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Every May, Older Americans Month celebrates adults age 60 and older. This year’s theme, “Champion Your Health,” encourages older adults to “take an active role in managing your own health, advocating for yourself, accessing preventive care, and making informed decisions that support independence.”
It may sound unnecessary to encourage people to take charge of their own health. But for many seniors, the reality is that other family members often make decisions for them. This can show up in different ways, such as:
These behaviors can make a senior feel like just a passenger in their own life.
Most family members don’t set out to do this on purpose. They want to help their loved one in any way they can. A son may decide which care options he feels are worth discussing. A grandchild might finish an elder’s thought, meaning only to be helpful. None of these acts is cruel. Most come from genuine love. But the older adult may get a consistent message: Your pace is too slow, we know better than you do, and we’ve already made your decisions for you. Good intentions can end up silencing the older person.
Elderspeak occurs when someone treats or talks to an older person as if they were a young child. They use simple words and exaggerate their tone of voice. They might say to a senior, “You are so cute!” or call them “honey” or “dear.” Elderspeak “is meant to be helpful and supportive, but older folks often believe it is patronizing,” says an article from the University of Kansas Lifespan Institute.
In fact, studies have shown that elderspeak can lower a senior’s self-esteem and even make them want to refuse care they need.
“Bad things happen when people feel they are not being listened to, or that their preferences aren’t being met,” said Jane Tavares, PhD, in an article from the Gerontology Institute at UMass Boston.
When older adults are consistently talked over or talked down to, they can feel isolated and irrelevant, which can both cause depression. If they’re not able to lead conversations about their own lifestyle, meals, or medical care, they may stop engaging.
“People who felt their preferences weren’t being heard were less likely to take preventive measures such as getting vaccines,” according to the UMass Boston article. They’re also “less likely to be managing their chronic conditions [and] most likely to have higher projected health care costs.”
To shift from a “handling” mindset to a listening one, think about slowing down.
When older adults feel seen and heard, they cope better, heal better, and live better. At Right at Home, we provide person-centered care. That means our caregivers are focused on the person first, not the task list. Care plans are built with clients, not for them. And communication is treated as part of care itself, not a soft skill layered on top of the “real” work.
This Older Americans Month, the most powerful act of care we can offer the people we love is also the simplest: Listen. They have a lifetime of wisdom that deserves to be honored.
Right at Home offers a wide range of in-home care services for seniors. Our unique, five-step approach ensures the care plan is tailored to your needs, and we adjust it as needed so it is always the right fit. Whether help is needed for a few hours a week or 24/7, our trained caregivers are ready to assist and deliver exceptional care. For more information, use our office locator to speak to the office nearest you.
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Digital what? Footprint? You may be thinking thats what you leave behind at the beach. While that may be correct, it is also what you leave behind every time you provide your email, set up a new online account, or allow your data to be tracked. Your digital footprint is the trail you leave behind with Location services on your phone. It is the data you leave behind when commenting on Aunt Sallys Facebook page, sharing your familys vacation pictures on Instagram, or traipsing around the internet to various sites looking for that cute Lladro figurine your mother wanted for Christmas. All of it tells something about you whether you realized it was happening or not.Most of the time, the sharing of your data what you do, how you do it, etc. may not be a big deal. Or is it? The reality is that your data supports big business every day. It is collected, bought and sold (mostly without your knowledge) by data brokers (i.e., Acxiom, Epsilon), credit and identity bureaus (i.e., Experian, Equifax, TransUnion), and Big Tech Companies (i.e., Google, Amazon, Meta, Microsoft, Apple) that share your data with their partners and ad networks.The danger to you is when there is a data breach at one of the many sites that has your data and your data is captured and posted on the dark web. This enables nefarious characters to better target you for scams and potentially steal your identity. Call Lily in the Details today 941-237-0157 and schedule Understanding Your Digital Footprint, Navigating the Online World Safely and Wisely for your community.
