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It is a sad commentary on our current cultural worldview that sunlight is widely perceived to be harmful, a cancer-causing threat. But what does the research actually say? And does this research affect older adults differently than other people?Spectrum: For starters, we should understand that sunlight is a complex combination of photons, with different wavelengths and properties. The sun is the original full-spectrum illumination, while both incandescent and LED lights emit, as one might expect, mostly visible-spectrum light.Intensity: The other important variable is the intensity of light, measured in LUX units (a foot away from one candle): direct sun comes in at 100,000; a cloudy day at 1,000; a kitchen or office measures 500; and a living room only 50. Thats why you need to get outside.UV: At one extreme is ultraviolet light (UV), whose wavelength is slightly shorter than visible violet. With regard to our health, UV is a mixed bag.It does cause sunburns, damages DNA, and triggers the aging of skin. It is also statistically associated with malignant melanoma, although, curiously, not with increased deaths from melanoma (because these cancers are mostly treatable).On the other hand, there are numerous health benefits: UV lowers the risk of hypertension, diabetes, atherosclerosis (hardening of the arteries), blood inflammation, and COVID infections. UV also stimulates Vitamin D synthesis in the skin. A large-scale study of 500,000 Brits, with a 12-year follow-up, found that frequent UV exposure lowered all-cause mortality by 14%, with cardiovascular deaths down 21% and total cancer mortality decreased by 13%. It gives one pause to reconsider the vast sums spent on sunscreen lotions. Just wearing light summer clothing blocks 80% of UV.IR: UV radiation represents only about 3% of the sunlight that strikes the surface of the earth, while about 50% is infrared (IR), whose lightwaves are just beyond (longer) than visible reds. IR radiation is more predominant at the beginning and end of days, while UV is strongest when the sun is overhead. A thick cloud cover reduces IR significantly more than UV. In a recent superb Huberman Lab podcast, Dr. Roger Seheult touted the many benefits of IR radiation. Most severe and chronic diseases also involve mitochondrial dysfunction (mitochondria are the small organelles within a cell that produce the energy-generating chemical ATP). One aspect of aging is that we lose 70% of our mitochondrial functioning after age 40. Unlike UV, IR radiation passes through light clothing and the surface of the skin to penetrate deep into body tissues, where it significantly stimulates mitochondrial ATP synthesis.Effects: The effects of improved mitochondrial functioning are pervasive, correlated empirically with sun exposure. Dr. Seheult cited statistics demonstrating that the greatest number of all-cause mortality comes soon after the shortest day of the year, and the lowest number of deaths occurs close to the longest days.People who live far north or south of the equator where days are particularly short in winter have higher overall mortality rates, particularly in mid-winter. In a study of almost 30,000 Swedish women, avoidance of sun exposure carried the same risk of premature death, as did smoking.There is well-replicated rigorous research that moderate IR exposure lowers the risk of cancer, heart disease, diabetes, hypertension, and it reduces blood lipids and chronic inflammation. IR increases immune system response to infections, such as influenza, COVID and pre-cancerous cells.On a sunny day, just 15 minutes outside can make a big difference. If youre in a green space with lots of grasses, leaves, bushes, and trees, you can receive two to three times the IR dose because plants reflect much of the IR that strikes them (notice that most leaves dont get hot in the sun because of these reflective properties).Red Light Therapy: There are many red-light therapy devices now available if you are considering them, be sure to carefully research IR wavelengths, dosage, safety, and therapeutic benefit. One study, utilizing an IR desk unit shining only on face, neck, and hands, proved to be quite therapeutic.Forest Bathing? Dr. Seheult delighted in reminding us of the wisdom of the ancient beliefs that sunlight and fresh air promote convalescence. Forest bathing has become a thing the air around trees is infused with phytoncides that defend plants from bacteria, fungi, and insects. When inhaled by humans, they up- regulate immune functioning and lower stress levels, and reduce stress hormones. The beauty and serenity of such an environment further enhances these benefits, some of which are detectable by lab tests a month later. Furthermore, getting up with the sun (and out from behind the filtering effects of plate glass windows) helps to set your circadian rhythm, which can improve sleep patterns. Take home message: forests, parks and even golf courses soothe the soul, and the body. And early morning and late afternoon may be particularly beneficial.Sweat Benefits: Dr. Seheult is a pulmonologist who treats many respiratory infections he also reminded us about how previous generations treated patients with hot baths and hot packs, as if to sweat out infections. Its been recently discovered that body temperatures a little over 100 degrees Fahrenheit actually accelerate the production of interferon, a powerful anti-viral protein. Maybe weve been a little too quick to reduce our fevers with aspirin, Tylenol, and Advil. And maybe the saunas so favored by Scandinavians and Russians are more therapeutic than weve realized.Conclusion: As spring has sprung, we encourage everyone to get away from your screens, go outside and enjoy the benefits of the sunshine that so amply surrounds us. Residents at Kavod Senior Life have a myriad of ways to get outside, whether it be on the sunlit patio areas, in the resident gardens, on the nearby walking paths in Cherry Creek or on the many benches and sitting areas surrounding the campus. Come for a visit and see for yourself!Ben and Scott  https://theagingwiselyproject.com/

