A move is a perfect time to sort through your belongings and let go of what you no longer need, use or love. In essence, it’s the right time to “rightsize.” If you’re like many seniors who are choosing to simplify your life and move to a smaller space, you may be needing to let go of half or more of your things. That can sound a bit overwhelming, but with the right guidance, you can keep your favorite half and surround yourself with the things that truly bring you joy.
To get you off to a good start, we turned to subject matter expert Jeannine Bryant. She’s the owner of Changing Spaces SRS and the author of Ready to Rightsize? A Step-by-step Guide to Your Rightsizing Journey: For Older Adults and Their Loved Ones. She literally wrote the book on the topic, and along with her team of certified senior move managers, Jeannine has helped hundreds of seniors and their families through the downsizing and moving process – including some of our residents at Resort Lifestyle Communities.
We had the privilege of connecting with Jeannine personally, and she shared some of her best advice on rightsizing.
Q: What’s the difference between “downsizing” and “rightsizing”?
A: Rightsizing is about more than just downsizing. It’s finding that perfect place between too much and too little. It’s striking a balance and having the “right” amount of house, and stuff, for your needs and your lifestyle.
Q: How should someone begin the process of decluttering?
A: Start small! This process will take time. If you’re planning a move, we always recommend starting with a floorplan of your new space and measuring your current furniture to help you determine what will fit and what will not. Once you have decided on furniture, you can start sorting out the “little stuff.”
Begin with clothing and kitchen items. Remember to respect the limits of your new space. Bring only the amount of kitchen items that will fit in your new kitchen, and only as many clothes as will fit in your new closet. This is where the power of counting can come in handy. Counting the number of coffee cups, sweaters, and pairs of shoes that you plan to keep can help you keep a healthy perspective. Rather than despairing about the number of items you need to let go of, you focus on how many items you have room to keep.
Q: What tends to be the most difficult item to let go of, and what’s your best advice?
A: Sentimental items can be some of the most difficult to let go of. Glassware and china that’s passed down from a parent or grandparent can be a challenge. Oftentimes it’s not being used, so keeping it is not always practical. If younger family members don’t want the items (which is often the case), it’s okay to release them. You can either sell or donate the items.
The best advice when tackling sentimental items is to reframe the way you look at them. Remember that memories and love and stuff are not the same things. Simply letting go of an item that belonged to a loved one will not erase memories of them. Your love for family members cannot be contained in a mere crystal bowl or china teacup.
Q: What’s your favorite tip for someone moving into a retirement community like RLC?
A: Respect the limits of your space. When downsizing, it can be easy to bemoan the lack of storage space (as it compares to your current living situation), but a much more effective tactic is to reframe the transition. This is an opportunity to let go of anything and everything you don’t truly need or use or love. How freeing!
And, when you release those items (either by selling or donating), you are blessing others in your community who can utilize those things that were sitting unused in your former home. It’s a win-win!
Q: How do you know if you’ve truly rightsized before a move?
A: You’ll know you’ve rightsized when you’ve released the items that you no longer use and no longer love. When you can look around and realize you have everything you need, plus a few things you truly love and want to display, that is what a rightsized life looks like!
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Special thanks to Jeannine for sharing her professional advice. If you’re interested in her book, Ready to Rightsize? A Step-by-step Guide to Your Rightsizing Journey: For Older Adults and Their Loved Ones, you can order it here.
We’re also offering a free download of her Power of Counting worksheet below. This simple tool can be extremely eye-opening as you discover just how much stuff you really have.
If you’d like to see what a rightsized, resort-style life looks like, let us give you a personal tour of an RLC community near you.