By Dr. David RiceSouthwest Florida is home to more than 100,000 veterans, according to the U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs.They own homes, manage businesses and pay taxes here. They volunteer at local nonprofits and donate to local causes. They are the core of our community.Nearly every day, at least one veteran walks into Advocate Radiation Oncology for treatment. Cancer impacts people from every background, including veterans. Even the most hardened veterans struggle with a cancer diagnosis, which is understandable; no one is invincible and cancer generates a wave of emotions shock, anxiety, frustration, fear and stress.Over the years, veterans in Charlotte and Sarasota counties have found an ally inside the treatment room Dr. Brian Lawenda. A board-certified, Harvard-trained physician who completed medical school at Temple University, Lawenda has all the credentials to help a patient feel confident that they're in good hands, medically speaking. Then they find out something else about their physician. He is a veteran, too, having served this country 13 years with the U.S. Navy and attaining the rank of commander."When I enlisted, I took an oath to serve this country and uphold the U.S. Constitution," Lawenda said. "When I became a doctor, I pledged to dedicate my practice to patients and the community I serve, and it's especially gratifying when those patients are fellow veterans."The best doctors don't just treat symptoms; they connect with patients, usually through shared experiences they're from the same state, cheer for the same sports team or attended the same university. Lawenda's military experience helps create an instant doctor-patient bond that continues during treatment and beyond. In fact, Lawenda has become the region's go-to radiation oncologist for veterans, not just Navy veterans, but those who have admirably served across all six branches of the military."When he told me he served in the Navy, it gave me comfort," said Ret. Command Master Chief Scott Fusco, a North Port resident who recently completed prostate cancer treatments at Advocate. "I had absolute trust in him from that point on."Lawenda wasn't the only veteran on Fusco's care team, either. His urologist also served in the Navy and referred Fusco to Dr. Lawenda for treatment."We served at different times and places, but we're all part of the same team," Fusco said. "They've been there, done that, just like me. There is instant respect, instant trust."Lawenda, who sees patients at Advocate's cancer treatment centers in Port Charlotte and Venice, specializes in the treatment of prostate, lung, breast, head and neck, rectal, liver, bone, cervical and other types of cancers. Although Lawenda doesn't technically specialize in the treatment of veterans, he is especially proud to support patients like Fusco on their cancer journey."A veteran may retire or end their military service, but he or she will never stop serving this country and their community," Lawenda said. "Being able to help local veterans beat cancer is extremely gratifying and certainly rewarding. The military is a brotherhood and a sisterhood, and I'll continue fighting for my brothers and sisters."About the AuthorDr. David Rice is a board-certified radiation oncologist who sees patients through Advocate Radiation Oncologys cancer treatment centers in Port Charlotte and Venice. Visit AdvocateRO.com for more information.
Managing diabetes is more than watching your blood sugar. Its about staying active, maintaining your strength, and continuing to enjoy the activities you love.Diabetes affects millions of older adults and can have a significant impact on overall health, mobility, and independence. As we age, managing diabetes becomes especially important because it can increase the risk of falls, nerve damage, muscle weakness, and other health complications.The good news? With the right support, regular physical activity, and a personalized treatment plan, older adults living with diabetes can take meaningful steps toward better health and a more active lifestyle.Why Is Exercise So Important for Diabetes?When you have diabetes, your body has difficulty regulating blood sugar levels. Physical activity helps your muscles use glucose for energy, which can improve blood sugar control.Regular exercise can also help:Improve muscle strength: Maintain the strength needed for walking, climbing stairs, and completing everyday activities.Improve blood sugar management: Help your body use insulin more effectively.Support heart health: Improve circulation and help manage blood pressure.Improve balance: Reduce the risk of falls and injuries.Maintain independence: Make daily activities such as dressing, bathing, cooking, and shopping easier.Increase energy and confidence: Help you feel stronger and more comfortable staying active.Even small amounts of movement throughout the day can make a difference!How Can Physical and Occupational Therapy Help?For many older adults, beginning an exercise program can feel overwhelming, especially when dealing with joint pain, weakness, balance problems, or other medical conditions.Thats where FOX Rehabilitation can help.FOX provides personalized physical and occupational therapy designed to help older adults safely improve their mobility, strength, and ability to perform everyday activities.A physical therapist can evaluate your walking, balance, endurance, and muscle strength to develop an exercise program that meets your individual needs.An occupational therapist can help you find safer, easier ways to perform everyday tasks while improving your ability to remain independent at home.Together, these professionals can help address the physical challenges associated with diabetes, including decreased sensation in the feet, muscle weakness, and difficulty with balance.The Benefits Go Beyond Blood SugarResearch has shown that structured exercise programs can help people with Type 2 diabetes improve their blood sugar control, preserve muscle mass, and increase overall strength.Regular physical activity may also improve blood pressure and reduce the risk of certain diabetes-related complications.Most importantly, staying active can help older adults maintain the freedom to do what matters most whether thats spending time with grandchildren, enjoying a walk with friends, gardening, or simply moving safely around their homes.Therapy That Comes to You!One of the greatest benefits of FOX Rehabilitation is that therapy can take place right in the comfort of your own home.FOX provides physical, occupational, and speech therapy through Medicare Part B for eligible individuals.You do not have to be homebound or recently hospitalized to receive services.This means older adults who may benefit from skilled therapy can receive personalized care in their familiar surroundings without having to travel to an outpatient clinic.Take the First Step Toward Better HealthLiving with diabetes doesnt mean giving up the activities you enjoy. With proper management, regular movement, and professional guidance, you can continue building strength, improving mobility, and maintaining your independence.Before beginning a new exercise routine, speak with your healthcare provider, particularly if you have diabetes-related complications or take medications that can cause low blood sugar.Remember: Its never too late to get stronger, move better, and take control of your health!
