As Plato said, Lack of activity destroys the good condition of every human being, while movement and methodical physical exercise save it and preserve it. Living an active life, even in our older years, is paramount to overall positive health outcomes. Studies show that older adults who participate in any exercise tend to live longer, reduce the risk of contracting diseases and developing disabilities, even if they start between the ages of 70 and 85. As we come out of social isolation influenced by the global pandemic, seniors are seeking ways to be active and live a healthy lifestyle. Seniors who choose to live in a communal setting have a myriad of opportunities to be active. Our communities offer a wide range of opportunities to nurture new friendships, learn new things, have fun, and stay healthy. Below are three ways our community encourages active living:1. Activity CalendarOur residents enjoy active living including daily engagement and social activities. A dedicated Life Engagement Coordinator teams with residents to develop activity calendars that are personalized to complement residents interests and needs so they can live life their own way. The Life Engagement Coordinator plans activities that have been proven to support complete whole-body wellness for older adults that meet mental, physical, and psychosocial needs.2. Peer PressureSeniors living on their own may not have the same opportunities or motivation to get active as those who live in a community of peers with designated activity spaces and scheduled activities. It is much easier to kick start a fitness program or participate in an educational seminar with a buddy in a structured setting than going at it alone.3. Variety of programsEvery day can be different in a senior living community. Our community offers a choice of movement activities ranging from yoga to Highway to Healthy exercise classes, based on resident preference and abilities. With so many choices, residents have numerous opportunities to find their passion and enjoy it with others who have similar interests. CDC research shows that seniors who are physically active enjoy immediate health benefits. In fact, active seniors may also benefit from stress reduction and better sleep. We offer an environment that supports active living where their residents can thrive. Contact us today to learn more about how we provide a full range of activities that help our residents physically, cognitively, and psychologically. Were here for you.

Offering a short-term stay or respite program allows guests the opportunity to experience our community without any long-term commitment and offers caregivers some time to do, well whatever they need to do. It is important for caregivers to get a break now and then, and short-term stays is a great guilt-free option. Guests are charged a day rate with a minimum and maximum stay, and the community offers full access to amenities, dining, activities and, typically, a fully furnished apartment. Short-term stays provide a number of benefits to guests and their caregivers:Recovery/Rehabilitation Stay:There may come a time in our lives when we are in need of assistance, particularly as we get older. If you or a loved one has just come out of the hospital, rehabilitation clinic or other healthcare facility, a short-term stay can provide a place to go to have caring and compassionate nurses manage your medication, assist with activities of daily living, and help you to recover. This can be a great option if a caregiver works and may not have the time needed to care for their loved one when they need more immediate and regular attention post-hospitalization.Family Caregiver AbsenceSometimes caregivers may need to be absent for an extended period of time or may feel the need for a break from the stress of caregiving. Maybe a much-needed vacation is in order or work may pull a caregiver away, whatever the reason, a short-term respite stay can give caregivers peace of mind and flexibility, giving our new guest the opportunity to participate in exciting activities, enjoy restaurant-style dining and not have to worry about doing the dishes or cleaning the house as all of these services and more are provided!Trial StayMaking the decision to move to a senior community, no matter how beautiful, fun, exciting and caring it may be, is a very big and at times, an intimidating and scary experience. Signing the Lease Agreement adds to that scary thought. What if you could try it, before you commit? Our respite program allows you to do just that. Our respite guests experience community life with all the amenities, care services, full-service dining, and a wide range of activities and events that our residents enjoy every day!Valuable SocializationThere are great benefits to living at a community. As we age, socialization and interaction become essential to keep our minds and bodies healthy. Getting involved and meeting people adds purpose and meaning to the day as you meet your neighbors for dinner or an activity, attend an exercise class, or go on outings with friends. Many times, living alone at home or even with loved ones, doesnt provide that level of independence. Respite stays, while just a short-term solution, give guests a glimpse into a more active social life that is all their own.For each type of stay you will have access to the following accommodations:A private studio or one bedroom apartment with an emergency call system right at your fingertips!Weekly housekeeping and linen services.Scheduled local transportation for community outings, personal appointments and/or errands.Table side dining with chef prepared meals available in the dining room or with room service. (please specify any special dietary needs, food allergies etc.)24-hour staffingA diverse calendar of events and activities geared to provide opportunities to learn, socialize, worship, create and stay fit!  Most of all to have FUN!No matter which option you choose Or mission is to ensure you will leave us with a spring in your step, a gleam in your eye and a smile on your face! Relaxed and Rejuvenated!! Secure in your knowledge that no matter what your circumstance or need, you will always be part of our Meridian Family!! Because we truly believe that

