What's Your "Safe Word"?

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So this isn't the start of a seedy, questionable encounter in a seedy, questionably rated TV show.  Unfortunately, financial exploitation is the crime of our generation - bar none.  The rate of our seniors' wealth going into the hands of criminals is staggering.    

In a vast country where compromised seniors have been routinely exploited by  criminals stealing billions of dollars and their future, I am a very small fish.  In just a few cases that we have handled in the last several years, we have witnessed the theft of many millions.  Some were preyed on by well organized criminals on the other end of the phone and internet.  Others by local criminals who take an opportunity presented to them.

In almost every single case we handle, all we can do is close the proverbial barn door after the horse is already long gone.  The most frequent question asked is "can you get any of this money back?"  Unfortunately, when its gone, its gone.  Criminals now will have your loved one send it by bitcoin card they can buy at WalMart and the chances of retrieval are zero.  Or they give away cash  and it isn't worth trying to get a judgment against the judgment proof.  Most of the authorities, sadly, aren't much help and the agencies charged with protection of vulnerable seniors are completely overwhelmed.  So, what can we do to prevent this from happening to our parents, our spouses or even ourselves as we age? 

The tension is between respecting your loved one's right to privacy and recognizing when there needs to be either full transparency or even a full restriction on assets.  In 100% of the cases of exploitation I have handled,  the person being exploited will defend their decision and will continue to send money even when drastically restricted,.  When we put in court oversight and a professional conservator, and send them $100 a month for spending money, they will send the scam artists $100 a month.  No matter what we do.  Until they reach the stage of being so incapacitated they cannot physically organize a method of getting the funds to the criminals, they will continue to give away every cent. 

So the first step in planning would be to recognize this potential and plan for it ahead of time.  There should be powers of attorneys in place to permit someone to take over financial matters quickly should the need arise and there should be a trust or more than one trust in place to govern assets.  Setting up more significant assets with a fiduciary and discussing with the fiduciary any mechanisms that can be put in place to safeguard against large withdrawals without question is NOT standard and should be put into place.  Place restrictions on real property in the same manner.  For example, you can place the real property in a trust that requires someone else's permission to encumber or sell it, which can protect against a sudden mortgage or multiple encumbrances.  

You should order a free credit report at http://www.annualcreditreport.com every year and examine it to ensure that there are no unknown credit lines that have been established.  You can places freezes on credit through the three credit reporting agencies, Equifax, Experian and TransUnion, at the same time.  You can ensure that your loved one sits down with their banker, their financial advisor, and their agent to make sure that everyone is on the same page should there be signs of exploitation that arise.  So many professionals have their hands tied because their client removes all safeguards and threatens to sue them and their company if they disclose any personal information to anyone, including their "former" trusted agent.   

In every case I have handled, the one fighting me hardest is the person we are trying to so hard to protect.  Even with powers of attorneys and trusts, this often will be changed so I encourage my clients to seek a court ordered conservatorship when they know they are vulnerable, and encourage family to lock the funds down in the same or similar manner when the person cannot make that decision.  Establish a protocol ahead of time with your loved one's approval and participation.  This IS the "safe word".  "Remember, Mom when we sat down and made this plan?  Now we need this badly to protect you."  

Also in 100% of the cases I have handled, the very act of protecting them, or the outcome when they are broke, will lead to a dramatic decline, often under less than good circumstances as they cannot afford to live the life they were living.  They will sink into a deep despair and typically will not live long or well after this event.  While not a happy, sunny topic, it has become so pervasive in my every day practice, I feel like everyone needs to start proactively planning right now to avoid the dramatic, expensive and terrible proceedings to come.  Talk about this freely while you and your loved ones are competent and can make plans and discuss the ways they would prefer things to be handled.  Establish a "SAFE WORD" if they feel threatened or intimidated or overwhelmed.  

The cases with the "best" outcomes will be ones that have a proactive plan in place.  There will still be a certain amount of angst and difficulty, but the repercussions are usually smaller, the amount of drama and cost is lower, and the options to handle are greater.  No one is "winning" in these cases, but it would be nice to see the bad guys "lose", at least, while preserving the wealth you worked so hard for be able to be spent how you intended.  So, what's your SAFE WORD?