By Brandis Meeks, owner of The Property Buyers | October 2026Quick answer: You can sell your Colorado home without any cleanout by selling directly to a professional cash buyer. You take the items that matter to you and leave everything else behind, from furniture and boxes to garage and basement contents. The buyer handles the removal after closing. You avoid weeks of sorting and hauling, plus the cost of junk removal, in exchange for an as-is price.After 30, 40, or 50 years in one home, most people have accumulated far more than they realize. For many Colorado seniors, the thought of emptying a house before selling it is the biggest obstacle to moving forward, often bigger than the sale itself.Why is cleaning out a longtime home so hard?Cleaning out a longtime home is hard because it is physically demanding, time-consuming, and emotional all at once. Every drawer, closet, and box requires a decision. Basements, garages, attics, and sheds often hold decades of items, and much of it is heavy or stored on stairs. Adult children may live out of state and can help only in short visits. When the home belonged to a spouse or parent who has passed away, each item can carry grief along with it.Hire a real estate agent and be prepared to clean out the house before listing.A traditional listing usually requires an empty, clean, show-ready home. Getting there often involves these steps:Sorting belongings into keep, sell, donate, and discardHolding an estate sale or selling items individuallyScheduling donation pickups and multiple junk-removal loadsRenting a dumpster, which some cities require a permit for when it sits on the streetArranging special disposal for old paint, chemicals, and electronics, which can't go in regular trashDeep cleaning, then handling repairs that only become visible once rooms are emptyThe whole process can stretch from weeks into months, and the costs add up before the home is ever listed.How does selling to a professional cash buyer eliminate the cleanout?A professional cash buyer purchases the home with its contents included, so the seller does no clearing, hauling, or cleaning. You remove what you want to keep, and the buyer takes care of the rest after closing. The cost of the cleanout is built into the buyer's offer instead of coming out of your pocket upfront. There are no dumpsters in the driveway and no deadlines tied to showings.What should I take out before selling a house as-is?Even with no cleanout required, walk through the home and gather anything irreplaceable or sensitive before closing:Family photos, albums, and home videosImportant documents, including wills, deeds, tax and financial records, and passportsJewelry, heirlooms, and items promised to family membersMedications and firearms, which should be removed and handled properlyCheck unexpected places, too. Cash, documents, and keepsakes often turn up inside books, coat pockets, freezers, and the backs of drawers.Is a no-cleanout sale right for everyone?A no-cleanout sale isn't the best fit for every homeowner. If a home is in good condition and you have the time, energy, and help to clear it, listing it traditionally may bring a higher price. A no-cleanout cash sale tends to make the most sense in these situations:The volume of belongings is overwhelming.Health or mobility limits what you can do.The family lives far away and cannot help.The home was inherited.A move to assisted living sets a firm deadline.Comparing your estimated net proceeds under each option will show which one serves you better.What about homes with hoarding or heavy clutter?Homes with hoarding or heavy clutter can be sold as-is, and there's no need to clean before a buyer's walkthrough. Hoarding is more common than many people think, and it often develops gradually after a loss, an illness, or years of living alone. Experienced professional buyers have seen every situation, and a respectful buyer will focus on the home, not pass judgment on it.So skip the garage sale and consider calling a local Professional Cash Home Buying Company instead!Frequently Asked Questions:Can I leave furniture and belongings behind when I sell my house?Yes, when you sell to a cash buyer who agrees to purchase the home with its contents, as written in the purchase contract. Traditional buyers usually expect an empty home at closing.Who pays for the cleanout in a cash sale?The buyer pays for the cleanout.Do I need to clean my house before a cash buyer's walkthrough?No. Professional cash buyers expect to see a home as it is and account for its condition in the offer.What happens to the items I leave behind?The buyer removes them after closing. Ask how left-behind items will be handled, such as donation, recycling, or disposal.Can family members still take items after I accept an offer?Usually, yes. A flexible closing date gives family time to collect keepsakes before the sale is finalized.About The Property BuyersThe Property Buyers are a Professional Cash Home buying company based in Aurora, Colorado Since 2008, it has purchased houses in any condition across the Denver metro area, including Aurora, Denver, Lakewood, and Centennial, Englewood and surrounding cities. The company maintains an A+ by the Better Business Bureau, has only 5-Star Google Reviews and buys homes as-is with no repairs, no cleanout, and no agent commissions. Learn more at thepropertybuyers.com or call 720-650-7986.
