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Published on April 16, 2024 by The Validation Training Institute
As a member of the Validation Training Institute (VTI) Board, a mindfulness teacher, and an individual engaged in both the physical and mental aspects of aging, I find myself standing at the intersection of profound personal and professional insights. The journey of aging is not just a physical one characterized by the inevitable changes in stamina, muscle mass, and the appearance of wrinkles. At 52, these signs of aging are tangible reminders of the body’s natural progression. However, there is another aspect of aging that often lurks in the background, unnoticed until it forcefully demands attention—cognitive decline.
My connection to cognitive decline is both distant and intimate. While my own thoughts rarely wander to fears of disorientation or loss of mental acuity, the shadow of Alzheimer’s disease looms large in my family history. My mother’s aunt’s extreme cognitive decline serves as a stark reminder of the potential futures many of us may face. My mother’s fear of following in her aunt’s footsteps is a constant presence in her life, yet I find myself pondering—what if I do experience significant cognitive decline myself? Which parts of my consciousness will fade, becoming inaccessible to both me and those around me? How would I wish to be treated by my caregivers in such a scenario?
It is here that the Validation Method, developed by Naomi Feil, becomes not just a professional tool but a beacon of hope. Validation is a way of communicating with and understanding individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It emphasizes empathy, respect, and the dignity of the person, regardless of their cognitive state. This approach aligns closely with my values as a mindfulness teacher and my understanding of the human consciousness as explored in Jack Kornfield’s “The Wise Heart: A Guide to the Universal Teachings of Buddhist Psychology.”
Kornfield’s exploration of consciousness in Buddhist psychology offers profound insights into the nature of our minds and beings. Consciousness, as described, is clear, timeless, and untouched by the transient thoughts and attachments that flit through our minds. This understanding underscores the importance of touch and eye contact, especially when speech and hearing may no longer serve as reliable bridges of connection. In the context of cognitive decline, these forms of non-verbal communication resonate with the core of our being, reaching the part of us that remains aware and responsive.
The essence of mindfulness—being fully present and compassionate with what is—parallels the Validation Method’s approach. Both practices honor the individual’s experience and the fundamental integrity of their consciousness. As a mindfulness teacher, my journey into Buddhist psychology deepens my appreciation for the nuanced ways in which we can connect with and support individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It reminds me that beneath the challenges of communication and memory, there exists a profound human awareness deserving of dignity and love.
In contemplating my own aging and potential future with cognitive decline, I am comforted by the knowledge and practice of Validation and mindfulness. These approaches not only provide a framework for compassionate caregiving but also remind us of the resilience and depth of the human spirit. They teach us that even as certain faculties may diminish, the essence of who we are—a consciousness that is clear, expansive, and fundamentally unblemished—remains.
Incorporating the Validation Method with the insights of Buddhist psychology, we can create a caregiving environment that respects and honors the fullness of the individual. As we navigate the complexities of aging, both as caregivers and as individuals facing our own journeys, let us do so with the wisdom, compassion, and mindfulness that every person deserves.
Through the exploration of these interconnected paths, we are invited to view aging and cognitive decline not as fearsome unknowns but as opportunities for deepening our practice of empathy and understanding. As we look forward to the years ahead, may we embrace the aging process with grace, supporting ourselves and others with the dignity and respect inherent in the Validation Method and the teachings of mindfulness and Buddhist psychology.
