Questions to Ask When Choosing Senior Living Community

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When considering a senior living community, finding the one that best fits your personal goals and needs can fill you with a new sense of hope and a plan for your next life stage. And because more than 56 million seniors are making their wants and needs clear, many great options exist today. The key lies in choosing the right community for you, which is why we’ve put together a list of questions we think you’ll find helpful that you can take with you when you start touring senior living communities.

Senior living communities are not one size fits all.

When considering your options, it’s important to read marketing materials, attend events, and tour each community. But the most important thing you can do to increase the likelihood of finding the perfect fit is to be proactive in asking questions that relate to your personal wants and needs.

Residences

Most independent living senior communities offer a selection of home options for you to choose from. You’ll want to know what your options are and what’s included.

  • What are my home options? (villas, condominiums, apartments, etc.)
  • How many bedrooms and bathrooms?
  • What’s the square footage?
  • Can I customize my home?
  • Are routine maintenance and repairs included?
  • Is exterior maintenance covered?
  • Who covers the cost of electricity, gas, water, and trash pickup?
  • Is housekeeping included?
  • May I have pets?
  • Do any of the homes have garages and/or additional storage?

 Pricing

Questions about affordability and pricing are at the top of everyone’s list when looking for retirement communities. Being clear on the price is important.

  • Is there an upfront fee? (sometimes called entrance fee or buy-in fee)
  • What are your plans and pricing structure?
  • What is the monthly fee?
  • What does the price cover? What items are additional?
  • Do fees increase annually?
  • How will the price change if I move to a different level of care? (for example, from independent living to assisted living, memory care, or skilled nursing)

Dining

Independent living residences have their own kitchens. Even so, many prefer the convenience and ambiance of restaurant-style dining onsite. Having the option means they can cook when they want and dine out when they don’t. Most communities offer several dining venues that differ by type of cuisine, dress code, hours, and aesthetic. It’s important that these onsite venues align with your preferences and will make your dining experience enjoyable.

  • Is there an available dining program or culinary allowance? If so, how many meals are included?
  • May I look at the current menu? (Ask for a copy)
  • Are friends and family able to join me for dinner?
  • Is there a dress code?
  • Do you offer private dining for special events?
  • Can you request meal variations or substitutions?
  • What types of dining venues are available? (dining room, to-go, casual/bistro, private)

Social & Wellness

Social interactions and staying active play a crucial role in the quality of life for independent living residents. Housing options, dining, and community amenities are important, but remember to ask about a community’s social events, activities, classes, and outings.

  • What does your life enrichment calendar look like? (Ask for a copy)
  • What kind of events/activities/classes do you offer?
  • Does your calendar change month-to-month?
  • What clubs do you offer?
  • Do you plan trips outside of the community?
  • Do you have a pool, fitness studio, and wellness center?

Care Services

Choosing a community that offers multiple levels of care means the convenience of aging in place with a community and care team you’re familiar with. It also means couples can often stay together on the same campus even when their needs are no longer the same.

  • What services or levels of care do you offer (e.g., assisted living, memory care, skilled nursing, and rehabilitation)?
  • Can you continue to live in your home and access these services?
  • What is your staffing ratio?
  • Do your staff members have a certification or degree?
  • Do you have staff available 24/7?
  • Do you have an in-house physician?
  • Do you have any specialty licensing beyond the “standard” (e.g., ECC, LNS, or LMH)?
  • Can I tour your care communities?

A Few More Important Questions

In addition to the very specific questions above, there are general questions that help you to determine if the community is right for you.

  • How many residents live in the community?
  • What is the average age of residents?
  • Do you have security onsite, and is the community gated?
  • What is the protocol in case of hurricane or other inclement weather?

The truth is, asking the right questions will empower you to make the best decision. But before you decide, you have one more thing to do. We recommend that you chat with current residents. They can tell you better than anyone what life is like in their community.