VERY IMPORTANT: Regarding Medicare it is illegal for an insurance agent to call, text, e-mail, knock on your door, hang anything on your door or vehicle or approach you without your consent. If they do ask for their National Producer Number NPN, and you will hear a click and removed from their list. If they dont hang up, get their number and report them to Medicare. There is so much fraud where people are being switched to plans that they never approved or they were miss led. Shop local, do background checks before you give anyone your personal information. You can google them, google reviews, check their Facebook, etc. Make sure that if you are working with someone you can call them personally if you have any questions or concerns. Medicare Annual Enrollment is October 15-December 7th for January 1st, 2027, effective. What can be changed at this time is Medicare Part D Drug Plans and Medicare Part C (Advantage Plans). You should have received your Notification of Change from your current insurance plan. This outlines the current year to the new year changes, as an example if your specialist provider costs $20 now it might say $35 in 2027 (no correlation just an example). Medicare Part C / Advantage Plans, most carriers have raised out of pocket limits and copays along with decreased extra value benefits for 2027. Annually Medicare Advantage Plans make changes. They must all include the same features as Original Medicare but not at the same cost share. They can have a premium, Medical and or Prescription deductible, copays and coinsurance can change. Extra Value such as Vision, Dental, Over the Counter, Part B Give Back, transportation, etc. can all change or be eliminated. Medicare sets the annual in-network out of pocket maximum; in 2026 it is $9,250 for in-network and $13,900 out-of-network services combined (2027 this will increase). However, individual insurance plans may set lower limits. The old saying if it is not broken do not fix it DOES NOT apply to Annual Enrollment. Every year I see many people that have not checked/compared their current plan to what is new. I have saved so many people hundreds and in many cases thousands of dollars. You should be working with a broker that represents many insurance companies. Make sure you check them out, especially if you are going to allow someone in your house. I recommend meeting in their office. For me we represent most insurance carriers in our area and carrying all their literature with me is almost impossible. We use three large screens so that our clients can clearly see and compare the differences between the plans. The minimum information always needed is all your doctors, medications: names, milligrams, and dosage. We load your current plan and then compare it to all the other companies in your area. What companies have all your doctors, the price for your medication normally makes a significant difference. Then the Extra Value is what is most important to you. We do NOT CHARGE for your review and if warranted to change your insurance plan. Ethics is most important and if you are on the best plan we will tell you, plus you can see for yourself. If your plan was CANCELLED/DROPPED for 2027, you have a guaranteed issue into a Medigap/Medicare Supplement. This is huge and very important, know your options!Medicare Seminars they are good for general information. A one-to-one appointment where you can dive into your doctors and medication is best, plus you can then compare other companies in one place. Medicare Part D most insurance carriers have taken away insurance agents ability to help you with your Part D Only drug plans this does not apply to most Advantage plans, standalone drug plans as well as Advantage Plans, you wont have to pay more than $2,400 in out-of-pocket drug costs, which include deductibles, co-pays, coinsurance. It is especially important to check your plans formulary as medication must be in formulary to be capped. 2027 RX deductible will be capped at $715.00. As a reminder the cost of the plan is not as important as the cost plus your medications, that is what you look at, the total cost. It is important to know what the medication is used for to determine if it is covered by the plan. Example Wycovy may be covered but to be covered it must be used for certain heart conditions or diabetes, Medicare does not cover weight lose medications at this time. As a reminder if you choose NOT to ENROLL in a Part D drug plan and in later years you want one you will have to wait for Annual Enrollment and then you will assed a penalty for every month you did not have a drug plan, that penalty will last for the REST OF YOUR LIFE! When you turn 65 you are eligible for Medicare, once you have worked 40 quarters roughly 10 years there is no cost for Medicare Part A. Part A covers Hospitals, Skilled Nursing, Home Health & Hospice. Medicare Part B you can choose to take at 65, or you can hold off if you are still working and have credible coverage. If you do not have group health insurance that is considered qualified, and then you want Medicare you would have a late enrollment penalty for each month you did not have Part B & Part D, and that penalty will last for the rest of your life. Part B covers doctors, imaging, blood work, ambulance, durable medical equipment, etc. Part D is a Medicare Drug Plan and covers medications. During your initial enrollment period it is especially important to understand your options! Medicare Supplements/Medigap Plans are NOT guaranteed issues; you may need to medically qualify. You can purchase a Medigap Plan during your 1st 6 months on Medicare Part B without medical underwriting. There are a lot of things you need to know. Again, work with an agent you can trust! Especially important: when you move you need to know your options. Can you keep the same plan? Do you need to make a change and what does that look like? Logical Insurance Solutions is a SWFL Insurance Broker that works with most of the insurance carriers in your area, we are happy to help you through the maze. We offer Free Medicare Seminars, Personal Appointments & Virtual appointments. Please e-mail [email protected] to register or call 239-362-0855 for dates. Medicares website is www.Medicare.gov. www.Logicalinsurance.com 239-362-0855 [email protected] Ulla-Undine Merritt (Dee) National Producer Number (NPN) 8853366
