The Importance of Preplanning

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Mobile Memorial Gardens Cemetery

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Jul 12, 2023

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Alabama - Gulf Coast

The Importance of Preplanning

The loss of a loved one can cause great sadness and grief for the deceased's family and friends. After a loved one passes away, a number of considerations come into play, some of which can make the funeral preparation process nearly intolerable to endure. The pressure and stress of preparing for the memorial are the two key challenges that make mourning more difficult. You may become immobile due to the additional emotional weight and lack of direction if you have a long list of financial worries that are difficult to concentrate on during a time of grieving.

Mobile Memorial Gardens Cemetery is aware of these difficulties and provides families with a pre-planning option before a loved one passes away. Many people choose the pre-planning or pre-need approach with their families, which enables many burial costs and stressful planning to be finished over time prior to their passing. This guarantees that you or a loved one will get the ultimate resting spot you like while also easing the financial strain on your loved ones.

When someone passes away suddenly, the remaining children or spouses are frequently left to handle all expenses and funeral arrangements. Making plans in advance ensures a future free of the potential worries we all may experience. It eliminates financial problems and allays any anxieties the family might have about how their loved one wishes to be at peace. Even if prices are always rising, pre-planning establishes a price that will be paid in modest monthly payments by the person who is anticipated to pass.

Planning ahead ensures that your last resting spot will go as planned. After deciding to preplan, you must decide between cremation, mausoleum or crypt entombment or ground burial. The most common option is a ground burial, in which case your body is placed in a casket and buried in a piece of land. If you select the Mausoleum or Crypt option, your body will be placed in a casket and sealed shut inside a niche in a wall. Most individuals are unaware that if you choose cremation, you will still require a burial location. The option of memorials and monuments should also be taken into account while pre-planning. These choices enable your loved ones to honor you while also preserving your memories for all time, among other things.

An unavoidable impediment to aging is stress. As you age, you start to be concerned about what your family will do without you. Your relatives will also be concerned. Pre-planning your plot will relieve a lot of burden from both your and your family's shoulders. When you are certain that your final resting place has been prepared, life can continue stress- and worry-free in serenity.

It doesn't have to be a difficult and stressful time to experience a loved one's death. Planning ahead enables the family to decide on the best course together, putting many anxieties to rest before they even arise.

You can get assistance from Mobile Memorial Gardens Cemetery with the pre-planning procedure. We provide vault burials, mausoleum burials, master lots, estates built to order, cremation burials, burials in the ground and memorials and monuments. We are a nonprofit cemetery in Mobile, Alabama, at 6100 Three Notch Road. Call us at 251-661-1333, or connect with us on Facebook or online at www.mobilememorialgardens.org.

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