For more information on the author, The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, CLICK HERE!As Plato said, Lack of activity destroys the good condition of every human being, while movement and methodical physical exercise save it and preserve it. Living an active life, even in our older years, is paramount to overall positive health outcomes. Studies show that older adults who participate in any exercise tend to live longer, reduce the risk of contracting diseases and developing disabilities, even if they start between the ages of 70 and 85. As we come out of social isolation influenced by the global pandemic, seniors are seeking ways to be active and live a healthy lifestyle.Seniors who choose to live in a communal setting have a myriad of opportunities to be active. Our communities offer a wide range of opportunities to nurture new friendships, learn new things, have fun, and stay healthy. Below are three ways Hidden Springs encourages active living:1. Activity CalendarOur residents enjoy active living including daily engagement and social activities. A dedicated Life Engagement Coordinator teams with residents to develop activity calendars that are personalized to complement residents interests and needs so they can live life their own way. The Life Engagement Coordinator plans activities that have been proven to support complete whole-body wellness for older adults that meet mental, physical, and psychosocial needs.2. Peer PressureSeniors living on their own may not have the same opportunities or motivation to get active as those who live in a community of peers with designated activity spaces and scheduled activities. It is much easier to kick start a fitness program or participate in an educational seminar with a buddy in a structured setting than going at it alone.3. Variety of programsEvery day can be different in a senior living community. Hidden Springs offers a choice of movement activities ranging from yoga to Highway to Healthy exercise classes, based on resident preference and abilities. With so many choices, residents have numerous opportunities to find their passion and enjoy it with others who have similar interests.CDC research shows that seniors who are physically active enjoy immediate health benefits. In fact, active seniors may also benefit from stress reduction and better sleep. We offeran environment that supports active living where their residents can thrive.

If there is a sudden health-related event that forces a move for your loved one into a senior living community, time is of the essence in figuring out ways to meet the financial obligations. It is common for families to struggle with the upfront costs and be unprepared for move-in fees, monthly rent, and costs associated with making this move. One resource you can consider is using a bridge loan which provides access to the needed funds quickly so that you can get the senior living lifestyle your loved one wants and deserves. Meridian communities have partnered with Elderlife Financial in providing the Elderlife Bridge Loan which is a financial bridge, allowing you to pay for care now while waiting on permanent funding. When approved for a bridge loan, funds can be disbursed within 24 hours, which can help ease the burden on a family navigating difficult decisions. The borrowed funds can be paid back in just a few months or a little over a year, whenever the family funds that were previously tied up become available. Examples include receiving the proceeds from selling a home, liquidating retirement assets, or receiving the retroactive check from VA Benefits.To learn more about other resources to affording care, call us today. We are here for you!

For more information on the author, The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, CLICK HERE!Life is meant to be lived live well in a Meridian Senior Living managed community.Choosing to live in a companion style-apartment in senior living is a great option for many residents. As we age, increasing opportunities to socialize and interact with peers and friends can help people live a higher quality, more fulfilled life. In the past months, we've seen the toll isolation can have on all demographics, but especially seniors. Having a roommate and an immediate social connection makes joining a community easier and less intimidating.Five main benefits to companion living in a senior living community:Facilitates TransitionTransitioning to a long-term community can be exciting; however, for some seniors, those first weeks can be daunting too, as they navigate their new environment and find their way. Residents new to senior living may benefit from learning the ins and outs from their companions experience. Seniors will be more likely to participate in activities and eat meals when they have a companion to join them.Improves Sense of BelongingLiving with a companion can support a greater sense of belonging and higher self-worth levels. Studies show that when seniors engage with others, they benefit from increased self-esteem out of those relationships. When you have social connections, you can benefit from a support system and gain more purpose in your activities.Reduces Health RisksHaving a companion can provide social support to reduce loneliness and the associated health risks. Studies show that 25% of adults over 65 are socially isolated which can increase risk of depression, heart failure, stroke, and dementia.Increases Cognitive FunctionRecent NIH research shows a positive correlation between levels of social engagement and cognitive function among older adults. Companions can encourage participation in social oriented activities such as chess, bridge, board games, and crafts, which can result in improved concentration, working memory, and executive reasoning skills.Reduces CostChoosing a companion room can be a cost-effective option with a decreased monthly rent compared with a private room.With all these benefits in mind, companion living could be a fit for you or your loved one. Want to learn more about companion living? Contact us today to learn more!

Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's or dementia can be both rewarding and challenging. As a caregiver, it's essential to prioritize your own well-being to ensure you have the strength and resilience to provide the best possible care. Here are some practical self-care tips to help caregivers maintain their physical, emotional, and mental health while supporting their loved ones.1. Educate YourselfUnderstanding Alzheimer's or dementia can help alleviate feelings of confusion and frustration. Educate yourself about the disease, its progression, and common symptoms. Knowledge empowers you to anticipate challenges, make informed decisions, and provide better care for your loved one.2. Seek SupportYou're not alone on this journey. Reach out to family, friends, or support groups for emotional support and practical assistance. Connecting with others who are going through similar experiences can provide comfort, validation, and valuable insights.3. Take BreaksCaregiving can be physically and emotionally demanding. It's essential to take regular breaks to rest, recharge, and engage in activities you enjoy. Consider respite care services, where trained professionals can step in to provide temporary care, allowing you to take much-needed time for yourself.4. Prioritize Self-CareMake self-care a non-negotiable priority. Eat a balanced diet, prioritize regular exercise, and get enough sleep. Practice relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga to reduce stress and promote emotional well-being.5. Set Realistic ExpectationsAccept that you can't do it all, and that's okay. Set realistic expectations for yourself and your caregiving role. Be kind to yourself and recognize that it's normal to experience a range of emotions, including guilt, frustration, and grief.6. Establish BoundariesSet boundaries to protect your own physical and emotional health. Learn to say no to additional responsibilities or requests that exceed your capacity. Communicate your needs and limitations openly with family members and healthcare professionals.7. Stay ConnectedMaintain connections with friends, hobbies, and interests outside of your caregiving role. Socializing and engaging in activities that bring you joy can provide a much-needed break from caregiving responsibilities and help prevent feelings of isolation and burnout.8. Utilize ResourcesTake advantage of community resources and support services available for caregivers. This may include support groups, respite care programs, caregiver training workshops, and educational materials. Don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it.9. Practice Patience and CompassionCaring for someone with Alzheimer's or dementia requires patience, understanding, and compassion. Remember that your loved one's behaviors and abilities may change over time, and it's essential to approach caregiving with empathy and kindness.10. Monitor Your Own HealthLastly, don't neglect your own health needs. Schedule regular check-ups with your healthcare provider, and be proactive about addressing any physical or mental health concerns you may have. Remember, prioritizing your own health is essential for your ability to continue providing care for your loved one.As a caregiver of someone with Alzheimer's or dementia, self-care is not a luxuryit's a necessity. By prioritizing your own well-being, seeking support, and practicing self-care techniques, you can better navigate the challenges of caregiving while maintaining your own health and happiness. Remember, you're doing an incredible job, and taking care of yourself is an essential part of the caregiving journey.

