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Published on April 16, 2024 by The Validation Training Institute
As a member of the Validation Training Institute (VTI) Board, a mindfulness teacher, and an individual engaged in both the physical and mental aspects of aging, I find myself standing at the intersection of profound personal and professional insights. The journey of aging is not just a physical one characterized by the inevitable changes in stamina, muscle mass, and the appearance of wrinkles. At 52, these signs of aging are tangible reminders of the body’s natural progression. However, there is another aspect of aging that often lurks in the background, unnoticed until it forcefully demands attention—cognitive decline.
My connection to cognitive decline is both distant and intimate. While my own thoughts rarely wander to fears of disorientation or loss of mental acuity, the shadow of Alzheimer’s disease looms large in my family history. My mother’s aunt’s extreme cognitive decline serves as a stark reminder of the potential futures many of us may face. My mother’s fear of following in her aunt’s footsteps is a constant presence in her life, yet I find myself pondering—what if I do experience significant cognitive decline myself? Which parts of my consciousness will fade, becoming inaccessible to both me and those around me? How would I wish to be treated by my caregivers in such a scenario?
It is here that the Validation Method, developed by Naomi Feil, becomes not just a professional tool but a beacon of hope. Validation is a way of communicating with and understanding individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It emphasizes empathy, respect, and the dignity of the person, regardless of their cognitive state. This approach aligns closely with my values as a mindfulness teacher and my understanding of the human consciousness as explored in Jack Kornfield’s “The Wise Heart: A Guide to the Universal Teachings of Buddhist Psychology.”
Kornfield’s exploration of consciousness in Buddhist psychology offers profound insights into the nature of our minds and beings. Consciousness, as described, is clear, timeless, and untouched by the transient thoughts and attachments that flit through our minds. This understanding underscores the importance of touch and eye contact, especially when speech and hearing may no longer serve as reliable bridges of connection. In the context of cognitive decline, these forms of non-verbal communication resonate with the core of our being, reaching the part of us that remains aware and responsive.
The essence of mindfulness—being fully present and compassionate with what is—parallels the Validation Method’s approach. Both practices honor the individual’s experience and the fundamental integrity of their consciousness. As a mindfulness teacher, my journey into Buddhist psychology deepens my appreciation for the nuanced ways in which we can connect with and support individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It reminds me that beneath the challenges of communication and memory, there exists a profound human awareness deserving of dignity and love.
In contemplating my own aging and potential future with cognitive decline, I am comforted by the knowledge and practice of Validation and mindfulness. These approaches not only provide a framework for compassionate caregiving but also remind us of the resilience and depth of the human spirit. They teach us that even as certain faculties may diminish, the essence of who we are—a consciousness that is clear, expansive, and fundamentally unblemished—remains.
Incorporating the Validation Method with the insights of Buddhist psychology, we can create a caregiving environment that respects and honors the fullness of the individual. As we navigate the complexities of aging, both as caregivers and as individuals facing our own journeys, let us do so with the wisdom, compassion, and mindfulness that every person deserves.
Through the exploration of these interconnected paths, we are invited to view aging and cognitive decline not as fearsome unknowns but as opportunities for deepening our practice of empathy and understanding. As we look forward to the years ahead, may we embrace the aging process with grace, supporting ourselves and others with the dignity and respect inherent in the Validation Method and the teachings of mindfulness and Buddhist psychology.
