If you’re one of the country’s more than 5.5 million Hidden Heroes, —family members caring for veterans and members of our military—you know that caregiving is a full-time job. It’s probably one of the most challenging—and rewarding—roles you’ll ever have.
Whether you’re a military spouse caring for an injured service member, an adult child or sibling caring for a veteran parent or loved one, or a spouse caring for a veteran, you don’t have to do it alone. Support is available. And finding that support—for both you and your loved one—is vital so you can provide the care your loved one needs.
Take the initiative developing a strong support system for you and your loved one. Here’s where to start:
Look into community resources. There are a number of service organizations that offer support and aid to service members, veterans, their families and caregivers. Contact your local VA office or agency on aging for more information about resources in your community. In addition, HiddenHeros.org provides a directory of hundreds of resources for military family caregivers.
Contact the VA Caregiver Support Program (CSP). The CSP offers clinical services to caregivers of eligible and covered Veterans enrolled in the VA health care system. They also provide educational resources and support. There is a CSP Team Locator located at every VA location.
Enlist help from family and friends. Expand your support network by reaching out to friends, family, neighbors and other military families who understand what you’re experiencing. Don’t hesitate to ask for help. Oftentimes friends and family want to help but don’t know how and appreciate being asked.
Consider respite care. Respite care provides short-term relief for the caregiver, giving a much-needed break. This can help ease caregiver stress, allowing you time to refresh and recharge.
Hire a professional caregiver. In addition to providing assistance with daily activities, a professional caregiver can help with light housekeeping, errands and transportation, provide memory care and recovery support for illness, stroke, or surgery. In many cases, veterans are eligible for benefits that help cover the expense of home care services.
Remember that members of the military are used to helping others and putting others’ needs ahead of their own, and it can be hard to be on the receiving end of service. At SYNERGY HomeCare, we understand that asking for help can be difficult, but it’s not a sign of weakness. We take pride in offering flexible respite care to military caregivers and adapting to each unique situation.
Many older veterans and surviving spouses qualify for benefits they never claim. These answers outline the major options.What VA benefits are available to senior veterans?Senior veterans may qualify for VA health care, disability compensation, VA pension, Aid and Attendance or Housebound allowances, home-based care, and burial benefits. Eligibility depends on service history, disability status, income and assets.What is VA Aid and Attendance?Aid and Attendance is an additional monthly amount added to a VA pension for veterans or surviving spouses who need help with daily activities or are bedridden, in a nursing home, or have very limited eyesight. It can help pay for in-home care or assisted living.Who qualifies for the VA pension?Generally, a veteran must have served at least 90 days of active duty with at least one day during a wartime period, have a discharge other than dishonorable, and meet limits on income and net worth. Age or disability requirements also apply. Check current limits on VA.gov.Can the VA help pay for assisted living?The VA does not directly pay for assisted living, but Aid and Attendance benefits can help cover the cost. The VA also offers community living centers, State Veterans Homes and home-based programs.Does the VA offer caregiver support?Yes. The Program of General Caregiver Support Services serves caregivers of veterans of all eras, and the Program of Comprehensive Assistance for Family Caregivers offers stipends and training for eligible caregivers. Respite care may also be available.How do I apply for VA benefits?Apply online at VA.gov, by mail, or in person at a regional office. A Veterans Service Officer (VSO) can help for free. Gather your discharge papers (DD-214), financial records and medical documentation first.Can surviving spouses receive benefits? Yes. Surviving spouses may qualify for Survivors Pension, Dependency and Indemnity Compensation (DIC), health care through CHAMPVA in some cases, and Aid and Attendance.
