When your friend is grieving, you want to do everything you can to be there for them and support them during this difficult time. But you may wonder – are you overstepping? What if you say the wrong thing? It’s common to second guess ourselves when we have the best intentions for supporting a friend after a loss.
“Grief is something we all experience at some point, but without some guidance, it can be difficult to know how to best support someone when they’ve lost a loved one,” said Erin Smith of The Terraces at Bonita Springs, a senior living community in Bonita Springs, Florida
“We’re starting a group for widows in our community called The Terraces Vita Nova Social Club. This will be a space where people in our local community who have lost their significant other have an opportunity to connect and socialize through new friendships,” Erin continued.
Vita Nova gives members the opportunity to talk about their experiences, their challenges, and enjoy the shared support of the people around them. The group will also focus on moving forward and finding joy in the next chapter of their lives through engaging gatherings and new friendships.
Vita Nova aims to provide ladies with a space where they feel encouraged to venture away from isolated homes to spend an afternoon with others who have gone through a similar experience.
As a friend, keep these simple ways in mind so that you can be there for a grieving friend.

Reach out with a phone call or a text message to express your condolences. This small action lets them know you’re there for them and will support them through this difficult time. Remember to keep reaching out, even after the initial wave of loss has settled.
You may be with your friend when they feel like they want to vent about their emotions or talk about their loved one. A study examining grief support showed that allowing the grieving person to discuss their loved one and not rush them through their feelings felt emotionally supported.
One key thing to remember is to not advise or interrupt your friend. Simply listening and letting them get anything they want off their chest can be a huge help to their grieving process.
When your friend is discussing how they’re feeling, it’s important to validate them. While grief is a process, it’s not always a straightforward process. Your friend may have had a good couple of weeks, only to feel their grief all over again. Being there to validate their feelings and that it’s okay for them not to be okay can provide them with comfort and assurance.
Showing up is one of the best ways to support your grieving friend.
Often, when you say, “Let me know if I can do anything for you,” your friend may not feel comfortable reaching out and asking. By showing up with a plan, you can alleviate some of the most difficult parts of going through the grieving process – keeping up with everything else.
Use the phrase “I’d love it if you’d allow me to…” to increase the odds of them accepting your assistance without shame.
While there are many ways you can support your friend, they may benefit from other types of support as well. A support group for people who have experienced loss, like your friend, can help them connect with others and hear from others who are further along in the grieving process. They may not be ready for quite some time, but gently remind them that they may find comfort in like-minded individuals.
When your friend is going through the grieving process, some days or times of the week may be particularly difficult. For example, the demands of the workweek and running a house may keep your friend occupied Monday through Friday, but they struggle with Saturdays.
Taking them out for coffee, to walk around a farmers market, or to their favorite restaurant can give them something to look forward to and get through the more difficult days.
Many people may be in touch with your friend immediately following their loss. However, when life starts to get back to normal, those people may stop reaching out. Keeping in touch with your friend will show them that you’re there for them and available to give them support during the grieving process.
Navigating the loss of a loved one isn’t something you should have to face alone. Fortunately, at The Terraces at Bonita Springs, you’ll have friends and associates to hold your hand and help. Give us a call at 239-949-7848 to learn more about our groups dedicated to those who have experienced the loss of a significant partner.