Feeling overwhelmed as a family caregiver? Learn the 9 warning signs of burnout and how Comfort Keepers' respite care in Delta, CO, can help you rest and recharge.Caring for an aging loved one is one of the most selfless and rewarding things you can do. In fact, 43.5 million Americans serve as unpaid family caregivers, ensuring their loved ones receive the support and care they need at home. However, caregiving is also physically, emotionally, and mentally demanding. Even the most devoted caregivers need time to rest and recharge.If youre feeling drained, overwhelmed, or stretched too thin, it may be time to consider respite care. This article will guide you through what respite care is, when to consider it, and the key signs of caregiver burnout that indicate its time for a break.What is Respite Care for Family Caregivers in Delta, CO?Respite care is a temporary caregiving service designed to provide relief for family caregivers while ensuring their loved ones continue to receive high-quality care. It allows you to step back, focus on your well-being, and take care of personal responsibilities without disrupting your loved ones routine.Respite care services include:Meal Preparation  Ensuring your loved one has nutritious meals and snacks.Transportation  Helping with doctors appointments, errands, or social visits.Household Support  Light housekeeping, laundry, and organization.Personal Care Assistance  Help with bathing, dressing, and hygiene.Companionship  Providing meaningful social interaction to keep your loved one engaged.By incorporating respite care into your routine, you can maintain a balance between caregiving and personal well-being, ensuring both you and your loved one thrive.When to Consider Respite CareRespite care is designed to be flexible and customizable. Whether you need support for a few hours, a few days, or even a few weeks, professional respite care can help you navigate the demands of caregiving without feeling overwhelmed.You should consider respite care if you need to:Take a vacation or a weekend getaway.Attend a business trip or work-related obligation.Run errands or manage household tasks.Recover from an illness, surgery, or injury.Tend to personal matters or simply recharge.While these are all great reasons to seek respite care, the most critical reason is caregiver burnout. When caregiving starts affecting your health, well-being, and ability to provide care, its time to get professional support.The Top 9 Signs of Caregiver BurnoutRecognizing the signs of caregiver burnout is essential for maintaining both your health and the quality of care you provide. If youre experiencing any of the following, it may be time to seek respite care:Feeling OverwhelmedDo you feel like theres too much on your plate? Are household tasks, appointments, and responsibilities piling up? If you constantly feel like youre drowning in to-dos, its a sign that you need support. Respite care can help by giving you time to breathe, regroup, and return to caregiving with renewed energy.Constant ExhaustionFeeling physically and emotionally drained, even after a full nights sleep, is a clear sign of burnout. Caregiving requires a great deal of energy, and without breaks, fatigue can become chronic. Respite care offers you the opportunity to get the rest you need and maintain your health in the long run.Increased IrritabilityIf you find yourself snapping at loved ones, losing patience easily, or feeling frustrated over small things, its a sign that stress is taking its toll. The emotional strain of caregiving can lead to short tempers and strained relationships. Taking a break allows you to reset and approach caregiving with a more positive mindset.Neglecting Your Own NeedsAre you skipping meals, canceling doctors appointments, or not getting enough rest? Many caregivers prioritize their loved ones needs over their own, often at the expense of their health. However, you cant provide the best care for someone else if youre running on empty. Respite care gives you the time and space to take care of yourself, ensuring you stay healthy and strong.ForgetfulnessIf youre forgetting important dates, appointments, or tasks, it may be a sign that stress and exhaustion are affecting your cognitive function. Mental fog and forgetfulness can be dangerous, especially when managing medications or appointments. Taking time to rest and reset can help restore your focus and clarity.Social IsolationWhen was the last time you spent time with friends or did something just for yourself? Caregiving can be isolating, leaving little time for social activities or hobbies. However, maintaining social connections is crucial for emotional well-being. Respite care enables you to step away for a bit and engage with your friends, family, and favorite activities without worry.Concern from Family and FriendsIf your family or friends express concern about your well-being, listen to them. Sometimes, those around us recognize burnout before we do. If your loved ones are urging you to take a break, consider their perspective. Respite care is an easy way to ensure your loved one is well cared for while you recharge.Declining Mental HealthFeelings of sadness, anxiety, or hopelessness should never be ignored. Caregiving can be emotionally taxing, and prioritizing your mental health is just as important as physical health. If you find yourself feeling down, overwhelmed, or unable to enjoy things that once made you happy, respite care can provide the relief you need to focus on your well-being.Making Frequent MistakesMissing medication doses, forgetting doctors appointments, or neglecting essential tasks can have serious consequences. If you notice an increase in mistakes, its a sign that you need to take a step back and recharge. Respite care can help you regain control and ensure that your loved one continues to receive the best possible care.If you recognize any of these signs in yourself, dont wait until burnout takes a toll on your health. Seeking respite care is a proactive step toward maintaining your well-being and ensuring your loved one receives the best possible care. If you have any questions, please call us at 970-240-4121.

