Flipping the Script on Aging

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Baker Senior Center

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Jul 28, 2025

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When you think of an “Older American,” what image comes to mind? A parent or grandparent? A military veteran or grumpy neighbor? Or perhaps you just think of someone slow, weak or frail?

 

As the leading advocate for seniors in our community, it our goal at Baker Senior Center Naples to flip the script on such age-related stereotypes. Our stated mission is to provide “Confidence, Connection and Support” to adults over the age of 60 and their families, helping them thrive and enjoy life to its fullest. We do this through a range of comprehensive programs and services.

 

Established in 1963, Older Americans Month is celebrated annually to recognize and honor the many contributions and achievements of older adults across the United States and highlight their ongoing involvement in society. Led by the Administration for Community Living, it is a time to highlight important trends and strengthen our commitment to honoring our older citizens. It also is an opportunity to draw attention to activities benefitting seniors.

The Administration for Community Living wisely chose their 2025 theme, “Flip the Script on Aging”, as a means of transforming societal perceptions and approaches to aging, encouraging active engagement and highlighting the many contributions of older adults.

 

This theme particularly resonates with our team as we have become acutely aware of these perceptions. Often, we hear visitors share similar comments as they walk into our building for the first time. Comments such as, “Wow! This is not what I expected a senior center to be” or “This place is so bright and beautiful,” or “Everyone seems so active and happy.” 

 

After hearing these comments so frequently, I eventually began to ask, “What did you expect?” The responses were always the same, “I expected it to be dark and dreary” or “I never expected it to be so big, bright and clean” or “I expected to see people sitting around and disengaged.”

 

Those who have visited us know that our 30,000-square-foot building, which opened in 2023, is filled with light and brightly colored art and, most importantly, members and clients who are engaged and thrive through the many wellness programs we offer. We dispel the myths created about aging through the media that often portray seniors as frail, forgetful and depressed.

 

Of course, this is not surprising as age stereotypes have been ingrained in each of us. Even as little children we learn nursery rhymes like “There was an old woman who lived in a shoe” and “This old man.”

 

At Baker Senior Center Naples, we promote wellness and thriving in older adults through an average of 40 different programs each week that provide social engagement, physical activity, mental stimulation and cognitive support, which all lead to positive functioning and resilience.

 

We are one of just 111 senior centers in the United States accredited by the National Council on Aging, and the only one that provides comprehensive services by licensed and credentialed professionals such as mental health counseling, case management, dementia respite groups and caregiver support, all under one roof. We also offer a “choice” food pantry for those in need.

 

We are proud that Baker Senior Center Naples is considered the “central address” in our community for older adults to meet and connect in a warm and nurturing environment.

We invite you to visit us at 6200 Autumn Oaks Lane as we “Flip the Script on Aging.”

 

By Dr. Jaclynn Faffer

President/CEO of Baker Senior Center Naples

(Dr. Jaclynn Faffer is President/CEO of Baker Senior Center Naples, a nonprofit organization that provides comprehensive, “one-stop-shop” professional services and programs for older adults and their families.)

 

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