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transfersTransfers to relativesCertain trust transactionsTransfers for less than fair market valuePenalties Are PossibleImproper transfers may result in a period when Medicaid will not pay for otherwise qualifying long-term care services.Never Attempt to Conceal TransactionsProvide accurate information and seek legal advice about how the rules apply. What Happens When a Parent's Income Is Too High?Some applicants meet medical criteria but have income exceeding the relevant Medicaid limit.Alabama permits qualifying income trusts in certain situations.A Specific Legal ArrangementA Qualifying Income Trust is subject to strict establishment and administration rules.Not a General Asset Protection ToolIt addresses certain excess-income circumstances and does not automatically solve other eligibility problems.Professional Review Is RecommendedAn elder law attorney can assess whether the arrangement is appropriate. Who Has Authority to Complete the Application?Family members may assume that being a child or spouse automatically gives them authority over a parent's financial affairs.That is not always true.Possible Sources of AuthorityDepending on circumstances, authority may involve:A valid power of attorneyA court-appointed conservatorAnother legally recognized representativeAppropriate agency authorizationCapacity MattersA parent who can make decisions should be involved in the process.Legal Questions Should Be Resolved EarlyIf authority is unclear, ask a qualified attorney what documentation is required. Coordinating With the Nursing FacilityA nursing facility may have staff who assist families with admissions, billing, and Medicaid-related paperwork.However, the facility and family may have different legal and financial responsibilities.Questions Worth AskingWhat services are included?What is the private-pay rate?Does the facility participate in Medicaid?What happens while an application is pending?Who submits medical documentation?What charges remain the resident's responsibility?What happens if Medicaid is denied?Get Agreements in WritingReview admission documents carefully before signing.Avoid Unclear Personal GuaranteesAsk an attorney about language that appears to impose personal financial responsibility on family members. Understanding Patient Income ContributionsReceiving Medicaid nursing facility benefits does not necessarily mean the resident keeps all monthly income.Income May Be Applied Toward CareAlabama calculates resident payment responsibilities under applicable rules.Deductions May ApplyCertain allowances, including approved health insurance costs and applicable spousal protections, may affect the calculation.Families Should Request an ExplanationAsk how the resident's monthly liability is determined and how changes are reported. When One Parent Remains at HomeA married couple may face particularly difficult financial questions when only one spouse requires institutional care.Community Spouse ConcernsThe spouse at home may still need to pay for:HousingUtilitiesTransportationFoodHealthcareEveryday living expensesProtections ExistMedicaid spousal impoverishment rules address certain protected income and resources.The Calculation Is IndividualIt depends on relevant financial details and current program limits.Legal Review May Be ValuableAn attorney can help examine how the rules apply before property or account ownership changes. Evaluating Alternatives to Nursing Facility CareFor some individuals, approved home- and community-based supports may be an alternative to institutional care.Alabama Medicaid WaiversThe state operates waiver programs for eligible beneficiaries who meet specific medical, financial, and program requirements.Potential SupportsDepending on the waiver, assistance may involve personal care, homemaker services, respite, or other approved services.Availability VariesSome programs have enrollment restrictions or waiting lists.The Care Setting Must Be AppropriateA healthcare assessment and realistic evaluation of home support are essential. Handling an Application DelayMedicaid eligibility processing may involve requests for additional records or clarification.Practical StepsTrack submission datesReview agency requests promptlyKeep copies of correspondenceMaintain financial recordsRespond accuratelyDocument communicationAvoid Missing DeadlinesA delayed response can complicate the review.Confirm Who Is ResponsibleDetermine which family member, legal representative, or professional will manage follow-up. What If Medicaid Is Denied?A denial may arise from financial findings, missing documentation, medical requirements, or other eligibility issues.Review the Written NoticeThe notice should identify the decision and applicable review or appeal procedures.Check DeadlinesAppeal rights often involve specific time limits.Seek Individualized GuidanceA Medicaid attorney can evaluate whether the decision should be challenged or whether a different application strategy is appropriate.Never Assume a Denial Is Final Without Reviewing RightsFamilies should understand the official procedure before deciding not to pursue the matter further. Balancing Legal and Emotional DecisionsNursing home placement can be an emotional transition.An older adult may feel uncertain about leaving home, while relatives may disagree about finances or care responsibilities.Useful Family PracticesKeep discussions respectfulShare verified informationIdentify the decision-makerDocument key financial questionsInvolve the older adult when possibleAsk professionals to clarify unfamiliar termsSeparate Medical and Legal RolesHealthcare providers evaluate medical care needs.Attorneys advise on legal questions and financial planning within their professional scope. Expert Tip: Create a Medicaid Application TimelineMedicaid Application Tip: Start a timeline listing the date of hospitalization, nursing facility admission, benefit applications, document requests, asset transfers, and agency decisions. Keep the timeline with copies of financial records and legal documents.This can help an elder law attorney or authorized representative identify missing information and evaluate deadlines more efficiently. Frequently Asked Questions1. Does Medicare pay for permanent nursing home residence?Original Medicare generally does not cover indefinite custodial nursing home care. It may cover qualifying skilled nursing facility services under specific conditions.2. Can a parent qualify for Alabama Medicaid after entering a nursing home?Potentially, yes. The applicant must meet the applicable financial, medical, residency, and institutional eligibility requirements.3. What financial records are needed for a Medicaid application?Applicants may need bank statements, income records, insurance information, property documents, trust records, and other financial documentation. Exact requirements depend on the case.4. Can an adult child apply on behalf of a parent?An adult child may assist, but legal authority or appropriate program authorization may be required for certain actions. A family relationship alone does not grant unlimited financial authority.5. Can an attorney help after a Medicaid denial?Yes. An attorney who handles Medicaid matters can review the notice, evaluate applicable requirements, explain appeal rights, and determine whether representation is appropriate. Making the Next Step More ManageableA transition into nursing facility care can involve medical assessments, significant expenses, legal documentation, and unfamiliar government procedures.For families throughout Baldwin County, Alabama, early organization can help reduce confusion.Aging in Alabama focuses on elder law issues, including Medicaid and long-term care planning, and can be contacted to discuss consultation availability.Understanding the process gives families a stronger foundation for making appropriate care and financial decisions. Learn More About Aging in AlabamaVisit the Aging in Alabama listing on SeniorsBlueBook.com: 

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