As we age, our bodies and minds undergo significant changes, often leading to increased stress and worry. However, with the right strategies, seniors can effectively manage stress and maintain a high quality of life. This comprehensive guide explores the impact of stress on older adults and provides practical tips for stress reduction.The Impact of Stress on SeniorsStress is a natural part of life, but its effects can be more pronounced in older adults. As we age, our bodies become less equipped to handle stress, making us more vulnerable to its negative impacts. Stress can manifest in various ways, including:Physical symptoms:Muscle tensionIncreased risk of heart disease and diabetesCognitive declineHeadachesDigestive issuesEmotional symptoms:AnxietyDepressionIrritabilityManaging stress is crucial for seniors to maintain overall health and well-being. Let's explore some effective strategies for reducing stress in older adults.Five Effective Stress Reduction Techniques for SeniorsWrite Down Your WorriesWriting can be a powerful tool for managing stress. When we worry, we often get caught in a loop of negative thoughts or focus on worst-case scenarios. Putting these concerns on paper can help in several ways:It forces us to articulate our worries more concretely and objectively.Seeing our concerns in writing can sometimes reduce their emotional impact.The act of writing itself can be therapeutic, allowing for free expression without judgment.It can provide a new perspective on a situation or reveal underlying feelings.Remember, writing down worries is not about dwelling on negativity but rather acknowledging and working through concerns constructively.Practice MindfulnessMindfulness is the practice of being fully present and engaged in the current moment. This technique can be particularly beneficial for seniors dealing with stress:It shifts focus from worries about the past or future to the present moment.Mindfulness can help reduce anxiety and improve overall mental well-being.Regular practice can enhance cognitive function and emotional regulation.Seniors can start with simple mindfulness exercises, such as focused breathing or mindful walking, gradually incorporating these practices into daily routines.Engage in Physical ActivityExercise is one of the most effective stress-reduction techniques for people of all ages, including seniors:Physical activity releases endorphins, natural mood-boosters.Regular exercise improves heart health and promotes better sleep.Outdoor activities provide the added benefits of fresh air and nature exposure.Seniors should choose activities appropriate for their fitness levels, such as walking, swimming, or gentle yoga. It's always advisable to consult with a healthcare provider before starting a new exercise regimen.Foster Social ConnectionsSocial isolation can significantly contribute to stress and anxiety in older adults. Embracing community and social connections can help alleviate these issues:Join local senior groups or community centers.Volunteer for causes you care about.Participate in community activities or classes.Stay in touch with family and friends through regular calls or visits.Building and maintaining social connections provides emotional support and a sense of belonging, which are crucial for mental well-being.Maintain a Healthy DietDiet plays a vital role in stress management. A balanced, nutritious diet can help reduce stress and improve overall health:Incorporate plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables.Choose whole grains over refined carbohydrates.Include lean proteins in your meals.Stay hydrated by drinking adequate water throughout the day.Limit caffeine and alcohol intake, as these can exacerbate stress symptoms.A healthy diet not only helps manage stress but also supports overall physical and cognitive health in seniors.Additional Stress Management StrategiesRelaxation techniques: Deep breathing exercises, progressive muscle relaxation, or meditation can help calm the mind and body.Time management: Prioritize tasks and learn to say no to overly demanding commitments.Hobbies: Engage in activities you enjoy, such as reading, gardening, or crafting.Professional help: Don't hesitate to seek support from a mental health professional if stress becomes overwhelming.Stress management is crucial for seniors to maintain a high quality of life. By implementing these strategies - writing down worries, practicing mindfulness, engaging in physical activity, fostering social connections, and maintaining a healthy diet - older adults can effectively reduce stress and enhance their overall well-being. Remember, it's never too late to start prioritizing your mental and emotional health. If stress persists or significantly impacts daily life, don't hesitate to consult with healthcare professionals for personalized advice and support.
Podcasts offer an incredible way to stay entertained, informed, and mentally engaged. They provide a unique opportunity to explore diverse topics, learn new things, and connect with interesting stories and ideas.Benefits of PodcastsMental StimulationEngaging with podcasts provides an excellent mental workout. By listening to content about history, science, art, and various other topics, seniors can:Keep their mind sharpMaintain cognitive vitalityExplore new areas of interestConnection and CommunityPodcasts create a sense of connection through:Storytelling that transports listeners to different worldsDiscussion-based shows that spark thought-provoking conversationsOpportunities to feel part of a broader communityFlexible EntertainmentPodcasts offer:Diverse content for every interestConvenience of listening anytime, anywhereNo rigid schedulesRecommended Podcasts for SeniorsStorytelling and Personal Narratives"The Moth": Real people sharing captivating personal stories"On Being with Krista Tippett": Exploring spirituality and human experiencesHistorical and Cultural Insights"Stuff You Missed in History Class": Uncovering hidden historical stories"Decoder Ring": Exploring cultural phenomena and their originsFiction and Mystery"Unwell, a Midwestern Gothic Mystery": A serialized audio drama exploring small-town secretsGetting StartedTo begin your podcast journey:Use smartphones, tablets, or computersExplore podcast platforms like Spotify or Apple PodcastsStart with topics that genuinely interest youDon't be afraid to try different showsPodcasts provide a wonderful way to learn, be entertained, and stay mentally active, all from the comfort of your home.