As an Authorized Validation Organization, Meridian Senior Living finds value in sharing with caregivers beneficial articles from the Validation Training InstitutePublished on April 16, 2024 by The Validation Training InstituteAs a member of the Validation Training Institute (VTI) Board, a mindfulness teacher, and an individual engaged in both the physical and mental aspects of aging, I find myself standing at the intersection of profound personal and professional insights. The journey of aging is not just a physical one characterized by the inevitable changes in stamina, muscle mass, and the appearance of wrinkles. At 52, these signs of aging are tangible reminders of the bodys natural progression. However, there is another aspect of aging that often lurks in the background, unnoticed until it forcefully demands attentioncognitive decline.My connection to cognitive decline is both distant and intimate. While my own thoughts rarely wander to fears of disorientation or loss of mental acuity, the shadow of Alzheimers disease looms large in my family history. My mothers aunts extreme cognitive decline serves as a stark reminder of the potential futures many of us may face. My mothers fear of following in her aunts footsteps is a constant presence in her life, yet I find myself ponderingwhat if I do experience significant cognitive decline myself? Which parts of my consciousness will fade, becoming inaccessible to both me and those around me? How would I wish to be treated by my caregivers in such a scenario?It is here that the Validation Method, developed by Naomi Feil, becomes not just a professional tool but a beacon of hope. Validation is a way of communicating with and understanding individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It emphasizes empathy, respect, and the dignity of the person, regardless of their cognitive state. This approach aligns closely with my values as a mindfulness teacher and my understanding of the human consciousness as explored in Jack Kornfields The Wise Heart: A Guide to the Universal Teachings of Buddhist Psychology.Kornfields exploration of consciousness in Buddhist psychology offers profound insights into the nature of our minds and beings. Consciousness, as described, is clear, timeless, and untouched by the transient thoughts and attachments that flit through our minds. This understanding underscores the importance of touch and eye contact, especially when speech and hearing may no longer serve as reliable bridges of connection. In the context of cognitive decline, these forms of non-verbal communication resonate with the core of our being, reaching the part of us that remains aware and responsive.The essence of mindfulnessbeing fully present and compassionate with what isparallels the Validation Methods approach. Both practices honor the individuals experience and the fundamental integrity of their consciousness. As a mindfulness teacher, my journey into Buddhist psychology deepens my appreciation for the nuanced ways in which we can connect with and support individuals experiencing cognitive decline. It reminds me that beneath the challenges of communication and memory, there exists a profound human awareness deserving of dignity and love.In contemplating my own aging and potential future with cognitive decline, I am comforted by the knowledge and practice of Validation and mindfulness. These approaches not only provide a framework for compassionate caregiving but also remind us of the resilience and depth of the human spirit. They teach us that even as certain faculties may diminish, the essence of who we area consciousness that is clear, expansive, and fundamentally unblemishedremains.Incorporating the Validation Method with the insights of Buddhist psychology, we can create a caregiving environment that respects and honors the fullness of the individual. As we navigate the complexities of aging, both as caregivers and as individuals facing our own journeys, let us do so with the wisdom, compassion, and mindfulness that every person deserves.Through the exploration of these interconnected paths, we are invited to view aging and cognitive decline not as fearsome unknowns but as opportunities for deepening our practice of empathy and understanding. As we look forward to the years ahead, may we embrace the aging process with grace, supporting ourselves and others with the dignity and respect inherent in the Validation Method and the teachings of mindfulness and Buddhist psychology.

When faced with the decision of caring for an aging loved one, families often weigh the options of at-home care versus assisted living. While both choices offer support and assistance, assisted living communities provide a range of benefits that can enhance the quality of life for seniors. Below are some of the differences between at-home care and assisted living, with a focus on the advantages of choosing assisted living for your loved one.At-Home CareAt-home care involves hiring professional caregivers to provide assistance with daily activities within the comfort of the senior's own home. While this option offers familiarity and independence, it also comes with limitations and challenges:Isolation: Seniors receiving at-home care may experience feelings of loneliness and isolation, especially if they live alone. Limited social interaction can contribute to depression and decline in cognitive function.Limited Social Engagement: Without access to a vibrant community of peers, seniors may miss out on opportunities for socialization and meaningful connections. Social isolation can have detrimental effects on mental and emotional well-being.Caregiver Burnout: Family caregivers often shoulder the responsibility of coordinating and supervising at-home care, leading to high levels of stress and burnout. Balancing caregiving duties with other obligations can be overwhelming and exhausting.Assisted LivingAssisted living communities offer a supportive and engaging environment where seniors can receive personalized care and assistance while enjoying a vibrant lifestyle. Here are some of the key benefits of assisted living:Socialization and Community: Assisted living communities provide a sense of belonging and camaraderie among residents. With opportunities for group activities, outings, and shared meals, seniors can cultivate meaningful relationships and enjoy a sense of community.Professional Care and Support: Trained staff members are available around the clock to provide assistance with activities of daily living, medication management, and healthcare needs. Seniors receive personalized care tailored to their individual preferences and requirements.Safety and Security: Assisted living communities offer a safe and secure environment with emergency response systems and on-site staff to address any concerns or emergencies promptly. Families can have peace of mind knowing their loved ones are well cared for and supported.Life Enrichment Programs: Assisted living communities offer a wide range of life enrichment programs and activities designed to promote physical, mental, and emotional well-being. From fitness classes and hobby groups to cultural outings and educational seminars, there's always something stimulating to participate in.Maintenance-Free Living: Seniors in assisted living communities enjoy a maintenance-free lifestyle, with housekeeping, laundry, and meal preparation services provided. This allows residents to focus on enjoying life to the fullest without the burden of household chores.While at-home care provides a level of familiarity and independence, assisted living offers a wealth of benefits that can significantly enhance the quality of life for seniors. From socialization and professional care to safety and enrichment programs, assisted living communities provide a supportive and engaging environment where seniors can thrive and flourish. By choosing assisted living, families can ensure their loved ones receive the care, support, and companionship they deserve as they age gracefully.