As we enter the fall and winter season this year, things look a little different. Many seniors continue to isolate at home because of the Coronavirus pandemic and this can take a toll on their mental health.Its important for seniors to work with their families, caregivers and health professionals to develop a plan that allows them to safely take part in activities they love and maintain positive mental health through activity and connection.At any age, our health and wellbeing are enhanced by regularly participating in the things that bring us purpose, hope and joy. For seniors, taking part in these activities can be more difficult, older people who feel younger than their age show less brain aging, better memory and less depression. And studies show that staying engaged is important for a seniors mental and physical health. Medical professionals recognize that social determinants of health, especially those that affect mental, social, emotional and spiritual wellbeing, impact health outcomes and quality of life.There are always opportunities for meaningful moments and joyful days with a little planning, conversation and intentional action.Fall ActivitiesFall activities tend to focus on connecting with loved ones, enjoying the turning season and spending time outside before the weather gets icy.This year, many people cant see their favorite sports teams play in person. But fall is a dream for seniors that enjoy football, baseball and hockey and there are ways to participate virtually. Seniors and their loved ones can watch together over a video call or have a socially distanced viewing party at home, as long as everyone adheres to recommended safety guidelines.Enjoying fall foliage is an activity in itself, and can be done sitting on the porch, going for a short walk or on a longer hike outside. Raking leaves can even be fun when done with loved ones.Eating is another activity that seems to be more fun in the fall family dinners for those isolating together, baking projects and Halloween fun are all opportunities for seniors to participate in activities they enjoy while maintaining their nutrition goals. Winter ActivitiesThe holidays are filled with opportunities to enjoy music, celebrations with family and community service.Holiday shopping is a fun activity usually done outside of the house. However, online shopping may be the best way for seniors to get their gifts without visiting the mall.Singing, dancing, playing instruments and listening to holiday carols are ways that seniors can enjoy music, no matter what the weather looks like outside. Streaming music services often have a wide selection, allowing seniors to pick their favorites to listen to through a phone, virtual assistant or computer.While there are ways that seniors can serve others year-round, volunteering can be even more meaningful around the holidays. Finding virtual volunteer opportunities is even easier this year writing letters, knitting blankets and finding old coats and sweaters to donate can all be done safely at home. Comfort Keepers can HelpAt Comfort Keepers, we create individual care plans for every client. These plans include wellness goals that consider physical, mental and emotional health. Our caregivers can help support physician-prescribed diet and exercise plans, provide medication reminders, provide transportation to appointments and help seniors engage in the activities they love the most. And, our caregivers can help senior stay connected with loved ones through video chats, phone calls and care updates. We believe that every senior should experience the best in life. If you have questions about Comfort Keepers uplifting in-home care services, please contact us today.
At some point, in life we all experience stress. Its not always a thing. Yet prolonged stress can lead to both emotional damage. Different individuals experience stress in ways and understanding the triggers of your stress and effective methods to alleviate its symptoms can prevent the development of severe health problems down the line. Engaging in relaxation techniques may even proactively ward off stress before it escalates. What signs indicate that someone is experiencing stress? Feeling stressed is your bodys way of responding to changes, in your life routine. Activities you're doing regularly. There are times when a little stress can push you to overcome fears or get things done; much stress can have negative effects on your well being.It's crucial to be aware of the signs of stress, on so that you can take steps to manage them right from the start. Feeling queasy in the tummyExperiencing discomfort, in the chest area.Frequent head pain.Tightness, in the musclesFeeling tired or having trouble sleeping. Forgetting thingsFeeling easily annoyedSerious health issues could also lead to these symptoms appearing. It's crucial to discuss your symptoms with a healthcare provider at all times. If you experience symptoms such, as chest pains don't hesitate to seek medical help. What kinds of stress exist there? Sudden stress is normal and doesn't last long; it can feel exhilarating. Give us a boost to tackle moments such, as exams or work problems. When someone experiences stress due, to specific situations it can lead to both mental and physical health issues arising from constantly feeling overwhelmed by rushing through tasks and taking on too much work while struggling with organizational challenges. Long term stress is something that persists when we overlook or fail to address the sources of stress in our lives. If left unchecked and not dealt with stress could lead to serious health issues, like heart attacks or strokes and even prompt thoughts of suicide.Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) which arises from a event sometimes manifests, as flashbacks,nighmares or episodes of anger. If one overlooks the signs of stress. They worsen to a level h it may progress into anxiety disorder where an individual experiences intense apprehension or dread concerning routine activities, in life even after the initial stressor is removed. Tips, for coping with stressOne effective approach, to handling stress involves identifying the factors that trigger stress in your life foremost. If you find yourself overwhelmed by stressors talking to a healthcare about your symptoms is recommended. Some basic strategies, for dealing with stress include; Engage in activity such, as a half hour walk or a yoga session to maintain your well being.Establish objectives. Ranking to determine the tasks that require attention and those that can be postponed.Engaging in calming practices such, as meditation and mindful breathing exercises.Let us assist you in managing and reducing stress. It's hard to eliminate all the stress, in your life; however there are methods to deal with it effectively. Blue Cross provides a range of health initiatives that can assist you in recognizing the sources of your stress and maintaining it at bay by opting for lifestyle options. Some individuals may also engage in an internet based behavioral health initiative such, as Learn to Live.* This course assists in recognizing issues and grasping the functioning of ones mind before teaching strategies to manage anxiety or stress effectively. Visit your member portal to check if this program is part of your coverage or reach out to customer support using the contact number provided on the back of your Blue Cross ID card. If you need assistance, in locating a physician to help with your stress management needs please reach out to customer support. Search for a doctor online.