When Rachel Ritter first walked through the doors of The Glenview, she wasnt leading concerts, organizing excursions, or planning community-wide celebrations.She was 15 years old, bussing tables in the dining room.Today, more than three decades later, Rachel has come full circle as The Glenviews new Lifestyle Director a role that perfectly combines her lifelong dedication to the community with her passion for enriching the lives of residents.Along the way, Rachel earned both a nursing degree and a degree in history, supported in part by a scholarship from The Glenview Scholarship Fund. She worked at The Glenview throughout college, held numerous leadership roles in Dining Services, and built lasting relationships with residents and team members alike.Now, she has found what she calls her true calling.After 31 years at The Glenview, Ive discovered that my greatest passion is creating a vibrant lifestyle for our residents, said Rachel. Dining Servies allowed me to create exceptional experiences around the table, but I wanted to contribute even more to daily life here. My goal is simple: every resident should wake up each morning with something exciting to look forward to.That philosophy is reflected in every square of The Glenviews bustling Activities Calendar. A Calendar Packed with PossibilityRachels vision is ambitious: create enough variety that every resident can find something that sparks joy, curiosity, connection, or purpose.Its my job to bring joy to peoples lives, said Rachel. I take that responsibility very seriously.Each month, residents enjoy an extraordinary mix of entertainment, education, wellness, social events, and excursions. Signature Events & EntertainmentTwo to three major events each month bring the community together for unforgettable experiences. From jazz ensembles and classical concerts to vocal performances and thought-provoking lectures by college professors, residents can explore topics ranging from history and philosophy to pop culture and current events. Culinary ExperiencesFood lovers eagerly await the monthly cooking demonstrations led by Executive Chef David Chidsey or Pastry Chef Ashley Yedeski. Residents learn professional techniques, enjoy generous tastings, and occasionally see favorite recipes make their way onto the dining room menu.The culinary fun continues with themed luncheons and tea parties. Recent favorites have included French and Asian-inspired lunches, farm-to-table seasonal luncheons, a Southern Tea Party, and a whimsical Mad Hatter Tea complete with imaginative desserts.Ashley has a gift for creating memorable pastries, said Rachel. Together, we love finding ways to surprise residents with something delicious and unexpected. Wellness for the Whole PersonAt The Glenview, wellness extends far beyond exercise.Working alongside Director of Health & Wellness Navigation Kari Bone, Rachel helps create programming that supports all eight Dimensions of Wellness: physical, emotional, social, spiritual, intellectual, vocational, health services, and environmental health.Recent speakers have included cardiologists, dietitians, meditation specialists, IT & fraud advocates, and other experts all lectures paired with refreshments and opportunities for discussion.Our residents are incredibly curious and engaged, said Kari Bone. Its a pleasure working with Rachel to bring in exceptional speakers on topics that matter most to the quality of life for our seniors. Lifelong learning is alive and well at The Glenview!Residents can also choose from 13 fitness classes every week, including yoga, meditation, cardio exercise, balance training, chair fitness, Tai Chi, and specialized classes led by physical therapy professionals. For independent workouts, the Fitness Center offers access to state-of-the-art equipment seven days a week. Adventure Awaits in Pelican BayWhile there is always something exciting happening on campus, Rachel also loves taking residents on the road. Recent outings have included a Rhythm & Blooms Jazz Concert at the Naples Botanical Garden, rooftop happy hour at The Perry Hotel, and visits to every new exhibition opening at the Artis Naples Museum.Rachel also coordinates transportation for residents who are season ticket holders for Naples Players productions and Artis Naples Masterworks Concerts.One of the best parts of my job is helping residents continue exploring the community they love, said Rachel. Theres always another adventure waiting in Pelican Bay. The Power of Shared InterestsSome of the communitys most beloved activity programs are resident-led. Book lovers can join either the Fiction Book Club, led by resident Lynn Nolan, or the Non-Fiction Book Club, led by resident Cynthia Bye. Creative residents can gather for the Social Crafting Bee, where simple projects are paired with cookies, lemonade, and conversation. The newest project a handmade greeting card was suggested and organized by resident Carol Levy.The Card Room is always a hub of activity at The Glenview. Card players gather regularly for bridge, Mexican Train, mahjongg, and other favorite games, while movie enthusiasts enjoy Saturday matinees complete with buttered popcorn.Rachel has a remarkable talent for turning resident ideas into reality, said Lynn Nolan, resident and Chair of the Lifestyle Committee. She listens, encourages participation, and helps create the sense of community that makes The Glenview so special. Rachel is much loved by all our residents. Giving Back TogetherSome activities focus on something even bigger than fun.Through a partnership with Meals for Hope, residents participate in quarterly philanthropy events that help organize and distribute food for local families in need.Many residents want hands-on ways to serve others, Rachel said. This program allows them to make a direct impact while working together as a community.The Glenview knitting group has found a similarly meaningful mission by connecting with the global non-profit Knitted Knockers, where they create soft knitted prostheses for women recovering from breast surgery.Its amazing to watch residents use their talents to comfort someone theyve never met, said Rachel. The project gives purpose to every stitch. A Scholarship That Came Full CircleOne activity especially close to Rachels heart is the monthly Scholarship Bingo fundraiser. All proceeds benefit The Glenview Scholarship Fund, which helps employees further their education.I was fortunate enough to receive one of those scholarships myself, said Rachel. It changed the course of my life. Every time we host Scholarship Bingo, Im reminded of how much this community invests in its people. Always Looking AheadRachel is already looking to expand the already full Activities Calendar.A new Dining Out