Life is meant to be lived live well in a Meridian Senior Living managed community.Choosing to live in a companion style-apartment in senior living is a great option for many residents. As we age, increasing opportunities to socialize and interact with peers and friends can help people live a higher quality, more fulfilled life. In the past months, weve seen the toll isolation can have on all demographics, but especially seniors. Having a roommate and an immediate social connection makes joining a community easier and less intimidating.Five main benefits to companion living in a senior living community: Facilitates TransitionTransitioning to a long-term community can be exciting; however, for some seniors, those first weeks can be daunting too, as they navigate their new environment and find their way. Residents new to senior living may benefit from learning the ins and outs from their companions experience. Seniors will be more likely to participate in activities and eat meals when they have a companion to join them.  Improves Sense of BelongingLiving with a companion can support a greater sense of belonging and higher self-worth levels. Studies show that when seniors engage with others, they benefit from increased self-esteem out of those relationships. When you have social connections, you can benefit from a support system and gain more purpose in your activities.  Reduces Health RisksHaving a companion can provide social support to reduce loneliness and the associated health risks. Studies show that 25% of adults over 65 are socially isolated which can increase risk of depression, heart failure, stroke, and dementia.  Increases Cognitive FunctionRecent NIH research shows a positive correlation between levels of social engagement and cognitive function among older adults. Companions can encourage participation in social oriented activities such as chess, bridge, board games, and crafts, which can result in improved concentration, working memory, and executive reasoning skills. Reduces CostChoosing a companion room can be a cost-effective option with a decreased monthly rent compared with a private room.With all these benefits in mind, companion living could be a fit for you or your loved one. Want to learn more about companion living? Contact us today to learn more!

For more information on The Meridian at Punta Gorda Isles, CLICK HERE!Residents who live in a senior living community are able to enjoy life and stay active while being surrounded by friends and people that love and care for them. Understand what senior living looks like today and how it can benefit you or a loved one.

Loneliness is a significant issue affecting many seniors, with profound impacts on their overall well-being and quality of life. As we age, changes in health, mobility, and social circles can contribute to feelings of isolation and disconnection. However, senior living communities offer a solution by providing a supportive environment where seniors can foster meaningful connections and combat loneliness. Understanding LonelinessLoneliness is more than just a feeling of solitudeit's a complex emotional response to perceived social isolation. Seniors may experience loneliness due to a variety of factors, including:Loss of Social Connections: Retirement, loss of a spouse or friends, and changes in living arrangements can lead to a reduction in social interactions and support networks.Physical Health Challenges: Mobility issues, chronic health conditions, and sensory impairments may limit seniors' ability to participate in social activities and maintain relationships.Mental Health Concerns: Depression, anxiety, and cognitive decline can exacerbate feelings of loneliness and isolation, creating a vicious cycle of social withdrawal and decline in well-being.The Role of Senior Living CommunitiesSenior living communities play a crucial role in addressing loneliness among seniors by providing a supportive and engaging environment where residents can thrive. Here's how senior living communities help combat loneliness:Built-In Social Network: Senior living communities offer a built-in social network of peers who share similar interests, backgrounds, and life experiences. Residents have ample opportunities to connect with others through group activities, shared meals, and social events.Community Engagement: Assisted living communities organize a wide range of activities and programs designed to promote socialization and engagement. From fitness classes and hobby groups to cultural outings and game nights, there's always something stimulating to participate in.Supportive Environment: Senior living communities provide a supportive environment where residents feel valued, respected, and included. Trained staff members facilitate social interactions and provide emotional support, fostering a sense of belonging and camaraderie.Opportunities for Growth: Senior living communities encourage residents to pursue their interests, hobbies, and passions, fostering personal growth and fulfillment. Whether learning a new skill, volunteering in the community, or participating in creative arts, residents have opportunities to explore their interests and talents.Access to Care and Support: In addition to social connection, senior living communities offer access to professional care and support services. Staff members are available around the clock to provide assistance with activities of daily living, medication management, and healthcare needs, ensuring residents feel safe, supported, and well-cared for.Loneliness among seniors is a prevalent and concerning issue, but senior living communities offer a solution by providing a supportive environment where residents can foster meaningful connections and combat social isolation. By promoting socialization, community engagement, and access to care, senior living communities help seniors thrive and enjoy a fulfilling and vibrant lifestyle. If you or a loved one is experiencing loneliness, consider exploring the benefits of senior living and the positive impact it can have on overall well-being and quality of life.