By Faith Protsman, MD, Regional Medical Director, VITAS HealthcareVietnam War veterans face unique obstacles throughout the twilight of advanced illness. For hospice care providers to tailor care to meet the needs of veterans who have served in this theater of war, they must consider the tribulations these patients face as they reach the end of their lives.The Vietnam War era was a very tumultuous time to be a soldier. The United States' prolonged involvement in a war of questionable motivation left society with disdain toward the government and its institutions, especially the military.Coupled with horrific images shown on television, constant controversy was a new reality and negative public opinion formed around this conflict, of which those serving the nation were not spared.Careful consideration is necessary when treating patients facing these traumas.Tours of duty proved to be traumatizing in many ways. Young soldiers, some having just turned 18, were drafted into a war that many of them did not believe in. They were not fighting for love of country and God; rather, they were fighting for survival and out of fear for their lives.Intimate battles in the dense jungle led many to be subjected to the horrors that come with fighting in a foreign land that was only familiar to the elusive guerilla enemy soldiers.Servicemembers did not receive a warm welcome when returning home from Vietnam, often being judged and labeled as cruel and even inhumane.Moral Injury Can Impair Mental HealthThis perfect storm of trauma led to lasting moral injury that plagues many veterans for their entire lives. Veterans returning from the war were marginalized and pushed into isolation, often turning to alcohol and substance abuse, which worsened their anxiety and exacerbated their strife.Questions like Ive never spoken about the war, can I now? Was the war moral or immoral? and Was I a good soldier? come bubbling to the surface later in life as their illnesses intensify and their defenses weaken.Careful consideration is necessary when treating patients facing these traumas.The restlessness that can result from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is often treated with benzodiazepines. In most cases, these medications can bring relief through calming the patient.Yet, there is a common trend amongst veterans who cope with trauma that results in the opposite effect.Benzodiazepines can lower the walls that Vietnam veterans have built up throughout a lifetime of suppressing trauma and negative memories. This class of medications can exacerbate the symptoms of PTSD as traumatic experiences and feelings of regret resurface. Benzodiazepine-induced inhibition of neurotransmission can even lead to agitated toxic psychosis, increased anxiety, hostility, and rage.1The Value of Compassion Along with Clinical CareRemaining considerate does not end with simply staying mindful during the planning of clinical solutions. Providing care for Vietnam veterans requires a high level of empathy.A key to an empathetic approach is taking the time to listen nonjudgmentally. Though seemingly simple, practicing nonjudgmental, open communication with patients facing trauma from war can help avoid the all-too typical responses of Its okay and You did what you had to do.These patients do not need sympathy, because they have been judged enough throughout their lives. When care teams approach them without judgment, they honor the sacrifices these heroes have made.VITAS hospice care provides compassionate care approaches that are tailored to meet the distinctive needs of Vietnam veterans. With the Veterans Administration (VA) offering hospice care as part of its medical package, VITAS team members can provide empathetic psychosocial support, while utilizing clinical solutions that help manage symptoms.The qualifications for veterans to receive hospice benefits include: A life-limiting illness Treatment goals that focus on comfort, rather than curative treatments A life expectancy of 6 months or less, if their illness runs its normal course Veterans also benefit from the option to receive concurrent care through the VA. The VA can provide curative treatments as the patient simultaneously receives symptom-managing comfort care administered by the hospice care provider of their choosing.Offering solace, while remaining compassionate when patients need it most, is too often overlooked in the busy practice of healthcare. Acknowledging the adversity that Vietnam War veterans have had to face throughout their lifetimes and adapting care approaches to meet their needs is the best way for healthcare providers to give back to those who have sacrificed so much for the preservation of freedom.1Paton, C. (2018, January 2). Benzodiazepines and disinhibition: A review: Psychiatric bulletin. Cambridge Core. Retrieved November 2, 2022, from https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/psychiatric-bulletin/article/benzodiazepines-and-disinhibition-a-review/421AF197362B55EDF004700452BF3BC6