Senior living communities are as different as the people who live in them and the towns and cities they’re part of. Once you decide on a preferred location, you can start looking in the area. Communities like Jacaranda Trace, in beautiful Venice, Florida, are sought after for their ideal location and club-style indulgent lifestyle. To learn more about Jacaranda Trace and all it has to offer, call (941) 408-2040.

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Assisting with bathing, dressing and toileting takes physical strength, and these tasks are often much more demanding than people expect. Acknowledge the challenge and seek help from an experienced home care agency, such as BrightStar Care, whenever needed. We also recommend eating a healthy diet, exercising and getting enough sleep to cope with the physical demands.4. Be Realistic About Finances Providing care to a loved one can drastically impact your finances. You may feel responsible for purchasing equipment, supplies and even medical care itself. Be realistic about these financial challenges, and don't hesitate to enlist the help of a financial planning specialist. These professionals can help you find programs that assist with paying for care.  You have several options to explore when it comes to paying for in-home care.5. Communicate Your Feelings Honestly Feeling isolated is a common symptom of caregiver burnout. The best way to avoid such feelings of isolation is to communicate your needs to those around you. When you start getting overwhelmed, talk to someone right awaywhether that's a therapist, friend or family member. Try to avoid asking "why" questions about your situation, and instead ask what's in your power to change and how you can do it.6. Manage Relationship Stress Normal family relationships are often disrupted when an older relative needs care. Parent-child roles are reversed, as a parent now needs care from their children. After all, the parent suddenly needs help from their children. Know that you may have disagreements about how things are handled and be sure to approach these from a place of empathy. Focus on positive, uplifting experiences and keep lines of communication open to all concerned family members. Be prepared for a significant emotional impact on both yourself and your loved one. 7. Follow Our Self-Care TipsOur self-care tips for caregivers are instrumental in preventing burnout. Never skip a chance to take care of yourself! This can be as simple as a bath or as big a spa day. Make sure you're always investing time in yourself and your well-being.8. Ask for Help Before You Hit a Breaking Point Don't wait until the stress has you at a breaking point. Once you take up the role of caregiver, start looking for help right away. You might reach out to other local family members and see if they'd be willing to help you with certain tasks. Finding a trusted respite care provider can also help take some of the stress off your plate.Balancing Work, Family, and Caregiving Striking a balance between caregiving and your other responsibilities can feel like an impossible task. Thankfully, BrightStar Care is here to help you balance work, family and caring for an elderly or disabled loved one. Check out our ideas for mastering this crucial balancing act:Enlist Other Family Members or Close Family Friends: Do you have other family members living in the area? Do you have close family friends in the area? If so, reach out to them and coordinate ways they can help as well. Perhaps someone can fill your role on days you're unavailable.Talk to Your Employer: Communicating your situation with your employer is essential. They may be able to offer a hybrid work schedule or telecommuting(Opens in a new window) to accommodate your needs. In some cases, asking about the Family and Medical Leave Act can be beneficial. This law allows you to leave your job temporarily and applies to many employers. Be sure to talk to your boss or HR department about whether you're eligible for FMLA leave.Schedule Family Time: Set aside separate time(Opens in a new window) to catch up with your spouse and children away from the loved one you're caring for. While you can certainly have big family get-togethers, scheduling private time with your smaller family unit ensures everyone gets their own time.Set Priorities: It's always a good idea to have a list of priorities. Decide what is the most important and what can wait until you have more time. Remember that you may have to be flexible with your priorities, and what ranks number one this week may not the next.How BrightStar Care Can Help Caring for loved ones can be overwhelming and exhausting. Fortunately, BrightStar Care offers a range of home care services that can ease the burden for family caregivers and ensure that their loved ones receive top-notch care. From companionship and transportation to medical services and skilled nursing care, our team of friendly professionals is dedicated to providing exceptional care in the comfort of home. Find a BrightStar Care Location Near YouLooking for in-home care services or assisted living for your loved one or a reliable medical staffing partner for your organization? Our experienced local care team members are ready to help. Find a location near you, contact us online or call 866.618.7827 to speak with a local care expert and learn more about how BrightStar Care offers A Higher Standard.Sources:The Caregiver Foundation

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