Right at Home proudly serves seniors and families throughout Port Charlotte and the surrounding areas by providing compassionate, personalized in-home care that supports independence, dignity, and comfort. Their team is dedicated to helping older adults remain safely in familiar surroundings while receiving the assistance they need to maintain a high quality of life. Care is provided in private homes, assisted living communities, rehabilitation centers, skilled nursing facilities, and other residential settings, ensuring continuity and flexibility as needs change.The organization offers a full range of non-medical home care services tailored to each individual through customized care plans. Core services include companion care, personal care, and respite care for family caregivers. Trained caregivers assist with daily living activities such as bathing, grooming, dressing, mobility support, meal preparation, light housekeeping, medication reminders, transportation, and meaningful social interaction.Right at Home Englewood also provides specialized care for individuals living with Alzheimers disease, dementia, Parkinsons disease, and other chronic conditions. Additional services include short-term transitional care following a hospital or rehabilitation stay, hospice support, care for adults with disabilities, and flexible options ranging from a few hours of help to 24-hour and live-in care. Through dependable, compassionate support, Right at Home helps families in Port Charlotte feel confident that their loved ones are safe, comfortable, and well cared for.
Right at Home Punta Gorda provides compassionate, professional in-home care services designed to help seniors and adults with disabilities live safely and comfortably wherever they call home. Their trained caregivers offer personalized support including companion care, light housekeeping, transportation, grocery shopping, medication reminders, personal hygiene assistance, mobility support, and specialized care for individuals living with Alzheimers, dementia, diabetes, Parkinsons disease, chronic conditions, or those needing respite, hospice, or 24-hour care.With a strong focus on dignity, independence, and quality of life, Right at Home Punta Gorda works closely with families to create care plans that meet each clients unique needs. Their mission is to be a trusted guide for families navigating the challenges of aging, illness, injury, or disability while providing reliable care, thoughtful support, and peace of mind at home.
Right at Home proudly serves seniors and families throughout Port Charlotte and the surrounding areas by providing compassionate, personalized in-home care that supports independence, dignity, and comfort. Their team is dedicated to helping older adults remain safely in familiar surroundings while receiving the assistance they need to maintain a high quality of life. Care is provided in private homes, assisted living communities, rehabilitation centers, skilled nursing facilities, and other residential settings, ensuring continuity and flexibility as needs change.The organization offers a full range of non-medical home care services tailored to each individual through customized care plans. Core services include companion care, personal care, and respite care for family caregivers. Trained caregivers assist with daily living activities such as bathing, grooming, dressing, mobility support, meal preparation, light housekeeping, medication reminders, transportation, and meaningful social interaction.Right at Home Englewood also provides specialized care for individuals living with Alzheimers disease, dementia, Parkinsons disease, and other chronic conditions. Additional services include short-term transitional care following a hospital or rehabilitation stay, hospice support, care for adults with disabilities, and flexible options ranging from a few hours of help to 24-hour and live-in care. Through dependable, compassionate support, Right at Home helps families in Port Charlotte feel confident that their loved ones are safe, comfortable, and well cared for.