Club is in development, giving residents opportunities to explore local restaurants together. Rachel is also working with yoga instructor Marjorie to launch a Senior Salsa class and continues partnering with the resident-led Lifestyle Committee to bring new ideas to life.The best ideas often come from residents, said Rachel. When people share their passions, we can create even more opportunities for connection and fun.Resident Judy Johansen agrees. Rachels enthusiasm is contagious, said Judy. She creates opportunities for everyone to get involved, make friends, and try something new. Theres always something exciting on the horizon here.For Executive Director Daniel Gomez, Rachels impact is impossible to miss. Rachel brings tremendous energy, creativity, and heart to everything she does, said Daniel. Her decades of experience at The Glenview, combined with the genuine relationships shes built with residents, make her truly irreplaceable. She helps create the culture of joy that defines this community.Rachel sums up her vision with characteristic enthusiasm: I want The Glenview to feel like a cruise ship that never leaves the dock, she said. There should always be great food, lively conversation, and exciting activities waiting around every corner!Judging by the packed calendar and the smiles it creates Rachel has certainly contributed to making The Glenview a destination of choice for seniors.We invite you to experience The Glenview personally. Join us for lunch, tour the community, meet the residents, and see firsthand why so many discerning individuals choose to call it home.To learn more about our community or schedule a visit, call us at (239) 977-9744 or complete our Contact Us form.
When you move to The Glenview, youre gaining more than a beautiful apartment home. Youre gaining a trusted guide dedicated to helping you stay healthy, connected, independent, and confident as you embrace this exciting new chapter.That guide is Kari Bone, Director of Health & Wellness Navigation.My goal is simple, Kari said. I want every resident to feel supported, confident, and excited about whats ahead. Whether someone needs help finding a new physician, has questions about available services, or wants to learn new ways to stay healthy and active, Im here for them.Its a role thats part educator, part advocate, part problem-solver and one that helps residents truly optimize life at The Glenview.Wellness That Helps You Live Your Best LifeWellness at The Glenview isnt measured by the number of fitness classes on the calendar. Its about creating opportunities to live with greater purpose, energy, and peace of mind. Kari develops engaging programming that supports all eight Dimensions of Wellness physical, emotional, social, spiritual, intellectual, occupational, financial, and environmental health giving residents new ways to learn, connect, and thrive.On the first Wednesday of every month, residents gather for Health & Wellness Presents, a popular speaker series featuring physicians, therapists, dietitians, wellness experts, and other specialists discussing topics that matter most as we age.Our residents are incredibly curious, Kari said. Every month we have a wonderful turnout because people genuinely enjoy learning something new. They ask great questions, share their experiences, enjoy a healthy lunch or cooking demonstration, and spend time with friends. You leave feeling a little smarterand a little happier.Recent presentations have explored everything from heart health and nutrition to mobility, meditation, fraud prevention, and healthy aging. Interactive demonstrations and lively discussions turn every program into an opportunity to learn something practical while building meaningful friendships.Between presentations, Kari also shares practical advice through her popular Navigator Nuggets easy-to-save wellness guides included in the monthly resident newsletter. Covering topics like hydration, fall prevention, and seasonal wellness, theyre another way The Glenview helps residents make informed choices that support healthy, independent living.More Than Answers Peace of MindKari also introduces residents to the many services available to support successful aging in place, including GlenCare, The Glenviews personalized in-home support program.I never want someone to feel like theyre on their own, Kari said. Whatever question comes up, whatever challenge they face, well figure it out together. Thats what were here for.That reassurance begins long before move-in day.Kari is a results-driven leader with a humanitarian heart, said Krisandra Panting, Director of Marketing & Sales. Shes an incredible resource for prospective residents and their families because she has a solution for virtually every question or concern. She has a remarkable way of helping people feel comfortable, cared for, and confident about their decision to move to The Glenview.Helping Residents ThriveThis October, Kari will launch LifePlus, an exciting new wellness initiative built around four pillars of healthy aging: Connection, Movement, Nutrition, and Longevity. The program debuts with a week-long celebration featuring presentations given by nationally recognized physicians, wellness talks, fitness classes, interactive demonstrations, pop-up events, and the One Million Step Challenge, where residents join forces to track their steps throughout the month, turning walking and healthier habits into a shared community goal.Kari brings so much heart to everything she does, said Daniel Gomez, Executive Director. She doesnt just organize outstanding programs she builds relationships. She helps people discover new interests, make new friends, and feel confident that theyre supported every step of the way. Her guidance is one of the many things that makes life at The Glenview so special.For Kari, thats the real purpose behind every program, every conversation, and every connection.When someone chooses The Glenview, theyre choosing so much more than a place to live, she said. Theyre choosing a community that wants them to feel their best, keep learning, stay connected, and enjoy every stage of life. Seeing residents discover new friendships, new interests, and new confidence thats why I love what I do.Optimizing your life isnt about doing more. Its about living in a community where youre encouraged to be healthier, stay curious, build meaningful relationships, and embrace each day with confidence.Thats the difference youll discover at The Glenview.We invite you to experience The Glenview personally. Join us for lunch, tour the community, meet the residents, and see firsthand why so many discerning individuals choose to call it home.Schedule your private visit today by calling (239) 977-9744 or click here.