Moving Closer to Family in New Jersey: How Seniors Can Relocate Without Losing Their IndependenceSometimes the most important reason to move has nothing to do with the house.It is family.An adult child may have moved to Middletown, Red Bank, Holmdel, Tinton Falls, Freehold, Brick or another Monmouth or Ocean County community. A grandchild may be growing up nearby. A spouse may need additional support. Or a family may simply realize that being within a reasonable drive of one another would make everyday life easier.For older adults, relocating closer to family can provide an opportunity to create a stronger support network while still maintaining independence.But moving across townor across New Jerseyrequires more than finding a house online.The Real Question: What Does Closer Mean?For one family, being close might mean living five minutes away.For another, it might mean being within 30 minutes.The important thing is to define what kind of proximity actually makes a difference.Consider: How often do family members expect to visit? Who will provide transportation if needed? Are there grandchildren nearby? How close should the home be to medical appointments? Is public transportation important? Would family prefer a condominium, townhouse or single-family home? Does the buyer want an active-adult community? How much privacy and independence does the older adult want? A senior relocation specialist can help turn these broad questions into a practical home search.Why Location Matters So Much for Older AdultsA home can be beautiful and still be a poor fit if everyday errands are difficult.For seniors, location can influence everything from social connection to transportation.A home near restaurants, shopping, parks, community organizations, healthcare providers and family may support a more convenient lifestyle.Monmouth County offers a particularly diverse range of environments. A senior can remain close to the Jersey Shore, live near the restaurants and cultural activities of Red Bank, stay in the Middletown area or explore communities farther inland.Independence Does Not Have to Mean Doing Everything AloneOne misconception about moving closer to family is that it means giving up independence.It doesn't have to.A senior may choose a home where they can continue driving, walking, socializing and managing their own daily routine while simply having family closer.For example, an older adult might choose a smaller home or 55+ community with less exterior maintenance. That can leave more time for golf, dining, visiting friends, spending time with grandchildren or enjoying the Shore.The right move can actually support independence by eliminating unnecessary household responsibilities.A Conversation Families Should Have EarlyAdult children sometimes begin thinking about relocation before their parents do.That can create tension.Instead of saying, You need to move closer to us, families may find it more productive to discuss what everyone wants the next several years to look like.Questions can include:What do you love about your current home?What has become more difficult?What would make life easier?What do you want to be closer to?Would you consider a smaller home?Would a 55+ community appeal to you?How important is being near your grandchildren?The objective is to create a shared understanding rather than make the conversation solely about what family members believe the senior should do.Understanding the New CommunityMoving closer to family is also a lifestyle decision.A senior may be familiar with their current neighborhood but not know what everyday life is like in another community.Before buying, spend time there.Visit the local shopping areas. Have lunch. Drive the surrounding streets. Look at parks and recreation. Determine how far it is to medical offices and other frequently used services.If possible, visit at different times of day.A REALTOR who understands the local market can also help buyers compare neighborhoods and property types.What Should Families Do With the Existing Home?This is often the biggest practical question.The current home may need to be sold before the new one is purchased. In other cases, the family may be considering a temporary overlap.There are several factors to discuss with a real-estate professional: Current market conditions Estimated home value Necessary repairs Decluttering Staging Timing Closing dates Temporary housing Moving logistics Tax and financial considerations, with appropriate financial professionals The right strategy depends on the individual situation.The Emotional Side of RelocationA house can hold decades of memories.That is especially true when a family has lived in the same home for 20, 30 or even 40 years.The decision to move closer to family may be exciting while still involving grief.That is normal.A thoughtful relocation process leaves room for both emotions.Monica's philosophy emphasizes the significance of these transitions:Moving isnt just about a new houseits a new chapter.Frequently Asked QuestionsShould seniors move closer to adult children?There is no one-size-fits-all answer. Families should consider the senior's preferences, independence, social network, housing needs and desired lifestyle.What Monmouth County communities should seniors consider?Options can include Middletown, Red Bank, Holmdel, Tinton Falls, Freehold and communities throughout Monmouth County. The right location depends on each buyer's priorities.How far should a senior live from family?The ideal distance depends on transportation, family schedules and the level of support desired. Close should be defined by the family's actual needs.How can seniors maintain independence after relocating?Choosing an appropriately sized, accessible and low-maintenance home near family, services and activities can help support independence.How can I begin a senior relocation conversation?Start with lifestyle rather than selling. Discuss what is working, what has become difficult and what the older adult would like their next chapter to look like.Learn MoreLearn more about senior relocation and real-estate services from Monica Reddin Homes through her Seniors Blue Book Listing:
Bradford Square Retirement Community, located in Naples, Florida, is the perfect choice for seniors seeking worry-free living in a luxurious setting. As Naples's independent living leader for seniors, Bradford Square offers all-inclusive, 55-plus senior living with 24/7 service, resort-style dining, and beautiful accommodations. Our community is known for its breathtaking sunsets, choice shopping, beautiful beaches, and world-class golf, making it an ideal setting for our residents.At Bradford Square, we pride ourselves on providing a vibrant and engaging lifestyle for our residents. From our spacious floor plans to our exceptional amenities, every aspect of our community is designed to enhance the lives of those who call Bradford Square home. Our residents enjoy a wide range of activities and amenities, including games, travel, exercise, movies, and more. Our on-site dining options offer a variety of delicious meals, including a full lunch and dinner menu with a choice of two entrees, two soups, and a full salad bar.Interested in learning more about our luxury retirement community? Schedule a personal tour today to see for yourself why Bradford Square is the premier choice for independent senior living in Naples.