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The Irrevocable Trust for Asset Protection and Medicaid Planning Protect Your Assets WhileKeeping ControlIf you want to stay in control of your assets while protecting them from creditors and the high cost of long-term care, the Irrevocable Trust may be the perfect solution. This type of Irrevocable Trust combines thebenefits of a Revocable Living Trust (RLT) with the asset protection features of an Irrevocable Trustthe kind often used by high-net-worth families for estate tax planning.How Its Like a Revocable Living Trust - With this Irrevocable Trust, you can: Be your own trustee, including the ability to buy and sell things in the Irrevocable Trust. Decide who your beneficiaries are now and in the future. Control when, how, and to whom distributions are made. Change or update the trustees powers. Appoint or remove the trustee. Amend the trusts administrative rules. Receive all trust income during your lifetime. Report trust income on your personal tax return (no higher tax bracket). Avoid probate for assets in the trust.The Big Difference Asset Protection - Unlike a traditional RLT, the Irrevocable Trust can protect yourassets from creditors and nursing home costs. Assets you place in the Irrevocable Trust must stay there for your lifetime. They can go to your chosen beneficiaries (often family) but cannot be given back directly to you. Because the trust prohibits giving assets back to you, those assets are protected from your creditorsand count as a Medicaid-compliant trust.Taxes The trusts income is taxed to you personallyno extra tax burden. Assets keep their favorable tax treatment, including a step-up in basis for your heirs. The Irrevocable Trust does not avoid estate tax, but federal estate tax only applies to estates over$13.99 million (as of 2025) less than 1% of Americans.Why People Choose this - The Irrevocable Trust is flexible enough to meet many goals: Keep control of your assets (unlike giving them away outright). Avoid probate (unlike a will). Protect assets from creditors and long-term care costs (unlike a regular revocable trust).The sooner you start, the more you can protectand the more options youll have.Call Safe Harbor Law Firm today at 239-317-3116 or email info@safeharborlawfirm.com to see if this Irrevocable Trust is right for you.

Ive been traveling just fine for 70 years, thank you very much.If youre the adult child of an aging parent, youve probably heard some variation of this declaration. Maybe it came after you suggested they shouldnt be driving anymore, or when you offered to book them a wheelchair at the airport. Perhaps it was when you mentioned that their upcoming surgery might require special travel arrangements.The frustration is real on both sides. You see genuine safety concerns, while your parent sees an attack on their independence. Understanding the psychology behind this resistance isnt just about winning an argumentits about keeping your loved one safe while preserving their dignity.The Deeper Fear Behind I Dont Need HelpWhen seniors resist travel assistance, theyre rarely being difficult for the sake of it. Independence represents something much deeper than convenienceits often their last vestige of control in a world where theyve already lost so much.Consider what many seniors have already surrendered: perhaps theyve given up driving, handed over financial decisions, or moved from their longtime home. Travel might represent one of their final autonomous choices. When we suggest they need help, were inadvertently threatening this precious independence.Research published in The Gerontologist confirms that older adults perspectives on independence are deeply tied to their sense of identity and autonomy, making resistance to help a natural psychological response rather than mere stubbornness. The fear of losing independence often stems from three core concerns: loss of identity, fear of being burdensome, and terror of admitting vulnerability. These arent character flawstheyre deeply human responses to aging.The Cost of Stubborn IndependenceWhile we must respect our parents desire for autonomy, the risks of unsupervised travel for vulnerable seniors are very real. According to the CDC, there were 43 emergency department visits per 100 persons aged 60 and over between 2014-2017, with rates increasing significantly with age. Medical emergencies during travel can escalate quickly, and cognitive changes that arent apparent at home become magnified in unfamiliar environments.Last year, emergency departments nationwide treated thousands of seniors who experienced complications while traveling alone. Many of these situations could have been prevented with proper support, but families often dont know how to bridge the gap between safety and independence.Reframing Help as EmpowermentThe key to overcoming resistance lies in changing the conversation entirely. Instead of focusing on what your parent cant do, emphasize what professional travel support enables them to do. Reframing the conversation so it is focused on your parents healthspan is beneficial not only to your parent, but to you as well!Start with Goals, Not FearsAsk questions like: Where would you like to visit that youve been putting off? or Whats stopping you from taking that trip to see your grandchildren? Often, seniors have already self-limited their travel due to unspoken concerns or simply from being stuck in their own routine.Present Options, Not UltimatumsRather than saying You cant travel alone anymore, try Lets explore ways to make travel more comfortable for you. This subtle shift puts them back in the decision-making seat.Emphasize Expertise Over NecessityProfessional medical travel companions arent just helperstheyre specialists who can navigate complex situations that even experienced travelers find challenging.The Professional Companion AdvantageThis is where services like GOMO Travel transform the conversation entirely. Rather than family members taking on the role of enforcers, professional companions become enablers of independence.GOMOs medical travel services are staffed by registered nurses who understand both the medical complexities and the psychological needs of senior travelers. Theyre trained to provide support while maintaining the travelers sense of agency and dignity.For families dealing with resistance, this professional approach often succeeds where family discussions fail. When a conversation shifts from Mom, you need help to Mom, this service would give you more freedom to travel safely, the dynamic changes completely.Making the Transition SuccessfulWhen your parent finally agrees to try professional travel assistance, the first experience is crucial. Choose a service that prioritizes relationship-building and understands the sensitivity of the situation.GOMO Travels companions are specifically trained in the psychology of senior independence. They know how to provide necessary support while allowing the traveler to maintain control over decisions and preferences. This isnt about taking overits about being available when needed while staying invisible when not.For complex situations like senior relocation, where emotions run particularly high, having a professional mediator can transform what might be a traumatic experience into a supported transition.The Gift of Continued AdventureUltimately, the goal isnt to take away your parents independenceits to preserve it for as long as possible. Professional travel support can extend the years of safe, enjoyable travel rather than cut them short.When framed properly, accepting help becomes an act of wisdom rather than surrender. Its choosing to travel smartly so they can continue traveling freely. And thats a choice that honors both their independence and your peace of mind.Because the alternativestaying home out of fear or prideisnt really independence at all.

