, personalized assistance, and quality of life in mind. How Online Senior Placement Agencies OperateIn todays world, its natural to research products and services online. However, when it comes to researching assisted living and memory care options for your loved one, beware! It can be confusing to understand how online senior placement agencies operate. When youre not clear on what senior placement services will do for you and your loved one or whether senior living placement services have your loved ones best interests in mind, its best to take a step back and do some additional research before committing to an agency. Whether you want to move your loved one into an assisted living community or somewhere else, heres what you need to know. An Example of Assisted Living ConfusionWhen you search for assisted living communities in your search engine, you may see numerous websites that are not assisted living facilities. Rather, theyre online agencies contracted with multiple assisted living providers in the given area. As you access their website information, you will notice that you are not reviewing the services and amenities of a specific assisted living or memory care community.If you call or enter your contact information into an online agencys website, your information may be emailed to multiple assisted living providers. This results in numerous phone calls and emails inquiring about your loved one and inviting you for a tour. Additionally, you may never meet their senior advisor other than by phone or email.While this process may be perfectly acceptable to you, please remember that it can occur during a stressful period when you must make a quick care decision for your loved one. It could also happen when youre not ready to decide because you are just doing some initial investigating.Theres certainly no risk to searching an online agencys website. Still, a good practice is to click on their privacy link at the bottom of their homepage to understand how they will disclose your information before providing your contact information. Should You Just Pick an Assisted Living Community?Some family members will choose a random senior living community for their loved ones. The decision may be because the community advertises independent living, is close to home, or the reviews look good. Unfortunately, thats not really a good way to select a senior care facility.Theres much more to finding quality independent or assisted living communities than a quick search. In general, you should look at senior living options with an eye toward medical care, financial burden, quality of senior care, living arrangements, desired location, and whether they can create a smooth transition for your loved one.If you think that sounds overwhelming, youre not alone. Making informed decisions can be hard, especially with so many senior living option considerations. Many seniors cannot safely make their own choices and rely on a family member to help them. Even if you do your own research, you may still not be confident that you are choosing the best place to support your aging loved one. How CarePatrols Senior Care Advisors Are Different Trying to go it alone when choosing a senior living community can be too difficult, but what if you dont want to give your contact information to senior placement services that are going to inundate you with calls during an already stressful time? Are those the only two ways you can find a senior living space for your loved one?Fortunately, theres a third option: CarePatrol.At CarePatrol, your contact information is treated confidentially until you wish to disclose it to a senior living provider to whom we introduce you. We offer a local, personalized, hands-on approach by preferring to meet with you in person, pick you up and accompany you on tours, and meet with your loved one at home, the hospital, a rehab facility, or wherever they are.Were not your typical senior placement agency, we are a local senior care advisory service. Were highly focused on helping people find assisted living communities or other senior living options for their loved ones. Our goal is to provide you with a stress-free process that doesnt add to your confusion or concern during an already difficult time.Our free service was started by a social worker after seeing the trauma inflicted on a family whose loved one was placed in the wrong kind of facility for their needs. We worked hard to become the pioneer organization and referral agency for placing loved ones in senior care, and we continue to focus on seniors and their families when they need us most.As a national network of local small business franchise owners, CarePatrols mission statement is to provide safer care options for seniors. What You Can Expect from Working with UsOur local senior care advisors understand the value of protecting older adults and want to provide them with essential care options to meet their needs. If you have a loved one ready to move to a senior care community or need more than in-home care can provide, working with us can give you information and options.The aging process is complex, and many factors work together to influence the outcome of a senior living decision. We can help you navigate social, health, and financial concerns to find the right care option. Our local senior care advisors pre-screen all our facilities, so youll know what youre getting when we connect you.Working with us takes all the guesswork out of finding the right care options for your senior loved one so both of you can relax and enjoy more time together. Were honored to provide the value we offer to seniors and their families and are deeply committed to ensuring that your loved one will get the care they need in a comfortable place they can truly call home. Ready to Learn More?Reach out to us at CarePatrol of Western PA to discuss senior care options in your area. Our seniro care advisory agency offers a free service to help you and your loved one find the right senior care option for their needs. The senior care industry can be difficult to navigate at times, especially for older adults, but with a little extra help, valuable insights, and a free consultation, you can decide if CarePatrols help is right for your loved one.Reach out to us today at 724-631-4950.