Supporting Seniors During Flu Season: Tips And ResourcesAccording to the CDC, the influenza virus can affect anywhere from 9.3 million to 41 million people annually. Everyone is at risk for the flu, but its detrimentally more serious for older adults, with more than 70 percent of flu-related hospitalizations for those 65 years and older.The flu can be a serious health concern, but there are ways to reduce your chances of getting the flu and stay healthy. Now that fall is in full swing, its time to take precautions to lower your risk of influenza (flu) and other common viruses. What Is The Flu?The flu is a respiratory illness that primarily affects the nose and throat. Common signs and symptoms include fever, cough, sore throat, runny nose, body aches, fatigue, and headaches. Some people experience vomiting or diarrhea, although those symptoms are more common among young children than adults.The flu is caused by influenza viruses that spread from person to person through droplets when a sick person coughs, talks, or sneezes near a non-sick person. Sometimes, the flu can spread from someone touching a surface containing flu droplets, then transferring the virus to themselves by touching their nose or mouth. Do Flu Shots Work?The flu vaccine is a vaccine that reduces flu-related illness and the risk of complications. There are three types of flu vaccines approved in the United States: Egg-based flu vaccine Cell culture-based flu vaccine Recombinant flu vaccineAll three types are safe and FDA-approved. They generally work the same way. Some people experience flu-like symptoms after a shot, but they are significantly less intense than the flu and tend to disappear after a few days.While doctors often recommend getting flu shots, they are unsafe for individuals with life-threatening allergies to ingredients within the flu shot. Its also important to talk to your doctor about any medications or health concerns before getting a flu vaccine to ensure its safe for you. Where To Get A Flu ShotMany places throughout Daphne, Alabama, provide flu shots. Most people get their flu shots from a nearby Walgreens or CVS. You can schedule an appointment or walk in. Wait times can vary, but they are typically pretty quick appointments. You can also get a flu shot from your primary care physician. Many doctors ask if you want a flu shot during your annual check-up. You can view a full list of flu vaccine providers in Alabama can be found at alabamapublichhealth.gov. What If I Get The Flu?Even if you have a flu shot, its still possible to develop it. If you start feeling flu symptoms, consider these tips from the National Center for Health Promotion and Disease Prevention.Go to the doctor within 48 hours of symptoms. Its important to start treating symptoms as soon as possible, especially if you are 65 or older.Get plenty of rest. Rest is one of the best things you can do for your body to help it recover from the flu.Stay hydrated. Drink plenty of water and other hydrating fluids with electrolytes. Take fever reducers. If you have a fever, take fever reducers like Tylenol or Advil.Care Through Recovery With Visiting AngelsTaking care of yourself when you have the flu can be challenging, but the caring team at Visiting Angels is here to help. Our caregivers are happy to provide transportation to doctors appointments, assist with household tasks like cleaning and cooking, and remind you of medication. If youre fatigued, we can assist with personal grooming, mobility, and bathroom duties. Contact us today at 251-517-9700 to learn more about our at-home care services or to schedule a complimentary consultation.
Come Home to The Meridian at Punta Gorda IslesDesigned for Great LivingIntroducing The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, where our beautiful community becomes the backdrop to your new life and your fresh start. Be proud to call our community home with its well-designed, updated apartment homes with convenient features, expert care, delicious dining, lake views, enriching activity offerings, and beautiful amenity spaces.For those with loved ones with dementia, our distinctive MONTESSORI MOMENTS IN TIME memory care programming incorporates the benefits of Montessori principles into the daily experience of our residents. Through each resident's Life Story, our Memory Care Director can incorporate purposeful and meaningful activity that can bring more joy into their life. Montessori Moments in Time Memory CareExclusive to Meridian Senior Living CommunitiesOur Montessori Moments in Time program is the cornerstone of Meridian Senior Living's comprehensive approach to memory care and was developed through extensive research and first-hand experience with our residents throughout the years. We strive every day to integrate purpose and meaningful moments into the lives of our memory care residents through a customized program, honoring our residents and their journey with Alzheimer's or other dementia. Our secure, specialized memory care neighborhood offers spacious private suites in a home-like setting, with supervised access to amenities, and care by our highly trained and compassionate staff.Care with Respect & DignityOur memory care program is based on a platform of respectrespect for each individual as people who are important, with significant life stories, talents and preferences. We provide our memory care residents with a positive and intentional experience at our community. Our Life Engagement programming seeks to reduce agitation and inspire conversation. Understanding resident preferences and past historytheir loves, likes, occupations, family members, and morecan help us identify and troubleshoot why a resident may be upset and redirect behaviors to bring moments of joy into social interactions.It All Starts With The Resident Life StoryWho our residents are and the lives theyve led are important elements to providing the best care. Understanding what makes them tick, what causes agitation and what inspires joy is crucial as we build out programming and learn the best way to communicate with one another. Before someone joins our community we ask that families complete a Resident Life Story that shares with our team all the information we need to offer a meaningful experience.