Social Security and the New Senior Tax DeductionBy Senior Tax Advisory GroupTax law changes may help retirees keep more of their income. However, headlines about no tax on Social Security can create confusion. We want seniors to understand what has changed and how the new rules fit their retirement plans.The One Big Beautiful Bill Act created a temporary additional deduction for people age 65 and older. For tax years 2025 through 2028, eligible individuals may deduct up to $6,000. Married couples filing jointly may deduct up to $12,000 when both spouses qualify. There could be a ROTH conversion opportunity at No Additional Tax Cost!This deduction is available whether you itemize or take the standard deduction. Married taxpayers must file jointly to claim it, and each person claiming the deduction must have a qualifying Social Security number.Income limits matter. The deduction begins phasing out when Modified Adjusted Gross Income exceeds $75,000 for an individual or $150,000 for a married couple filing jointly. Taxable IRA withdrawals, capital gains, or Roth conversions may reduce the deduction available.The law did not repeal federal taxation of Social Security benefits. Depending on your combined income, up to 85% of benefits may still be included in taxable income. The new deduction reduces taxable income; it does not change the formula determining how much Social Security is taxable. Eligibility also does not require receiving Social Security.For example, a qualifying couple with both spouses age 65 or older could receive the full $12,000 deduction. If that entire deduction offsets income otherwise taxed at 12%, their federal tax savings would be $1,440. Actual savings depend on their tax situation.Before making withdrawals or changing withholding, review your income and eligibility. Social Security claiming decisions still deserve coordination with taxes, savings, and survivor needs. We believe retirement planning begins with understanding people. Contact Senior Tax Advisory Group at 719-596-4844 or visit www.springstax.com for help evaluating these changes within your retirement plan.
Sarasota and Manatee counties are home to a large population of veterans, many of whom served in Korea, Vietnam, and beyond. As these veterans age, some face memory loss, chronic health conditions, or isolation, and their spouses and families often become their caregivers.Adult day care can be a meaningful source of support for veteran families, and for many, VA benefits may help cover the cost.What Is VA Adult Day Health Care?The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs offers Adult Day Health Care as part of its home and community-based services. It's designed for veterans who need help with daily activities, supervision, or companionship, and whose caregivers need support.The program can be provided at VA facilities or through community adult day centers that work with the VA. Eligibility depends on factors such as enrollment in VA health care and clinical need. A veteran's VA care team or social worker is usually the best place to start.Why Adult Day Care Works Well for VeteransCamaraderie. Veterans often connect most easily with others who served. Shared experiences create instant common ground.Structure. A predictable daily routine can be comforting, especially for veterans living with dementia.Health support. On-site nursing and medication management help manage chronic conditions.Relief for spouses. Caregiving spouses, often aging themselves, get dependable time to rest and take care of their own health.Veterans Are Honored at Town Square University ParkwayTown Square University Parkway in Sarasota honors VA benefits and makes veterans feel especially welcome. The center hosts a veterans group that meets weekly, giving members a chance to share service stories and enjoy the company of fellow veterans. Veteran members are also recognized on the center's Veterans Honor Wall, a point of real pride for many who attend.Beyond the veterans group, members enjoy a full day of activities across 15 themed storefronts set in a nostalgic, mid-century town square, a setting that often brings back memories from the years many of these veterans served. The daily rate includes meals, snacks, medication management, and nursing oversight, and on-site primary care, psychiatric care, and therapy services are available through insurance.Support for Veteran CaregiversCaring for a veteran, particularly one living with dementia or the lasting effects of service, can be demanding. Town Square offers free weekly caregiver support groups and monthly education classes, with free respite provided while caregivers attend.How to Get StartedTalk with the veteran's VA primary care team or social worker about Adult Day Health Care eligibility.Call Town Square University Parkway to ask how the center works with VA benefits.Schedule a tour so the veteran can see the center, and the veterans group, firsthand.Thank You for Your ServiceOur veterans gave so much. Helping them age with dignity, purpose, and friendship is one way our community can give back. Veteran families in Sarasota, Bradenton, Lakewood Ranch, and throughout Manatee County are invited to reach out to Town Square University Parkway to learn more. (Eligibility for VA programs is determined by the VA; please confirm details with your VA care team.)About Town Square University ParkwayTown Square University Parkway is an adult day center serving families in Sarasota, Lakewood Ranch, Bradenton, and throughout Manatee County. It offers a nostalgic setting, purposeful programming, nursing oversight, on-site medical services, and free caregiver support. Call today to schedule a tour or a free assessment.Town Square University Parkway8450 Lockwood Ridge Road, Unit 55, Sarasota, FL 34243Phone: 941-277-5048Web: seniorsbluebook.com/senior-resources/town-square-at-university-parkway