June is Mens Health Awareness Month, making it the perfect time for men to take stock of their health and prioritize getting the necessary preventive screenings. While nobody enjoys going to the doctor more than necessary, routine screenings are crucial for detecting issues early when theyre most treatable. Over 90 percent of the premature deaths among men from unintentional injuries, cardiovascular disease, and suicide could potentially be prevented. One-third of men (33 percent) dont think they need annual health screenings, and almost two-thirds (65 percent) believe they are naturally healthier than others. Prevention is your strongest weapon against becoming a statistic, says Dr. Ravi Ramaswami, a family care physician with Lee Health/Lee Physician Group. Even if youre feeling fine, visit your doctor for an annual wellness exam. The same holds true with getting annual preventive screenings for heart disease, depression, and cancers. By prioritizing these regular screenings, you invest in your future well-being because its not just about being healthy; its about staying healthy. So, dont be one of the statistics take charge of your health by getting the following recommended preventive screenings: Mental health screening Taking care of yourself isnt only physicalcheck in with your doctor about your mental and emotional health, too. Its important because men are far less likely than women to be clinically diagnosed with depression. Thats because men are less likely to discuss or report symptoms associated with depression, according to the National Institutes of Health.The toll of avoiding help has proved enormously tragic. Undiagnosed and untreated depression in men carries a substantially higher risk of substance abuse, violence, and suicide. The American Foundation for Suicide Prevention reports that in 2021, men died by suicide at a rate 3.88 times higher than women. Middle-aged and older men were at increased risk, with white males accounting for nearly 70 percent of all suicides that year. But theres hope and help. Depression and other mental illnesses are highly treatable when identified and when men are connected to appropriate support and care. But it begins with having a talk with your doctor and/or reaching out to a mental health professional when the going gets rough mentally and emotionally. Early intervention, support, and open conversations around mens mental and emotional well-being can be life-saving endeavors. If youve experienced any concerning behavioral changes, mood disturbances, or emotional difficulties, dont tough it out alone reach out to an experienced, compassionate professional at Lee Health Behavioral Services at 239-343-9180.Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Blood pressure screening High blood pressure or hypertension increases your risk for heart disease, stroke, and other serious conditions but rarely causes obvious symptoms initially. Thats why getting your blood pressure checked regularly is so important, says Dr. Ramaswami. Men should get screened for hypertension at least once per year if their levels are in the healthy range, he says. More frequent monitoring is needed if your levels are high or borderline high. If theres a concern, your doctor can help you manage it and suggest lifestyle changes to help you stay healthier. Cholesterol screening High cholesterol leads to plaque buildup in the arteries, increasing heart attack and stroke risk. Like hypertension, high cholesterol often doesnt cause noticeable symptoms until significant cardiovascular issues arise. Get your cholesterol levels checked every 4-6 years if theyre in the healthy range, Dr. Ramaswami advises. Testing may be needed more often if your levels are elevated, or you have other cardiac risk factors. Colorectal cancer screening Colorectal cancer is the third most common cancer and cause of cancer deaths in American men. The good news is it is highly preventable through routine screening. Men at average risk should begin colorectal cancer screening at age 45 via colonoscopy, stool tests, or other approved methods. Earlier and more frequent screening is recommended for those at higher risk. Prostate cancer screening The goal of screening for prostate cancer is to find cancers that may be at high risk for spreading if not treated and to find them early before they spread, according to Dr. Joseph Klink, a board-certified urologic oncologist with Lee Health Cancer Institute.He says most prostate cancers develop slowly or not at all. Prostate cancer typically grows slowly, so many cases dont require immediate treatment and arent life-threatening, Dr. Klink says. Prostate cancer can be serious, but most men diagnosed with it dont die from prostate cancer. In fact, in the United States, there are more than 3.1 million men diagnosed with prostate cancer who are still alive today. The takeaway message is that the earlier prostate cancer is caught, the easier it can be contained. While screening requirements vary, the American Cancer Society recommends men discuss the potential benefits and risks of PSA testing with their doctor starting at: Age 50 for men at average risk Age 45 for men at high risk (African American/ Black or with a close male relative diagnosed with prostate cancer) Age 40 for men at higher risk (more than one close relative diagnosed at an early age) Diabetes screening Men with obesity or other risk factors should get screened for diabetes every three years starting at age 45 if levels are normal. Those with high blood sugar readings indicating prediabetes may need more frequent screening. Lung cancer screening Annual lung cancer screening is recommended for men ages 50-80 who are at high risk for lung cancer due to a history of chronic smoking. Early detection of lung cancer greatly improves treatment outcomes. Screening is done using a low-dose CT scan. Skin cancer screening While screening recommendations vary, men should regularly examine their skin for suspicious moles or growths. Report any concerns to their doctor immediately. Those at higher risk, such as outdoor workers or fair-skinned individuals, may benefit from periodic total-body skin exams by a dermatologist. While this list covers some key preventative screenings for men, its not exhaustive. Talk with your doctor about your risk factors and the most appropriate screening recommendations. The bottom line is being proactive about preventive care gives you the best chance at identifying issues early and enjoying better health at every age.Find a Lee Physician Group doctor here. LEE HEALTHleehealth.org