You took that fantastic job offer in another state. Mom and Dad were healthy and fine. Then Dad passed away and now Mom is not doing well on her own. She's reached an age where daily assistance may be necessary and you're 1,000 miles away. If this scenario sounds familiar, remote care giving might be the answer.This scenario plays out each and every day in thousands of Americans lives, says Richard Bitner of Visiting Angels Living Assistance Services. Visiting Angels focuses on remote care giving and takes the burden off families and loved ones of those that need care. Nursing homes and assisted living facilities are not the only options available, says Bitner. Non-medical home care allows your loved ones to live where they want to be their own home. Visiting Angels has over 300 offices around the country to help educate families and provide care to loved ones. Here are some questions to consider when determining if your loved one needs professional care: Does your loved one need assistance with walking? Has their physical and/ or emotional health been declining? Are they able to prepare nutritious daily meals? Are they able to shop for themselves? Are they able to manage their bills and financial responsibilities? Are they taking their medications on time? Are they still able to drive safely? Are they in need of companionship? Are they able to dress and groom themselves? If you answered yes to any of these questions, professional home care might be an option for you. When considering agencies, choose one that can offer more than basic homemaker services, including dressing, bathing and other hygienic activities. Because not all states require licensing, be sure to check that the agency is bonded, insured and licensed. Since home care services are non-medical, they currently are not covered by Medicare. But you do have options. Home care services can be paid individually or by long term care insurance. Veterans and their spouses might qualify for the Disability Pension for Aid and Attendance. Editors Note: For more information about long distance care, visit www.VisitingAngels.com.This article was submitted by Trish Thiel, Director, Visiting Angels - Eastern Allegheny/ Westmoreland Counties, 412-828-4435 or www.visitingangels.com/pittsburgheast.