With a new year, comes new cybercrimes. While technology is our friend in helping us keep connected with our loved ones, there are some sobering threats that can make it our foe. Unfortunately, internet-based crime is increasing at an alarming rate with a 64% increase in email threats year-over-year in 2020 with older people being impacted the most. Cybercriminals and spammers are becoming increasingly sophisticated, and more new users of technology such as seniors are falling victim to their attacks. The statistics are staggering. According to the FBI 2020 Internet Crime Report, there was a 27% year-over-year increase in cyber fraud losses totaling $1.8 billion, as reported by individuals over 50 years old. Moreover, it appears that these cybercriminals specifically target senior citizens not only because are they are less aware of technology scams, but also, they are perceived to have larger financial assets than other groups.Anytime you use a computer, smartphone, or tablet, you can fall prey to your identity and financial information being stolen and used for nefarious purposes. The good news is that there are five simple ways you can protect yourself from these attacks.We Suggest you Do NotOpen emails that look too good to be trueTypical attempts to get you to open an email include subject lines that you have won a prize or a free offer. Phishing threatsDo not click on banking or account links in an email, particularly if the email asks for updated credit card information. Cybercriminals can disguise emails to look like they are coming from legitimate organizations or people you know but clicking on these links and submitting your personal, financial, or login information may fall into the wrong hands. Always contact the financial institution directly, do not use the link in the email, to check to see if the request is valid. Almost every time it is not. Respond to emails that are an unusual plea for helpA common scam is when an individual poses as a known contact and states that they have been mugged while vacationing abroad and need you to send money ASAP. If you are concerned, call the person directly and dont respond to the email or phone call. Interact with unknown individuals or sourcesThat includes opening emails, downloading files, or interacting on social media. Only download files from a trusted source as files can be malware which can steal personal data and damage your device. Moreover, some fraudsters have been known to impersonate a potential love interest online to gain your trust and then ask for your bank information. Submit payment in response to threats of arrest from an authority figure. Common scams are when criminals pose as an IRS agent and demand payment to avoid persecution. The IRS does not email communications of this type to citizens. Just ignore these scams.As we navigate the current ever-changing cyber environment, it is possible to learn and connect safely with just a little knowledge. So now you know these five ways to protect yourself, enjoy technology today!

Agitation and frustration are common behaviors for those with Alzheimer's and can lead to a feeling of hopelessness by you, the caregiver or family member. There are a few strategies that may help, but first, as hard as it is, you must come to terms that mom's or dad's reality may be different now. Trying to meet them in their world will help you to truly empathize with their feelings and could help you problem-solve whatever behavior you are facing. The goal is creating for your loved one the best life they can live, full of as much independence and purpose, while trying to redirect frustration and keep them safe.While caring for your loved one, you may experience your own sadness and frustration or you may struggle to find balance. It's especially important for caregivers to make time for themselves. Creating an environment in which all of these tips can be performed all the time may not be realistic for you. Likely it will be exhausting, and at times, rewarding. A support group like the one we offer may help you meet other people in your same situation and offer a break away from your duties at home.Here are some quick tips for caregivers as you learn to communicate with your loved one:1. Arguments are useless. In fact, they often make matters worse. Confusion, memory loss and frustration are making the person behave irrationally, and you cant argue them out of it.2. Allow as much independence and freedom as possible, while keeping safety and comfort in mind.3. Actions help when verbal communication fails. Help by demonstrating what you mean, or by starting the activity in question.4. Assume that your loved one may understand and hear what you say even if they are confused. Do not say things in front of them as if they are not there.5. Appreciate good moments or good days even though the persons ability may not be what it used to be.6. Appropriate and productive activities help pass the time and reduce agitation, boredom, daytime sleeping and depression. Give your loved one safe, realistic tasks or activities that can be easily finished and would be something he or she would have enjoyed doing normally, such as an art project or planting flowers.7. Agitation is often alleviated when the caregiver remains calm, reassuring and respectful of the persons feelings. "Centering" can help you get control of emotions when things get to be too much. Take a deep breath and exhale slowly numerous times until you can gain composure.8. Adults with disabilities are still adults. It is important that they are always treated with respect and dignity.9. Adapt a task or activity to fit the ability of the resident. Break down the activity into separate steps; simplify tasks by eliminating parts that could be frustrating.10. Assessment is ongoing. What is safe and effective for now may change. Keep watching and reevaluating.