The Greatest Generation Alive and Well at Villa!

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Mar 04, 2016

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Villa resident Bob Boehlow is many things Best. Best husband. Best father. Best friend. Best teacher. Best person. Best baseball player! Just ask his youngest son, Jason.

Dad has always been about being the best and doing the right thing, he attested. Baseball was his passion and even when he had a chance to play with the big leagues, he did the right thing.

At Normandy High School in St. Louis, Bob excelled in academics and athletics. He loved football, wrestling and baseball. As pitcher, he was passionate about baseball. But WWII would engender another passion: Patriotism. Upon graduation, Bob enlisted in the US Marines. Marines Supreme! he proudly trumpets. He became an M-1 Rifle Sharpshooter, earning the rank of Corporal prior to his honorable discharge. This would compel his confidence to make good on the GI Bill and he enrolled at the University of Missouri Columbia where he became the star pitcher for the Tigers.

His son tells the story that when the Yankees recruited his father after college graduation, Bob heeded the counsel of his own father regarding a conflict he faced. He was engaged to a girl who had just been diagnosed with Lou Gehrigs disease. He knew it just wouldnt be right to leave her, Jason said, citing the rigors of continuous travel that characterize the life of a professional ball player. And Jason Jay Boehlow knows first-hand that life on the road can be tough having played First Baseman for the Chicago Cubs.

Bob went on to teach and coach baseball at Riverview Gardens High School in St. Louis where he would eventually meet the art teacher who became the love of his life, Majorie Selindh. (I majored in kissing, Bob interjects with an enormous grin.) As was typical in the day, if you coached a sport, you also taught Drivers Ed. However, Bob was no ordinary instructor. His wheels were always turning, Jason said of his fathers entrepreneurial inclinations.In response to instructing the anticipatory dangers of driving, Bob designed and marketed the first simulator, allowing for student mastery without actually getting behind the wheel. He also built the first solar house in St. Louis from the ground up, Jason added. Perhaps Bobs finest hour occurred in 1985 when he was inducted into the Greater St. Louis Amateur Baseball Hall
of Fame.

By 2008, Bob and his wife were eager to embark on their retirement and the sunshine of Naples. But recently, when he began experiencing mini-strokes and a shift in his attentive personality, the family grew increasingly concerned. Mom was taking care of him and becoming exhausted, Jason said. We knew we needed to explore alternatives. It wasnt until they discovered Villa, the state-of-the-art facility for memory-care located on the campus of Terracina Grand that they could relax in knowing that Bob was in an environment enriched by care, stimuli, interaction and love.

Dads been like a different person at Villa, Jason asserted. He seems pretty happy but he still talks about wanting to get a job!

One person Jason holds in especially high esteem at Villa is Life Enrichment Director Julie Badour. Her enthusiasm, initiative and ongoing interaction with family members means everything to the Boehlows. Last fall, Badour (also a veteran Marine) quietly began envisioning the idea of being Bobs guardian on an upcoming Collier County Honor Flight. It would become a pinnacle moment for father and son.

Dubbed the Lucky Sevens, the final flight of 2015 was resplendent with relevance: Mission 7 would be flying on the 7th of November, escorting 70 WWII heroes on the 70th Anniversary year marking the end of WWII

(1945 - 2015).

Badour knew her dream was going to require luck lots of it. To date, no veteran with Alzheimers from a memory care facility had qualified for the requisite Medical Clearance. Undaunted, she fashioned what just might become a Best Practice in preparing eligibility. In the weeks preceding, she began using films and photographs as a means of conditioning Bobs emotional reaction to memories of WWII. Much to her satisfaction, all of his responses were appropriate.

News of Bobs acceptance was a day Badour will never forget. It was thrilling! she said. I knew Jason would want to be a part of this historic day.

And for Jason, flying in from St. Louis for the rendezvous was indeed historic. Despite the rain and cold, accompanying his father throughout the tour was a day he, too, will never forget. My father really is the Greatest Generation, he said. It makes me proud.



Editors Note: Bernadette La Paglia BSN, M.Ed. serves as Community Liaison for Hodges Funeral Home, a Dignity Memorial provider.

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