Come Home to The Meridian at Punta Gorda IslesDesigned for Great LivingIntroducing The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, where our beautiful community becomes the backdrop to your new life and your fresh start. Be proud to call our community home with its well-designed, updated apartment homes with convenient features, expert care, delicious dining, lake views, enriching activity offerings, and beautiful amenity spaces.For those with loved ones with dementia, our distinctive MONTESSORI MOMENTS IN TIME memory care programming incorporates the benefits of Montessori principles into the daily experience of our residents. Through each resident's Life Story, our Memory Care Director can incorporate purposeful and meaningful activity that can bring more joy into their life. Supportive Independent LivingRetirement Living at its FunnestSupportive Independent Living at The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles frees active seniors to live the full life they deserve. Spacious apartment homes offer cozy living spaces without the obligations of household maintenance. Enjoy your private kitchenette and savor flavors from the daily special at the in-house restaurant. The day is full of potential with a calendar filled with exciting events, outings to nearby attractions, and a community rich with amenities. If care is ever required, you can stay in place and get the services you need.In-Home FeaturesStudios, One-Bedroom and Two-Bedroom Apartments AvailablePremier Water View Rooms AvailableMove-In AssistanceUtilities IncludedKitchenettesStainless Steel RefrigeratorStainless Steel MicrowaveSolid Surface CountertopsLuxury Vinyl Plank Flooring and CarpetSafety FeaturesNurse Call SystemTrash ServiceLaundry ServiceResort-Style Services & AmenitiesBeautiful Community in Punta Gorda IslesChoice of Luxury Apartment Style - Studios, One-Bedrooms and Two-BedroomsDaily Social Activities and Wellness ProgrammingGracious Dining Room with Water ViewsThree Chef-Prepared Meals Per DayOutdoor PatiosBistroCoffee Lounge and BarCreative StudioMultipurpose Activity RoomState-of-the-Art Fitness CenterLibraryBilliards RoomSalonCard RoomGathering Lounges on All Three LevelsPrivate Dining Room for More Intimate Gatherings or PartiesTheaterComputer RoomWeekly Housekeeping and Linen ServicesConcierge ServicesAll Utilities IncludedScheduled Transportation
Come Home to The Meridian at Punta Gorda IslesDesigned for Great LivingIntroducing The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, where our beautiful community becomes the backdrop to your new life and your fresh start. Be proud to call our community home with its well-designed, updated apartment homes with convenient features, expert care, delicious dining, lake views, enriching activity offerings, and beautiful amenity spaces.For those with loved ones with dementia, our distinctive MONTESSORI MOMENTS IN TIME memory care programming incorporates the benefits of Montessori principles into the daily experience of our residents. Through each resident's Life Story, our Memory Care Director can incorporate purposeful and meaningful activity that can bring more joy into their life. Care for a Carefree LifeDo More of What You Love at The Meridian at Punta Gorda IslesOur Assisted Living community inspires you to spend more time enjoying what makes you happy, whether its tending to the garden, shopping in town, or going on walks with friends, you can find the freedom you seek without compromising your health or safety. Side-by-side, well partner together to design a care plan that maximizes energy, minimizes stress, and empowers you to stay active in the things that bring you the most joy. With the support of our friendly team, the possibilities at The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles are endless.Resort-Style Services & AmenitiesBeautiful Community in Punta Gorda IslesChoice of Luxury Apartment Style - Studios, One-Bedrooms and Two-BedroomsDaily Social Activities and Wellness ProgrammingGracious Dining Room with Water ViewsThree Chef-Prepared Meals Per DayOutdoor PatiosBistroCoffee Lounge and BarCreative StudioMultipurpose Activity RoomState-of-the-Art Fitness CenterLibraryBilliards RoomSalonCard RoomGathering Lounges on All Three LevelsPrivate Dining Room for More Intimate Gatherings or PartiesTheaterComputer RoomWeekly Housekeeping and Linen ServicesConcierge ServicesAll Utilities IncludedScheduled Transportation Care ServicesIncluded but not limited to:Care Staff Onsite 24 Hours a DayMedication AssistanceSpecialized DietsPersonal LaundryAssistance with Bathing, Dressing, Grooming and Other Personal Care NeedsAssistance to and From Meals and ActivitiesAssistance with AmbulationLicensed Nurses on StaffNurse Call SystemMONTESSORI MOMENTS IN TIME Memory Care ProgrammingSafe and Secure Memory Care NeighborhoodHealth and Wellness Monitoring