For Jeanne Findlater, moving to The Glenview at Pelican Bay wasnt just a change of address it was a discovery. I wish Id done it years ago, she said. I simply didnt realize what this lifestyle could offer.Jeanne knows a thing or two about recognizing exceptional opportunities. In 1979, she made history as the first woman in the country to lead a television station in a Top 10 market, when ABC appointed her Vice President and General Manager of WXYZ-TV in Detroit. Today, the Michigan Journalism Hall of Fame member, says one of the best decisions shes ever made was choosing The Glenview. I love having my own home and my privacy, Jeanne said. But I also love knowing that everything is taken care of. I dont worry about maintenance, repairs, or the little things anymore. Its incredibly freeing.The Freedom to Enjoy Every DayMost afternoons, Jeanne relaxes with a glass of wine, a mystery novel, and sweeping views of the Gulf before heading to dinner in The Glenviews elegant dining room. When shes ready to be social, all she has to do is open her front door. Its like living in a beautiful boutique hotel, Jeanne said. There are concerts, lectures, fitness classes, bridge, mahjongg, and wonderful people everywhere. It all comes together to create a very rich life.An Unmatched LocationFor Jeanne, The Glenviews location is equally extraordinary. Theres nothing else like it, she said. Were surrounded by the beauty of Pelican Bays protected mangroves, and I can take the complimentary tram to the beach whenever I want, enjoy lunch by the Gulf, then walk to waterside shops, the Artis Naples Performing Arts Center, or the Baker Museum. Everything is right here.A Home Thats Truly Her OwnJeanne also appreciates that residents own their homes, allowing her to create a space thats uniquely hers. I opened up my kitchen, added granite, and created a home thats perfect for entertaining, she said. It feels exactly the way I wanted it to.The Difference is the PeopleAbove all, Jeanne says its the people who make The Glenview exceptional. The staff is extraordinary, she said. Theyre caring, thoughtful, and always looking out for us. You feel supported every single day.Looking back, Jeanne has only one regret. I waited too long, she said. Life here is everything I hoped retirement could be.
LifeCare: Providing Security and a Plan for YourFutureLife is full of surprises. Being prepared for the future can put your mind at ease. As a Life Plan Community, The Terraces at Bonita Springs combines maintenance-free living with financial and long-term health care security including preservation of your hard-earned assets.Our Lifecare plan provides residents with the confidence and security of having a plan for the future. The plan provides full access to on-siteassisted living,memory support,skilled nursingandrehabilitationservices atRenaissance at The Terraces.A one-time entrance fee is available in refundable and nonrefundable options and health care coverage begins as soon as you need it. A monthly service fee covers the cost of every amenity, convenience and service we offer.