If you live in the Pittsburgh area or youve visited here, you understand what people mean when they say the city blends the best of small-town friendliness with the benefits of big-city living.That welcoming atmosphere is also part of what makes Steel City an attractive retirement destination. It offers all the three Cs culture, cuisine, and cost of living in great supply. In this article, weve compiled a list of the top 5 reasons that make Pittsburgh one of the best places to retire in Pennsylvania.#1 Comfortable Cost of LivingWhen deciding whether or not Pittsburgh is the right place to retire for you, its important to consider the financial aspects of the city. Whats the general cost of living, and how does it compare to other locations? Does Pennsylvania tax retirement income?The short answer? Choosing senior living in Pittsburgh, PA, is a smart financial move. In general, the cost of living in Pittsburgh is lower than the national average, and the city, along with the entire Keystone State, offers some notably tax-friendly advantages for retirees. Most retirement income including Social Security income and payments from retirement accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs are tax-exempt. Pension income is also exempt from taxes, and when it comes to taxable purchases, from groceries to golf clubs, the states average total sales tax rate is among the 20 lowest in the country.#2 Dont Miss AttractionsIn addition to being kind to your bottom line, retiring in Pittsburgh, PA, presents a world of opportunities for seniors to explore, experience, and grow. Youve earned your freedom and your free time, and the metro area is a place where you can make the most of both! Pittsburgh Zoo & PPG Aquarium These two attractions are definitely not a one and done experience. With 77 acres to explore, youll want to visit the zoo and aquarium regularly to browse beautiful, well-designed exhibits that foster understanding, respect, and appreciation of wildlife. Its a wonderful experience for both adults and children perfect for a days adventure with the grandkids. State Parks If you love the great outdoors, rest assured, Pittsburgh has plenty of wonderful state and municipal parks to enjoy close to home. Whether youre into boating, hiking, biking, kayaking, or even camping, getting your fill of fun will be less than a half-hours drive. Carnegie Museum of Art Known as the first contemporary art museum in the country, Carnegie Museum of Art likes to refer to its collection as the Old Masters of Tomorrow. Its one of the Pittsburgh regions finest examples of culture and is beloved not only for its 30,000 art objects, but also for its superb interactive programming that allows patrons to engage with the collection. Very cool. The Andy Warhol Museum Artist Andy Warhol hails from Pittsburgh, PA, and The Andy Warhol Museum celebrates his career with the worlds largest collection of his artworks. In fact, its one of the most comprehensive single-artist museums anywhere. Whether youre a lover of pop art or not, you cant help but be mesmerized by Warhols bold, colorful pieces.#3 Marvelous CuisineFoodies looking to retire in Pittsburghyoure in luck. Pittsburgh dining options score high when it comes to variety, quality, and downright deliciousness. Pittsburghers (yes, thats what theyre called) hold certain dishes in high esteem, including pierogis, square-cut pizza, smiley-face cookies, potato patch fries, chipped chopped ham, and pepperoni rolls. Be sure to put the Strip District on your dining list, too, where you can enjoy the whole gamut of eateries before heading to Station Square for high-end riverfront shopping.Looking to spend time dining close to home? Luxury retirement communities like Friendship Village of South Hills offer the best of both worldsstellar on-site dining and close proximity to the citys downtown restaurants.#4 Excellent Health CareThe Pittsburgh region and its residents are fortunate to have the University of Pittsburgh Medical Center for health care. Its one of the top medical facilities in the country, an important benefit for seniors. For over 15 years, UPMC has ranked among the top 20 best hospitals in America according to U.S. News & World Report hospital Honor Roll. In addition to the flagship hospital, it boasts 40 hospitals in the system, along with 700 clinical locations, including outpatient sites and doctors offices. Living in the Steel City, youll never be far from superior health care.#5 Superb Senior Living at Friendship Village of South HillsThe 5th top reason for retiring in Pittsburgh, PA, is having the pleasure of living in a welcoming community with a resort-like feel and a wonderful carefree attitude. Thats the life that awaits you at Friendship Village of South Hills. You can enjoy an active, vibrant lifestyle and reside in a beautiful independent living- LinkOpens in New Tab apartment. And youll have peace of mind knowing youve chosen to make your home in a Life Care- LinkOpens in New Tab community that offers higher levels of care if and when your health needs change.A Great Life Awaits You in Pittsburgh Theres so much to love about retiring in Pennsylvania. When you become a resident of Friendship Village of South Hills, all the wonderful experiences the Steel City has to offer will be close at hand. 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