The Power of Multigenerational Caregiving

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The Dubin Center

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Apr 01, 2025

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At The Dubin Center, we often see the strength that blooms when families come together to care for a loved one. One such inspiring duo is Sally and her daughter, Jenn—a multigenerational caregiving team who have supported each other and grown together through the challenges of dementia caregiving.

Sally has been a caregiver for at least four years, navigating the evolving needs of her husband with quiet strength and a fierce commitment to showing up each day. Two years ago, her daughter Jenn moved to Florida to be closer—and to help. Since then, the two have become a team, blending perspectives, experiences, and love as they walk the caregiving journey together.

When asked what they would say to someone who is unsure about joining a support group or getting involved with The Dubin Center, both women spoke with heartfelt conviction.

"Definitely come,” Sally said. “Anyone dealing with this sort of stuff needs support. It saved me.”

Jenn echoed her mother’s words, adding, “You are not alone. The support groups can help lift you out of the misery. You can give advice and get advice. It’s a safe space—and comforting knowing others understand.”

Caregiving across generations isn’t always easy, but it opens the door for powerful lessons.

When asked what younger and older generations can learn from each other, Sally emphasized patience—noting that age often brings the ability to let go of the small things and focus on what really matters. Jenn reflected on the importance of respect, independence, and dignity, which she’s seen modeled by her mom.

So, what advice do they have for other families navigating caregiving across generations?

“Find support, and don’t do it alone,” Sally advised. “Let your family know what’s going on and ask for help when you need it.”

Jenn added, “Being open, honest, patient, and kind are the most important. Don’t judge, and find a middle ground to work together.”

Thank you, Sally and Jenn, for your inspiring words! Whether you have family to lean on or not, their words are a reminder that caregiving doesn’t have to be a solitary journey. 

If you or someone you know is caregiving across generations or by themself, reach out. Whether it's joining a support group or simply asking questions, The Dubin Center is here for you!

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The Dubin Center has been a beacon of support for Alzheimer's and dementia caregivers in Southwest Florida since 1995. As a free resource center, we provide compassionate and confidential assistance to care partners, offering education, information, hope, and most importantly, a sense of community. Our mission is to help caregivers achieve health, strength, and resilience by navigating the challenges of caring for loved ones with Alzheimer's and dementia.We understand that the journey of caregiving can be overwhelming and lonely at times, which is why we offer a range of services and resources to support you every step of the way. From caregiver training and support groups to memory screenings and social activities, we are here to help you cope with the challenges of dementia and find moments of joy and connection.The Dubin Center is also proud to be a United Way partner agency, working together to improve the lives of individuals and families in Glades, Lee, Hendry, and Okeechobee counties. Whether you're a caregiver in need of support or someone looking to volunteer and make a difference, we invite you to connect with us. You are not alone in this journey reach out to The Dubin Center today.

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Associations for Specific Ailments

The Dubin Center has been a beacon of support for Alzheimer's and dementia caregivers in Southwest Florida since 1995. As a free resource center, we provide compassionate and confidential assistance to care partners, offering education, information, hope, and most importantly, a sense of community. Our mission is to help caregivers achieve health, strength, and resilience by navigating the challenges of caring for loved ones with Alzheimer's and dementia.We understand that the journey of caregiving can be overwhelming and lonely at times, which is why we offer a range of services and resources to support you every step of the way. From caregiver training and support groups to memory screenings and social activities, we are here to help you cope with the challenges of dementia and find moments of joy and connection.The Dubin Center is also proud to be a United Way partner agency, working together to improve the lives of individuals and families in Glades, Lee, Hendry, and Okeechobee counties. Whether you're a caregiver in need of support or someone looking to volunteer and make a difference, we invite you to connect with us. You are not alone in this journey reach out to The Dubin Center today.

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The Dubin Center has been a beacon of support for Alzheimer's and dementia caregivers in Southwest Florida since 1995. As a free resource center, we provide compassionate and confidential assistance to care partners, offering education, information, hope, and most importantly, a sense of community. Our mission is to help caregivers achieve health, strength, and resilience by navigating the challenges of caring for loved ones with Alzheimer's and dementia.We understand that the journey of caregiving can be overwhelming and lonely at times, which is why we offer a range of services and resources to support you every step of the way. From caregiver training and support groups to memory screenings and social activities, we are here to help you cope with the challenges of dementia and find moments of joy and connection.The Dubin Center is also proud to be a United Way partner agency, working together to improve the lives of individuals and families in Glades, Lee, Hendry, and Okeechobee counties. Whether you're a caregiver in need of support or someone looking to volunteer and make a difference, we invite you to connect with us. You are not alone in this journey reach out to The Dubin Center today.