Your Personal Retreat for Socialization and RelaxationThe Terraces at Bonita Springs offers a stunning living environment, the finest resort-style amenities and services and the security of predictable pricing for health care as a LifeCare resident.Choose from a one-, two- or three-bedroom floor plan; options include breakfast nooks, dens and additional half- and full-baths. Each residence comes with the finest finishes and appliances, lacking only in your personal touches.Our hospitable associates take care of all the maintenance, cooking and cleaning so you can enjoy a vibrant and connected lifestyle.Resident Services LifeCare health services with priority accessChef-prepared mealsInterior and exterior maintenanceWeekly housekeeping and flat linen servicesConcierge servicesPersonal one-car garageComplimentary valet parkingWellness programs for mind, body and spiritVitality program with personalized wellness plansUtilities (except phone and internet)24-hour securityProperty taxes includedCultural, social, educational and recreational eventsTransportation servicesIn-home emergency alert systemsCommunity AmenitiesMultiple dining venuesState-of-the-art fitness center and wellness programsIndoor and outdoor pool and spa, group water fitness classesCertified fitness instructorsTherapeutic massagePerforming Arts CenterGated communityBeautiful landscaping with lighted walkwaysTennis and bocce courtsPutting greenOutdoor BBQ areaLibrary and resource centerBusiness center with computersCreative arts studio and crafts roomBilliards room/game roomBeauty salon/barbershopGuest suitesActivities CalendarEvery service, activity and amenity available to you is thoughtfully planned with your interests in mind.Exquisite DiningOur elegant restaurant and casual bistro provide just the dining experiences you are looking for.Area AttractionsRetirement life at The Terraces means youre just minutes from beaches, shopping, fine dining and entertainment choices.LifestyleLife at The Terraces is designed to be beautiful, maintenance-free and worry-free.
Memory Care in Bonita Springs, FloridaIf you are searching for memory care near me and live in southwest Florida, youve found the perfect place for you and your loved one.Located in Bonita Springs and convenient to those in Estero and North Naples, memory care at Renaissance at The Terraces offers those living with Alzheimers disease or dementia a beautiful, comfortable and welcoming place to call home. With the exceptional memory care, elegant setting and thoughtful lifestyles offered, Renaissance delivers the quality memory care experience that families expect for their loved ones.BROWSE OUR FLOOR PLANSMemory Care that Embraces the Whole FamilyFor those living with Alzheimers or other forms of dementia, (including Lewy body dementia) and for their families, the effects of memory loss can be devastating. We understand. Our exceptional care embraces everyone involved, from our residents to their families. Our trained memory care team works closely with residents every day. Our purpose is to engage each individual in a way that resonates with them personally; this approach respects their choices, promotes their remaining abilities and supports their independence in a safe environment. We also offer support and education for families, helping them to understand and cope with the challenges presented by Alzheimers and dementia. Renaissance, as well as all of The Terraces at Bonita Springs, welcomes family members to not only visit their loved ones but to also take advantage of every amenity offered within our senior living community. After all, this is where their loved one lives this is home. We welcome them to treat it as such. What does that mean to you? It means feeling at home at Renaissance. It means taking a stroll through the grounds. Soaking up the sun by the pool. This community is designed to allow everyone to live well. It means letting us provide care and support while you enjoy being family again.Personalized Alzheimers and Dementia CareWe believe theres no substitute for personalized attention. To us, memory care is only effective when it is incredibly personal, so we get personal. We take the time to get to know our residents. We learn their life stories and really get to know who they are. Through the smallest details residents interests, careers, family histories and favorite foods we can develop personalized dementia care plans and create positive emotional experiences that help stabilize residents moods without relying on pharmacology. Its an innovative approach to memory care in southwest Florida.State-of-the-Art Memory Care FacilityOur memory care facility in Renaissance is state-of-the-art, featuring a neighborhood concept that helps decrease residents anxiety, with common spaces to encourage socialization. No detail has been overlooked; no comfort has been spared. Our residents enjoy spacious private residences with nurses close by, allowing us to provide even better care. Rated 5 stars from the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, families can be confident in the quality of our memory care services.Memory Care and Service Details:24-hour licensed nurses available24-hour Certified Nurses Aide assistanceRecreational therapistSecure environmentDedicated professionals specially trained to care for those with memory lossPersonalized care plan tailored to meet unique needs and preferencesSpacious, private studio residences with full private bathsAll utilities provided, including basic cableInclusive pricingMemory boxes to help residents locate their residence independentlySpacious activity and common areas designed to promote social interactionEnclosed courtyard for safe outdoor activities such as walking and family visitsInteractive and socially stimulating programming designed for those with memory loss