Your Family is Our Family!At Talem Home Care, we are proud to be one of Colorado's premier senior care life enrichment companies, dedicated to enhancing the well-being and quality of life for aging individuals.Aging shouldn't be stressful or uncertain. Every family deserves access to the best information and support to make informed decisions for their loved ones.As a life enrichment company specializing in senior care, our mission is to provide holistic support through these key principles: - Comprehensive Senior Care - Wellness-Focused Services - Engagement and Social Interaction - Personalized Senior Care - Community Connection - Positive ImpactOur team of Certified Senior Advisors is dedicated to providing expert advice, professionalism, and compassion, reassuring families as they navigate the aging process.Our ServicesAt Talem Home Care, we offer a broad range of senior-focused services designed to support the well-being and independence of seniors: - Home Care Services - Free Care Management - Senior Placement Services - Veterans Care - Alzheimers and Dementia Care - Hospice Support - Life Enrichment Program - Photo Reminiscence Therapy (PRT)Our VisionOur vision is to empower people to experience the full joy of living. This core belief drives everything we do at Talem Home Care. We aim to help our staff, clients, and community partners achieve their goals by providing every opportunity for success.At Talem, we recognize that our dedicated staff is key to our success. Thats why we prioritize creating a supportive, family-friendly work environment that is flexible, low-stress and focused on delivering the best customer care.For Our ClientsOur senior care services promote greater independence, self-confidence, and the freedom to live on their terms.For Our CommunityTalem Home Care - Broomfield takes pride in being a responsible community partner dedicated to improving the quality of life for the communities we serve. We also respect the importance of work-life balance and celebrate the diversity of cultural and ethnic backgrounds that make us who we are.Whether you need home care, care management, senior placement, veterans care, Alzheimers and dementia care, hospice support, medical equipment, or even someone to help with daily tasks like snow shoveling, Talem Home Care is here to help.
Your Family is Our Family!At Talem Home Care, we are proud to be one of Colorado's premier senior care life enrichment companies, dedicated to enhancing the well-being and quality of life for aging individuals. Aging shouldn't be stressful or uncertain. Every family deserves access to the best information and support to make informed decisions for their loved ones.As a life enrichment company specializing in senior care, our mission is to provide holistic support through these key principles: - Comprehensive Senior Care - Wellness-Focused Services - Engagement and Social Interaction - Personalized Senior Care - Community Connection - Positive ImpactOur team of Certified Senior Advisors is dedicated to providing expert advice, professionalism, and compassion, reassuring families as they navigate the aging process.Our ServicesAt Talem Home Care, we offer a broad range of senior-focused services designed to support the well-being and independence of seniors: - Senior Placement Services - Home Care Services - Free Care Navigation & Advocation - Veterans Care - Alzheimers and Dementia Care - Hospice Support - Life Enrichment Program - Photo Reminiscence Therapy (PRT) Our VisionOur vision is to empower people to experience the full joy of living. This core belief drives everything we do at Talem Home Care. We aim to help our staff, clients, and community partners achieve their goals by providing every opportunity for success.At Talem, we recognize that our dedicated staff is key to our success. Thats why we prioritize creating a supportive, family-friendly work environment that is flexible, low-stress and focused on delivering the best customer care.For Our ClientsOur senior care services promote greater independence, self-confidence, and the freedom to live on their terms. For Our Community Talem Home Care - Broomfield takes pride in being a responsible community partner dedicated to improving the quality of life for the communities we serve. We also respect the importance of work-life balance and celebrate the diversity of cultural and ethnic backgrounds that make us who we are. Whether you need home care, care management, senior placement, veterans care, Alzheimers and dementia care, hospice support, medical equipment, or even someone to help with daily tasks like snow shoveling, Talem Home Care is here to help.
Your Family is Our Family!At Talem Home Care, we are proud to be one of Colorado's premier senior care life enrichment companies, dedicated to enhancing the well-being and quality of life for aging individuals. Aging shouldn't be stressful or uncertain. Every family deserves access to the best information and support to make informed decisions for their loved ones.As a life enrichment company specializing in senior care, our mission is to provide holistic support through these key principles: - Comprehensive Senior Care - Wellness-Focused Services - Engagement and Social Interaction - Personalized Senior Care - Community Connection - Positive ImpactOur team of Certified Senior Advisors is dedicated to providing expert advice, professionalism, and compassion, reassuring families as they navigate the aging process.Let us help you find the appropriate senior living community!!Our ServicesAt Talem Home Care, we offer a broad range of senior-focused services designed to support the well-being and independence of seniors: - Senior Placement Services - Home Care Services - Free Care Navigation & Advocation - Veterans Care - Alzheimers and Dementia Care - Hospice Support - Life Enrichment Program - Photo Reminiscence Therapy (PRT) Our VisionOur vision is to empower people to experience the full joy of living. This core belief drives everything we do at Talem Home Care. We aim to help our staff, clients, and community partners achieve their goals by providing every opportunity for success.At Talem, we recognize that our dedicated staff is key to our success. Thats why we prioritize creating a supportive, family-friendly work environment that is flexible, low-stress and focused on delivering the best customer care.For Our ClientsOur senior care services promote greater independence, self-confidence, and the freedom to live on their terms. For Our Community Talem Home Care - Broomfield takes pride in being a responsible community partner dedicated to improving the quality of life for the communities we serve. We also respect the importance of work-life balance and celebrate the diversity of cultural and ethnic backgrounds that make us who we are. Whether you need home care, care management, senior placement, veterans care, Alzheimers and dementia care, hospice support, medical equipment, or even someone to help with daily tasks like snow shoveling, Talem Home Care is here to help.